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Safety Tips for Women, Hotel Stays

Hotel Card-key Safety

Hotel Card-key Safety

How safe am I when staying at a hotel?

This should be the question a woman asks herself each and every time she makes reservations to stay at any hotel. The reality is this, how safe you remain depends on you. The term "safe," includes those things that are as big (or bigger) than an average female, as well as those things that are so tiny she will hardly realize they are there at all (until that rash breaks out). No matter how big or how small, knowing how to protect yourself from hotel dangers will keep your identity your own, your skin rash-free, and your life in a continued unharmed and animated state.

Why Hotel Safety for Women is Important to me

While working in a supervisory capacity as a fire, life, and Law Enforcement safety officer for a highly rated and high quality hotel brand, I discovered the vulnerability within the hotel guests services venue. Which led me to one conclusion; female travelers are continually at risk. The chain I was working with had a large Japanese guest population, which were being preyed upon by a very organized group of thieves. While the visitors were busy planning their day around the schedule of a very famous mouse, these thieves were plotting to steal everything from souvenirs to passports. After receiving far too many reports of guests being violated in one form or another, I had to solve this problem, post-haste.

Predators Stalk Hotel Guests

I was the team leader in capturing the group who were violating the tourist. Three of my supervising police officers and I put together a sting operation that, after only one week managed to captured nine lead members of this hotel theft ring. The mouse and his cartoon friends were very relieved. But, this is not the reason I have told you this story, statistics are the reason, or lack of them I should say.

Very Important Fox News Report on Hotel Safety (YouTube video)

To my surprise, the statistics surrounding these arrests were documented among the regular city crime. No one could have discerned the higher likelihood of crimes against hotel female guests because the information was never configured as such. The truth is this, as a female hotel guest, no matter how sophisticated the hotel chain, or how popular the name, you are at much higher risk of being violated than when in your usual living environment. This guide hopes to help keep you just a little safer and aware of your surroundings when staying at any hotel chain.

Hotel Card Key Safety

One of the first things that pops into our mind when thinking about hotel keycard safety is making sure you know where your key is at all times; which is really good thinking. However, keeping your cardkey safe from other forms of perpetration may not cross your mind at all.

If you unknowingly stay in a hotel or Motel that has lax security you could find someone unexpected waiting in your room when you arrive. The scary part is that we can't really track any crimes that occur during these breaches, because law enforcement does not document hotel crimes separately from other crime records. You have to protect yourself by knowing the chain of hotels you choose to stay with, and how safe they are willing to keep you.




PORTAL HOTEL IN BRISBANE; Fifth floor is ladies only


Hotels Can Lack Safety Minded Staff

In some cases, Hotel staff have been lazy or lack security mindedness. There are reports where staff have handed out new card keys to strangers who pretend to know you, who can then gain access to the room in question; your room! This is a form of danger that can be very harmful and even deadly. A few security tips are listed below.

You have to be the one who keeps your personal safety as the highest priority, because you can rarely count on a stranger to do it for you.

  • Avoid rooms on the ground floor.
  • Wedge luggage in the hotel room door upon arrival so you have a clear get-away.
  • Request a new room if you even think people around you have heard the room number the desk clerk assigns to you.
  • If someone comes knocking on your hotel room door, even if they identify themselves as hotel staff, call the front desk to verify their I.D.

Hotel maid caught stealing from guest wallet. (YouTube video)

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Thieves Among Hotel Staff

Dishonest Hotel Employees

When away on business or on vacation you may have a lot on our mind; boardrooms or tourist attractions are usually all we think about. The safety of our hotel room in our absence rarely gets thought about. Generally travelers trust that the maid service will come in and clean the bathroom, empty the trashes and make the bed. What we don't expect is that this same trusted hotel staff member is also a thief!

