What, pray tell, is a girdle? Why, it is a relatively old fashioned piece of lingerie and the evolutionary child of the corset. Put simply, a girdle is a piece of shape defining lingerie which runs from under the bust to over the hip. It promotes a lovely feminine shape and irons out any unseemly bumps of flesh which can get in the way of attaining the perfect hourglass figure.
Whilst girdles are popular in literature (you'll remember Hercules fought the Amazon Queen for her girdle, and it's about to be obvious why,) they have somewhat fallen out of fashion amongst the young women of the modern age.
It is still possible to purchase girdles however, and they are the perfect compliment for men who wish to wear women's lingerie and look good in it. Girdles made and intended only for men are also available, though you may not find them at your local lingerie stockists, and instead of cinching in the waist, these girdles simply provide support for the infamous tummy region where the beer gut tends to grow.
Long Line Classic Girdle
The girdles here are from Secrets in Lace, a lingerie retailer stocking very fine lingerie indeed. First up we have a traditional long line girdle. With pretty lace across the legs, it is almost a pity that the rest of the girdle makes no secret of it support structure, which is clearly visible in lines running throughout the garment. A little but 1920s, a little bit bleached super heroine, how could one possibly resist? This long line girdle shapes everything from the tummy to the butt.
Pretty Panty Girdle
If you're looking for something a little less all encompassing, a panty girdle may very well be the better choice for you. The panty girdle is essentially a panty gone wild and overbearing. Instead of fabric extending down the thighs (which many men don't need due to the stunning state of their legs,) the panty girdle stops at the hips and simply controls tummy, butt and waist. This style of girdle may also be much more practical for the man who would like a shape controlling alternative to a garter belt, as it comes with suspender clips for attaching your stockings.
There's no doubt that girdles are incredibly sexy, incredibly charged pieces of lingerie. Granted, they are certainly more pricey than a plain pair of panties, but I think it is safe to say that wearing a girdle will take your lingerie wearing experience to the next level.
jerry on September 17, 2019:
I wear a girdle occasionally. They are nice if you are trying to tuck in something called a gut. I like a girdle most when wearing hosiery. however, panty hose virtually made them a non factor. Girdles are hard to put on and take off and are rough on your groin area. They are as rough on men and women. Corsettes are nicer to wear if you can get them on.
Gi on August 29, 2019:
This was my Gorgeous Mother i was c commenting about Mike panty wearer not my Wife
Girdle Gi on August 28, 2019:
I tried my mother's open bottom girdle with suspenders hanging from it . My mother and father were away on holiday at the time i tried her girdle on i can now understand how she must have looked and felt wearing her girdle. After that i used to try and catch her in her room standing in her bra girdle and stockings and her suspenders without her seeing me by looking at her in the dressing table mirror what a wonderful site it was bring back these days again when women wore feminine undergarents . Keep hoping.
mike panty wearer on July 17, 2019:
I wish I had a wife like some of you. I to started with my moms panty girdle when I was 11. I still dress today, but wife would not like it. I underdress everyday at work.
LarryPantySissy on February 04, 2019:
Just want to admit here I have owned a panty girdle. Had to go buy it at a department store and guess the size. I don’t know what about a girdle is so exciting to me. Just to walk around lingerie in a store gives me a stiffie in my nylon panties. I never bought the tabs I needed for hose. Now I like telling female friends I’m a Playtex sissy boy.
girdledhubby on September 08, 2018:
Hi Kathe, this Maidenform Curvy Slimmer looks pretty cute. It looks well. Most modern socalled shapewear does not look good. That´s why I still prefere classic girdles. At the end of the day my favourite is Rago obg with 6 garters and stockings.
Kathe Jones from San Francisco Bay Area on September 03, 2018:
I have recently started wearing the Flexees Women's Maidenform Curvy Firm Foundations Hi Waist Thigh Slimmer (around $20 on Amazon). This support garment is comfortable and pretty as well as sexy. Naturally, I got the one in black. I still wear stockings with a garter belt and thong panties over the garter belt, but I then wear the Maidenform garment over the panties and garter belt.
Transutopia on August 23, 2018:
Hi Paula Playtex,
Guess you heard?
Rago are deleting the 1594.
6210 will follow.
Already no garters on them as of Now
PaulaPlaytex on August 21, 2018:
That should read Rago Girdles
PaulaPlaytex on August 21, 2018:
I have 2 Glamorise Girdles with Garters, White and Beige...I wear my Stockings and Matching Bras with them.
girdledhubby on June 24, 2018:
Kathe, a nice statement. Like you I prefer an obg. I love the tight feeling of a girdle and don´t want to go without one. Obg with stockings is easier to handle than pantyhose with pantygirdle. And it reminds me of the past when I started wearing girdles long years ago.
Kathe Jones from San Francisco Bay Area on June 19, 2018:
The type of girdle I prefer to wear is an OBG. I like to wear thong panties or bikini panties under my girdle so that I can use the restroom without taking off my girdle and my stockings. I love it that my OBG hold in my tummy as well and makes me a slimmer, more attractive woman.
girdledhubby on May 27, 2018:
Richelle, like you I started early. At the age of 14 I could no longer resist the desire to try my mother´s nylons and obg. What can I say? It became a lifelong passion. For many years I´ve been wearing obg with stockings under my suit every day.
You often find the term girdle dependency. It´s true. Once you start and wear girdle and stockings for a while, you don´t want to quit. I wear hwpg or obg. But never without a girdle. I agree: girdle wearing has many benefits. For women as well as for men.
Richelle on May 22, 2018:
I started ti wear a girdle when I was about 10 and stopped for a while and missed it a lot so I went back and have been wearing one for over 60 years and love it. I don't feel dressed with out one on and I feel better because they give me support for my lower back. It also helps me look better in some of my feminine clothes. I found one that fits just right and it like I don't even have it on and go all day with it on. My lady friend is OK with it and has even gone shopping with me to get them. We like the same style p.g.h.w. with the right size you can enjoy your self look good feel good so go for it men, and women.
girdledhubby on July 26, 2017:
Hi Roxanne, I made a similiar experience. One of my wifes girdfriends discovered that I wear bras and girdles. I was worried when she did find out. But she liked it. Every time we meet she gives me a nice hug and feels for my bra straps. It took a while but then she thought it a good idea to bring her boyfriend to try a bra. Of course he refused. But she took her time. At least he agreed to try a bra. This happened some months ago. And what do you think? Now he wears a bra with forms and a girdle most of the time.
Roxanne on July 19, 2017:
If you never wore a girdle men,you don't know what you are missing. I started young not knowing that this would be a lifetime addiction. A hwobg is fantastic with stockings (6garters) I own quite a few girdles,stockings,slips,cammys,panties, bras etc. I love being girdled. My girl friend requires I do this. We have terrific sex while being girdled. Her girl friends also like to see me in girdles and stockings.we are working on her boy friend to at least try on a girdle,he is not easy to convince, but we will get him. He likes to pat me on the backside which is satin. I went to Lyn Lockes Satin and Lace a few years ago and had a ball Great experience Everyone one was girdled. We walked around in our girdles,bras and stockings.I drew a crowd being one of the ladies,wearing a wig and makeup. Life is a bore without wearing a girdle. Try it you'll like it.
girdledhubby on June 19, 2017:
Guys who start young with girdle wearing will become enthusiasts very fast. They will not quit girdle wearing and it will be a lifelong habit. I know what I´m talking about. I tried a girdle for the first time at the age of 14 and was hooked almost at once. A few years later when I started dating girls I tried to quit. But it did not work. The magic of the girdle never left me. At the age of 20 I gave in and started to wear a girdle every day. The style and brand varied but I did not leave the house without a girdle. Till today I wear obg, hwpg or corselette with obg and stockings as my first choice. Like you Roxanne I was lucky when I met a girl who accepted my faible. Now we are married for many years and love to be girdled. A few years ago I started wearing bras too. Afraid at first that I would be noticed this changed and now I proudly wear my projection.
Isn´t it a pity that the era of girdles is over and young men do not have the chance to get in contact with girdles? They don´t know what they miss.
Roxanne on June 16, 2017:
Girdle guys-many guys wear girdles and if they start in an early age they try to stick with it. It is too bad that many more do not wear girdles. Poor souls. They would love it. I met my girl friend in a bar. Of course I was girdled and stockinged,but my polo shirt was a little up my back and my girdle showed, then this good looking blonde comes over to me and whispers in my ear, are you wearing a girdle and I responded yes, she said great. I also wear a girdle she told me. I said we have something in common.We talked then went out and this started a good situation. After awhile we moved in together and enjoy a great relationship, which started over a girdle. Of course I wear other female apparel. Have very little male underwear. Who needs it. As stated l am girdle dependent. I am required to wear a girdle. Her girl friends know I wear a girdle etc. they like it. No big deal. Also girdle sex is great. Keep well girls and hook em up.
