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Defeating Our Human Nature (Part 5. Lasciviousness - Runaway Lust)


Although this article is part of a series, it is a complete study on its own. (5 of 18 in series)

* all [bracketed] words in Scripture quotes are mine *

"He has shown you, O man, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you but to do justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly before your God?" (Micah 6:8)

"I say then: Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh...

...For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. But if ye be of led the Spirit, ye are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such things there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with its affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.

Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another." (Galatians 5:16-26)

Welcome Back To Our Series On Defeating Our Human Nature...

The toon embodiment of Lasciviousness, Glen Quagmire. He makes it easy to laugh at sin... but take a step back and look.

The toon embodiment of Lasciviousness, Glen Quagmire. He makes it easy to laugh at sin... but take a step back and look.

I guess I have to start off this article by saying that I love life. I love all that the good Lord has given me. I experience life as does everyone, with their senses. If I prick or cut my finger, I react with the appropriate action that confirms I am alive. A rose's scent, a summer breeze, a cool drink on a hot day is all perceived in the senses as pleasurable and incalculable in value. I sense and feel and appreciate beauty. All of this I have in common with all people that are alive and allow their senses to communicate the beauty of life to them. Yet the flesh wants more, my flesh wants more. While my head is saying what I know God in His Bible has said, my flesh is standing firm in the decision to get more at any cost, to the detriment of my body, my mind, my overall happiness, my goals.

In part one, we started this series on exposing and defeating the flesh and the way works of the flesh manifest themselves in our lives. In part two. we spoke of the devastating effects of adultery on couples, on individuals, and on the spiritual significance of marriage. In part three, we touched on the fleshly work of fornication and warned of the insidiousness of its allure. In part four, we covered uncleanness and how easy it is to immerse ourselves in overloading our senses, defiling ourselves, a statement of defiance to God.

In this installment of our series, we will speak of the work of the flesh called lasciviousness...

What is conveyed in the eyes of this handsome man's picture?

What is conveyed in the eyes of this handsome man's picture?

The flesh, our bodies that contain our sinful nature passed down through the generations, is a force that is unstoppable. We can hinder it, we can momentarily slow it, we can redirect it for an instant, but in the end, it will win- unless we have help to defeat its destructive force in our lives. Lasciviousness is woven into the fabric of every society in every corner of the world. Even in places where one may think people have more control of their inner selves, it is ever present.

We chuckle at the guy with the off-color jokes. We laugh at sound bytes of Glen Quagmire on Family Guy. Why? because we all identify with him. We all have one of those guys (or girls) within us. You know the kind of folks I'm talking about don't you? The guy who tries to make people blush, to break people out of their shell, to loosen people up so they can have fun. He seems so innocent, so harmless. People want to be like him and aspire to have that same affect on people. He is the "Quagmire" of the party... "All-Right!"

The fun is there because we all are sinners. We love the guy because we see ourselves in him. A part of us wishes we didn't have the inhibitions that keep us back so that we could indulge that part of us that he represents. So some of us drink, some of us loosen up with easy drugs, "just to take the edge off." What really is happening is that the square corners of restraint are rounded. There are rules that need to be broken to have fun and now I can ignore the hindrances that would be there if totally sober.

Ah now, there we go... Now let's hunt down the best looking girl in the room and let our stare linger a second of two longer than it should. Then we can go over to the other loosened-up buddies in the room and be a tad louder and a little more riotous so everyone knows we are having fun, meaning that the whole room will soon start groovin'. Now comes the off-color jokes, the racy stories, the atmosphere of the forbidden. We are getting some give-and-take in the flirting. Then comes the pairing off of couples some of which will slip out quietly and will not be seen again. This is part of the "night life" the "party atmosphere" and this is how people have fun, isn't it?

What about the person that has no desire for the night life? Where is their "inner Quagmire?" It's there. It just is content to remain mostly in their minds. As the girl pretty (or not so pretty) walks by this is the guy or girl that smiles and says "hello" all "innocent-like." But the eyes betray him. He follows the form of the person as it walks away and dwells on the physicality of the movement. He does not stop the improper thoughts until that mental image is where he needs it to be in his mind to satisfy his lust. This lascivious person (which person we all have within us) is secretive and many would simply die of embarrassment should that secret be made public, but God sees everything.

