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Gorgeous Girlish Girdles For Men

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What, pray tell, is a girdle? Why, it is a relatively old fashioned piece of lingerie and the evolutionary child of the corset. Put simply, a girdle is a piece of shape defining lingerie which runs from under the bust to over the hip. It promotes a lovely feminine shape and irons out any unseemly bumps of flesh which can get in the way of attaining the perfect hourglass figure.

Whilst girdles are popular in literature (you'll remember Hercules fought the Amazon Queen for her girdle, and it's about to be obvious why,) they have somewhat fallen out of fashion amongst the young women of the modern age.

It is still possible to purchase girdles however, and they are the perfect compliment for men who wish to wear women's lingerie and look good in it. Girdles made and intended only for men are also available, though you may not find them at your local lingerie stockists, and instead of cinching in the waist, these girdles simply provide support for the infamous tummy region where the beer gut tends to grow.

Long Line Classic Girdle

The girdles here are from Secrets in Lace, a lingerie retailer stocking very fine lingerie indeed. First up we have a traditional long line girdle. With pretty lace across the legs, it is almost a pity that the rest of the girdle makes no secret of it support structure, which is clearly visible in lines running throughout the garment. A little but 1920s, a little bit bleached super heroine, how could one possibly resist? This long line girdle shapes everything from the tummy to the butt.

Pretty Panty Girdle

If you're looking for something a little less all encompassing, a panty girdle may very well be the better choice for you. The panty girdle is essentially a panty gone wild and overbearing. Instead of fabric extending down the thighs (which many men don't need due to the stunning state of their legs,) the panty girdle stops at the hips and simply controls tummy, butt and waist. This style of girdle may also be much more practical for the man who would like a shape controlling alternative to a garter belt, as it comes with suspender clips for attaching your stockings.

There's no doubt that girdles are incredibly sexy, incredibly charged pieces of lingerie. Granted, they are certainly more pricey than a plain pair of panties, but I think it is safe to say that wearing a girdle will take your lingerie wearing experience to the next level.

Comments

jerry on September 17, 2019:

I wear a girdle occasionally. They are nice if you are trying to tuck in something called a gut. I like a girdle most when wearing hosiery. however, panty hose virtually made them a non factor. Girdles are hard to put on and take off and are rough on your groin area. They are as rough on men and women. Corsettes are nicer to wear if you can get them on.

Gi on August 29, 2019:

This was my Gorgeous Mother i was c commenting about Mike panty wearer not my Wife

Girdle Gi on August 28, 2019:

I tried my mother's open bottom girdle with suspenders hanging from it . My mother and father were away on holiday at the time i tried her girdle on i can now understand how she must have looked and felt wearing her girdle. After that i used to try and catch her in her room standing in her bra girdle and stockings and her suspenders without her seeing me by looking at her in the dressing table mirror what a wonderful site it was bring back these days again when women wore feminine undergarents . Keep hoping.

mike panty wearer on July 17, 2019:

I wish I had a wife like some of you. I to started with my moms panty girdle when I was 11. I still dress today, but wife would not like it. I underdress everyday at work.

LarryPantySissy on February 04, 2019:

Just want to admit here I have owned a panty girdle. Had to go buy it at a department store and guess the size. I don’t know what about a girdle is so exciting to me. Just to walk around lingerie in a store gives me a stiffie in my nylon panties. I never bought the tabs I needed for hose. Now I like telling female friends I’m a Playtex sissy boy.

girdledhubby on September 08, 2018:

Hi Kathe, this Maidenform Curvy Slimmer looks pretty cute. It looks well. Most modern socalled shapewear does not look good. That´s why I still prefere classic girdles. At the end of the day my favourite is Rago obg with 6 garters and stockings.

Kathe Jones from San Francisco Bay Area on September 03, 2018:

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I have recently started wearing the Flexees Women's Maidenform Curvy Firm Foundations Hi Waist Thigh Slimmer (around $20 on Amazon). This support garment is comfortable and pretty as well as sexy. Naturally, I got the one in black. I still wear stockings with a garter belt and thong panties over the garter belt, but I then wear the Maidenform garment over the panties and garter belt.

Transutopia on August 23, 2018:

Hi Paula Playtex,

Guess you heard?