Transutopia on June 15, 2017:
So one is a Rago Cincher the other is an AIO (All In One-Corselette)...
Still can't get my head around the pants going south.
Without being rude,if say your over weight having no waist,then that could be the problem.
My answer to that would be buy a Corset for waist training to aim for a feminine shape more so.Say start with an underbust,you can have garters added for Nylons,always have at least 6 total,more is ok but goes towards fetish.
6 is the least for flat knit stockings ,and make sure they are metal not plastic.
Totally agree Girdles are addictive, I've worn now for over 40 years daily.
A nice combo is a Doreen Longline bra with a girdle,your compressed shaped from shoulder to hip.
Hardly much happening here any more shame.
C'est la vie
girdledhubby on June 14, 2017:
Nice to see that there is still something happening here. Although the number of guys who wear girdles may be small, some men like it to wear girdles.
After many many years of girdle wearing I recommend men to try girdles. A good fitting girdle gives support and energy. It improves your whole posture. Aside from the physical benefits a girdle, wearing a girdle is a great feeling.
There are different styles to choose from. For me the classic open bottom girdle worn with stockings is still the first choice. I have to admit I love the feeling of fine stockings on my freshly shaven legs.
But be warned. Girdle wearing is addictive. Once you try it you don´t want to go without a girdle again.
Tom on May 23, 2017:
OK, Rago 9357 and a 6207.
Tom on May 23, 2017:
Roxanne and Transutopia,
I should have been more specific. I have a Rago 6207 and a open bottom full body (don't have model handy, sorry). I would wear them every day but my pants slide off like the girdles are coated with teflon, LOL. I REALLY like the 6207 and would love a reason to buy a few more.
Don Munson on March 24, 2017:
I LOVE GIRDLE TO AND LIKE TO WEAR THEM TO HAVE BEEN WEARING A GIRDLE SINCE I WAS 16 YEARS OLD AND LIKE THE GIRDLE ON ME TO. ALSO WEAR BRAS,SLIPS,STOCKINGS,NEGLIGEES,ROBS,PANTIES. ALSO BREAST FORMS NO PANTIES UNDER THE GIRDLE OR OVER IT. I STARTED BY WEARING MY MOTHER'S GIRDLES,BRAS,STOCKINGS,SLIPS. SHE KNEW THAT I WAS WEARING GIRDLES OF HER. SHE WAS OK WITH IT AND LET ME WEAR A GIRDLE ALL THE TIME. SHE WAS OK WITH MY FEMININITY AND LIKE IT. SHE THEN TOOK ME TO THE LINGERIE SHOP TO BE FITTED FOR MY OWN GIRDLES, BRAS SHE KNEW THE GIRDLE,BRA FITTER SHE WAS GOOD ABOUT DOING THIS FOR ME AND MADE IT EASY ON ME TO. MY MOTHER AND I WOULD DO THINGS AROUND THE HOUSE IN OUR BRAS GIRDLES AND WE FELT SEXY IN DOING THIS. AT THIS TIME I AM NOT MARRIED TO ANY ONE BUT WHEN I WAS MY WIFE THOUGHT I WAS WEARING A GIRDLE JUST TO BE SEXY IN THEM AS A WOMEN IS IN THE GIRDLE. SHE DID SHOW SOME LIKING OF ME IN A GIRDLE AND LOOK AT ME AS AS A SEXY WOMEN. THEN I ASK HER IF WERE A SEXY WOMEN TO HER SHE SAID YES IN A WAY. SO AFTER SOME TIME SHE SAID TO ME YOUR FEMININE IS TO MUNCH FOR ME LIKE OR TO LOVE ANY MORE. THE MARRIAGE BROKE UP. I DO HAVE FEMALE FRIENDS AND THEY HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH I IN GIRDLES THEY LOVE TO SEE ME IN GIRDLES AND ENJOY IT AND LIKE THE FEMININITY OF ME TO. THEY ALL WEAR GIRDLE TO AND FEEL SEXY IN THEM. YES THEY LIKE TO HAVE SEX IN THERE GIRDLE TO. AND LIKE THE RUBBING OF THE GIRDLE TOGETHER AND FEELING THE GIRDLE DOING SEX. I DO HAVE ONE WOMEN WHEN SHE SEE ME SHE FEEL FOR MY GARTER BUMPS TO MAKE SURE I HAVE GIRDLE ON. SHE IS THINKING OF WANTING TO LIVE TOGETHER SHE LIKE WHAT SHE SEE OF ME A SEXY LADY AND YOU ARE WEAR GIRDLES,BRAS, STOCKINGS FOR ME ONLY !!!!. SHE LOVE MY SEXY FEMININE SIDE. WE ALSO WEAR THE SAME SIZE BRA GIRDLE. I ALSO WEAR A SATIN NEGLIGEE TO BED WITH A BRA GIRDLE ON AND LOVE THE SEXY OF IT. JUST LOVE THE SEXY OF THE GIRDLE AND WHEN ON YOU FEEL THE SEXEST OF THE GIRDLE. LOVE AND ENJOY WEARING YOUR GIRDLE I DO. BE GIRDLE ALL THE TIME. IT'S ROMANTIC AND SEXY TO BE IN A GIRDLE. THAT WAY WOMEN LOVE TO WEAR A GIRDLES AND SHOW THEM OFF AND THE SEXUAL ATTRACTION OF THE GIRDLE TO OTHER PERSON WOMEN AND MEN. LOVE ALL OF YOUR GIRDLE AND WEAR THEM PROUDLY !!!!.
Diane Girdle Lover on March 24, 2017:
HI-- I HAVE BEEN WEARING GIRDLES SINCE I WAS 16 YEARS OLD AND LOVE WEARING THE GIRDLES BRAS STOCKING NEGLIGEES ROBS PANTIES SLIPS. GIRDLES ARE O B G SIX GARTER WEAR NO PANTIES UNDER THE GIRDLE ALSO WEAR BREAST FORMS TO. I STARTED BY WEARING MY MOTHER'S GIRDLES BRAS STOCKING SHE LIKE IT WHEN I DID THIS AND OK IT. WE WOULD DO THING AROUND THE HOUSE IN OUR GIRDLE BRA TO AND GO OUT AS LADIES. I LIKE TO SLEEP IN A SEXY NEGLIGEE AT NIGHT WITH A BRA GIRDLE STOCKINGS ON JUST SEXY TO DO AND TO ENJOY. I AM NOT MARRIED NOW BUT HAVE OTHER WOMEN THAT LIKE ME IN MY BRAS GIRDLE. WE DO HAVE SEX WITH OUR GIRDLES ON TO I LIKE THE FEMININITY FEELING I HAVE WEARING A GIRDLE. ALSO WEAR FEMALE CLOTHING MOST OF THE TIME. IT'S JUST WOUNDER FULL FEELING BEEN FEMININE . BE GIRDLE AND HAPPY AND ENJOY.
Transutopia on February 25, 2017:
I too don't understand the question.
Nothing about riding up,so gotta assume not an OBG. A belt is the easy answer on the pants.But that's too easy.......
Roxanne on February 25, 2017:
Tom- Are you talking about panties or slacks. On a OBG if I wear panties I wear them underneath my girdle. On a panty girdle,most of the time I do not wear panties. What kind of girdle do you wear? . I have never had any problems with sliding slacks or jeans. If you wear an OBG make sure you wear stockings for your girdle will ride up if you don't. Keep me informed.
Tom on February 23, 2017:
I have a question, how do you all keep your pants from sliding off when you wear a girdle?
Roxanne on January 16, 2017:
Getting the opportunity to wear a girdle and stockings years ago from my aunt is the greatest thing that happened to me. Men do not know what they are missing.I have good posture and energy from wearing a girdle,am very dependent. When not wearing one I feel terrible and can not wait to put one on. Thank god I have a girl friend who apporoves and wears one also. I like to be fitted by a corsetiere so I get a good fit. Worth the money.iI have quite a few girdles and keep adding to the collection. That is one of my hobbies. I also wear long line bras,camis,slips ,panties and garter belts. My girl friend threw out most of my male underwear. I don't need that crap. I also wear skirts,blouses,make-up,dresses and of course heels. I love being a lady and hit on. My hair is long so I don't need a wig. I get my hair done once a week at the beauty parlor and also my nails. I love being a lady,but more important GIRDLED. I love to fool the men,what jerks. I would like to convince one ma a month to wear a girdle,he will love it,like you I do. Keep well and be a good girl.
lingerielover on December 29, 2016:
Roxanne, my best wishes for 2017. After more than 20 years of girdle wearing, going without one is no option for me. I wear girdle, stockings and bra every day. Once you become a serious girdle wearer there is no way back. So, yes I keep being girdled in 2017 as all the years before. My wish for 2017 is that more men would discover the benefits of being girdled. I know this is wishful thinking. In a time when most women do no longer wear girdles, young men miss the chance to discover the magic of the girdle.
