Christofer has been a counselor, contract administrator and has studied astrology with his mother since the 70s. He has eight grandchildren.
Aries and Scorpio - Combustible, Tense and Highly Attracted
Astrology - Getting Along - The Ram and The Scorpion
This series on AstroCompatibility will cover all of the potential matchups in the Zodiac. We will continue this series thinking about and commenting on Aries and Scorpio.
Aries - Scorpio
Scorpio's romantic aspect is based in intense deep inner feelings and Aries is in most everything for the energy and fun ot it. At first glance, this does not look like a "natural", but there are always reasons to hope. Aries is Cardinal and Fire. Scorpio is Fixed and Water. Looking at it on the surface, Aries is fiery and fast, intelligent and into "movement". Scorpio is intense, achievement-oriented and does not necessarily think movement has any particular advantage, unless there is a strong reason for it. Scorpio has a stubborn quality, somewhat like Cancer, but stubborn, not necessarily for home, but whatever Scorpio considers to be personally important. With the Scorpio, they don't separate personal from significant and important. If they are feeling it, it is personal of course, but it is by their nature, not trivial or subjective, but rather it is "it". They function from the base of their being.
The Aries in pursuit of the Scorpio would find a compelling and magnetic individual. Scorpio could be attracted to a youthful, high energy person. Aries does not come off as frivolous and silly, so Scorpio likes that. Both of these are "strong" in their presentations of themselves. The Scorpio and the Aries could create a smoldering fire. Compatibility is going to probably depend on individual charts. It is not impossible to imagine. It could be a "high end" Hollywood type dynamic union, but also, it could end like one. No one is going to back down here. Neither fights for the fun of it, but both are good at it. If it lasted, the Scorpio would probably get its agenda, and Aries would be free enough to pursue its interests.
Since Aries and Scorpio are dynamic persons and neither are "lazy", they could share much in values and pursuits. These two, headed in the same direction, could make quite a partnership. Positively speaking, these signs could be a public and dynamic pair. Regardless of how the genders work, it seems a pairing that could be serious. Scorpio would have to vote yes on most all issues, and Aries would have to spend their time figuring out what they considered worth making an issue. The Scorpio could enjoy the Aries personality. The Aries would have to really love the Scorpio, in order to overlook the stubborn insistences of what appear to be less important things. And this would be on a day to day basis.
Aries and Scorpio would have a very high romance factor, as long as Scorpio stayed a bit light-hearted and Aries enjoyed "intense romance". Don't take any fights into the boudoir and things could go great. Any current battle brought into the bedroom would probably play itself out there.
Aries and Scorpio can both defend themselves, and also, take an offensive position. Conflict would almost be prophecied with these two. Discussions could be long or short, depending on how angry Scorpio got. Neither of these signs will be intimidated, and neither would give in, just to give in. Both could be high-minded enough to make concessions, but they would have to see strong reasons for doing so. This is not a death pronouncement, It just means they will have to work things out. The unexpressed, the unaired, the hidden could spell doom. The discussions could be noisy, but healthful.
Life in the end is repetitive and mundane, and so is Romance itself. This factor asks the question: "Can we be bored together over the long term?" Scorpio can take time for inner contemplation, and quiet periods could be helpful in an overall sense. Aries might take some convincing that a little peace and quiet could be good for them. A Biblical phrase might fit here: "Peace, peace and there is no peace". A good attempt at peace and boredom might be the "spiritual correction" that each needs, but one that could slip away.
Keep Up The Interest Graph:
Scorpio and Aries are a good "keep up the interest" signs, but Aries could tire of Scorpion "gravity". The pull of Aries trying to always accommodate Scorpio could fatigue Aries, and Scorpio always watching what Aries is doing next, could be distracting from Scorpio's main purposes. The basic material is there for potential long term high interest, it's just difficult to know how the two will act after a high-mileage relationship.
Seven Year Itchiness:
There are some signs that by their nature are more stable in their love interests and family concerns, as time goes on. Others are not. Scorpio could use the 7 year itch as motivation to make a fundamental change. Aries could use the 7 year itch to "finally get light-hearted again". If they truly are committed to each other, the seriousness of Scorpion values could save them. As I have said in other analyses, Aries could stumble into a new relationship, not knowing that its subconscious might be overly engaged in the prospect of infidelity.
ASTROCOMPATIBILITY POSSIBILITY RATING: 50% Positive Long Term - 70% Short Term. This, as a young relationship, might have tons of appeal. Time is not necessarily the friend here. Scorpio can put on weight, if frustrated, but Aries could find Scorpio more appealing as time goes on, if Scorpio lightened up. The newer this relationship is, the more that there is a possibility that it will work. But once they get going, complications of Scorpion intensity and Arian ego could make for a difficult future.