Rago are deleting the 1594.

6210 will follow.

Already no garters on them as of Now

PaulaPlaytex on August 21, 2018:

That should read Rago Girdles

PaulaPlaytex on August 21, 2018:

I have 2 Glamorise Girdles with Garters, White and Beige...I wear my Stockings and Matching Bras with them.

girdledhubby on June 24, 2018:

Kathe, a nice statement. Like you I prefer an obg. I love the tight feeling of a girdle and don´t want to go without one. Obg with stockings is easier to handle than pantyhose with pantygirdle. And it reminds me of the past when I started wearing girdles long years ago.

Kathe Jones from San Francisco Bay Area on June 19, 2018:

The type of girdle I prefer to wear is an OBG. I like to wear thong panties or bikini panties under my girdle so that I can use the restroom without taking off my girdle and my stockings. I love it that my OBG hold in my tummy as well and makes me a slimmer, more attractive woman.

girdledhubby on May 27, 2018:

Richelle, like you I started early. At the age of 14 I could no longer resist the desire to try my mother´s nylons and obg. What can I say? It became a lifelong passion. For many years I´ve been wearing obg with stockings under my suit every day.

You often find the term girdle dependency. It´s true. Once you start and wear girdle and stockings for a while, you don´t want to quit. I wear hwpg or obg. But never without a girdle. I agree: girdle wearing has many benefits. For women as well as for men.

Richelle on May 22, 2018:

I started ti wear a girdle when I was about 10 and stopped for a while and missed it a lot so I went back and have been wearing one for over 60 years and love it. I don't feel dressed with out one on and I feel better because they give me support for my lower back. It also helps me look better in some of my feminine clothes. I found one that fits just right and it like I don't even have it on and go all day with it on. My lady friend is OK with it and has even gone shopping with me to get them. We like the same style p.g.h.w. with the right size you can enjoy your self look good feel good so go for it men, and women.

girdledhubby on July 26, 2017:

Hi Roxanne, I made a similiar experience. One of my wifes girdfriends discovered that I wear bras and girdles. I was worried when she did find out. But she liked it. Every time we meet she gives me a nice hug and feels for my bra straps. It took a while but then she thought it a good idea to bring her boyfriend to try a bra. Of course he refused. But she took her time. At least he agreed to try a bra. This happened some months ago. And what do you think? Now he wears a bra with forms and a girdle most of the time.

Roxanne on July 19, 2017:

If you never wore a girdle men,you don't know what you are missing. I started young not knowing that this would be a lifetime addiction. A hwobg is fantastic with stockings (6garters) I own quite a few girdles,stockings,slips,cammys,panties, bras etc. I love being girdled. My girl friend requires I do this. We have terrific sex while being girdled. Her girl friends also like to see me in girdles and stockings.we are working on her boy friend to at least try on a girdle,he is not easy to convince, but we will get him. He likes to pat me on the backside which is satin. I went to Lyn Lockes Satin and Lace a few years ago and had a ball Great experience Everyone one was girdled. We walked around in our girdles,bras and stockings.I drew a crowd being one of the ladies,wearing a wig and makeup. Life is a bore without wearing a girdle. Try it you'll like it.

girdledhubby on June 19, 2017:

Guys who start young with girdle wearing will become enthusiasts very fast. They will not quit girdle wearing and it will be a lifelong habit. I know what I´m talking about. I tried a girdle for the first time at the age of 14 and was hooked almost at once. A few years later when I started dating girls I tried to quit. But it did not work. The magic of the girdle never left me. At the age of 20 I gave in and started to wear a girdle every day. The style and brand varied but I did not leave the house without a girdle. Till today I wear obg, hwpg or corselette with obg and stockings as my first choice. Like you Roxanne I was lucky when I met a girl who accepted my faible. Now we are married for many years and love to be girdled. A few years ago I started wearing bras too. Afraid at first that I would be noticed this changed and now I proudly wear my projection.

Isn´t it a pity that the era of girdles is over and young men do not have the chance to get in contact with girdles? They don´t know what they miss.