Roxanne on December 24, 2016:
I want to take this time to wish all girdle and stocking wearers (especially males) A Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year. Keep being girdled forever.
lingerielover on December 14, 2016:
Hi Roxanne, hi Transutopia, the sales lady in the shop recommended the combination of girdle and longline bra instead of a corselette. The girdle has a tighter fit compared with the corselette. Now it is cold and I wear pantyhose with Rago pantygirdle. You are right, an obg is easier. What a pity that only a few men wear girdles. I think they don´t know what they miss. For me there was a change over the years. I have been wearing girdles every day for many years. Now I do not want to go without a bra and wear forms with it whenever possible. A few times I went out with my wife wearing girdle, stockings and bra under my suit and 3 inch heels. It´s a great experience when we both walk and can hear the clicking of our heels. Last weekend my wife put make-up on me. Although it took some time the result was fantastic.
Roxanne on December 12, 2016:
Transutopia-To find a corsetiere,google it. 3 inch heels are high enough fior me and are comfortable. I told the corsetiere what I would like to have in girdles,she fitted and sold me one hwllpg and two obgs,all with six garters. Also she suggested I purchase three long line bras to match which I did. Furthermore she suggested that if I wear panties,put the girdle on first. I do that anyway.Do you? She also said an obg is easier to go to the bathroom., especially to do number 1. That is correct. What is your breast size? Do you know other males who wear girdles? The average male is missing so much,some day I hope this will change. I am looking forward to crossdressing. It should be a blast. I am letting my hair and nails grow. I am going to meet with two experienced crossdressers for advice. Looking forward to be one of the girls. Girdles are a mans best friend.
Transutopia on December 12, 2016:
Hi Roxanne,my path has been a long one,for 50 years I have at least underdressed or full en femme.I have also taken Hormones for breast development,so you could say I'm transgendered but I like being both male and female.Only ever wear feminine underwear including Bra's daily,always stockings and at least a Girdle or Corselette.Heels are also special to feel more girly.But I now limit them to 3inch high for comfort ,still can't beat the look of a 5. inch high but wearing them for more then a couple hours is painful.Even when wearing pants I have female underwear with female shoes.But I don't know where you based but where did you find a Corsetierre??And what was her advice specifically with you,did she sell you OBG's ?
Roxanne on December 12, 2016:
Transutopia -My corsetiere fitted me two obgs and one Hwllpg. Not cheap but fit well. She suggested the girdles be two sizes less because of stretching and I won't eat as much,good idea. I am going to expand to full female attire. It will take time but I hope it will be enjoyable. My gf says I will look good as a female. At this time I walk good in heels. Do you crossdress? I think it will be fun to be one of the girls. what does your partner think of your girdling? I and Lingerie Lover are fortunate to have ladies agree with our way of life, I hope yours is the same. Being girdled is a great way of life. Stay girdled
Transutopia on December 10, 2016:
Roxanne,where have you found a Corsetierre?They, I thought did not exist any more.I wear Corselette mainly,and just trying to find them is hard enough,I have about 7 in total . Only rarely can you find one for sale on eBay or Etsy.So what point is there to go to a Corsetierre,who at best will try to convert you to a panty Girdle,as they are the only thing still available.I don't like them, although lots of people seem to like the Rago 6210.
Roxanne on December 10, 2016:
Absolutely I wear a bra ,long line. You are right when wearing an obg,always wear stockings.if not your girdle will ride. When I was a kid I always tried to look under women's dresses to see what they were wearing.In the old days women wore girdles which attracted me,now I wear one. Love it. Always six garters on my girdles.Great feel. Why can't a male wear a girdle,great feel,better posture,and feel more confident.Less stress. I am going to go to a corsetiere and get fitted properly.of course I will be girdled when I go. I talked to a few crossdressers who wear girdles very interesting These guys look good ,hope to meet them. Okay girl friend take care and make sure you are looking gooood.
lingerielover on November 30, 2016:
Roxanne, what you wrote is a normal development. It does not take long to get used to a girdle. And then you wear it every day. For the body it becomes normal to be constantly gently shaped. If you get into a situation where you can not wear a girdle, you do not feel really comfortable and miss something. This is a clear sign of girdle dependency. And that will remain so. The support of your girlfriend also helps. A man also benefits from wearing girdles. Many women also see this. And an obg is always worn with stockings. A very comfortable feeling. And when you and your girlfriend wear girdle and stockings during sex, this is something very special. Do you wear bra too? The feeling of wearing a bra is something else. Try it and you'll like it. But be warned. Once you start you will not give up. I found a bra with forms even more addictive than a girdle.
Roxanne on November 26, 2016:
Ladies-I am girdle dependent, I can not go without a girdle or a foundation garment .My girl friend threw out my male underwear except one tee shirt and one pair of boxer shorts. She is thinking of sewing garters on them,detachable.Being girdled gives me confidence and less stress. My girlfriend loves me in female attire. She wants to find other couples with our interests. Not a bad idea.Do you ladies shave your pubic area? My gf shaves me,which turns me on. When this is done she is girdled and stockinged,then we have sexy sex. Sex is always done wearing girdles,obg. By the way I have lost thirteen pounds wearing a girdle two sizes too small. Take care ladies and remember to wear stockings with your obg. Leave your panties home.
lingerielover on October 14, 2016:
Roxanne and Transutopia, I agree with you that being girdled is fun. And I think it is highly addictive. When you look at some forums so in most cases girdlelovers start young and stick to girdle wearing for their whole life. like I did. At the age of 14 I tried my mother´s girdle for the first time. Today many years later the girdle has not lost it´s magic for me and probably never will. Of course I assembled a collection of girdles over time. Isn´t if a great pleasure to don a new girdle for the first time?
Transutopia on September 25, 2016:
Yes I wear,day and night time.seperate things,I have night time corselettes and stockings,thats when I can wear my vintage Nylons,flat knit,seamed ,knowing they won't get damaged so quickly,as each pair is over $40 to replace also.Of course my partner knows. I have worn daily well before we met.It is part of me.I possess no male underwear,only feminine panties,bra's corsets,girdles,and corselettes .Bra's are also nice to wear if not using corselettes,A high waisted Girdle with a Longline bra ( like a Triumph Doreen or Glamorize 2202).They just finish it off from shoulder to hip totally fem.I do actually have some breast and a bra is very comfortable to wear.I think I have over 40 Girdles and Corselettes,definately over 200 + pair of Nylons.
Roxanne on September 23, 2016:
Transutopia, I totally agree with your opinion of guys not having the pleasure of getting girdled etc. What a pity. Spandex is not the answer. Getting girdled is one of the greatest things that ever happened to me. I wear one everyday,do you? Are you married and if so what does your wife say. A lot of women possibly like to see men in lingerie. My gf with whom I live with is going to surprise her friend that I wear girdles etc. I wish more men would participate in this hobby. How many girdles do you have? Have a girdle good day.
Transutopia on September 18, 2016:
That's funny,a directory of men who wear girdles.
As you probably know,there are 3 sites for men who wear as you and I do.Including this one.Not including Stockings hq forum.Because that's everything ,not just Girdles persay.
Also as girdles are not really made any more we are a dying breed.
I wonder what guys will do growing up not having the wonderful pleasure of having a nice tight Girdle,stockings, and a longline bra's.
I suppose they could get their rocks off on Spanx,Yeh right
Roxanne on September 13, 2016:
Ladies better yet girdles lovers-When you wear an obg,most of the time you wear nylons. What a feel with shaved legs. Transutopia do you wear your panties over or under your girdle? Girdle dependcy is very common,when you wear one everyday you can't take it off. My girl friend requires me to be girdled. She buys me a piece of lingerie every week. When we have sex we are girdled and stockinged,no other way. I have only 3 AIO's Black and beige. Is their a directory or service where you can get in touch with girdle wearers? Be good ladies and put your girdle on one leg at a time.
Transutopia on September 08, 2016:
My girdles are washed after each daily use.