When away from your hotel room, always secure your important and pricey items inside the hotel safe (or don't bring such items at all). Never assume that your maid will be the honest maid that would never take even a writing pen from your room. The reality is that these staff members are not paid a top salary, and in some cases resentment breeds criminal activity. They don't know you, they don't care about your things, and they will steal from you if you create the opportunity.

Should you be the victim of a hotel room robbery, report it as soon as possible to hotel security. The perpetrator may still be on duty with your property hidden in a locker or stuffed in an apron bib.

Avoid Upsetting the Hotel Maid Service at ALL Cost!

How Does the Hotel Maid Get those Nasty Stains Off of the Toilet Bowl?

Disgruntle Maids

As disturbing as this may be, maid service is the one thing you should have huge concerns about when staying in a hotel. These staff members are allowed access to every room within the hotel, and they are packing a master key to give them that access at any given time. More often then not, you will be away when the hotel maid service comes, "knock, knock, knocking" at your hotel room door. Protect yourself from the disgruntled employee who can turn into a not so nice individual.

If your maid is having a bad day or is simply mischievous, you could be a victim of germ warfare without even knowing it! Never leave your personal care items within sight of service people when staying at a hotel of any caliper. How a maid manages to get the stain out of the toilet bowl may well be more information then you care to realize; until it has to do with your travel toothbrush!




every 31 minutes 

women / young men

Forceable Rape

every 5.8 minutes 

Women / children


every 1.2 minutes 


Aggravated assault

every 37.6 seconds



every 14.6 seconds


Larceny / Theft

every 4.9 seconds


Motor vehicle theft

every 29. 7 seconds


Would You Know How to Fight Off an Attacker Who Makes it into Your Hotel Room?

The statistics are not easily located for Hotels alone, because crime statistics are lumped into crimes for the city, county or state and not for the hotel industry as its own entity. However, the probability of a woman being assaulted increases significantly when she travels for many reasons. Here are just six of them:

Women's defense lesson against attacker (YouTube Video)

6 Reasons Women Are More Vulnerable When Traveling:

  1. She is unfamiliar with the area she is staying at (this leads to interaction with unknown persons).
  2. On vacations we tend to let down our guard (which criminals are counting on).
  3. Travelers (male or female) can get easily disoriented when going from point A to point B (If you're thinking about where you are, you're not thinking about where your wallet is).
  4. Women get monitored by seedy hotel staff more regularly, who then can give away your schedules or departure information (Your personal information can be handed off to a hotel employees friend or relative to exploit your good nature, your size, or your empty hotel room).
  5. You are not familiar with the sounds and activities surrounding you (Not knowing the safe noises from dangerous noises can cost you your safety in a flash).
  6. Travelers are pretty much sitting ducks for crime savvy thieves who watch as they set luggage down for "just a minute" (When checking schedules for transportation, entertainment, meals, or meeting times, people generally use both hands, which leaves your "things" vulnerable to those who have been waiting for such an opportunity before striking).

The Unthinkable

Why Women Are Attacked More Often Than Men

When you are shut into a hotel room, where you are unfamiliar, women in particular become victims more often then men. Sexual predators in particular, find hotels a very "victim rich" hunting ground. Knowing a few defense moves is always a good idea, but vitally important when traveling alone. A defense weapon (non-lethal capsicum sprays) can help to ward off assault attempts, giving you a chance to run to safety or to get help after the spray has been discharged.

Why Carry Defense Tools

Even though I am a highly trained close-quarters hand-to-hand combat instructor, I travel with non-lethal spray as a defense tool. Never underestimate the strength of an assailant. When I teach defense classes, I constantly remind my students that there is ALWAYS someone bigger and badder than you, no matter how skilled you may be. If that predator is in a drug induced state, even the best trained woman or man, can become victims.

The "W" Hotel Marque in San Diego

The "W" Hotel Marque in San Diego

San Diego W Hotel

The San Diego's W Hotel (W Hotels are found worldwide) are among those considered to be quite safe for women and travelers, whether on business or vacationing. San Diego has much to offer and remains one of my personal favorites. No matter what hotel brand you stay with, always remember to practice good travel safety habits. By doing so you can reduce or prevent becoming a victim in real life as well as within your travel memoirs.

