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Spiritual Awakening: The Importance of Speaking



Most of the time, in any relationship, whether it be with people or our relationship with Christ, we forget how to communicate with one another. Things like bitterness, hurt, envy, pride, and many other offenses intrude our minds, heart and speech. We just need to find out how to get back to right communication with one another. Do you find in any of your relationships this question come about... "Why do we always have to argue about everything!?" without a solution? We found there are always answers that work. Not only saying, "This is the problem.", but also giving a solution. The answers are found in The Truth, The Holy Bible, and The Word of God. If you seek His ways instead of your own... you are acting in obedience, trusting His way and His Word. Watch Him take on the battle for right relationships and communication, restored and redeemed, through following Christ.


How we SHOULD NOT speak to each other, According to The Bible

1} "Let no foul or polluting language nor unwholesome talk ever come out of your mouth."Ephesians 4:29

2} "Let ALL bitterness, indignation, wrath, rage, bad temper, and resentment, anger, animosity, quarreling, brawling, clamor, contention, slander, evil-speaking, abusive or blasphemous language, be banished from you with ALL malice which is any ill-will or anything built on such destructiveness." Ephesians 4:31-32

3} "But immorality and ALL impurity or greediness must NOT even be named among you." Ephesians 5:3

4} "Let there be NO filthiness, obscenity, indecency, NOR foolish and silly, corrupt talk, NOR coarse jesting which are Not fitting or becoming." Ephesians 5:4

5} Let no one delude or deceive you with empty excuses and groundless arguments." Ephesians 5:6


How We SHOULD Speak To One Another, According To The Wpord of God

We ALL have been guilty, at one time or another, of saying the wrong things. When we search scripture we find the cure to interacting with others incorrectly. Here are some Scriptures to heal communication in our families and relationships:

Indeed, we all make many mistakes. For if we could control our tongues, we would be perfect and could also control ourselves in every other way. James 3:2

Speech that is good and beneficial to the spiritual progress of others. Ephesians 4:29

Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone. Colossians 4:6

Be useful, helpful, and kind to one another. Be tenderhearted, understanding, compassionate, loving-hearted... Ephesians 4:32

Forgiving one another readily and freely, as God in Jesus Christ forgives you. Be imitators of God (Christ) copy and follow His example, as well beloved children imitate their Father. Ephesians 5:1

Walk in Love! Ephesians 5:2

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Esteem one another- lift the other up. Phillipians 2:3

Delight in one another - Romans 12:10 Enjoy each others company

As Christ loves us - John 13:34- Servant Attitude/Speech

Voice your thankfulness to God, Jesus Christ, The Holy Spirit Psalm 26:7

Speak the truth in love. Ephesians 4:15

Put on behavior marked by tenderhearted pity and mercy, kindness, humbleness, and having a healthy estimate of ourselves, gentle ways. Colossians 3:12-14

Patience which is tireless and long-lasting, and has the power to endure whatever comes with good temper. Colossians 3:12

Let peace and harmony which rules in your heart through Jesus Christ, settling with ALL finality, all questions that come to mind with truth, love and understanding. Colossians 3:15

Be content, thankful, and appreciative to each other and to Christ

Teach, train, admonish, and train one another, with ALL meekness, gentleness, mercy and understanding. 2 Timothy 2:25

Whatever you do in word or deed do in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in dependence upon His Person. Colossians 3:17

Give praise to God The Father through Jesus Christ. Ephesians 5:

Husbands, love your wives and don't treat them harshly. Colossians 3:19

Encourage your children- don't forget to tell them and anyone your in a relationship with, how good they are doing also. Ephesians 6:4

Honor your father and mother. Exodus 20:12, Ephesians 6:2

Wives submit to your own husbands. Ephesians 5:22-33


How Should we Communicate to Each Other?

Through The Word of God and following the Path of Righteousness through Jesus Christ we find the ways we SHOULD communicate with one another.

You can also look up the following words in the back of your Bible. Study all the verses in the Bible containing these words.










Prayer For Healing Broken Communication In Our Relationships Through The Word of God

Dear Heavenly Father Abba, we come to You in The Name of our Savior, Jesus Christ.

Jehovah-Rapha, You are our Healer, we believe in Your healing powers. I admit I have been speaking in the wrong way. My relationships have been suffering because of ME. Sometimes, even my relationship with You has been affected.

I ask for Your forgiveness.

I ask You to heal me and help me to change my ways of speaking to others, and to You.

I believe that when I speak the right way others will see that change and communicate with me better as well. May You get all The Glory. I trust You will answer my prayer because You created family and You first loved me. I thank You, praise You, and love You.

Your words were found and I ate(digested) them. Jeremiah 15:16

He touched my lips with it and said, "See, this coal has touched your lips. Now your guilt is removed, and your sins are forgiven." Isaiah 6:7

IN Jesus Christs Name, AMEN


Marvilla Pickens from Oklahoma on September 16, 2015:

I enjoyed reading this. Thanks for sharing. I will share this on my Facebook page, Twitter, and Pinterest so others can read it too. :)

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