Marie Antoinette Seemed to Have Both Ram-like and "Stinger" attributes
© 2009 Christofer French
Lululimon on May 14, 2017:
I'm an Aries and my husband is a Scorpio. We have been together for almost 9 years and married for 5 years. It definitely isn't the easiest relationship, but so far it has worked out. Let's just say when we disagree it definitely gets loud and intense. I spend the whole argument pretending everything is his fault and he spends the whole fight saying that I never take responsibility for myself and I play the victim lol. It's true though. There's other parts to it to. We don't always agree on things and since we are both stubborn it's hard to figure certain things out. However, when we are good we are really good. Sometimes I think he just likes to fight because afterwards the love making is awesome haha!
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 06, 2015:
What can I say? I will make it short. I can think of no better sign to have a nonsexual long long term relationship with than a well behaved and intense Scorpio. This is the way life should be. I admire your restraint because you are obviously taken with him. Scorp vibes emanate from them. This is all very good.
Alina/Aries female on January 05, 2015:
As I was recently getting into astrology I realised that the mesmerising, magnetic and absolutely incredible man I felt so safe and comfortable around was a Scorpio! I was 14 when I met him as he works in a company next to my house... from the first sight we just developed an unbelievable friendship and understanding... never had a fight in 3 years, only got in the warrior mode when coupling up against somebody/something. It's just this inner feeling as if we knew each other for decades... I loved to spend time with him despite the inability to understand from the people around us... He would always no matter what stand up for me, fight for me and I would absolutely do the same. Esentially we were only friends but both felt deeply connected and the desire was there... but he has a girlfriend of many years and I wouldn't have dared to ruin their relationship, again, because I actually do love him but in a way that I respect his relationship and wish him the best in life and absolutely wouldn't do anything for my selfish pleasure... We now ocasionally meet sometimes due to my busy schedule and new life because as I've grown up I have stuff to do with my life, but whenever he drives by going from work, he stops and we have a conversation sometimes for hour or so... Scorpios are my favourite zodiac sign, I admire and respect their personality traits, especially the will power and determination they have. I think I learned a lot via my Scorpio friend and it was only to my benefit, I hope he gained something valuable from me... I also had an astro reading and in my chart I have Rahu in Scorpio and I was told that Scorpio Sun people draw my attention... I guess it's true! :)
Jean Bakula from New Jersey on August 03, 2013:
That's so true. The two people in the relationship are really the only ones who know what's going on, no matter how much we speculate.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on August 02, 2013:
Yes. I concur with your interesting cultural observations. However, it is easy for a third party to look at a relationship and analyze it from a virtue and fault perspective. What people forget is that the silent agreements, tolerances and unstated agendas all go into a relationship. My wife and I are extremely tolerant of each other. Others say, "How can you put up with that" to each of us. They have not seen our giggling and affection as we both make fun of each other with high mindedness. This is a personal example, so you can take it or leave it, but I would remind you of the song "No one knows what goes on behind closed doors". That is not just romantic, it also can apply to the things that a couple chooses to understand about each other.
Jean Bakula from New Jersey on August 02, 2013:
Wow, I clicked on here because my husband's parents were an Aries (his Dad) and a Scorpio (his Mom). They got married a little later in life, or at least what would have been considered later in the 1950's, 27 and 29. I never was able to get their birth times, so could never do Natal charts on them. I think she had an Aquarius Moon, and he had a Virgo one. It was a case of Water putting out Fire. They were kind to each other, but usually didn't seem to really connect, I always thought they were the most mismatched couple I ever knew. Even though he was lethargic for an Aries, she got so jealous if he even went bowling once a week. Everything had to be her way, and she had phobias about practically everything. I think a stronger man would not have taken as much of her nonsense, and a woman who was a lot more sociable would have been a better match for him. But they did live past their 50th anniversary. Of course, divorce was very frowned upon at the time when they were young, and I suspect she was in danger of becoming "an old maid" a terrible fate in the 1950's. So we have to look at the context of the time period too.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on June 21, 2013:
Bramble: Sounds wonderful! I wrote these analyses from the standpoint that no matches were "verboten", but some are more challenging. That is why I use the concept of "transforming". That simply means that some signs are going to urge you toward internal change if you are going to succeed with them. In the end that is what romance does for us and to us. Sometimes its quicker than others. Sometimes it is gradual. But we always change each other in love.
