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How to Feng Shui your Bedroom for Romance and Love luck in Relationships?

Anamika S Jain is a social media consultant and blogger. She is passionate about topics like astrology, numerology, feng shui and gemstones.

Feng Shui Bedroom for Couples to increase Romance and Love

According to Feng Shui, the position of the Bedroom and the placement of furniture and other articles are important for having a good married life. As per experts, a Couples Bedroom can make or break a relationship. Many times relationship problems can happen between couples due to bad feng shui. However, by following the Feng Shui principles it is possible to attract great romance luck and bring your personal romance to a higher stage. You can also FengShui your bedroom to attract or keep the love of your life.

If you are looking to prepare your bedroom for romance, given below are tips you can use.

Feng Shui for Romance - Making changes in the Couples Bedroom can attract Love Luck

Feng Shui for Romance - Making changes in the Couples Bedroom can attract Love Luck

Feng Shui Tips for Romance

Given below are 16 Feng Shui Tips for Couples to improve their love life.

  1. Keep the Bedroom clean especially the south west area. Make sure the bedroom has good ventilation and lighting. Open the windows often and use good air purifiers in the room.
  2. Color is a very important part of Feng Shui. Try splashing some pink or even a light red on the walls. Decorations can be used in pink, yellow or brown which are colors known to attract and improve love and relations.
  3. The Southwest corner of your home is the corner that governs the luck of love, romance and relationships. Natural crystals are especially effective for energizing the Southwest corner of your home. Place a crystal on the Southwest corner of your living room or bedroom to activate and enhance your romance luck. You can keep cream colored ceramic vase with artificial yellow flowers in this area too.
  4. Do not buy or use used mattresses in the bed as you never know what energy they have accumulated from previous owners. Also do not use two separate mattresses in the bed.
  5. Do not place the bed under a sloped ceiling. Beds with built-in storage drawers underneath are considered bad in Feng shui. Bed also should not be placed in line with any doors of the room. In addition to a good headboard make sure to have a good supporting wall behind your bed. The Bed should be accessed from both sides. It is also advisable not to sleep under the window. Placing nightstands on both sides of the bed is a good idea as long as it does not have pointed edges. A chandelier above your bed also is bad Feng Shui. Also make sure you do not have furniture with sharp ends pointing towards the bed even if it is in the farthest corner of the room. Also make sure to keep all doors in the bedroom closed at night.
  6. Clear the Clutter in the Bedroom and especially under the Bed as this can be a real relationship breaker.
  7. Mirrors facing the bed or on the ceiling is considered bad in Feng Shui. So keep the mirrors out of the bedroom if possible or keep it covered when not in use.
  8. Pink is the Feng Shui color of Love and Romance Luck. Wearing pink colored clothes or keeping pink flowers or pink pillows in the room helps to activate your romance luck.
  9. Peony Flowers Painting in the Living room is huge Romance enhancer and if you are single you may even find someone who is willing to settle down with you.
  10. Are you someone who need to recover from a break up then the first thing you need to throw away is all the clutter of the old relationships like photographs, mementos or anything reminding of the previous relationship. Removing old relationship energy also means that you have to throw away the love letters or the old sheets which you used. If you want to attract a new romantic partner you need to give up the old and make sure to make space for the new person in your home.
  11. Keep the Television out of your Bedroom. Let your Bedroom not be your TV room. Still if you want it, keep it covered when not in use. Television sets should not face the bed directly.
  12. Make sure that all objects located there should be in good condition. If a thing is broken or damaged remove it as soon as possible as broken things indicate break relations. If it is possible to repair it you may repair it as well.
  13. Keep a romantic and happy picture of you as a couple in the south west corner of the room. You may also put paintings or pictures of a pair of love birds or keep a pair of mandarin ducks in the room. Make sure not to use pictures represents solitude, loneliness, aggression, hard work, conflict, war, disagreement etc. Traditional romantic symbols such as hearts, cupids and pictures of happy couples always work well. If you are looking for your pair, make sure you have pairs in your bedroom even if it is candles or pillows or nightstands.
  14. Do not work or work out in the Bedroom. It is also not a good idea to store your equipments in the bedroom.
  15. If you have a bathroom attached to your bedroom, make sure that you close the door to the bathroom at all times.
  16. Do not keep plants or Aquarium in the Bedroom.

Although following these simple tips can help to Feng Shui your Bedroom for Romance and improve Love Luck and Relationships, it is advisable you consult an Expert for better results.


© 2009 Anamika S Jain


jonathan tang on January 03, 2013:

Hi Anamika, Do I had to throw away the old mandarin duck and buy a new one, if I reuse the old mandarin duck do the same old girl will come back to my life again?

anjalibpillai on August 22, 2012:

Is it ok to keep our photo as a couple in the bedroom at the dressing table which is at the western wall of our bedroom.

sorhe benson on February 05, 2012:

thanks for the great tips i now know what to do about my bedroom and send for me the pictures

StephenSMcmillan on July 31, 2011:

Very useful ideas here! Thanks for sharing.