I think I started about 12.Of course that was taking Mum's OBG and stockings.As good as my hiding place I thought was ,she found them,or was it the fact she was missing her Girdle?So after this happening a few times she sat me down and had a little chat with me.
I think she always wanted a Girl and not a boy anyway from things that she did like curling my hair etc.
She explained to me that other boys wouldn't understand and I should keep it a secret,but she left me alone to wear after that without a problem.The first one I bought with my own money I was 17.
I asked Mum for advise on sizing etc.She offered to get it for me and bought it from M & S a black OBG with 4 suspenders.Oh heaven,that was it ,hooked forever.
I'm not just Girdle depended,I must wear stockings also always!So I have a Nylon fetish also.
If I wear a girdle now I have a longline bra to go with it ,but mainly I wear AIO's
lingerielover on August 29, 2016:
An AIO is a nice thing. You are right. But I made the experience that when it fits to my torso it is not tight enough at the waist. So for me the combination of longline bra and obg or hwpg is the best choice. And of course stockings. Nothing comes close to the feeling of of being girdled and fine stockings on freshly shaven legs.
Transutopia on August 25, 2016:
I'm not sure a Bra is more addictive then wearing Girdles and Stockings...
My choice is an AIO which of course has a bra built in.
So I'm tightly held all the way from the shoulder straps to the top of my legs by that.Then adding a nice pair of flat knit Stocking onto hair free legs,still blows me away after all these years.
I could open a shop with all my feminine underwear.Half my closet is full of it.
lingerielover on August 25, 2016:
Hi Transutopia, hi Roxanne, I believe many of us started young. Wearing mother´s or aunt´s girdles and stockings. I was 14 when I discovered mother´s girdles. During the seventies she switched to pantyhose and pantygirdle. But there were some obg girdles left in her lingeriedrawer.
You are right. I´m almost 60 now. At the age of 20 I bought my first girdle. Since then the girdle - obg as well as hwpg - never lost it´s magic for me. I was lucky to marry a girl who accepted my girdle wearing. Although she thought it a bit odd that a man would wear a girdle she accepted it. Later she started to love it when I was girdled. She was wearing girdles too. So we developed our girdle wearing together. Some years ago she made me wear a bra too. I wear different styles but at home it is mostly longline bra. My experience shows that a bra is more addictive than a girdle. Like you Roxanne, my wife insists that I´m girdled every day. I think that I benefit a lot from girdle wearing.
Roxanne on August 23, 2016:
I went to live with an aunt for I was a little chubby and she suggested she suggested I try wearing a girdle. She would wear a flimsy robe with a girdle and stockings showing which I always looked at. I liked what I saw,then one day she suggested I try to wear a girdle. But was told stockings go with it,I thought about for a second or two and said yes. So happy that I did. She helped me in a hwobg with hooks and eyes,what a delight. Loved it ASAP. Then came the stockings,panties and a long line bra. What a feeling. Have been wearing a girdle etc for 24 or so years and continue to do so,have a girl friend who also wears a girdle and wants me girdled at all times,why not. More men should be girdled. How did you get started? Doe your wife wear a girdle. Stay happy and be girdled
Transutopia on August 23, 2016:
I'm gonna try again to post something.Better not crash .
Reading some above notes I'm getting that a few are in their 40's .
Now My question is that Girdles and Stockings were pretty much dead by the end of the 70's.
So how/why did you get started?Mums went into Pantyhose mid to late 70's.That would put the youngest person here wearing a real Girdle,nearly 60!
I'm of that age group being 64.And fondly remember taking Mums OBG and stockings(she never wore Panty Girdles but that was in the UK).
Of course it most certainly was a sexual thing back then at a tender age of 12/13.I still remember it as clear as day.
I was also a bit lucky in the fact my Mother wanted a girl ,so she curled my hair,and kind of dressed me in a feminine style!!On discovering my penchant for her clothes she was kinda cool,but warned me not to do so for school,etc.
So fast forward now I underdress daily and have done for forty years or more.My wife finds my "hobby" still a bit strange but admitted she knew I would not stray and have affairs elsewhere.She had that as a big concern back in the day...
I don't need to wear Breasts as I have my own ,maybe a small B cup.No I'm not fat ,I'm 6 foot 180pounds.
Lets see if this post.
Roxanne on August 22, 2016:
You are right Transutopia female under dress makes one relax and be less stressful. What is the big deal if one is girdled and stockinged. It feels great. My girl friend loves me in lingerie. I like it also. Who says men can't wear a girdle,it is good for your back and posture. A day without a girdle is a day wasted. My girl friend and I were out with female friend of hers and mentioned that I had on a girdle (obg) and stockings. She thought it was great. She said she is going to try to get her male friend to try ona hwllpg, I hope he goes for it,he will be surprised. She will give him a week then I will help her. Your wife will get used to your antics. What is so nice ,my gf and I sit around in the evening girdled,stockings heels with a long matching bra. Love it and sexy,which leads to great sex. Stay girdled girl.
Transutopia on August 22, 2016:
What is going on here,why is it deleting everything..
Transutopia on August 22, 2016:
Typed about 20 lines and all that came out is in the previous
Transutopia on August 22, 2016:
No you got it wrong,
she has accepted my wearing ,been such a long time
lingerielover on August 22, 2016:
Welcome to the club. Many men wear girdles and female lingerie. I started young with my mother´s girdle and stockings. When I met my wife I wore in secret until she found out. She approved my girdle wearing. Wearing herself she is convinced of the benefits of being girdled. So I was wearing girdles daily for the last 25 years. She encouraged me to wear a bra too. I did to please her. Over time she became more rigid and insists that I wear girdle and bra. At home I mostly wear obg, longline bra and stockings. At the beginning it was not easy to wear a bra all the time especially when she bought forms to fill my cups. But now I do no longer care if someone might spot my projection. Instead I enjoy the weight and bounce of “my breasts” with every step. After all these years I am very thankful to my wife for her support. Why does your wife feel uncomfortable with you wearing?
Transutopia on August 14, 2016:
just found this so saying hello to one and all.
I guess I'm like most here I underdress now almost daily.
Mainly All in One Corselettes being my favorite.Yes I also have vintage corsets which are lace up along with longline bra's.Always stockings flat knit seamed or RHT's.not the modern crap.even have vintage mesh nylons which wear really well.I think I have a serious nylon fetish so much so I wear for 23/7.Changing before bed with fresh AIO and fresh nylons.
To me it keeps me calm and helps overcome the problems of daily life.Wife has accepted it,but not totally comfortable persay.In my younger years I played around and that put our relationship under pressure.So from that perspective she feels I'm gonna be faithful,which I am of course.Can't imagine a women feeling anything when finding a guy is wearing all female underwear going forward...
lingerielover on August 05, 2016:
So far we had no encounters with crossdressers. I only underdress. Don´t go out enfemme. Only I wore heels a few times with my suit. The last days have been hot over here. It felt too hot for bra and girdle. But my wife insisted. She made me wear bra with my silicone breasts, pantygirdle with shorts. At home longline bra, girdle and stockings. Now it is not so hot so I wear skirt and blouse at home. I feel more and more feminine. With the support of my wife. I´m on holiday now. She made me wear nailpolish and does my makeup. And she uses the strapon on me more often. Last week I got a present. A nice plug so Im better prepared for the strapon.
Funny thing is after a week wearing only women´s clothes I really enjoy it. Yesterday evening we went for dinner and I wore a pair of trousers wich felt almost a bit strange. Be a good girl.
Roxanne on July 18, 2016:
You are right once you get accustomed to women's underwear it is very addictive. I can not do without wearing lingerie. I am hooked literally. A day without a girdle and stockings is not easy to handle. It is sexy to me. Sitting around in the evening with my girl friend attired in our girdles,stockings,bras, and heels is a great turn on. She wears me out. My gf and I went to a boutique that sells crossdressers. What a place. The employees are crossdressers. They are beautiful. I got fitted for 3 girdles and bra sets. They come in hwllpg,hwobg and long line and short line bras in different colors. I ended up with 6 girdles and 6 bras. Beautiful. Love the crossdressers,they know how to talk and take care of you. Miss Joan waited on me,what an experience and fitted me perfect. I have an appointment with her this week for panties and hope to take her for lunch. She is a tall blonde with long hair,beautiful. And by the way always wears a obg. When I see her I Defintely will be girdled. I also met other crossdressers there,nice people. First encounter with crossdressers,I like them. We have something in common and wear girdles. Also my girl friend uses a strapon on me . Love it 3 times a week. By the way does your wife shave your balls and legs ? My gf does it to me when I get out of the shower. My aunt used to shave me,love it. Take care and be a good little girl.
lingerielover on July 14, 2016:
Roxanne, these days when it is warm, at home we both wear only dessous, girdles and stockings. I wear an obg with stockings, slip and usually a longline bra. My wife insists that I wear my cups filled with forms. I needed a while to feel familiar with the weight and bounce with every step. My wife finds me looking sexy. Sometimes I wonder if it´s ok feeling more feminine. As I wrote earlier my wife bought a strap-on. She enjoys it to use on me. I wear heels when we go out. Last weekend we went to the theatre and had dinner afterwards. I wore a dark suit and black heels. Underneath bra, girdle and stockings of course. Once you get accustomed to women´s lingerie, shapewear and stockings you would not want it otherwise.
