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The first man and woman: Adam and.... Lilith?

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Many people know the story of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, as described in Genesis 2 of the Old Testament. In short, it explains that God first created a man from the dust of the ground. But, because the man needed a helper in his job to look after the God's Garden of Eden, God created a woman from the rib of the man. In this story it's clear that Eve is subordinate to her male counterpart. However, according to Jewish legend God created another woman at the same time he created a man. This was a woman who was equal to Adam. Her name was Lilith.

God, Adam and Eve, with Lilith as the serpent.

God, Adam and Eve, with Lilith as the serpent.

Genesis 1 versus Genesis 2

The story of Lilith originated from the fact that there seem to be two different stories of Creation in the Bible and the Jewish Torah. Many believe that these two stories contradict each other. In Genesis 1, God creates both man and woman simultaneously: "God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them." (Genesis 1:27)

Then in the second part of Genesis, a more detailed version of the story is given. The difference is that in this story God first created the man and decided to create the woman later on. "The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” (Genesis 2:18) And so he created Eve out of Adam's rib. This seems a little off, doesn't it? That's exactly what the rabbanic sages thought when trying to explain this passage in midrashim (i.e. interpretations of the Tanakh). And so they figured that there must have been a woman created prior to Eve. But who could that be?

Who is Lilith?

The first reference of Lilith can be found in the Epic of Giglamesh, an epic poem from Mesopotomia (now known as Iraq) around 2000 BC. In this poem Lilith is a demon who lives in the dragon's nest in the Huluppu-Tree. She flees into the wilderness after the dragon is slayed. This first indication doesn't give us much information, other than the fact that she is a demon and has once inhabited a tree.

Other Sumerian and Mesopotomian myths speak of female vampires and night-demons called "lillu" and "lilin". This could be that base of later stories wherein Lilith is portrayed as a seductress of men.

Later she's mentioned four times in the Babylonian Talmud (central text of Judaism), where she's related to the death of baby's, "If an abortion had the likeness of Lilith its mother is unclean by reason of the birth, for it is a child, but it has wings." ( BT Niddah 24b). Also, she's said to be the cause of men's nocturnal emissions. A little more information about her appearance is given, she supposedly has long hair and a pair of wings.

The name of Lilith is only named once in the Bible itself in Isaiah (34:14): "Wildcats shall meet with hyenas, goat-demons shall call to each other; there too Lilith shall repose, and find a place to rest." In the original text Lilith is read as "lilitu", which can be read in various ways. In the Latin Vulgate it is translated into "lamia", a demon from Greek mythology who murdered children. The King James Version translates it into "screech owl" and other versions take the Bablyonian translation of "night".

All these works give us the impression that Lilith is a vicious demon. Beautiful but deadly and responsible for one of the greatest crimes we can think of, killing the innocent. It's not until anywhere between 700 to 1000 A.D. that Lilith is linked to the story of Adam and Eve for the first time.

Lilith as the snake who lures Eve to eat the apple

Lilith as the snake who lures Eve to eat the apple

The Alphabet of Ben Sira

Finally, we get to the work that links Lilith to our Adam and Eve story. The Alphabet of Ben Sira(ch) is a medieval text by an unknown author attributed to Shimon ben Yeshua ben Eliezer ben Sira. The second half of the book consists of 22 stories, one of which gives us a complete tale of Adam and Lilith.

The story starts with a citation of Genesis 2, "While God created Adam, who was alone, He said, 'It is not good for man to be alone' . He also created a woman, from the earth, as He had created Adam himself, and called her Lilith." So in this story God created the woman from the same material as he created the man. Soon after the creation, Lilith and Adam start to fight. Lilith will not lie beneath Adam while they 'make love', because she is made from the same earth and thus equal. She speaks out God's name and flees the Garden.

Adam asks God to send three angels, Senoy, Sansenoy and Semangelof, to bring her back. God agrees, under the condition that if Lilith won't return he will permit one hundred of her children to die every day. The angels find Lilith 'in the midst of the sea, in the mighty waters wherein the Egyptians were destined to drown', which seems to be a reference to the myths of Lilith being a seductress, luring men to their death. Lilith refuses to come back. ""'Leave me!' she said. 'I was created only to cause sickness to infants. If the infant is male, I have dominion over him for eight days after his birth, and if female, for twenty days.'" Because the angels keep insisting her to come back, she promises she will leave alone the infants with amulets bearing the names of the three angels.

The author of this story has woven all myths about Lilith together and used her to 'fill the gap' in the story of Adam and Eve. And so Lilith became the infant-slaying, men-seducing demon who would not bow down to Adam.

Relief from the Old Babylonian period. The depicted figure could be the goddess Ishtar, Mesopotamian goddess of sexual love and war. But the wings on her feet suggest a connection with Lilith.

Relief from the Old Babylonian period. The depicted figure could be the goddess Ishtar, Mesopotamian goddess of sexual love and war. But the wings on her feet suggest a connection with Lilith.

Modern day Lilith

Today there are many adaptations to the story of Lilith. By feminists she is perceived as a role-model for women and a symbol of women's independence, as she stood up to Adam and followed her own plan. She even fled the comfort of her home (the Garden of Eden) and chose the unknown rather than being subordinate to a man. For this reason an independent Jewish feminist magazine has been named after her.

Some say the story of Lilith has been altered by men and Lilith was actually a goddess (linked to the Mesopotamian goddess of love and war).

Others believe that Lilith came back as the serpent that lures Eve to eat the apple. Several depictions of Lilith include a serpent, around her neck or as a part of her body.

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Books about Lilith

Whether you believe Lilith is a demon, slaying children while bearing hundred of them every day and at the same time giving men wet dreams or you believe she is a goddess of love and war, assertive and powerful, is entirely up to you. You might even have your own ideas of her role in the Garden of Eve. One thing is certain, she will surely give you some food for thought.