That's it, no one is looking...

That's it, no one is looking...

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Nice, now give me a little more...

Nice, now give me a little more...

As we have covered in other of this series, the mind is the birthplace of sin. As the flesh witnesses the thing that it perceives and treat as temptation and longs for it, the mind reaches out and grabs it. After all, one may think, who sees what a person thinks in his mind? Even the most repressed or squeaky clean individual uses their mind to twist innocent things into evil contorted forms of blasphemy.

Lasciviousness is essentially lewdness, anything that works against chasteness, and purity. The apostle Paul referred to this as a work of the flesh. It is not only something that the flesh desires but is somewhere the flesh wishes to remain. It, as well as all of the works of the flesh, can become a lifestyle. The word Paul used in the Galatians text is aselgeia (as-elg'-i-a) and means, "licentiousness, filthiness, wantonness, lacking moral restraint, having no regard for safeguards, incontinent." Jesus used this word in Mark 7, where He said that it is what comes out of the heart (the sinful seat of motivation in the mind) that defiles a man. The word is also used by Paul again in Ephesians where he states that this fleshly tendency becomes a place where the mind stays and that the person "gives themselves over to it" so that it becomes a stronghold and a trap for that person.

"And He [Jesus] said, "What comes out of a man, that defiles a man. For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lewdness [lasciviousness in KJV], an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within and defile a man." (Mark 7:20-23)

"This I say therefore, and testify in the Lord, that you should no longer walk as the rest of the Gentiles walk, in the futility of their mind, having their understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God [their spirit is not connected to God but separated, essentially dead], because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart; who, being past feeling, having given themselves over to lewdness [lasciviousness], to work uncleanness with greediness." (Ephesians 4:17-19)

Because the apostles and Christianity's origin is with the Jews, it has always been my custom to try to find the Hebrew counterpart for the Greek words to give depth as to the origin of a concept or word I am defining. But in this case, I could not find a corresponding Hebrew equivalent to lasciviousness. I did find one which encompasses the meaning very well and I include that word here. This word is used in Exodus 32 to describe the Israelites as they rebelled against God while Moses was on the mount receiving the Law written by the finger of God. The word is tsachaq (tsaw-khak') and is translated into the English word "play." It was said that while Moses delayed in coming down, the children of Israel "rose up to play." It means "to laugh outright in merriment or scorn, to mock with strong overtones of improper sexuality, to play sexual (games) for fun." The word was used again in Deuteronomy 22 to describe the actions of one caught in adultery when they "play the harlot."

"Now when the people saw that Moses delayed coming down from the mountain, the people gathered together to Aaron, and said to him, 'Come, make us gods that shall go before us; as for this Moses, the man who brought us up out of the land of Egypt, we do not know what has become of him.' And Aaron said to them, 'Break off the golden earrings which are in the ears of your wives, your sons, and your daughters, and bring them to me.' So all the people broke off the golden earrings which were in their ears, and brought them to Aaron. And he received the gold from their hand, and he fashioned it with an engraving tool, and made a molded calf. And then they said, 'This is your god, O Israel, that brought you out of the land of Egypt.!' So when Aaron saw it, he built an alter before it. And Aaron made a proclamation and said, 'Tomorrow is a feast to the LORD.' Then they rose up early on the next day, offered burnt offerings, and brought peace offerings; and people sat down to eat and drink, and rose up to play." (Exodus 32:1-6)

"Then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done a disgraceful thing in Israel, to play [tsachaq] the harlot in her father's house. So you shall put away evil from among you." (Deuteronomy 22:21)

Paul also connected this term "play" and its evil lusts to the idea that this type of lascivious lewdness is a form of idolatry. For one's own thoughts and fleshly desires are given more credence than is the will of God, which says to run from all sorts of lustful uncleanness.