Roxanne on June 16, 2017:

Girdle guys-many guys wear girdles and if they start in an early age they try to stick with it. It is too bad that many more do not wear girdles. Poor souls. They would love it. I met my girl friend in a bar. Of course I was girdled and stockinged,but my polo shirt was a little up my back and my girdle showed, then this good looking blonde comes over to me and whispers in my ear, are you wearing a girdle and I responded yes, she said great. I also wear a girdle she told me. I said we have something in common.We talked then went out and this started a good situation. After awhile we moved in together and enjoy a great relationship, which started over a girdle. Of course I wear other female apparel. Have very little male underwear. Who needs it. As stated l am girdle dependent. I am required to wear a girdle. Her girl friends know I wear a girdle etc. they like it. No big deal. Also girdle sex is great. Keep well girls and hook em up.

Transutopia on June 15, 2017:

Tom,

So one is a Rago Cincher the other is an AIO (All In One-Corselette)...

Still can't get my head around the pants going south.

Without being rude,if say your over weight having no waist,then that could be the problem.

My answer to that would be buy a Corset for waist training to aim for a feminine shape more so.Say start with an underbust,you can have garters added for Nylons,always have at least 6 total,more is ok but goes towards fetish.

6 is the least for flat knit stockings ,and make sure they are metal not plastic.

Totally agree Girdles are addictive, I've worn now for over 40 years daily.

A nice combo is a Doreen Longline bra with a girdle,your compressed shaped from shoulder to hip.

Hardly much happening here any more shame.

C'est la vie

girdledhubby on June 14, 2017:

Nice to see that there is still something happening here. Although the number of guys who wear girdles may be small, some men like it to wear girdles.

After many many years of girdle wearing I recommend men to try girdles. A good fitting girdle gives support and energy. It improves your whole posture. Aside from the physical benefits a girdle, wearing a girdle is a great feeling.

There are different styles to choose from. For me the classic open bottom girdle worn with stockings is still the first choice. I have to admit I love the feeling of fine stockings on my freshly shaven legs.

But be warned. Girdle wearing is addictive. Once you try it you don´t want to go without a girdle again.

Tom on May 23, 2017:

OK, Rago 9357 and a 6207.

Tom on May 23, 2017:

Roxanne and Transutopia,

I should have been more specific. I have a Rago 6207 and a open bottom full body (don't have model handy, sorry). I would wear them every day but my pants slide off like the girdles are coated with teflon, LOL. I REALLY like the 6207 and would love a reason to buy a few more.

Don Munson on March 24, 2017:

