Do women like body hair on men? Whether it is chest hair, facial hair, pubic hair, back hair, shoulder hair or the hair on your butt, let's stay away from vague answers and zero down to a Yes or a No on the questions you may have about how girls perceive and feel about body hair on guys. Isn't it high time we stopped beating around the bush, pun intended!
1) What do women think about hairstyles?
Guys, honestly, the hair on your head is the least of your worries when it comes to body hair. If you have a nice and fashionable hairstyle or even if you go bald and it suits you, you really have nothing to worry about. Women will not mind if you have long hair or cropped hair as long as you look good in whatever hairstyle you carry.
Answer: Hairstyles don't really matter as long as they look good.
2) Should you have a beard? What do women think about facial hair?
The debate about whether facial hair is attractive or not has been going on for centuries and it probably will go on and on and on. Think about facial hair as the personality that you are going to project. So if having a beard comes in the scheme of things of the look that you want to carry, by all means, go for it. If a cleanly shaven look suits well on you, then shave your beard away. It's like asking a woman "Who looks sexier in the movie Troy, Eric Bana with his beard or the cleanly shaven Orlando Bloom?" The bottom line is that everything boils down to personality when it comes to facial hair.
Answer: It matters but as long as facial hair suits your personality, it's fine.
3) Should men have armpit hair?
Do you have a small bush in your armpits? Don't be surprised if your girl gives a disgusting look and bolts out of the bed and gets you a trimmer. On the other hand, your girl may not like a cleanly shaven armpit either. Confused? Let's elaborate. While underarm hair just sounds wrong, women generally understand, believe and accept that men are not supposed to have silky smooth underarms. It is the concept of being manly that comes into play here. A man is generally not expected to carry a silky smooth armpit. So thin and trim your armpit hair to a short length.
Answer: Trim and thin your underarm hair to a short length.
4) Are hair on a man's arms a good sight?
It is absolutely okay to have hair on your arms. In fact, a man's arms are not always supposed to be silky smooth. Unless you are a pro body builder or a model/actor who requires his arms to be super clean all the time, it is generally good to have some hair on the arm.
Answer: Yes. It feels natural.
5) Do women like chest hair on men?
If you shave your chest, you are only going to end up hurting your woman in bed with the coarse stubble that re-grows only in a few days. While a waxed chest may make a woman drool or may look amazingly sexy in a poster or in a movie, it is hard to replicate that kind of appeal in real life. To play it safe, trim your chest hair and thin it so that your woman can run her fingers through it without feeling like going through a bush. The most important thing to remember while trimming chest hair is the Tiger Line. Gentlemen, if you didn't know already, the Tiger Line is the line of hair which goes from your chest down to your midriff and down below. Princesswithapen has done an entire segment on just Chest Hair.
Answer: Yes, women like chest hair but strictly in moderation. Chest hair is generally considered manly.
6) Do women like shoulder and back hair on men?
Body grooming trends and general thinking points to just one answer when it comes to shoulder and back hair – No. Now don't ask why your girlfriend won't like running her fingers through the hair on your back, especially when she likes doing that on your chest. She just doesn't.
7) What are women's thoughts about pubic hair on men?
Just like you will probably not like to go through a gigantic bush to search for your woman's privates, she too will not be a fan of the same. If you are expecting your woman to indulge into any sort of oral you-know-what, make sure that you keep your pubic hair trimmed, short and clutter free. And while you are doing it, make sure you trim all the hair in your groin area.
Answer: No. Trim your pubic hair nice and short.
8) Is hair on a man's butt a welcome sight for women?
The most important point to remember is that you will impress a girl on a date with your manners, good looks and chivalry. The hair on your bum is the last thing going through her mind while she is having a romantic meal and sharing a nice glass of wine with you. Having said that, it is also important to know that hair on the bum is not a turn on for women. It is a generally accepted idea to not have too much of visible butt hair. Hold on though, don't start fretting yet. Girls understand that you may not be able to do a grooming session on your behind often nor is it the most manly of things to do. If you want to be playful in bed, surprise your woman by getting rid of it all only once in a while.
Answer: No. But don't fret over it.
9) Do women like hair on a man's legs?
Your girl may not like to look at your legs if you have a carpet of hair wrapped around them. Legs are probably the easiest body part when it comes to dealing with body hair because all you have to do is trim them to a length at which they don't look too short and pointy, or too long and furry.
Answer: Women don't mind hair on legs. But make sure you trim.
