Life of a human being has different stages like childhood, youth and old age. When life starts then the human has no idea about life even being naked. When he reaches the age of 5, then he feels that he should cover his body. After that period, he starts desiring appreciation. He becomes a sensible person over time.
What is Self-Management?
Self-management is the compound of two words, “self” and “management”. Many people do not know what to manage in life. Wish for living life with own control is called self-management. The person who does not have the skill of self-management is called “abnormal”. Some people have such a high level of self-management that people start to follow them. A person with the attribute of self-management can lead a whole nation just with a smile.
The journey of consistency to Self-Management:
There is a journey of "Self" before "Self-Management". First, you have to polish yourself and know about yourself. The journey of "self" starts with progress and self-discovery. If there is no progress, it means that there is no journey to yourself. Nature often provides chances for self-discovery. This is the time; there is no time after that time. That is why there is no need to wait for the right time. The journey of self-management requires patience and consistency in life.
Arrogance from Self-Management:
The journey of arrogance from self-management start right after the journey of self-discovery. The person who knows himself always try to improve in the self-management.
The majority of people is stuck in a race of life. People do many things for luxury in life, but they often forget about improvement in themselves. Arrogance from self-management can lead to disastrous consequences. Self-management now is the guarantee of the high level of success in the future.
Measurement of Kindness in “Self-Management”:
We often perform an act of kindness when people see us doing this act. There is no kindness in that act. This act is not for self but people or society. Sometimes we go the wrong way and consider that way the right way of life. A good deed or an act of kindness should be just for self, not for other people. This way of thinking can boost up the confidence, and that confidence will lead towards self-management. There is nothing more critical than self-management to live a successful and graceful life in the future.
Can you object to your beliefs?
Brave is the man who can raise questions on his way of thinking. This is very hard to do. Fixing the arm by operating is easy but fixing the wrong beliefs by operating is difficult in life. In the history of humanity, every single war was fought for being right or wrong. Many people believe that they are improving themselves, but they are not improving. First self towards self-management is to know about yourself. Every single belief of idea which is not leading to success is questionable. The easy way to self-management is to start improving every single part of yourself. There is no chance of improvement with new ideas, beliefs, and up-gradation in life.
Importance of Counselling for Self-Management:
Sometimes we do not like the journey of our life. To illustrate, sometimes we do not satisfy with the results of our progress. That is why we need to contact a mentor or life coach for the solution to this problem. Sometimes we try to measure the mentor with the wrong scale, and then we fail to find a mentor. We should think about our progress, not the mentor. It is better to think about ourselves rather than objecting others. Almost every life couch asks about daily routine and self-management to analyse or set his perspective for the future.
If we want to manage our lives, we must do some practices to make our lives easier.
1: Management of thinking
4: Book Reading
5: A list of self-improvements.
If we work consistently on ourselves, we will be able to manage ourselves and make our lives easier and beautiful. Self-management is the key to development in life. The person who can manage himself can manage the way to success very quickly. In conclusion, successful is the man who think about himself rather than thinking about other people.