"Flee also youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord with a pure heart." (2 Timothy 2:22)

"But with most of them ] God was not well pleased, for their bodies are scattered in the wilderness. Now these things became our examples [we Christians are to look at Israel as our own history from which to learn], to the intent that we should not lust after evil things as they also lusted. And do not become idolaters as were some of them. As it is written, 'The people sat down to eat and drink, and rose up to play.'" (1 Corinthians 10:5-7)

Essentially, lasciviousness begins when the mind drifts into the world of the make-believe. In this land, a person can seemingly do anything he wishes, to whomever he wishes, without restraint or consequence. The mental images chain one to another and go as far as the imagination of the individual can go. Also, there are such things as demons and Satanic influence, which can influence this fertile ground of the sinner's mind to grow all kinds of perverse things. Who can it hurt? After all, it is all in the mind, right? Have you ever allowed your mind to drift and the thoughts went to things so shocking that you were afraid of your own thoughts? No, you say? Liar, I say! I have, and everyone has if they tell the truth. This evil is evidence of both our own sin nature and of spirit influences that can (and will) give us input should we provide enough "mind rope" to hang ourselves. Yet psychologists today advocate a strong sexual fantasy life (lasciviousness), a dangerous bit of advice to give to people who are in their care for some kind of mental problem to start with and with their help may just be able to fine-tune their "fantasies" into some stronghold that may take them to their own demise.




From proper directed sexual thought to a sexual mindset run amok.

From proper directed sexual thought to a sexual mindset run amok.

The world stands in sin and one of the best ways to see the differences between a godly heart and one that beats without God's indwelling presence, is in the thoughts that are allowed, and that linger, and that are acted upon in the mind.

"For as he thinks in his heart, so is he. 'Eat and drink!' he says to you, but his heart is not with you." (Proverbs 23:7)

The world takes no thought of God. To the world, God is more of an overshadowing concept than a reality. To think on Him too long may change behavior enough to make one seem like a prude and no fun to be around. God is seen as a "cosmic kill-joy," so that to obey God means they will not have any fun or happiness in their lives. But God says for us to always keep our minds set on Him and the words He says.

"For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ." (2 Corinthians 10:4-5)

The world sees no problem with each person having a dark side, a place in their minds where they can go to play that is private and contains anything that individual wishes it to contain. The words, "naughty," "rebel," even "dangerous" cause many to have an adrenaline rush because of fleshly images that come to mind. They condemn anyone that would tell them that it is dangerous to think on these things, or wrong, based on God's word. They call those who would dare to condemn sins of the mind (or body, for that matter) bigots or judgmental. Yet, God says for us to keep our minds upon things that originate from God and to flee from thoughts and actions that feed the flesh.

"Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue, if there is anything praiseworthy - meditate on these things. (Philippians 4:8)

Lasciviousness is wrong... and it is a sin that each of us will indulge in if we are not careful. It happens in an instant. One innocent moment of drifting thought and a man's mental eyes are following a pair bouncing breasts into sin. One dream-filled moment and a broad-chested young pool boy can sweep a woman off her feet. It only takes a second. Images come at us all the time through the eye-gate of information. It can be someone on television that is only is an image fed into the mind via the airwaves, or it can be the next door neighbor, or anyone, or anything. The mind cares not for propriety, or rules. It will dream up perverseness in an instant of time.

So, how do we guard ourselves from lasciviousness? The first thing I would say is to believe the opposite of what is popularly taught and thought of as "healthy" and "acceptable" and you will be starting on the right track!

First, know that your mind is not just a bunch of electric impulses produced by the large organ in your head. The mind is not a place where you have complete control and freedom. Your mind is a tool that can be used by God for good purposes or used of Satan to hurt you and others. It is not easily controlled, but it is easily influenced. The fact is, a healthy mind is still sick because of sin. Sin enables the best of God's children to think the most twisted things, do the most heinous acts if they allow the wrong influences for long enough. It all begins in the mind. Remember Jesus said that "out of the heart," the seat of motivation in the mind, come all the things "that defile a man." (Mark. 7:20)

Secondly, it does matter what goes through your mind and what you think. Thoughts are not just bits of energy that we aim out into the cosmos and don't count for anything once they are gone. Thoughts never go away. We will be accountable for every thought we think, where our minds have gone, and what sins we committed there, even on a mental level. There is no such thing as a fantasy life where you can think of anything you please.

