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Sundown Devotional: Practice Playing Second Fiddle

MsDora, former teacher and Christian counselor presents practical Scriptural principles for joyful everyday living.

Sundown Devotional brings friends together as the sun sets on the workweek. We relax, reminisce, reflect and share inspiration from our peaceful meditation on a short Scripture passage. In this session, we focus on playing second fiddle (supporting one another). Christian or not, we will all be inspired. Welcome!

Practice playing second fiddle.

Practice playing second fiddle.

The Devotional

Be good friends who love deeply; practice playing second fiddle. (Romans 12: 9, 10 MSG.)

Practice playing second fiddle is Eugene Peterson’s paraphrase of “in honor preferring one another” (King James Version). Peterson compares Christian believers to an orchestra consisting of friends who focus on the spirit of harmony, rather than the attitude of “me first.”

When asked what instrument is the hardest to play, Leonard Bernstein, conductor of the New York Philharmonic (1958-1969), was reputed to answer, “Second fiddle. I can always get plenty of first violinists, but to find one who plays second violin with as much enthusiasm . . . now that’s the problem. And yet if no on plays second, we have no harmony.”

Both first and second fiddle roles are necessary and valuable, and the harmony is more important than the personal roles. So as church members, friends, or family members, do we focus on team harmony or on personal recognition?

The goal of our Christian performance is to represent Christ and promote His kingdom. It is by our love for each other, and by humble, selfless support to those who lead that we represent Him. It is through faithful service, not through position, that we earn the “Well done” from Life’s Master Conductor. And it is through support for others that we earn support from others, when it is our turn to lead.

When we focus on our duties, our satisfaction comes from our sense of fulfillment regardless of our position in the team. We learn to appreciate the skills and virtues we have, and admire others for their contribution. We are all valuable in God's scheme of things. We perform for His glory and we give the credit to Him.

If we will outdo each other, let's excel in the way we love, respect and support each other. We can remain happy first-class Christians while serving in secondary positions. It takes practice, practice, and more practice, until it becomes a habit.

Prayer: Master Conductor, we are grateful for the opportunity to play our various roles in life’s orchestra. Help us to love selflessly and enthusiastically no matter where You place us. We pray with thanksgiving for peace and harmony, in the name of Jesus. Amen

Second violinists are first-class musicians.

Second violinists are first-class musicians.

Ten Quotes on Second Fiddle Roles

  1. “Love . . . Isn’t always me first.” ―1 Corinthians 13:5 MSG
  2. “Second violinists are first-class musicians.” ―Glenn Dicterow
  3. "Playing second fiddle may connote being second best, but the preparation for playing first or second violin is exactly the same.” ―Dan Nobuhiko Smiley
  4. "It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit." ―Harry Truman
  5. “The greatest joys in life are found not only in what we do and feel, but also in our quiet hopes and labors for others.” ―Bryant McGill
  6. “Encourage, lift and strengthen one another. For the positive energy spread to one will be felt by us all.” ― Deborah Day
  7. “Talking about nature and mankind, always remember that we have to be there for each other as we exist because of each other!” ―Sanchita Pandey
  8. "I don't mind being a second fiddle. I don't mind that. I don't care whatever happens, whatever helps my team get a championship is what I want to do. Whatever helps my team win is what I want to do."Kyle Lowry
  9. “You don't need followers, you need supporters. Followers wait for you to make it happen. Supporters, see to it that you make it happen.” ―Niedria Dionne Kenny
  10. “It is better to be supportive than be superior.” ―Lailah Gifty Akita
"The preparation for playing first or second violin is exactly the same.”

"The preparation for playing first or second violin is exactly the same.”

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© 2012 Dora Weithers

Comments

Dora Weithers (author) from The Caribbean on June 14, 2020:

Thank you, Mavis. I appreciate your feedback.

Mavis Chiverton on June 12, 2020:

Great article Keep up the good work

Dora Weithers (author) from The Caribbean on November 25, 2015:

Hi Word, so encouraging to see you visiting my old hubs, and your comment is insightful. Thanks!

Al Wordlaw from Chicago on November 25, 2015:

Very interesting Dora, Sometimes, playing 2nd fiddle is better than not playing at all. You may eventually play to the top. Great article!

Dora Weithers (author) from The Caribbean on July 31, 2012:

Great insight, Bob, and well-expressed. I appreciate your input.

BobMonger from Carlin, Nevada USA on July 31, 2012:

There is a certain security in being the "second fiddle." Mostly I let those who crave the spotlight go ahead and have it, I'll just sit in the back and enjoy the music we make. It's nice to get the accolades when you're the one up front, but you get the blame as well when all doesn't go as planned. Just remember it isn't the musician we should appreciate, it's the music that's being made.

Dora Weithers (author) from The Caribbean on July 17, 2012:

Thanks, Manatita, Nikki and Laurinzo for your input on this issue of humility, and cooperation. Thank God. we're all improving in this important aspect of our lives.

LJ Scott from Phoenix, Az. on July 16, 2012:

I agree 100% harmony can be established in so many realtionships, but someone has to be the first to realize and give in to better judgement. God is definitely the conductor of this movement. I am again learning to flow with that. Great reminder!

Nikki Major on July 16, 2012:

yes. God instructs us to seek each others well-being over our own.Sometimes, this means we have to play second fiddle.

manatita44 from london on July 16, 2012:

Full of profound Truth. I once worked in a shop where I took the lead role in emptying the garbage. It was a secondary role, but for me it was significant and a doorway to humility. Wise hub.

Dora Weithers (author) from The Caribbean on July 16, 2012:

Thanks, Perspycacious. I appreciate your votes and your kind comments. Blessings!

Demas W Jasper from Today's America and The World Beyond on July 16, 2012:

So well done that I hope it gets a lot of viewers thinking. Up, etc. and shared.

Dora Weithers (author) from The Caribbean on July 16, 2012:

Ann, your application to marriage is completely true. Both the lead and the second fiddle must give 100% if they want 100% harmony. Thanks for your input.

Dora Weithers (author) from The Caribbean on July 16, 2012:

Tim, your comments make me smile. Being comfortable in the second fiddle role is the result of being gifted for that role. I'm sure that you perform with excellence because you have the right attitude. Blessings!

Ann1Az2 from Orange, Texas on July 15, 2012:

Great hub! In enjoyed it very much. I love the way you drew the parallel of playing second fiddle with being a Christian. It is the same in marriage. I have a hard time with people who say marriage is a 50/50 proposition, when in fact, often it is one person giving 100% sometimes, and the other giving 100% sometimes.

Voted up.

Tim Mitchell from Escondido, CA on July 15, 2012:

Thank You MsDora. I smile saying this is a most wonderful hub with more truths than you can shake a stick at. I think this well written chorus full of harmony and melody is just what the doctor ordered. I'll sit in your pews anytime. I may fake a song or two until my partner gives me the nudge I'm in tune, being tone deaf and all - smile, but I will sure accompany her voice in action. Seems that is how mom and dad raised me.

I have always preferred the second fiddle. Even when put in the lead with work, my secret strategy was always to discover someone greater than I, give a nudge, plop some experience down, then run like He** lol and resign. Then look for a second fiddle job. One knows their calling when spoken.

Thank you again, posted and voted.

AFC

tim