Anamika S Jain (author) from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India on July 18, 2011:

It is also advisable not to sleep under the window. But it is okay to have a window view from your bed.

Maya on July 17, 2011:

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Is it ok to have my bed facing the window?

myi4u from United Kingdom on June 27, 2011:

Nice hub! Feng shui is one of those things where you won't believe it until you benefit from it or you have had something bad happened to you. I once rented a room and I have to say, the room's feng shui was so bad that I didn't realise until I moved in.

First, my bed was positioned behind a toilet (my room was next to the toilet) and under a beam. Soon after I moved in, I started having nightmares. Out of curiosity, I checked the internet for bedroom feng shui and unsurprisingly, my bed was positioned in the worst possible way. Believe it or not, as soon as I positioned my bed away from the beam and not directly behind the toilet, I started having some good night's sleep.

vrajavala from Port St. Lucie on January 23, 2011:

thanks for this.

Anamika S Jain (author) from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India on January 07, 2011:

@LillyGrillzit Thanks for the visit

@shanile Mirror is water element and also it doubles what you see which can mean that another person will appear in your life or in the life of your partner. Mirrors also attract negative energies which can lead to sleeplessness or restlessness during sleep.The TV screen acts like a mirror and so you should avoid it too in your Bedroom. Also even if you do not consider Feng Shui... it goes without saying that TV can not only affect sleep it can affect your love life too!

shanile on January 07, 2011:

tip are very helpful in decorating my bedroom,but there is a question,why there should not be a TV and mirror in bedroom?

Lori J Latimer from Central Oregon on September 29, 2010:

I must change many things. Thank you for this beautiful Hub!

Anamika S Jain (author) from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India on April 02, 2010:

Thanks for tha appreciation RackyB and Money Glitch. I am sorry to hear about your relationship. Yes, as you have already realised a water element is not very suitable for a bedroom among other things. I hope you would clear the relationship clutter and move forward in life.

nicole86 on April 02, 2010:

i had an aquarium in my bedroom for a long time!! it ruined my relationship;

and everything bad is in my bedroom!!

Racquel Reid Wright from The Treasure Coast on February 25, 2010:

Thinking about painting my bedroom. Thanks for the tips Anamika...I'll send you the pics :)

Money Glitch from Texas on January 02, 2010:

You have some very good feng shui tips here. Many I was already familiar with, however, I see that I will have to add some pink to my bedroom décor and make a few more changes. Thanks for sharing.:)

Anamika S Jain (author) from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India on November 04, 2009:

Thanks for the visit and encouragement ratnaveera and Illinois Health.

Illinois Health from Illinois on November 03, 2009:

awesome tips. I'm going make some changes today

ratnaveera from Cumbum on November 03, 2009:

Thanks for great tips to get different bedroom which may give different experience in our life.

Anamika S Jain (author) from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India on October 29, 2009:

Encore : I am happy that you found the article helpful. Thanks for the Visit.

Encore on October 28, 2009:

Thia has been an interesting piece of information.Thankyou

Anamika S Jain (author) from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India on October 25, 2009:

mulbery1 : That's nice and not bad.

judydianne and anuj : Thanks for the appreciation.

Anuj Agarwal from Noida on October 25, 2009:

Thanks Anamika for the reply, I think my room need some changes. There is a calendar of God near to my bed (facing), and open mandir.

judydianne from Palm Harbor, FL on October 25, 2009:

These are nice tips for romanticizing my bedroom. I have everything wrong. Thanks!

Christine Mulberry on October 25, 2009:

Well, overall I guess my bedroom's in good shape. I don't have any peonies but it sounds like a great idea and I have lavendar instead of pink or red...not sure how bad that is?

Anamika S Jain (author) from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India on October 24, 2009:

Anuj : I would suggest you not to unless you are keeping it in closed cupboard or mandir with doors when not in use. Many like the Picture of the Mahabharata Scene where Krishna advices Arjuna but as the picture is indicative of war it is better not to hang such picture or painting in the house. Calender behind the door is also not advised.

Anuj Agarwal from Noida on October 24, 2009:

Anamika, I would like to one thing, can we have a statue of God or a poster in bedroom.

Anamika S Jain (author) from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India on October 24, 2009:

stricktlydating : Thanks for giving a nice question to answer. I have listed several points many couples ignore when preparing the bedroom for Romance.

anujagarwal : Thanks for the visit.

StrictlyQuotes from Australia on October 24, 2009:

G'day Anamika S, thankyou kindly for answering my question. Now I have all I need to know to Feng Shui my bedroom for romance! Wonderful! Thanks again!

Anuj Agarwal from Noida on October 24, 2009:

Thanks Anamika for sharing these wonderful tips.

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