I LOVE GIRDLE TO AND LIKE TO WEAR THEM TO HAVE BEEN WEARING A GIRDLE SINCE I WAS 16 YEARS OLD AND LIKE THE GIRDLE ON ME TO. ALSO WEAR BRAS,SLIPS,STOCKINGS,NEGLIGEES,ROBS,PANTIES. ALSO BREAST FORMS NO PANTIES UNDER THE GIRDLE OR OVER IT. I STARTED BY WEARING MY MOTHER'S GIRDLES,BRAS,STOCKINGS,SLIPS. SHE KNEW THAT I WAS WEARING GIRDLES OF HER. SHE WAS OK WITH IT AND LET ME WEAR A GIRDLE ALL THE TIME. SHE WAS OK WITH MY FEMININITY AND LIKE IT. SHE THEN TOOK ME TO THE LINGERIE SHOP TO BE FITTED FOR MY OWN GIRDLES, BRAS SHE KNEW THE GIRDLE,BRA FITTER SHE WAS GOOD ABOUT DOING THIS FOR ME AND MADE IT EASY ON ME TO. MY MOTHER AND I WOULD DO THINGS AROUND THE HOUSE IN OUR BRAS GIRDLES AND WE FELT SEXY IN DOING THIS. AT THIS TIME I AM NOT MARRIED TO ANY ONE BUT WHEN I WAS MY WIFE THOUGHT I WAS WEARING A GIRDLE JUST TO BE SEXY IN THEM AS A WOMEN IS IN THE GIRDLE. SHE DID SHOW SOME LIKING OF ME IN A GIRDLE AND LOOK AT ME AS AS A SEXY WOMEN. THEN I ASK HER IF WERE A SEXY WOMEN TO HER SHE SAID YES IN A WAY. SO AFTER SOME TIME SHE SAID TO ME YOUR FEMININE IS TO MUNCH FOR ME LIKE OR TO LOVE ANY MORE. THE MARRIAGE BROKE UP. I DO HAVE FEMALE FRIENDS AND THEY HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH I IN GIRDLES THEY LOVE TO SEE ME IN GIRDLES AND ENJOY IT AND LIKE THE FEMININITY OF ME TO. THEY ALL WEAR GIRDLE TO AND FEEL SEXY IN THEM. YES THEY LIKE TO HAVE SEX IN THERE GIRDLE TO. AND LIKE THE RUBBING OF THE GIRDLE TOGETHER AND FEELING THE GIRDLE DOING SEX. I DO HAVE ONE WOMEN WHEN SHE SEE ME SHE FEEL FOR MY GARTER BUMPS TO MAKE SURE I HAVE GIRDLE ON. SHE IS THINKING OF WANTING TO LIVE TOGETHER SHE LIKE WHAT SHE SEE OF ME A SEXY LADY AND YOU ARE WEAR GIRDLES,BRAS, STOCKINGS FOR ME ONLY !!!!. SHE LOVE MY SEXY FEMININE SIDE. WE ALSO WEAR THE SAME SIZE BRA GIRDLE. I ALSO WEAR A SATIN NEGLIGEE TO BED WITH A BRA GIRDLE ON AND LOVE THE SEXY OF IT. JUST LOVE THE SEXY OF THE GIRDLE AND WHEN ON YOU FEEL THE SEXEST OF THE GIRDLE. LOVE AND ENJOY WEARING YOUR GIRDLE I DO. BE GIRDLE ALL THE TIME. IT'S ROMANTIC AND SEXY TO BE IN A GIRDLE. THAT WAY WOMEN LOVE TO WEAR A GIRDLES AND SHOW THEM OFF AND THE SEXUAL ATTRACTION OF THE GIRDLE TO OTHER PERSON WOMEN AND MEN. LOVE ALL OF YOUR GIRDLE AND WEAR THEM PROUDLY !!!!.

Diane Girdle Lover on March 24, 2017:

HI-- I HAVE BEEN WEARING GIRDLES SINCE I WAS 16 YEARS OLD AND LOVE WEARING THE GIRDLES BRAS STOCKING NEGLIGEES ROBS PANTIES SLIPS. GIRDLES ARE O B G SIX GARTER WEAR NO PANTIES UNDER THE GIRDLE ALSO WEAR BREAST FORMS TO. I STARTED BY WEARING MY MOTHER'S GIRDLES BRAS STOCKING SHE LIKE IT WHEN I DID THIS AND OK IT. WE WOULD DO THING AROUND THE HOUSE IN OUR GIRDLE BRA TO AND GO OUT AS LADIES. I LIKE TO SLEEP IN A SEXY NEGLIGEE AT NIGHT WITH A BRA GIRDLE STOCKINGS ON JUST SEXY TO DO AND TO ENJOY. I AM NOT MARRIED NOW BUT HAVE OTHER WOMEN THAT LIKE ME IN MY BRAS GIRDLE. WE DO HAVE SEX WITH OUR GIRDLES ON TO I LIKE THE FEMININITY FEELING I HAVE WEARING A GIRDLE. ALSO WEAR FEMALE CLOTHING MOST OF THE TIME. IT'S JUST WOUNDER FULL FEELING BEEN FEMININE . BE GIRDLE AND HAPPY AND ENJOY.

Transutopia on February 25, 2017:

I too don't understand the question.

Nothing about riding up,so gotta assume not an OBG. A belt is the easy answer on the pants.But that's too easy.......

Roxanne on February 25, 2017:

Tom- Are you talking about panties or slacks. On a OBG if I wear panties I wear them underneath my girdle. On a panty girdle,most of the time I do not wear panties. What kind of girdle do you wear? . I have never had any problems with sliding slacks or jeans. If you wear an OBG make sure you wear stockings for your girdle will ride up if you don't. Keep me informed.

Tom on February 23, 2017:

I have a question, how do you all keep your pants from sliding off when you wear a girdle?