Honey on June 05, 2016:
What you have done trying on your mothers lingerie many males have done. They all loved doing it. Don't worry about shaving,just do it when you shower. Get your self a few girdles and stockings with a Long line bra. You will love it. Don't cheat your self. You are right about men being short changed,but do not short change yourself. The Asian ladyboy-girlfriend would do more than shave your legs. Look get girdled and you will fill great.
Marvelous on June 03, 2016:
I was a latch-key kid before the term was coined. Every school day I had 2+ hrs. home alone. One day while still young I investigated my Mom's lingerie. I was fascinated by the soft nylon fabric and wondered why boys Jockey shorts were so coarse & thick, very miserable on a warm-hot summer day. I started with panties, garter belt and stockings, eventually trying on a girdle with stockings. Later I tried a skirt, half slip, bra, blouse, and heels. Everything except a wig & makeup. Walking through the house dressed up like that felt wonderful. I now wear hi-cut micro-fiber Hanes panties every day, threw out all my male underwear long ago. Would like to buy a couple of girdles, stockings are fun but shaving twice a week is too labor intensive. If I had an Asian ladyboy-girlfriend to shave me regularly I would wear stockings every day. Men the world over are short-changed by the thick, uncomfortable cotton underwear that the majority of them still wear. If they only knew.............
Roxanne on May 18, 2016:
I have an idea for you.When you are with your wife you have to be ready to perform immediately that is why at time a garter belt is to be worn under a girdle,take off the girdle and you still have your stockings on. Sometimes I walk around in a garter belt and nylons with heels but no panties.A sexy woman always has sex with heels on.We always do , do you wear heels when you have sex? We do. How do you like a dildo? Do you ever suck on it? More men should wear girdles and hose. They do not know what they are missing. I am girdle dependent. Love to wear agirdle and stockings. It is nice you help your wife with her girdle and stockings. It is a honor.
lingerielover on May 12, 2016:
My wife made her wishes very clear. She wants me to be girdled all the time. Both of us don our girdles first thing in the morning after showers and wear until we go to bed. Additionally she insists that I wear a bra with forms whenever possible with the exception when I´m at work. It took some time to become familiar with “my breasts”. I mean you are aware of the projection and the weight with every step. Feeling my breasts is an essential step for her to express my feminine side. Last week she bought me a new pair of silicone breasts. These breasts come with some specific glue. I do not only put them in my bra, these breasts are fixed to my torso. It is such an intense feeling. I wore my breasts the whole weekend till Monday morning. It was a peculiar feeling when I removed my breasts. I had the impression of something missing. Do you wear bras?
I have different girdles of different styles and brands. Some have 4, some have 6 garters. I have obg from Triumph, Rago, Cortland and Grenier. And some hwpg from Rago and Cortland. I have no garter belts. My wife insists on girdles.
She also tried makeup on me. She spent some time doing my makeup before we went out for dinner Sunday evening. Very discreet but it changed my facial features.
I think it is a great idea to meet another girdled couple. Must be fun to know all four are girdled. I can imagine you will enjoy this.
The idea of your gf to buy a dildo is great. My wife sometimes uses a dildo on me while having sex. I enjoy the feeling. My wife thinks about buying a strapon. Develop your feminine side.
Roxanne on May 11, 2016:
My gf and your wife have the same thoughts that we should be girdled most of the time. I agree. A man who is girdled is a relaxed and more understanding in every facet of life. It shows his girly side,which we have. Do you use much makeup? I like to be made up and wear a wig while my hair grows out. My gf loves me being feminine,for she is the boss. By the way ,what kind of girdle did you get and how many garters? My wife's gf who approved my girdle wearing is looking for a male who wears a girdle. She is going to visit us with a male friend and we are going to try to see if he will put one on.we will try. What do you wear for bed? I wear stockings,a garter belt and a. Silky nightgown,no panties,you never know when you will get called to perform. My gf wears the same. She loves sex with nylons on,so do i. I have to be ready ASAP. My gf wants to buy a dildo for us,what do you think.? Do you and the wife have one and what do you do with it? My gf mentioned the other day she would like to meet another couple that is girdled. Good idea. Well sweetie,time for a ball shaving. Girdles are great.
lingerielover on May 02, 2016:
Our friend, no, she does not wear girdles. She wears modern shapewear like Spanx once in a while. My wife and me, we are both girdled all the time. She insists that I wear girdle, stockings and bra whenever possible. She is convinced that this is good for me and I follow her. Only at the office I do not wear a bra. Otherwise I have to wear a bra with forms. As a consequence my wardrobe changed. I wear blouses, mostly plain white or light blue. It fits better with my projection. And at home I wear only skirts. Wearing women´s clothes changed my lifestyle to some extent. Before that I often wore a track suit at home. This is out of question now. And I feel much better. Due to the tight girdle I take care what and how much I eat. I lost a few pounds. Although my wife taught me to sit properly when wearing a skirt. During the weekends I wear nail polish and makeup. It took some time but then I started to feel more feminine. My wife says that my behavior changed too. And our sex is much better now. Like you both of us are mostly in girdle and stockings. What a feeling when nylon rubs on nylon. What you write about relaxing is true. As soon as I come home and change into female clothes I feel easy and all the stress goes away. At the beginning I was afraid where this would lead to. But now I like it. Looking back I have the impression that this was a journey.
Last weekend we went shopping and I got a new girdle. We have a small shop where I got a professional fit. The saleslady made the suggestion that I shoud try a corset. My wife likes the idea. It would make my highlight my hips and make my shape more feminine. I think next time I will try one. I´m very grateful to my wife that she started this and literally helped me to develop a new personality. It all started with a simple girdle.
I agree with you that more men should start wearing girdles. They don´t know what they miss. Stay girdled!
Roxanne on April 08, 2016:
Wearing a girdle has made life wonderfull. funny story,after a couple of weeks wearing a girdle and stockings my dear aunt invited her girl friend over for lunch and of course I was fully attired underneath,she wanted to surprise her girl friend and we did. I answered the door wearing a robe and makeup with slippers exposing my stockings. She was shocked. She called for my aunt to question what I was doing. My aunt explained to her the situation and then asked me to disrobe and loved what she saw then asked me if I had troubles with the back garters. Of course. My aunt was girdled and her friend was also. She was attired in black. She said it was great to see me girdled. More men should do it,I agreed. Then she asked me to try on another girdle with stockings which I did. She remarked since I had a small penis l would not anything else underneath. Later that day she asked me to visit her and gave me a few girdles with stockings. Very nice of her. Your wifesgirl friend loved seeing you in a girdle. Does she wear one? I shaved my chest so could I could wear breast forms 36 c. When we have sex my gf does a good job on them as I do on her. Sex is always with an obg and hose. Would not have it any other way. As we stated getting dressed makes us relax. Our female side. Love being a girl. A fresh girdle makes you a better girl.be girdled. And stay girdled
lingerielover on March 29, 2016:
You are lucky with your aunt and that she made you wear girdle and stockings. And you are right. When I come home and switch clothes I feel relaxed immediately. Part of the effect is wearing forms with my bra. It´s incredible to feel the weight and bounce of my breasts with every step. They feel like they are part of my body. This effect is amplified since my wife bought some glue to fasten my forms directly to my skin. I wear my breasts like this from Friday evening till Monday morning. During sex my wife likes to pet my breasts and I love it.
I find it a bit complicated to attach the back garters with my rago with 6 garters. My wife and I help each other when we dress in the morning. Would be a nice idea to meet another couple both of them girdled too. But so far nobody knows about my girdle wearing. Without one exception. A friend of my wife. One Saturday morning my wife left to do some shopping. After a few moments the bell rang and I thought she had forgotten something. When I opened our friend stood there. I had to let her in. I wore a bra, girdle and taupe stockings with shirt and shorts. I didn´t know what to do. For the first moment she did not see my stockinged legs. But when we went into the living room she suddenly noticed it and asked if I wore pantyhose. She came closer and touched my leg when she realized my stocking tops. Now she was curious and wanted to know. She wanted to see my girdle. You can imagine how I felt. I was near to panic. Then she took a closer look and became aware of my bra. But she did not laugh or anything. She asked me and when we started to talk about it I got my nerves under control. At the end I was lucky. Nothing changed in our relationship. We are still friends. The only thing is that when we meet and she gives me a hug I always feel her hands on my back looking for my bra straps.