"For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. A good man out of the good treasures of his heart brings forth good things, and an evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth evil things. But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak they will give account of it in the day of judgment." (Matthew 12:34b-36)

"So then each of us shall give an account of himself to God." (Romans 14:12)

Thirdly, it does not work to "try not to think" of something sinful. The only way not to sin with one's mind is to fill it with good things on which to think. Too many times people that try to be good, end up banging their heads on the wall because they can't stop thinking about something the flesh desires, that they know is evil. So the only way to stop this runaway mental train is to make the train "jump the track." Instead of trying to stop it (which is impossible), change its course, think about God, fill your head with His words and with thoughts directed at Him in constant prayer. Do not give your mind a chance speed away from you, (or to even to float downstream for that matter), for there are rapids and a waterfall ahead. I would say that in my personal life, drifting thought is the most dangerous thing I face. If I do not fill my mind, at all times, with things worthy of thought, my flesh will give me things to think. It will create a sinful world in which my thoughts will play, in but a moment's time. The single greatest thing you can do to guard against sin is to guard your thoughts by keeping them busy with Jesus always on your mind.

"Pray without ceasing." (1 Thesolonians 5:17)

"But his delight is in the law of the LORD, and in His law he meditates day and night." (Psalm 1:2)

"You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all you soul, with all your strength. And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates." (Deuteronomy 6:5-9)

I don't know about you, but it bothers me to know that God hears every idle thought, every lascivious moment. I know that as a redeemed man, my sins are forgiven, past present and future, but it still makes my face red knowing the thoughts that flit in and out of my mind as I try to keep my mind constantly on Christ. I do my best but I am a sinner and I have to confess and readjust my thoughts on a regular basis to keep my fellowship sweet with God. I don't want to be ashamed because I am in the midst of something lascivious when Jesus comes in the clouds to receive me into glory. I know how far the Lord has brought me. My family and closest friends know. Yet in a moment's time my mind would return to the filth from which God pulled me. I must be ever mindful of the potential of sin and keep my mind on things above. I urge all my readers to do the same. May God bless your efforts to keep you safe from sin.

"Therefore, let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall." (1 Corinthians 10:12)

"And now, little children, abide in Him, that when He appears, we may have confidence and not be ashamed before Him at His coming." (1 John 2:28)


I wonder about the people that feel that they are in chains of bondage to their own minds right now. They know they think evil, lascivious thoughts. Many people are doing what I described earlier and banging their heads against a wall because their minds will not stop thinking bad things that make them ashamed or even scared. If you are one of those people, Jesus wants to help you. He wants to break the chains of shame off of you so you can have freedom from sin that robs you of joy and leaves a big hole in your soul. But Jesus will not simply take over your mind. He created you but you are not like a clay pot where the potter can simply poke a hole in it or cut out an undesirable piece. Instead, God treats His creation with dignity and requires a request from you before He will come in to change you from the inside. He will never simply control your mind but will reason with you to help you to see truth. He'll only come in as you allow Him in. It's not hard to ask Him into your life but you cannot ask Him and expect to keep your life exactly as it is. You must cry out to Him with a heart broken over the sin that you see in it. You must be willing to turn from your sin and follow Christ. If this is you, I'll tell you of the belief required to ask God in.

"Now after John [John the baptizer] was put in prison, Jesus came to Galilee, preaching the gospel of the kingdom of God, and saying, 'The time is fulfilled and the kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the gospel." (Mark 1:15)

"And he brought them out and said, 'Sirs, what must I do to be saved?' So they said, 'Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household.'" (Acts 16:30-31)

First of all, you must believe God is or you can't ask Him to change your heart. You must believe that Jesus is God in human flesh who came to die for your sin and that he spent three days in the tomb and then rose from the dead. This is the Gospel. Do you believe this? Good.