Roxanne on January 16, 2017:

Getting the opportunity to wear a girdle and stockings years ago from my aunt is the greatest thing that happened to me. Men do not know what they are missing.I have good posture and energy from wearing a girdle,am very dependent. When not wearing one I feel terrible and can not wait to put one on. Thank god I have a girl friend who apporoves and wears one also. I like to be fitted by a corsetiere so I get a good fit. Worth the money.iI have quite a few girdles and keep adding to the collection. That is one of my hobbies. I also wear long line bras,camis,slips ,panties and garter belts. My girl friend threw out most of my male underwear. I don't need that crap. I also wear skirts,blouses,make-up,dresses and of course heels. I love being a lady and hit on. My hair is long so I don't need a wig. I get my hair done once a week at the beauty parlor and also my nails. I love being a lady,but more important GIRDLED. I love to fool the men,what jerks. I would like to convince one ma a month to wear a girdle,he will love it,like you I do. Keep well and be a good girl.

lingerielover on December 29, 2016:

Roxanne, my best wishes for 2017. After more than 20 years of girdle wearing, going without one is no option for me. I wear girdle, stockings and bra every day. Once you become a serious girdle wearer there is no way back. So, yes I keep being girdled in 2017 as all the years before. My wish for 2017 is that more men would discover the benefits of being girdled. I know this is wishful thinking. In a time when most women do no longer wear girdles, young men miss the chance to discover the magic of the girdle.

Roxanne on December 24, 2016:

I want to take this time to wish all girdle and stocking wearers (especially males) A Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year. Keep being girdled forever.

lingerielover on December 14, 2016:

Hi Roxanne, hi Transutopia, the sales lady in the shop recommended the combination of girdle and longline bra instead of a corselette. The girdle has a tighter fit compared with the corselette. Now it is cold and I wear pantyhose with Rago pantygirdle. You are right, an obg is easier. What a pity that only a few men wear girdles. I think they don´t know what they miss. For me there was a change over the years. I have been wearing girdles every day for many years. Now I do not want to go without a bra and wear forms with it whenever possible. A few times I went out with my wife wearing girdle, stockings and bra under my suit and 3 inch heels. It´s a great experience when we both walk and can hear the clicking of our heels. Last weekend my wife put make-up on me. Although it took some time the result was fantastic.

Roxanne on December 12, 2016:

Transutopia-To find a corsetiere,google it. 3 inch heels are high enough fior me and are comfortable. I told the corsetiere what I would like to have in girdles,she fitted and sold me one hwllpg and two obgs,all with six garters. Also she suggested I purchase three long line bras to match which I did. Furthermore she suggested that if I wear panties,put the girdle on first. I do that anyway.Do you? She also said an obg is easier to go to the bathroom., especially to do number 1. That is correct. What is your breast size? Do you know other males who wear girdles? The average male is missing so much,some day I hope this will change. I am looking forward to crossdressing. It should be a blast. I am letting my hair and nails grow. I am going to meet with two experienced crossdressers for advice. Looking forward to be one of the girls. Girdles are a mans best friend.

Transutopia on December 12, 2016:

Hi Roxanne,my path has been a long one,for 50 years I have at least underdressed or full en femme.I have also taken Hormones for breast development,so you could say I'm transgendered but I like being both male and female.Only ever wear feminine underwear including Bra's daily,always stockings and at least a Girdle or Corselette.Heels are also special to feel more girly.But I now limit them to 3inch high for comfort ,still can't beat the look of a 5. inch high but wearing them for more then a couple hours is painful.Even when wearing pants I have female underwear with female shoes.But I don't know where you based but where did you find a Corsetierre??And what was her advice specifically with you,did she sell you OBG's ?

Roxanne on December 12, 2016:

Transutopia -My corsetiere fitted me two obgs and one Hwllpg. Not cheap but fit well. She suggested the girdles be two sizes less because of stretching and I won't eat as much,good idea. I am going to expand to full female attire. It will take time but I hope it will be enjoyable. My gf says I will look good as a female. At this time I walk good in heels. Do you crossdress? I think it will be fun to be one of the girls. what does your partner think of your girdling? I and Lingerie Lover are fortunate to have ladies agree with our way of life, I hope yours is the same. Being girdled is a great way of life. Stay girdled

Transutopia on December 10, 2016:

Roxanne,where have you found a Corsetierre?They, I thought did not exist any more.I wear Corselette mainly,and just trying to find them is hard enough,I have about 7 in total . Only rarely can you find one for sale on eBay or Etsy.So what point is there to go to a Corsetierre,who at best will try to convert you to a panty Girdle,as they are the only thing still available.I don't like them, although lots of people seem to like the Rago 6210.