San Diego's W Hotel

Protecting you and your Luggage from Bed Bugs, even in a four star Hotel! (YouTube video)

Bed Bug Life Cycle Poster

Bed Bug Life Cycle Poster

Hotel Creepy-Crawlies; The Hotel Bed Bug

The dreaded bed bug has been in the news regularly lately as New York has been struggling with them for the past year or so. These little creepy-crawlies can survive in any hotel room, no matter how well known the brands high quality may be. Humans are carriers and these critters are very tiny passengers that can hardly be detected. Know what to look for (by watching the Bed Bug Invasion video above). If you suspect an infestation, move to another hotel at once. Just because the bedding gets changed, doesn't mean the bugs are gone. They live in the mattresses, the ticking, and even on the floor.

Bed Bug Bites

If you get bitten by bed bugs, you are likely to experience red itchy bumps that are unexplained. If you have the symptoms, go to the doctor and get treated. You will probably have to rid your luggage and home of bed bugs as they multiply quickly after stowing away in your travel bags.

Interceptor Bed Bug Trap

Insect Interceptor Bed Bug Trap

Insect Interceptor Bed Bug Trap

Bed Bug Safety

Here are some devices you can easily purchase and use on your own house hold items and luggage. The function of the device is to prevent bugs from crawling up onto your bed from the floor, and to trap bugs as they exit the bed heading to the floor. Bed bugs can travel with you quietly and undetected as the bites can take a day or so to show up.

Concluding Hotel Security and Safety for Women

Always take these hotel safety topics with you when traveling for business or pleasure. Keeping your person, property, and health safe is your job. Never depend on a hotel chain to provide ultimate safety for you. Hotel employees are just that, employees. As with any area of employment you can find those who will go above and beyond the call of duty, but on the other end of the spectrum, you will find the seedy side of the world of hotel employees; and it is not a safe or pretty sight at all.

Your overall safety is in your own hands, love yourself enough to protect you. Never forget your family and friends are counting on you to come home to them unharmed!

Comments for "Hotel Safety For Women"

Emma from Houston TX on July 13, 2014:

Thanks alot .I appreciate this every hub .One need to be care ful when lodging in hotel especially for our security purpose.

Emma from Houston TX on July 11, 2014:

Great hub.Everyone need to be security concious not only the women .That for the information

LaZeric Freeman from Hammond on March 12, 2013:

Great tips.

India Arnold (author) from Northern, California on April 25, 2012:

Thanks, John!

India Arnold (author) from Northern, California on April 25, 2012:

NiaG~ I am pleased you found the information within the worthy.


India Arnold (author) from Northern, California on April 25, 2012:

Namaste, ashusman.

India Arnold (author) from Northern, California on April 25, 2012:

Jeanette~ Thank you for sharing your feelings about being a housekeeper. I understand that the vast majority of maids are extremely honest and trustworthy like yourself. But, unfortunately, the few that do practice bad behavior are the ones that make guests worry about their security. Taking a few of the precautions listed in this hub can protect, not only the guest, but reduce any temptation that may be placed in front of a weak person.

Thank you fro sharing you thoughts, I have respect for your willingness to speak your mind on this touchy subject!


Jeanette on April 24, 2012:

I know this is an old article, but I just stumbled onto it. Im 19 and have been a motel housekeeper for about 3 months. I have NEVER stolen anything out of a guests room. Nor have I rumaged through their things. If a guest has alot of items on the bed, like clothes, luggage, papers, etc I am not even allowed to move anything to make the bed. I do not take money left in the room because I dont want to assume it is a tip , and be blamed for missing money. Well that's all I wanted to say. Not every housekeeper is untrustworthy. Good-Day.