"For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Jesus Christ our Lord." (Romans 6:23)

"For I delivered to you first of all that which I also received: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, and that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day according to the Scriptures." (1 Corinthians 15:3-4)

If you believe and want to ask Jesus into your heart simply pray this:

Dear Lord Jesus, I cry out to You because I feel in bondage to the sin within me. I know if I died in my sins now, I will go to hell. Please forgive me of my sin and save me. I believe that You died for me and was buried for me and rose from the dead for me. I repent, I turn from my way of life and I promise to follow You, Jesus, for the rest of my life. You are the only way of salvation. I thank You for this wonderful gift of life. I pray this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the LORD. Amen.

Others in this series of independent articles:

Defeating Our Human Nature (Part 1. The Fruit Of The Spirit vs. Works Of The Flesh)

Defeating Our Human Nature (Part 2. Adultery - Betrayal On Every Level)

Defeating Our Human Nature (Part 3. Fornication - Destroy Your Own Flesh)

Defeating Our Human Nature (Part 4. Uncleanness - Washing Our Feet)

Defeating Our Human Nature (Part 6. Idolatry - Creating Your Own God)

Defeating Our Human Nature (Part 7. Witchcraft - Serious Rebellion)

Defeating Our Human Nature (Part 8. Hatred - A Deadly Poison)

Defeating Our Human Nature (Part 9. Variance - Let's Play "Devil's Advocate")

Defeating Our Human Nature (Part 10. Emulations - "I Must Have What You Have!")


Robert E Smith (author) from Rochester, New York on September 17, 2015:

Thank you Athanasios Rapanos. Amen. Jesus is all of that to us. God bless. Bob.

Athanasios Rapanos on September 16, 2015:

Faith,Hope,Love. Jesus Christ, the Saviour.

Robert E Smith (author) from Rochester, New York on April 23, 2015:

You are a faithful friend DeBbie (ha, I can call you that!) Love you and I hear the caring in your "voice." I know older men in the Lord that tell me that it never really gets any easier, where the sins that so easily beset do not beset anymore. Take care we stand lest we fall. So I just shared a weakness of mine with you and know that your faithfulness will cause you to pray for me as I do you. Love you Much in Christ. Bob.

Elder DeBorrah K Ogans on April 22, 2015:

Nobody, ALWAYS remember that you are somebody in the LORD! The enemy wants you to feel less than... Sometimes you just have to observe the thoughts that cross your mind without your permission. It is exercising the self- control and not acting upon them that matters.

Our LORD gives you the VICTORY! Confession is GOOD for the soul! You are covered by the BLOOD of JESUS and we continually need to bath in HIS WORD for spiritual cleansing. REMEMBER "What can wash away my sin. nothing but the BLOOD of JESUS. Sinners practice sin You/ We are children of The MOST HIGH GOD! Without HIM we are nothing but by HIS GRACE we are SAVED; from the power of sin ruling our lives!

In HIM "We are More than conquerors." Finally my brother:" Whatever is true, Whatever is Noble, Whatever is Right, Whatever is Pure, Whatever if Lovely, Whatever is Admirable ~ anything is EXCELLENT or PRAISEWORTHY ~ think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me ~ put it into practice. And The GOD of PEACE WILL be with you.~ Sending this with a PRAYER . May our LORD fill you with HIS PEACE In HIS in JESUS NAME . In HS Love, Grace & Mercy! Be encouraged! & LORD BLESS YOU TODAY & ALWAYS!

Robert E Smith (author) from Rochester, New York on April 21, 2015:

Hi DeB. I love it when you comment on things. I learn even more from your comments then I had thought about before. Thank you for the vote up. I personally am on vigilant guard at all times. Satan will get present something before me and I must be on guard to thrust it away from me immediately and then to immediately turn my thoughts to God. If I don't I will be plagued the whole day with images that are more and more tempting to me. There have been days I have been in what actually feels like pain and then I all of a sudden remember that God always makes a way out from temptation. I take that way and wonder why I allowed it to get so bad I felt pain. Sinners can be so stupid sometimes. Love you sister in Christ. Bob.