These days it would be more complicated as at home I always wear skirt, blouse and heels.
Roxanne on March 22, 2016:
Thank god for my aunt starting me off wearing a girdle and stockings. What a god send. I enjoy it more because of my gf having this in common.life would be boring. I am more relaxed in lingerie not so excitable. Transformation was great and I am going to buy a complete wardrobe of outer wear. I want to look good. Well it finally happened,sex in girdle and stockings. First of all I had to shave my legs etc. A nice smooth feeling. The sex was out of sight,no other way to do it. Your right nylon on nylon is a great feeling,love it. When going out I am always girdled and stockinged,obg. It seems you have problems with back garters,so do I. Just practice. Have you and your fabulous wife met ant other couples have the same interest ? I assume it would be exciting. My gf gets excited when she sees me put on my girdle as I do also. Well time to go to bed with garter belt and stockings on and no panties. Be a good girl
lingerielover on March 21, 2016:
Couldn´t agree more. Our relationship improved since I wear girdles, bra and stockings. It is something to enjoy together. My wife told me that from per perception my behavior has developed. Slipping into the feminine role makes you more sensitive and caring. And one thing is important. When I come home and don my bra, blouse and skirt I feel that all the stress goes away and I feel relaxed at once.
During the weekends I wear nail polish. A discreet pink. And I wear my nails longer than before. Last night we went out for dinner and under my suit I wore girdle (obg), bra and stockings. The first few times I was afraid that my bra with forms would be too obvious. But now I am at ease. This time my wife put makeup on me. Although it takes quite some time, I loved the result and felt great.
I wear different kind of slips. Half slips and also thongs. We do the same as you and your girlfriend. At home we often only wear shapewear and stockings. And heels. I think it´s good to practice as often as possible. And we had sex while both girdled. It feels so exiting when nylon rub on nylon. And the feeling of the tightness of my girdle is great.
Stay girdled and feel your feminine side.
Roxanne on March 16, 2016:
Since I told my girlfriend I wear girdle and stockings our relationship has improved so much she asks me to move in with her,which I did. Can not complain. She loves to wear a girdle now, she always did'nt, insisted I be girdled. Since I am girdled she has to be girdled. We both like high waist girdles,holds you in better. I like obg girdles for if I have to pee it is easier. On transformation,what an experience. I like all the makeup,jewelry,wigs,heels etc. I am going to let my hair and nails grow,did you do that? Love skirts,blouses and dresses. Do you wear a slip? I like a half slip. I am going to go out in public real soon,have to get used to heels. When getting dressed I put on my stockings first(thigh highs) then my bra, then my girdle and panties over the girdle. We love to sit around in our girdles in the evening,nice and cozy. Do you and your wife have sex while girdled and stockinged? My girlfriend suggested we do,not as yet but soon. Has to be exciting. Looking forward to this. Well stay girdled you will be happy,I am.
lingerielover on March 15, 2016:
Wow. Great to hear that you both do enjoy your transformation so much. You are right. It is so relaxing and a great experience. It may take some time to learn how to walk in heels. Most of my heels have 2-3 inch. That is easy to master. Like your girlfriend my wife put some emphasis how to sit and stand up. I put on girdle and panties, than stockings and bra. I have pull-on obg as well as some with hooks, eye and zipper. Pantygirdle only pull-on.
Like you I would say I´m girdle dependent. My wife insists that I wear my girdle all the time. And I could hardly imagine going without one. Usually we dress together in the morning. Often we help each other with the back garters. I feel very comfy with my girdle under my suit. It fits so much better. At home I wear mostly blouse and skirt now. When I come home and change she helps me with my bra mostly longline and the forms I wear with it. Slipping into the female role makes me feel relaxed almost at once. During the weekends I wear nailpolish and makeup. Getting a night gown will be the next step. And it could not happen to forget my girdle. I wouldn´t do and of course my wife insists that we are both girdled. What a pity that I cannot wear a skirt at work. Don´t you think how much more comfortable skirt and stockings would be to wear instead of a suit especially during summer.
Roxanne on March 10, 2016:
About the transformation,great.After I put on my long line bra,hwobg,stockings ,panties,full slip,I then put on my wig,then my girl friend makes me up. She said I looked great and passable. Then a long sleeve silk blouse and then the pensil skirt and heels. Felt like a million dollars. By the way all in black. I will go out in public in a few weeks. Why not. Heels are no problem,practiced with them. I loved looking at my stockinged shaved legs,very sexy. Have to learn how to sit and walk, I don't want anyone looking under my skirt. I am going to get some other outfits ASAP. My girl friend loves me transformed. To me it is relaxing and comforting. Question, what do you put on first,girdle ,stockings or panties? Are your girdles pull ons or do you have hooks,eyes or zippers? My girl friend and I are both girdle dependent. She now demands I wear a girdle and me the same with her. Without a girdle I feel naked,don't you? My girl friend likes to watch me get dressed,she says it turns her on. She laughs at me when I have trouble with the back garter and when my penis slips out,then she adjusts me. What do you wear to bed? I always wear a silky nightgown,sleep very well. Take care and act like a lady and don' t forget to put your girdle on.
lingerielover on March 08, 2016:
I am curious how you will feel with your transformation. What will be done to you? Will you go out dressed as woman?
Longline bra with hwobg is a nice combination. My wife loves it if I wear it. I wear it at home now most of the time. Together with a silk blouse and skirt. My wife taught me how to sit and walk in heels and skirt. The coming weekend she will put make-up on my face and do my nails.
More men should wear girdles. I couldn´t agree more. I think being girdled has a lot of benefits. Physically as well as psychologically. When I wore a girdle for the first time I did not know how this would develop. Now it seems to me it is a journey that has not come to an end.
Roxanne on March 05, 2016:
In answer to your question,l have 12 girdles in various colors to match my other undergarments. I hardly wear pantyhose,once in awhile. I love the pull on the stockings when girdled with shaved legs,what a feeling. I will get my transformation this week,looking forward to looking like a lady. I have no problems with heels or boots,very sexy. Women have so much nicer attire. My girl friend bought breast forms for me. I like to wear a long line bra with a high waist girdle. Do you shave? I shave my legs and going to shave my privates,want to be smooth and clean. Do you or your wife do the shaving. More men should wear girdles etc, they do not what they are missing. Girdles are mans best friend.
lingerielover on March 04, 2016:
OMG. You are lucky with your gf. A total transformation is such an exiting experience. Nothing fits better with bra and girdle as a nice skirt and blouse. And you should try some make-up.
Yes, I wear heels. Women´s shoes just fit better with stockinged feet than men´s shoes. So I tried heels. I started easy with a heel of 4 or 5 cm. And trained to walk. Now I master 6 - 8 cm without problem. Last weekend when we went out for dinner I wore black heels with my dark suit. Under it I wore girdle, stockings and bra. It was a nice experience.
Now I have 9 girdles. Different obg, all-in-one and hwpg. How many do you own?
My wife is happy that I followed her advice and wear girdles and more now. It is always fun in the morning when we dress and both don our girdles. Sometimes we help each other with the back garters. As you mention it, I have lost some pounds since I started girdle wearing. For me going without one is out of question.
When I look back I realize that our relationship has improved in many ways. My wife mentioned that I have become more feminine in my behaviour and more sensitive. Clad in girdle and bra makes me feel wonderfull. Do you wear forms with your bras?
Roxanne on March 02, 2016:
I talked to my girl friend about a total transformation and she was going to suggest that. This weekend I am going to buy a pencil skirt and blouse in black which will match my girdle and bra etc. With me every item has to match,one has to look nice. Have you walked on heels yet? Not easy. How many girdles do you have? I think more women would like to see their guys girdled. Since the short time my gf knows that I wear a girdle life is so much better and we have a lot more in common. She always checks to see if I am girdled. She mentioned woman enjoy their guys girdled and wearing stockings . This is funny,we were out with an old girl friend of hers who I knew and remarked I lost weight,never told the secret. Love to be girdled and remember one has never enough girdles.
lingerielover on March 01, 2016:
You are lucky that your girlfriend is so supportive of your girdle wearing. So am I. When my wife recommended a girdle for me it was a practical reason. We are beyond that. I tried an obg because I found it easier to wear under my suit than pg. Of course I had to wear stockings with it to keep it in place. I realised how good it felt to wear stockings - especially on freshly shaven legs. Then a development started. When my wife made me wear a bra it was for fun. We both learned that with that she touched a new side with me. And her mind changed too. She likes it to see me wearing girdle, bra and stockings. She bought me silicone breast that the bra makes more sense. It has so much added to our relationship. So now I wear girdle, bra and slips and really feel. Especially the combination of girdle and longline bra is exiting. It took some time to get accustomed to wear a bra and some projection in public. But now I feel at ease. I love to feel ´my breasts´. Only at my job I go without a bra.