NiaG from Louisville, KY on November 22, 2011:

As a single woman I always try to use the best safety practices. This is very informational. Thanks so much!

johncimble from Bangkok on November 14, 2011:

Great hub!!

India Arnold (author) from Northern, California on August 03, 2011:

DH~ I am sooooo glad you got a chance to read this Hotel Safety hub. As women, we sometimes forget that even as we are powerful in our own right, some criminal types seek to take advantage of our lesser muscle strength and possibly our ageing bodies. I think every person who knows a female who travels (staying in hotels) should share this information as soon as possible.

Thanks for stopping by today DH, always glad to see you!



Denise Handlon from Michigan on August 02, 2011:

Eye opening is right! What a useful hub and so important. It's a mini crash course in safety. Thanks for sharing. I've rated it up and bookmarked it.!

India Arnold (author) from Northern, California on July 25, 2011:

Happyboomernurse~ Wow! What a let down that your hotel security was so neglectful during a situation of duress. It seems even more than imagined that women (and men) must be responsible for their own safety in Hotel situations when traveling. It's a shame, but there is always some creepy person who has to violate another to feel self worth. Hoping you garnered some useful information from this hotel safety article. Thank you for your comments.

I bid you safe travel~



Gail Sobotkin from South Carolina on July 25, 2011:

Awesome hub with great advice on protecting ourselves against hotel crimes. I was shocked that crime statistics are not kept for hotels, but I'm not surprised that crimes are a problem at hotels, especially for potential female victims.

I travel with my husband but even so there have been several instances when someone has attempted to jiggle our doornob and try to gain entry in the middle of the night. My husband and I both woke and began yelling and then alerted the front desk staff via phone. Staff appeared very non-plussed and simply said they didn't see anyone on the monitor screen by our room. They said they'd send someone down to check but both times nothing came of it.

visionandfocus from North York, Canada on July 02, 2011:

What an awesome hub! Every woman should watch this, esp. if they travel alone. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and experience. Your advice can help save lives.

Peg Cole from North Dallas, Texas on May 14, 2011:

Traveling on business I've come across many situations where safety was an issue: entering a hotel room from a dimly lit parking lot; on the elevator with a creepy person late at night; malfunctioning locks on room doors and windows, strangers who claim to be from maintenance.... It is really important to be on the alert and the tips you've shared here are really good ones! I could not believe the video with the toothbrush. ewwwww.

RTalloni on May 10, 2011:

Thanks so much. Amazing amount of important info here. Voted up and useful.

BobbiRant from New York on April 21, 2011:

Great hub. I used to travel alone a lot when I was single and I did think about safety and sometimes some women do not though. Great advice for everyone.

Eiddwen from Wales on April 21, 2011:

A great hub which is going to interest many. Your obvious hard work on this one has really paid off.

Thank you for sharing,

Take care,


Kathy from California on April 21, 2011:

Great Job K9 and an impressive reminder of just how vulnerable we all are! Thank you for an informative and very well done piece!

Earth Angel on April 21, 2011:

GREAT Hub K9!!

So many of us travel with the "illusion" of safety! Your tips and comments are first rate! Thank you!

Blessings of safety to all! EarthAngel!

Pamela Oglesby from Sunny Florida on April 20, 2011:

I have never worried much about traveling alone or sometimes I travel with my mother. I always pick upstairs rooms for safety but you really wrote an eye opening hub. Thanks for the information.

Susan Zutautas from Ontario, Canada on April 20, 2011:

This is pretty scary stuff. Every summer my mother in law and I travel to Florida and stay in hotels. We always try to get the ground floor just to make carrying in the luggage easier. You have sure opened my eyes when it comes to Hotels and safety. Thanks so much I am going to recommend to her to read your hub. Thanks for writing this to make many of us aware.

Simone Haruko Smith from San Francisco on April 20, 2011:

Jeez, I've done a ton of traveling, solo and otherwise, and have never thought much about personal security. I appreciate the (albeit sobering) wake up call and shall heed your good advice from this point onward :D

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