Elder DeBorrah K Ogans on April 20, 2015:

Bob it has been a while. This is a great article and it provokes much thought! You have made many interesting points. Yes we are supposed to be "on" at all times!

We are living in such interesting times when just about anything goes... But many do not realize or actually believe that the world has been here before. This is why the great flood and the many lives lost at Sodom & Gomorrah. Everyone did "what was right in their own eyes!" LORD HELP US!

Our Lord is, "The Most High God" and He has given us spiritual & moral boundaries to keep us safe. However the Spiritual Warfare continues to gray those boundaries so they are no longer clear! Since GOD crated us HE really does knows what is best for us.

As you so marvelously stated: "Jesus wants to help you. He wants to break the chains of shame off of you so you can have freedom from sin that robs you of joy and leaves a big hole in your soul. But Jesus will not simply take over your mind. He created you but you are not like a clay pot where the potter can simply poke a hole in it or cut out an undesirable piece. Instead, God treats His creation with dignity and requires a request from you before He will come in to change you from the inside." AMEN!

Truly GOD IS ABLE! But He does not force HIS WAY into our lives. HE LOVES us enough to allow us ALL to choose HIS WAY above the ways of the world.

Thank You for sharing, In HIS Love, Grace, Joy, Peace & Blessings always! Voted up!

Robert E Smith (author) from Rochester, New York on March 07, 2015:

Preach it Amy! Amen. I personally think for some people this is a "gateway sin" like some drugs are "gateway drugs" for some people. I think that going with the lascivious flow and you get in a rhythm of people's interaction and sin just doesn't seem as bad as it is or as bad as the results will be. So from the positive reaction to our dirty joke then joining them for a drink or to watch some soft porn just doesn't seem all that bad. And maybe for some people it isn't but for ME it is. And then when I am by myself I would continue and be totally immersed in sin for a day or two or until God hits me in the head and kicks my butt at the same time. And I "wake up" and find myself in a situation I swore I would never get in again.

Amy Casale Choisser from Melbourne Fl on March 07, 2015:

Totally agree, and again a reminder I think most of us can relate. We are to be "on" at all times. This is something I,too, have had to realize over the years. Even if you think you are funny or maverick, we still need to take ownership of what comes out of our mouths.

Robert E Smith (author) from Rochester, New York on March 05, 2015:

Amy, my comment to you was after I had read another hub and reviewed one of mine called, "Whose Thoughts Are You Thinking Anyway?" But after I realized from where you were speaking, I decided to add this to our discussion. I find Lasciviousness is where many people Christian and non-Christian find "fun" to play in. The little off-color jokes that allude to more than a little thought in areas of deep sin or the crass speech that gives people a little jolt because of its boldness in the face of propriety, these are the things that people feel are the life of the party, the fun people to be around. If a person's eyes are not focused on Jesus or for a brief moment are distracted because of the lightness of a moment, things can go bad real quick. I have a "for instance." I have this friend that I can't help but think is funny. He has made me laugh for years and since my retirement, I seldom see him to talk or to joke around with. So one day we got together to have fun. I was transported back to a time with him that we would laugh and have fun constantly. Suddenly, in the midst of saying goodbye to him after our day was over, the Holy Spirit stabbed my heart. I realized where our conversation had gone, what we laughed at, and how sinful the topics were and I was cut to the heart. My friend is not saved and I called him back and asked for his forgiveness because I was not showing him Christ or acting like I should have. He really didn't grasp what I was saying. We simply had done what we had always done all those years ago. We played in the verbal off-color area on the edges of uncleanness. I have remembered that call back to him very often since. It was an eye-opening experience for me. I have been much more careful since to keep my focus. Thank you Amy again. Your comment has blessed me twice and therefore is twice as precious. Bob.