Roxanne on December 10, 2016:

Absolutely I wear a bra ,long line. You are right when wearing an obg,always wear stockings.if not your girdle will ride. When I was a kid I always tried to look under women's dresses to see what they were wearing.In the old days women wore girdles which attracted me,now I wear one. Love it. Always six garters on my girdles.Great feel. Why can't a male wear a girdle,great feel,better posture,and feel more confident.Less stress. I am going to go to a corsetiere and get fitted properly.of course I will be girdled when I go. I talked to a few crossdressers who wear girdles very interesting These guys look good ,hope to meet them. Okay girl friend take care and make sure you are looking gooood.

lingerielover on November 30, 2016:

Roxanne, what you wrote is a normal development. It does not take long to get used to a girdle. And then you wear it every day. For the body it becomes normal to be constantly gently shaped. If you get into a situation where you can not wear a girdle, you do not feel really comfortable and miss something. This is a clear sign of girdle dependency. And that will remain so. The support of your girlfriend also helps. A man also benefits from wearing girdles. Many women also see this. And an obg is always worn with stockings. A very comfortable feeling. And when you and your girlfriend wear girdle and stockings during sex, this is something very special. Do you wear bra too? The feeling of wearing a bra is something else. Try it and you'll like it. But be warned. Once you start you will not give up. I found a bra with forms even more addictive than a girdle.

Roxanne on November 26, 2016:

Ladies-I am girdle dependent, I can not go without a girdle or a foundation garment .My girl friend threw out my male underwear except one tee shirt and one pair of boxer shorts. She is thinking of sewing garters on them,detachable.Being girdled gives me confidence and less stress. My girlfriend loves me in female attire. She wants to find other couples with our interests. Not a bad idea.Do you ladies shave your pubic area? My gf shaves me,which turns me on. When this is done she is girdled and stockinged,then we have sexy sex. Sex is always done wearing girdles,obg. By the way I have lost thirteen pounds wearing a girdle two sizes too small. Take care ladies and remember to wear stockings with your obg. Leave your panties home.

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lingerielover on October 14, 2016:

Roxanne and Transutopia, I agree with you that being girdled is fun. And I think it is highly addictive. When you look at some forums so in most cases girdlelovers start young and stick to girdle wearing for their whole life. like I did. At the age of 14 I tried my mother´s girdle for the first time. Today many years later the girdle has not lost it´s magic for me and probably never will. Of course I assembled a collection of girdles over time. Isn´t if a great pleasure to don a new girdle for the first time?

Transutopia on September 25, 2016:

Yes I wear,day and night time.seperate things,I have night time corselettes and stockings,thats when I can wear my vintage Nylons,flat knit,seamed ,knowing they won't get damaged so quickly,as each pair is over $40 to replace also.Of course my partner knows. I have worn daily well before we met.It is part of me.I possess no male underwear,only feminine panties,bra's corsets,girdles,and corselettes .Bra's are also nice to wear if not using corselettes,A high waisted Girdle with a Longline bra ( like a Triumph Doreen or Glamorize 2202).They just finish it off from shoulder to hip totally fem.I do actually have some breast and a bra is very comfortable to wear.I think I have over 40 Girdles and Corselettes,definately over 200 + pair of Nylons.

Roxanne on September 23, 2016:

Transutopia, I totally agree with your opinion of guys not having the pleasure of getting girdled etc. What a pity. Spandex is not the answer. Getting girdled is one of the greatest things that ever happened to me. I wear one everyday,do you? Are you married and if so what does your wife say. A lot of women possibly like to see men in lingerie. My gf with whom I live with is going to surprise her friend that I wear girdles etc. I wish more men would participate in this hobby. How many girdles do you have? Have a girdle good day.

Transutopia on September 18, 2016:

That's funny,a directory of men who wear girdles.