Roxanne on February 24, 2016:
I should have not asked you if your wife wears a girdle,if you do she does.Do you and your wife lounge around in your girdles? Well I have a girl friend who approves my girdle wearing. When I met her after a couple of dates I told her about my girdle wearing,which she thought was great. Then of course she wanted to see me attired in a girdle and stockings. I agreed. She loved it. She wants me to be girdled as much as possible. She now wears a hwobg everyday which helps her back and posture. We go shopping for lingerie and it is fun. She likes to tell the saleswomen some items are for me,they don't know what to say. I have 4 hwllpg and 8 hwobg,all with 6 garters in various colors with matching bras,panties,slips and camisoles. I love female underwear. Wearing a girdle is great and everyday is girdle day.
lingerielover on February 23, 2016:
Why my wife wanted me to wear a girdle. We had an invitation to an evening gala. I could barely close the pants of my black suit. I had gained some pounds since last time I wore it. So my wife came up with the idea that I should try one of her girdles. At least I gave in and spent an evening in a hwllpg for the first time. Although it was very tight it helped. After that my wife made the proposal I should start wearing a girdle regularly. I considered it but did not decide until a few days later she came home with a girdle in my size. The following weekend was the first I spent wearing a girdle. Then she insisted that I would wear a girdle every day. It took two weeks and I got accustomed to it. This was almost 10 years ago. Since then there was hardly a day without a girdle for me. Although I lost weight I never thought of going without a girdle again. Styles and brands vary but not my wearing. Of course my wife wears a girdle every day. We both enjoy our girdle wearing. What do your wife / girlfriend say about your girdle wearing? I am convinced that girdle wearing has a lot of benefits.
Roxanne on February 20, 2016:
To answer to your question i used to buy my girdles and garter belts from girdlebound,l under stand some other company took them over. A long line bra with a high waist girdle feels great,which I always wear. Why did your wife want you to wear a girdle? Does she wear a girdle everyday? How long did it take her to convince you ? I assume not long. Good decision to give in. My self living with an aunt who started me off when I was 17 years old. I was a little chubby so she suggested I try wearing a girdle, I said ,why not. Thank god l did. It held me in and looked slimmer. It was a hwobg,then came stockings and panties,bras garter belts and so on. It has almost been 21 years and have done not regretted doing this. It has made my life exciting. You are correct nylons on clean shaven legs feel sensational. Thank god for your wife and my aunt,makes life great. Stay girdled sister
lingerielover on February 17, 2016:
Like you I do not feel well without a girdle. After more than 10 years of girdle wearing I´m addicted to it. In a lot of forums you find the term girdle dependency. I think it´s true. I started wearing when my wife made the proposal to try a girdle. Although I refused she convinced me. And after a few weeks I was wearing a girdle every day. My first girdles were hwpg and llhwpg. Later I tried an obg and began wearing stockings. Now I have a collection of 9 girdles. Different brands and styles. These days I mostly wear obg with stockings. I love the feeling of the smooth stockings on my shaven legs. And it is easier to handle when nature calls. I can not imagine to go without a girdle again. I am thankful to my wife for her support. How did you start? Where do you buy your girdles?
Roxanne on February 14, 2016:
Good to hear from another regular. Love to wear girdles with stockings(legs shaved) and a long line bra,holds me in. How many girdles do you have? Do you wear llhwpg? Great under slacks. How did you get started wearing girdles? I always wear a girdle except to go to the doctors. Girdles help my back and posture. I feel naked without a good girdle on,I was told this and it is true. Stay girdled,sister
lingerielover on February 05, 2016:
Hi Roxanne, another girdle aficionado. Like you I´m wearing a girdle every day. Have done so for many years. Some time ago I started to wear a bra too. Often I wear an obg together with a longline bra. What do you wear and when? Always girdled.
Roxanne on January 11, 2016:
Would like to correspond with male crossdressers especially those who wear girdles. I wear a girdle and stockings every day and am girdle dependent. Very enjoyable. Also correspond with women that like girdled crossdressers. Let me hear from all you girdle lovers and admirers. Stay girdled!
john berryman on October 26, 2015:
A pack of lies, but interesting none the less. Am mid-move Detroit to LA. - Irvine then Long Beach area- San Pedro. Any recommendations for shops for vintage girdles, Orange County or LA? Lost literally hundreds of girdles in a eviction and feel lost!! Camisoles, panties, corsets, all in ones, 4-500 pair of nylons- ffn rht- cantrice- nearly all garter style- most all vintage from endless trips to thrifts and boutiques, help the heartbroken lingerie-lover of 65+yrs with advice. Sadly with a seniors limited budget. Ill
find a way- I have no choice!
Xaviera on September 10, 2015:
Good to hear from you again.I thought you ladies gave up girdles. With my wife she requires I wear female attire. She likes to show me off to her girl friends,makes me pick up my skirt to show what Iam wearing. The girls love it and the guys to. She had one of girl friends hubby shave me which he did and of course he gave me a blowjob,first time for him, so I opened his fly took his beautiful dick out and sucked him. Then we put him in a bra and girdle with stockings ,he loved it. Now he wears it all the time. We are going to trans form on Saturday. It is so nice to sit around in a bra,girdle,stockings and heels. We will go 69 on Saturday. I know you would like to be there. Does your hubby lick your ass,I have to do it for the wife. By the way my lovely wife likes to watch me give a blowjob,do you like to watch? I love to perform for her,I only do this when I am girdled. Enjoy life with a good feminine hubby.keep him girdled
C Kerstin on September 07, 2015:
Xaviera, we are both girdles all the time. With exception of going to the office I insist that he wears a bra with nice forms all the time. Mostly he wears the combination of obg and longline bra. At home he is clad as a women and wears make-up. He looks really feminine. His behaviour has changed. He is more sensitive and attentive. And our sex has improved. Of course I use a strap-on on him. Then he wears a waistcincher that shows his lovely ass. Anything new with you and your wife?
When we meet with our friends it is standard procedure that he gives the other guy a blowjob. And gets one in return.
Xaviera on July 17, 2015:
Ckerstin- shaving is great,I love it,makes me feel very clean. Wearing a girdle and stockings and heels is terrific when we have sex. You are right nylon on nylon is the best,what a feeling. Do You use a vibrator on your husband? We always have sex when girdled. No other way. When your hubby puts on a girdle does he have a hard-on? I do ,if I don't I get paddled and have to wear men titthy whit ties for a day and no girdle. I also at times wear a garter belt under my girdle to hold my stockings tighter. Does your husband help you dress? I help my wife dress,pull the girdle up and attach stockings. I always wash her lingerie which I like to do. I go out in public dressed,no problem at all. Pass good. You say your hubby likes to give a blowjob,do you like to watch? I like to do it for it turns my wife on and out comes the strap-on. I love it. How many girdles do you and hubby have? Do you wear a long line bra? Also what color girdles do you have? My wife is going to buy me for my birthday a red obg and a long line bra in red. Has your husband done 69 with a male.?You would enjoy watching. Keeping on girdling.
Ckerstin-I love strap ones ,it is great. Sex with girdles on is the only way to go plus heels. I go out in public dressed and pass well. Always girdled and stockinged. Like to buy lingerie by my self. Does your hubby get a hard on when he puts his girdle on? I do,get paddled if I don't. Girdles have changed me big time. More calm more feminine love it. Nylon on nylon ,what a feeling. You have to buy your hubby a girdle with no ass. I have one and it is very easy to use a strap on. My wife likes to watch me give a blow job I assume you do also. Girdle day is everyday.
C Kerstin on July 17, 2015:
Xaviera, a while ago we started to shave oneanother. I can see how it turns hubby on when he shaves me. He loves when we practise the strap-on. And I like it too. It´s a matter of control. We bought a rosebudplug for both of us. We wear it often when we go out. Hubby got more and more feminine. It will not last long until we will go out in public. Two girls. When he wears make-up his face looks really feminine. When we make love we mostly wear our girdles and stockings. The feeling of nylon on nylon is fantastic. When doing the 69 we both use a dildo on each other.