Robert E Smith (author) from Rochester, New York on March 05, 2015:

Thank you Amy, First for coming and reading, and second for the wonderful comment. It is amazing the difficulty some people have in thinking and realizing that what comes into the mind is not always their own thoughts. Over and over again people see in the news or on dramas on TV based something real that has some depraved, twisted thinking and they refuse to believe that the inspiration came from the author of evil. They will say, "No he's just crazy!" I tell them that the more twisted the act is, the more blasphemous it is, the more likely that Satan was there giving the idea. Men are capable of great evil but Satan has design in his evil. His is designed to hurt the heart of God and to work works contrary to His design, an Anti-Christ direction. Thank you for stopping by. I have enjoyed your visit. God bless, Bob.

Amy Casale Choisser from Melbourne Fl on March 04, 2015:

Great article. I spend some time with clients sharing that knowing where our thoughts generate from is important too. If the thought comes out of nowhere and is of fear, guilt, shame, these are not of God but either our flesh or the Enemy. It is amazing once you can recognize a spiritual attack and know how to command it leave in the name of Jesus or can recognize when you need to call on the Holy Spirit to help turn down the other path, gives you more confidence in God.

Robert E Smith (author) from Rochester, New York on August 14, 2014:

Exactly right sharetheword, it takes a great deal of concentration to keep our thoughts away from sin and on Jesus. There is immediate gratification and a tingle of excitement when our mind ventures where it should not. And immediately thereafter a jolt of awareness from the Spirit. It feels like a skip of a heartbeat and a catch in my breath to me. When I feel that I know that this is the time to reel in the thought pattern and turn around in a 180 degree turn. I don't always do it but I always get that warning.

I loved your comment, "I have found that the only way to obediently serve our Lord is to totally immerse myself each and every moment of each and every day in the Word. Through total immersion in the Word progressively His thoughts replace my thoughts..."

God bless you sharetheword. Bob.

Benjamin Maxwell from Kingdom of God on August 11, 2014:

Hi Bob;

The renewing of the mind. It is much easier I find to control the physical actions than the thoughts of one's mind. But if we as believers in Christ are merely controlling our lusts by not allowing ourselves to act upon our thoughts we are still putting ourselves partially under the law. It is when every thought is brought willingly into subjection of the Word that the mind has been renewed and transformed. I have found that the only way to obediently serve our Lord is to totally immerse myself each and every moment of each and every day in the Word. Through total immersion in the Word progressively His thoughts replace my thoughts and regeneration perpetuates.

Another terrific insight Bob.


Robert E Smith (author) from Rochester, New York on July 17, 2013:

This was particularly hard for me. I have always tried to be open about my struggles and weaknesses. I know I still am vulnerable to this sin should I let my guard down. I love my Lord and my wife too much to do that so I make sure I have much support in my life to help me stay pure for her. I am happy you were blessed, especially by the Hebrew since I learn so much from you about Hebrew. Love you sister, Bob.

Tamarajo on July 17, 2013:

Excellent article Bob! Loved the examples. It is difficult sometimes to understand what these principles look like in real living.

I sadly lived the lascivious life prior to walking with Christ and you described the stages very well of how we get into that trap.

You also describe well how to get out of those defaults of living and thinking. You are right you can't just not do something you have to replace it with something else. Jesus shows us this so beautiful in His temptations in the wilderness. He didn't just say no. He quoted the Word of God.

"Therefore gird up the loins of your mind..." We can't just let thoughts just run rampant. Good advice for me today!

I also appreciated your Hebrew word study. It really did highlight your point and will keep that for future reference.

Good stuff Bob!!

Robert E Smith (author) from Rochester, New York on June 29, 2012:

Pray for me. The next one is on idolatry. It is the most deeply covered topic in the whole Bible. There is so much it will be difficult to write. God is good. He always gives some way into and out of a subject. I just write and then God says to tweak it. And when it doesn't sound like me anymore it is right. : ) Love you brother. Thank you for stopping by. Bob.

William Kovacic from Pleasant Gap, PA on June 29, 2012:

Wow! So much to think about. You've done an excellent job with your analysis. The whole series has been great. Thanks for putting it all down.

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