The idea behind the TRIAD is that it shows you as more of an integrated self. You are not only an Aries in your basic ego, but you are an Aquarius Rising and Moon in Cancer. That means your outer personality is Aquarian. That modifies your Aries in that it makes you a little more humanitarian and understanding, but also a little bit of a know it all and impersonal. This takes the "edge" off Aries and makes you more delightful at a party, or one might say a bit "otherworldly". The Aries/Aquarius combo makes you unique. Then, your Moon in Cancer gives you an emotionally unsettled but maternal and familial nature in your core. This can have the dual effect of making you a bit more testy than even the normal Aries, but also more "warm and cuddly" when it comes to family issues. This also has a softening effect on Aries, while making you a bit more complex. In my view, your relationship with Scorpio is benefitted by your Cancer Moon especially. Good luck and blessings.
Bramble on June 20, 2013:
Hi Christofer, thank you. According to an online calculator my rising sign is aquarius and my moon sign is cancer. I'm not sure what you mean by "transformed," I have always been this way :)
In many past relationships I have been all of the truly rotten things a stereotypical aries can be, a real nightmare at times to be honest. Leo is supposed to be one of my best matches, but I've come to think we should just drown them all while they are kittens/cubs. Cancerians are always purely toxic to me.
This is the first scorpio I've dated, maybe he is just special, maybe I am too, but we are happy and that's what matters. I really dislike hearing people say they read about incompatible sun signs and decided not to date someone because of it, so I wanted to share my own experience with this :)
Christofer French (author) from Denver on June 20, 2013:
Yes. It can be virtually magical. The more "transformed" the individuals are the better. You say you are an "empath and introverted". That is fascinating. If you know your rising and moon sign that might reveal more. Take a look at my article on "TRIADS". It might shed some light. However, if you are completely happy, my reading might do nothing more than confirm WHY you work so well together. Blessings.
Bramble on June 20, 2013:
I am an aries woman who is an empath and introverted. I feel very grounded, accepted, and loved by my scorpio guy. He is very nurturing and giving and draws out the best in me.We do have lots of amazing sex and interesting adventures, both being go-getters and having a lot of physical energy! I've read a lot of negative things about aries with scorpios but obviously this can be a great paring :)
Christofer French (author) from Denver on June 06, 2013:
When a Scorpio is that much in love, then you are the absolute object of his complete attention. You are in heaven.
PoshXBecks on June 05, 2013:
Im an Aries and my boyfriend is a Scorpio.
Hes the best!!!hands down!!!...for everything...comfort...love...support...and best of all...he gives me 200% attention..i also NEVER get enough of him...he never bores me and always keeps me on the toes...i love that!
MaeMG on May 14, 2013:
Awesome! I'll definitely check it out! :D I definitely understand the burdensome part, I've been reading up on astrology and the different aspects of my natal chart.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on May 14, 2013:
You obviously have not read my article about TRIADS. It has about 600 comments. I do FREE readings for people. I address the sun, rising and moon sign mainly. If I took more, it would be just burdensome. I want these two be interesting for others to read too, not just the subject. Go to my TRIAD article, and submit a request. See you there!
MaeMG on May 11, 2013:
I'm an Aries lady and at one point in my life had this magnetic affinity towards a Scorpio gentleman. It was strange I was drawn to him for some reason, but I set myself apart from him and never gave myself the chance to get to know him fully. I've read stuff about the compatibility for this pairing over the years and read people's stories. I don't think it's necessarily about the difference in personality itself, it's more about the maturity to understand that both of you two individual people that react different ways and learning how to work together not work against each other.
Plus it's not just about sun signs either, there's so much to your own natal chart. Yes, I'm an Aries, but I do have major factors in my chart that offset some of my Aries traits. For example, my moon is in Cancer so instead of being direct and bold, I tend to actually think and be affected by things emotionally rather than impulsively act. My venus and mars are both in Earth signs (Taurs and Cap) so that gives me a more grounded approach in how I love and how I react/act to certain things. My rising sign is in Gemini so I give off this totally different vibe when people first meet me. By just my own natal chart, the typical Aries personality description doesn't always cut it. So I do think it's important to look at all these factors and not just the sun signs by determining compatibility. I think when you look at yourself and who you are then look at the person whether their sun sign is in Scorpio or not and see them who they really are (full natal chart and all), and accept it just is then you can learn how to mesh together, learn together, and work together. Awesome hub though! :)
Christofer French (author) from Denver on February 25, 2013:
Alexis: Expect to get on each other's nerves. That's what you both have bought into. Neither of you is going to submit, act sweet and submissive and accept the other's bossiness. All of this is OK, as long as you see it as part of the deal. You both think you are the boss. Nice if you can talk. That makes all the difference. Don't call each other on the carpet. Don't lay down some challenge. Just keep on trying to get along. Blessings to you both.