Point to remember
Maintain a balance when it comes to length of the hair while you trim your body hair. For example if you have chest hair but decide to wax off the hair on your legs or vice versa, well, it's just going to look weird and funny.
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Tess from Hawaii on November 14, 2019:
There definitely shouldn't be this double standard of who should and shouldn't have body hair. Nice article though.
Alan R Lancaster from Forest Gate, London E7, U K (ex-pat Yorkshire) on December 29, 2018:
I'm fair haired and the hair on my chest doesn't stand out, unlike down there where it's a bit like a rug around my penis (keeps it warm, natch), and when I'm in the shower it all goes dark and 'clings' closely. Just as I think pubic hair is acceptable on a woman - otherwise it's like trying to make love to a kid and that's off-putting as I've written elsewhere - women accept it on men unless they're fashion-conscious or unrealistic about life in general. My wife's never complained about mine and I've rarely seen hers recently.
Antonymous on October 08, 2016:
Well, I think these kind of articles are even funny and lighthearted, but it should be clear they are preferences and opinion of people who right them, individual men or women.
Jayme Kinsey from Oklahoma on March 31, 2013:
Interesting article. I think the bottom line on hair issues is that it just depends on your partner. Different people are attracted to different things. Even if something isn't in style at the moment, there will be someone out there who likes it. After all, I wouldn't give either Eric Bana or Orlando Bloom the time of day!
Personally, I like a guy to be natural. If that is hairy, fine. If not, fine too. I think they should wear what nature gave them. Too bad men don't feel the same about women. It would save us a lot of time, money, and pain!
Good article with some valid points. Voting up!
Golfer10 on March 12, 2013:
Well written, thank you for the article and your opinions.
scott on February 21, 2013:
what kind of a man shave's his pubs. Be a man and let it grow....
almorr on July 05, 2012:
Very good article to read, I am quite hairy everywhere, but no one has ever suggested I shave any part of me despite some ladies referring to my hairy chest looking like 'werewolf' and my very hairy arms as looking like some kind of 'monkey'. It just makes me feel manly and at least people actually notice how hairy I am. I have never cut off or trimmed a hair on my body ever.
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Nell Rose from England on February 24, 2012:
Its a definite no to beards! I went out with a guy with a beard and I came out in a terrible rash! haha! I tend to go for no back hair, maybe a bit on the chest but prefer none really, but I am not fussy, just give me a man that makes me laugh! then I don't care what he looks like or how hairy!
Natasha from Hawaii on February 24, 2012:
I think if a guy wants to trim his hair, that's ok. However, it is really obvious when a guy shaves his back or chest because it gets all stubbly and weird. That being said, beard and chest hair should not grow together into one big rug - that's just gross!
Steve LePoidevin from Thailand on February 24, 2012:
Great observations and a fun read but I think you missed a couple...nose hair and ear hair! I think some guys could spend time with the trimmer on these two lol.
Vinaya Ghimire from Nepal on February 22, 2012:
Here I find many answers, which I had never read elsewhere, and did not know whom to ask.
Bur hey, is this just your opinion or you did a sampling research.
THEHuG5 on February 22, 2012:
Thank you for writing this! I don't mind moderate hair on a man but just like he wouldn't want me walking around looking like chubaka I don't want a man with a full head of hair under his arms. Yuck! Trimming is key. It makes me laugh when men think that they don't have to trim "down there" but they expect us to. I hope a lot of men take you advice and buy a trimmer. Voting this up and everything else!
Jeannie Marie from Baltimore, MD on February 22, 2012:
Maybe I am alone on this one, but I really don't mind a hairy guy. I would prefer little or no trimming anywhere at all. Perhaps I am just literally looking for a teddy bear. Who knows? Oddly, I don't mind if a guy shaves his head though. Weird. I am with you about the chest hair... guys must stop shaving away perfectly good chest hair. Voted up!
Aurelio Locsin from Orange County, CA on February 22, 2012:
Nice to hear the woman's point of view here. I like your comparisons between men and women in the pubic hair paragraph. Voting this Up and Interesting.
lovelife08 from United States on February 22, 2012:
I couldn't have said it better myself! Only with me, butt hair isn't so bad hahaha. I actually like guys that are hairy everywhere, but not so hairy that it looks nasty.
StrictlyQuotes from Australia on February 22, 2012:
A good read, I've written my views on this topic before too... I'm a female who loves a naturally hairy man, so I was glad to read you pointed out we don't mind hair on men! I think, trim if you feel you must but shaving doesn't appeal to me!