Xaviera on July 09, 2015:
CKerstin-Nice to hear from you. Thanks for answering my questions. Do you shave him? I love it when my wife does it to me. It turns me on. Does hubby like it, he probably gets a hardon,I do. I am dressed as a woman at most times. Only when I go to family functions or the doctor,otherwise Iam dressed from head to foot.don't buy men's clothes anymore,no need. My wife loves to watch me give someone a blowjob,I enjoy doing in front of her,I finish him off. She encourages me to participate. You do that don't you.? I at my wife's command practice on a dildo. My wife certainly uses a strap- on on me. I love it and she loves to do it to me,couple times a week. When we do this we are girdled and stockinged,great feeling. Since I started wearing a girdle our lives have really come together. Just one more item did you start your hubby to dress and give blowjobs? Take care and keep your stap- on on ,he loves it.
C Kerstin on July 09, 2015:
Xaviera, like my hubby you are a lucky guy to have such a supporting wife. I put on my girdle first. I wear an obg to hold my stockings. And yes I wear panties. It is such a fun for hubby to remove them. I wear pantyhose an hwpg only during the winter. Hubby is shaved from neck to toe. I like a smooth body and his boobs wouldn´t stick on a hairy chest. Hubby is completely clad as women at home. He wears skirt and blouse and heels. So he has enough practise and can walk well with heels. Like a lady. I found it interesting to see him give a blowjob. Seems that he enjoyed it. Does your wife use strapon on you? It is a great experience.
Xaviera on July 07, 2015:
ckerstin -what guy u have! You made his life a joy. My wife did the same thing for I am forever grateful.i know yours is to. My wife demands that I wear a long line bra,hwobg with six garters for my hose. She demands other things also. I love to be girdled nice and tight. Do you shave your husbands testicles,he would love it. My wife does this on me every two weeks. If she is busy her girlfriend does. Question,do you put your girdle on first or your stockings? Do you wear a panty girdle or an obg? Do you wear panties when you wear a girdle? How does hubby walk in heels? Do you approve of him giving blowjobs? My wife likes to watch me do it,she says I am a lady and ladies do this. I do not mind. Well dear time to go to bed in a nice silky nightgown with stockings and a garter belt, no panties. Be girdled or go home.
C Kerstin on July 06, 2015:
Xaviera, yes I wear a girdle every day. And I insist that my hubby (lingerielover) is girdled too. He looks so cute wearing bra, girdle and stockings. At the beginning he did not want to wear a bra. But this changed. Now he proudly wears it. And loves his cleavage.
Xaviera on July 05, 2015:
c Kerestin- what's up? Do u wear a girdle?
C Kerstin on July 03, 2015:
Xaviera on June 25, 2015:
when men put on girdles and stockings they love it. It shows their girly side which all men have. This guy who I transformed said he loves it,said he loves his girdles. The four of us are getting together this weekend for a girdle and sex orgy. The girdle I am going to wear has no back,my ass will be exposed to the ladies and this guy for the obivious. Did you ever go 69?. We will all be wearing hwobgs but no panties. Have you been out in public fully dressed? I have but I was nervous the first few times but now no problem. It makes me feel high. Women like men in womans undergarments. My wife told me this and said that is what she likes. When the girls getogether this weekend my balls will be shaved again. My wife likes clean balls. She gets what she wants. She loves it when I give a guy a blowjob,when Ido this her girl friend will do that to me while she uses the dildo on me. Can't wait. How long have you been sucking and does your wife approve? My wife encourages this and I love to do it ,do you? Being a lady this is what you do. Well sweetie time to go bed with the wife wearing a garter belt,stockings,baby doll outfit no panties for a good nights sleep ha! Be a lady!
lingerielover on June 14, 2015:
Send a message a few days ago. Was maybe to explicit. What a nice experience that you described. Believe me the ladies had their fun with me. Isn´t it great to introduce another guy to wearing girdles? The hubby of our friend is hooked now, I think. You should have seen us. All four of us in girdle, bra and stockings. I realised how much I love to wear my boobs. It is such a terrific feeling to feel the weight and bounce with every step. Last week we were away on vacation for a few days. These days I wore my breasts and corset as well as stockings the whole time. Only when we went out I wore trousers and jacket. But I still showed some projection. OMG, I loved it.
Xaviera on June 04, 2015:
lingerie lover-oh what a night. What did the women do to you? Did they use a dildo on you? Why not. So the guy was girdled, he loves it. Did he resist the blowjob? Was he wearing panties? For me corsets are nice, but I prefer hwobg with 6 garters. I wear a corset with a gown,but prefer obgs without panties for obvious purposes. Once a man sees another man transformed he is interested as this guy was. The girlfriend brought her guy over. He asked me how I got started and how much I enjoyed it. The woman went into another room and left us alone. I said let me show you how I look. He said beautiful, so I said let's try it.he said ok and I said don't get excited. I put a bra on him with inserts,then stockings,he was getting excited for he was getting a beautiful lovely hard on, then I put him into a hwobg with six garters and a zipper, then attached his stockings,before he zipped up his dick would peep out from the bottom of the girdle, I adjusted that. Gave him a wig and lipstick and 2 inch heels. He looked great. He said he never felt better. The ladies saw us and and his girlfriend said you will always be girdled,he agreed. She told him to suck me for what I did for him, which he did and of Course I did the same. I went with the girlfriend and he went with my wife she used a strap on on me loved it,my wife screwed himwith a dildo,then him and I went 69 for the girls,great evening together. By the way how long have you been sackings dicks? We are ladies we do this. Iam getting ready for bed which I will wear a silk nightgown with a garter belt and stockings. Be a lady at all times,will ya
lingerielover on June 02, 2015:
Xaviera, I wear a girdle every day under my suit at work. When I come home I don a bra and my wife laces me into my corset. At the weekend she lets me wear the corset both days. Last Saturday I was completely dressed as a woman (corset, bra with forms, stockings) skirt and blouse. My wife put makeup on me. Our friends joined us for dinner. The ladies wore dresses and were both properly stockinged and girdled. The hubby of our friend wore a dark suit and coloured shirt. After dinner and some wine the atmosphere was casual and we started talking how hubby felt when he wore a girdle for the first time. Then our friend proposed to remove our outerwear. The ladies got off her dresses. It was nice to see their girdles and bras. It did not take long and I stood there in my corset that emphesized my womanly shape. Hubby was a bit shy but then we saw he wore an obg with stockings and a bra. Although he did not wear forms with his bra he looked cute. After a while our display showed effect. His slip bulged. So I removed it and there was a nice hardon. I caressed his dick and then I could not resist and gave him a blowjob until his juice was all over my face. Then the ladies had their fun with me. It was a great evening. Did you have been successful transforming the other guy?
Xaviera on May 29, 2015:
lingerie lover-do you still wear a girdle? Not a corset. The guy loved wearing the girdle that is why he had a nice hard on. Nothing wrong with that. How big was it? It turned you on,right. Did your wife encourage you to suck it? If you want to ,do it you are a lady. Does your wife still use the strap-on on you? My wife bought me a girdle without a back so my ass will show so she can use the dildo on me,love the dildo. I really enjoy sucking on it. She doesn't know that I sucked dicks before I met her,which I love to do. Tomorrow night we are going to see her girlfriend and her guy. I am going to wear along line black bra ,hwobg,seemed black stockings,black half slip,open toe heels, black blouse, and a black pencil skirt,no panties. Will try to transform him. I hope it works. Once he sees me he should try it. Of course the women will be girdled and stockinged. I will let you know and let me know about about your friends husband. Keep your hands to your self I will get a hard on.
lingerielover on May 27, 2015:
Xaviera, the evening was interesting indeed. When the ladies came up with the idea that the other guy should try a girdle, he was reluctant. But it did not help. The more he tried to avoid it, the more the ladies liked the idea. My wife got some stuff and his wife removed his shirt. First she helped him into a bra, then when his slacks came off he had to don a girdle. It was a hwllpg. Then he had to try stockings and the ladies did the garters for him. You could see how horny he was. Under the girdle he had a hardon. I tink after a while he liked the feeling of stockings and girdles. When I saw him I thought about sucking his dick but did not do it. I wore a corset and a slip. At home I wear my corset most of the time. My wife loves it to lace me in. And I relalised how it improves my shape. My heels are 4 inches. Not too high but good to walk with.
When I saw our friend I assume this was not the last time her hubby wore a girdle.
Let me know about the boy friend of your wife´s friend.