© 2013 Mirmana

What's your Lilith story?

Gadfly from Olde London Towne on October 31, 2019:

Greetings my little Darklings.

The much maligned Lilith is back. With a vengeance.

Sweet dreams.

Ian Stuart Robertson from London England on July 15, 2019:

I actually like the name Lilith although i'd regard the name Lucifera as having a sinister connetation.

Ian Stuart Robertson from London England on July 03, 2019:

The first Female Supremacist !

Ian Stuart Robertson from London England on July 02, 2019:

What do Women want ?

Power over men !

Tim Truzy from U.S.A. on June 17, 2019:

I really enjoyed this article. I knew a little of the story of Lilith, but this article went into depth and I learned some new things. Well written.

Ian Stuart Robertson from London England on May 17, 2019:

In Gothique fiction the super heroine Vampirella is the supposed daughter of the demoness Lilith.

Elijah A Alexander Jr from Washington DC on May 12, 2019:

Mirmana, Thank you for your research concerning "Lilith", I had heard parts of what you said and find it interesting. However, when one work to make the Bible a complete and endless story, as I have, he following is my findings.

Gen. 1:14 tells us the heavenly bodies are for "signs" (of man's earthly plight like) "seasons, days and years" and add Ecc. 1:9's saying "there is nothing new under the sun" to Rev. 17:8-11 with 11 reading "And the beast 'that was, and is not, even he is the eighth, and is of the seven, and goeth into perdition'." Together they suggests a cycle of events to earth's civilizations like a day with Genesis beginning being the end of Revelation 21's alternative civilization without a sun (v. 23).

Seeing that cycle means the creation's "darkness" without light was just before the first light of the morning and "let there be light" being first light. Then Rev. 15 gives us "...the waters which thou sawest, where the whore sitteth, are peoples, and multitudes, and nations, and tongues" to make the waters above the firmament to be "an all at once rapture" of alternative bodied man (Rev. 21:4) who don't eat what we eat nor give birth since they don't die. That makes chapter 1's making of man to restoring fleshly bodies to man and providing them with reproduction properties to replenished earth with the number raptured.

Comparing the two creations you should see plants were produced on the third day but when Adam was formed there were none which caused me to believe he was a child of the chapter 1's man who is being used to begin this civilization. He was left in a nest by his mother who spoke words to him and nursed him in her alternate body so he couldn't see him until he began to crawl or walk them took him to a wooded area (garden) and instructed him to eat berries, fruit, grains, nuts and berries. As he got older she instructed him to name the animated life she implanted in his mind and instructed him to be objective, meaning don't reject nor be attached to anything. He did those things through adolescence.

When we see Nebuchadnezzar (Dan. 4:33) become as hairy as birds are feathery we must believe Adam was hairy also. So as Adam enter puberty his observing the animals living in groups and mating caused that desire in him. God again discussed with others to make him a help meet -- an equal assistant -- telling Adam about it in a dream that caused him to believe Eve had come of him to make him call her "woven from man" as woman means. He knew of no parents but "we" are told "man leave your father and mother, and cleave unto your spouse: and they each shall become one flesh" as I've paraphrased it.

Once Eve entered puberty her ovulating caused Adam to erect but it didn't extend out of his hairy foreskin like other animals. Not knowing how to mate they were too ashamed to ask the visiting voice, Lilith, how and the rest of the story you know.

Mirmana (author) from AMSTERDAM on May 05, 2019:

Thanks for mentioning! I googled her. :)

Ian Stuart Robertson from London England on April 12, 2019:

Glamorous Hollywood actress Mamie Van Doren portrayed Lilith in a 1950's motion picture.

Ian Stuart Robertson from London England on October 30, 2018:

Had Lilith enslaved Adam, women would now be ruling the world.

Ian Stuart Robertson from London England on August 08, 2018:

Whilst i believe Adam and Eve to symbolise the initial line of descent for we humans, there must have been other people at the time but not necessarily dwelling in the Garden. Perhaps they were on other continents as there is a Lilith type of entity in many cultures.

Mirmana (author) from AMSTERDAM on October 12, 2014:

Thank you RanaKm!

Nard - thank you for your comment. Actually I am not claiming anything. I am merely gathering stories about Lilith. You may use this information in whatever way you like. I personally am interested in what's behind a story rather than wondering if it's true or not.

Nard on September 12, 2014:

This Lilith story is not true. Why does the BIBLE not mention any of what you are claiming. The Bible mentions nothing about creating a woman from dust that's equal to Adam. This is a story made up by Winona Luv groups.

RanaKm on August 20, 2014:

Interesting topic! I wonder where you get your detailed info from :O Just impressive! Voted up, interesting and awesome! :) :3

Beth Perry from Tennesee on August 02, 2014:

You have some good info here, and have put the article together in a very interesting way!

I think Lilith is indeed Ishtar, and the pettiness of man -and feminists, too- is revealed in the corruption of Her true status.

Quite enjoyed and voting up.

Rick Floyd on July 12, 2014:

Adam is the first man and Eve is the mother of all living.(lilith is a lie from satan) don't believe it.

bird on December 20, 2013:

There is a romance to the story. Wonder how much it relates to the way women are treated by different religious regions of the world. Sounds like a lot.

Mirmana (author) from AMSTERDAM on August 27, 2013:

Wish-list-gifts, I believe there are always multiple sides to a story. Thank you for your comment!

Silva Hayes from Spicewood, Texas on August 24, 2013:

Stories about Lilith have always fascinated me. Good article.

Clara Myers from USA on August 24, 2013:

I always hear negatives about Lilith so glad to heard there are people taking a 2nd look at what she represents.

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