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Romance, Relationship and Marriage Life: The Feng Shui Way

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Romance-the sweetest feeling

Romance-the sweetest feeling

In the present age, problems between couples and the resultant divorce rates are high. The Feng shui has a certain solution for the problem. It has been proven very effective in many cases. Some practice we need to follow and some to avoid in married life for a good and long lasting relationship. I shall give you some tips on this aspect. Apart from adjustment and compromise, you have to observe these rules for a healthy, romantic and enviable relationship.

  • Avoid sleeping on double bed with two separate mattresses

Sleeping on double bed using two separate mattresses will cause separation. So avoid separate mattress. Always use a single piece bed or mattress. But sleeping on the separate single bed is not bad.

  • Never keep Aquarium in Bedroom

Keeping water presence in the bedroom is not good according to Feng Shui. So avoid placing aquarium or fish tank in the bedroom. The scenery of Beaches, Waterfall, and pictures carrying waters are to place out of the bedroom. The water features affect the relationship between married couples badly. So at any cost, it has to be avoided.

Mandarin Ducks

Mandarin Ducks

  • Love Birds/Mandarin Ducks for Romance

In Feng Shui, Mandarin Ducks are related to love and romance in couples. It has to be placed in the South West corner of the house or that of the bedroom. This area is considered as the place for romance and relationship.

In case you are going to marry, you can hang paintings of these ducks. But keep in mind to put a pair, not one or three. The reason attributed for the same is that one means to remain single and three will imply that there will be an entry of third one in the marriage.

The Love Birds

The Love Birds

Like Mandarin Ducks, Love Birds also help. It can be displayed as a picture or a painting. But don't exhibit birds in cages. It is bad in Feng Shui as it symbolizes inability to fly or 'caged' ambition. Also, note that by looking at the picture of the beautiful and colorful lovebirds you feel a kind of romance. It brings you the memory of your loved ones instantly!

Peony Flowers

Peony Flowers

  • Peony Flowers

Flowers have a significant role in Feng Shui application for enhancing certain sectors in the house. The Peony flowers are associated with women. In case there are some girls in our home and they remain unmarried, then Feng Shui has some solution. Hang a big picture of Peonies in the living room. It will be very effective as it is related to marriage luck. Real flowers can also be used if you could collect them. It should be kept in the South West corner of the living room. Putting the pictures of Peony outside the bedroom door will help a girl to find a good husband. The best place to hang a Peony painting is the living room. This will activate the romance luck.

More tips-A useful article on the same topic by Anamika.S.

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  • Eating together daily

The families should take care of having at least one meal together. Fix up a time and all family members sit together at the dining table. This practice will enhance the relationship. If possible whenever convenient, try to sit and dine together.



  • Chandeliers in South-West

The earth element is attached to the marriage and relationship aspect of life. Its area is a South-west corner. So if you have a drawing room at this side, just take advantage by installing a lead Crystal Chandeliers here. Please keep it ON for a few hours, say 2 or 3 hours, every evening. This will enhance the earth element largely and is good for harmonizing relationship among family members. It will also boost up the marital scope of unmarried family members.

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Sunil Kumar Kunnoth (author) from Calicut (Kozhikode, South India) on March 27, 2017:

Hello Chitraji, Thank you so much for stopping by and leaving some comments. FEng Shui, as you know is so helping and a sort of science. Your words are encouraging. Keep on reading and writing. All the best.

Chitrangada Sharan from New Delhi, India on March 26, 2017:

Interesting and informative article about Feng shui . You seem to have a good understanding of Feng Shui. I have read other hubs by you on the same topic.

I have certain items related to Fen shui in my home and I do believe in their positive effects.

Thanks for sharing!

Joan A on March 16, 2014:

This is my favorite Feng Shui site for enhancing relationship and marriage!

Anonymous on December 24, 2013:

I believe in online dating

I have found my soulmate here

Sunil Kumar Kunnoth (author) from Calicut (Kozhikode, South India) on December 10, 2013:

hema rawat

Happy to know you wish to try these tips. Best of luck.

hema rawat from uttrakhand on October 27, 2013:

i want to try it to solve my prblms...

Deborah Demander from First Wyoming, then THE WORLD on April 28, 2012:

Thanks for the suggestions. I have always been interested in Feng Shui, but I never thought to apply it to my marriage.


julie on April 28, 2012:

Did u ever tried all these,it is very interesting

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