As you probably know,there are 3 sites for men who wear as you and I do.Including this one.Not including Stockings hq forum.Because that's everything ,not just Girdles persay.

Also as girdles are not really made any more we are a dying breed.

I wonder what guys will do growing up not having the wonderful pleasure of having a nice tight Girdle,stockings, and a longline bra's.

I suppose they could get their rocks off on Spanx,Yeh right

Roxanne on September 13, 2016:

Ladies better yet girdles lovers-When you wear an obg,most of the time you wear nylons. What a feel with shaved legs. Transutopia do you wear your panties over or under your girdle? Girdle dependcy is very common,when you wear one everyday you can't take it off. My girl friend requires me to be girdled. She buys me a piece of lingerie every week. When we have sex we are girdled and stockinged,no other way. I have only 3 AIO's Black and beige. Is their a directory or service where you can get in touch with girdle wearers? Be good ladies and put your girdle on one leg at a time.

Transutopia on September 08, 2016:

Hi Roxanne,

My girdles are washed after each daily use.

I think I started about 12.Of course that was taking Mum's OBG and stockings.As good as my hiding place I thought was ,she found them,or was it the fact she was missing her Girdle?So after this happening a few times she sat me down and had a little chat with me.

I think she always wanted a Girl and not a boy anyway from things that she did like curling my hair etc.

She explained to me that other boys wouldn't understand and I should keep it a secret,but she left me alone to wear after that without a problem.The first one I bought with my own money I was 17.

I asked Mum for advise on sizing etc.She offered to get it for me and bought it from M & S a black OBG with 4 suspenders.Oh heaven,that was it ,hooked forever.

I'm not just Girdle depended,I must wear stockings also always!So I have a Nylon fetish also.

If I wear a girdle now I have a longline bra to go with it ,but mainly I wear AIO's

lingerielover on August 29, 2016:

An AIO is a nice thing. You are right. But I made the experience that when it fits to my torso it is not tight enough at the waist. So for me the combination of longline bra and obg or hwpg is the best choice. And of course stockings. Nothing comes close to the feeling of of being girdled and fine stockings on freshly shaven legs.

Transutopia on August 25, 2016:

I'm not sure a Bra is more addictive then wearing Girdles and Stockings...

My choice is an AIO which of course has a bra built in.

So I'm tightly held all the way from the shoulder straps to the top of my legs by that.Then adding a nice pair of flat knit Stocking onto hair free legs,still blows me away after all these years.

I could open a shop with all my feminine underwear.Half my closet is full of it.

lingerielover on August 25, 2016:

Hi Transutopia, hi Roxanne, I believe many of us started young. Wearing mother´s or aunt´s girdles and stockings. I was 14 when I discovered mother´s girdles. During the seventies she switched to pantyhose and pantygirdle. But there were some obg girdles left in her lingeriedrawer.

You are right. I´m almost 60 now. At the age of 20 I bought my first girdle. Since then the girdle - obg as well as hwpg - never lost it´s magic for me. I was lucky to marry a girl who accepted my girdle wearing. Although she thought it a bit odd that a man would wear a girdle she accepted it. Later she started to love it when I was girdled. She was wearing girdles too. So we developed our girdle wearing together. Some years ago she made me wear a bra too. I wear different styles but at home it is mostly longline bra. My experience shows that a bra is more addictive than a girdle. Like you Roxanne, my wife insists that I´m girdled every day. I think that I benefit a lot from girdle wearing.

Roxanne on August 23, 2016:

I went to live with an aunt for I was a little chubby and she suggested she suggested I try wearing a girdle. She would wear a flimsy robe with a girdle and stockings showing which I always looked at. I liked what I saw,then one day she suggested I try to wear a girdle. But was told stockings go with it,I thought about for a second or two and said yes. So happy that I did. She helped me in a hwobg with hooks and eyes,what a delight. Loved it ASAP. Then came the stockings,panties and a long line bra. What a feeling. Have been wearing a girdle etc for 24 or so years and continue to do so,have a girl friend who also wears a girdle and wants me girdled at all times,why not. More men should be girdled. How did you get started? Doe your wife wear a girdle. Stay happy and be girdled