Alexis on February 25, 2013:
i am a Aries and I am in love with a Scorpio and he loves me and we are still together but we fuss from time to time but we talk about it and get an understanding but he thinks his the boss and me to so its hard sometimes to CAUSE HE GETS ON MY NERVES AND SO PLAYFUL!!!!!!!!!
Christofer French (author) from Denver on November 26, 2012:
Female Aries/Libra Moon - Male Scorpio/Libra Moon - I do not do personal horoscopes at this time, but I appreciate your asking. Your guy is a sweet talker with insight because of that info that you have given me. Libra provides the sweet. Since you are obviously so devoted to conscious development I would say that you are going to always be like you are. No doubt. You can't expect him to line up with you. It occurs to me that he could be more demanding of you. You sound like you are on a wonderful path. If you want something from my heart, it would be that you could get your foot off the pedal a little. You are at a very dynamic time of life. When people come to the end of their twenties they are hitting their first Saturn return. This is where big change occurs. Go to an astrologer that will do a complete compatibility work up on both of you. When you are dealing with a Scorpio you always have to figure out how many layers deep you are. Libra Moon gives a strong sexuality in your deeper nature. I don't mean prurient or sensual. I mean you identify your natures sexual and psychic together. When a woman says: "Now this time, you are going to do this right?" And he is a Scorpio, besides being a man, you could be looking for complications. Blessings on your both. Remember consciousness is everything.
youthful Aries woman on November 24, 2012:
Correction (towards the end): *I have checked out your articles on and off over the last year
youthful Aries woman on November 24, 2012:
I was wondering if you could do a compatibility reading for me, involving my boyfriend's birthday and my own (for specifics, not just general stuff based on sun signs alone)? Your article seems to be the most accurate that I have come across so far and I definitely believe in the transformative possibility idea regarding personal growth. I am a female aries, with a libra moon...and he is a male scorpio, with a libra moon...I am a horse in the chinese zodiac (1990) and he is a snake in the chinese zodiac (1989)...we are both in our 20's and we have known each other since we were 16 or 17 in high school- always had extreme chemistry. Everything on the internet so far has gone really back and forth about us. In the last year I have experienced tremendous personal growth within myself, improvement of my faults, expansion of my perspectives, and how I communicate with other people in general. I almost feel like a completely different person, as if it is somewhat surreal- I still feel like I am in a major transformative phase (a very positive one). I have noticed some very big changes in my scorpio too (after we took a year break from each other)...but I am not sure if my scorpio guy is being sincere with his changes or if he is just saying/doing what he thinks I want to hear, which he is very good at- he has impeccable intuition for what people want, and he usually knows how to get his way with them by playing into their desires. Then when he has them hooked, he changes...but I am kind of feeling as though he is genuine about his personal growth and maturity this time. I always tell him that he is quite the sweet talker. I go back and forth on feeling like he's sincere and/or possibly playing me...but he feels the same way about me, or so he says. If you would be okay doing the compatibility charts with our specific birthdays, please give me a contact email that I can reach you at. In the last year I have become very spiritual and interested in astrology (I have checked out your articles on and over over that time as well)...I am not sure if this matters, but my mother is an Aquarius and my father is a Cancer (parents can have an impact on how their child's sun sign develops- which is something I saw on a previous comment on this blog).
Christofer French (author) from Denver on June 21, 2012:
Brandie: There is certainly nothing wrong with restored health. Once whole, a couple can make real analysis. All the best.
Brandie on June 20, 2012:
I backed off, and didn't speak to him for over a week. Still deeply affected though. He contacted me after 9 days. He has started therapy, and is just as haunted by me as I am him. He just needs to get healthy so we can see where we stand. I know what I want, it's just a matter of him getting whole again. I will update again hopefully with even better results. Again, thank you so much! =) blessings to you as well!
Christofer French (author) from Denver on June 14, 2012:
This is intriguing. Get back to me if you feel comfortable in doing so. Blessings.
Brandie on June 12, 2012:
Thank you for your response! I had decided to do what you suggest before finding this site. i hope it all works out, I'll be sure to post if anything does. :D
Christofer French (author) from Denver on June 12, 2012:
Brandie: Your problem appears to be a fantastic method for serpentine seduction. Apart from the dark imaginings of a novelist, I would say you should truly figure out what all this means to you. If you are saying, "I wish he was healthier, because I love him so when he is better", that's one thing. If this is just a deeply plotted romantic trick foisted by a morose Scorpio, then it's up to you to determine this. Play a card. My suggestion is to back off and see what he does. This might give you a reading. Blessings.
Brandie on June 11, 2012:
I am an Aries deeply haunted by an encounter with a Scorpio. I've never had quite this reaction or pull to someone, especially so quickly. He's a broken, weak Scorpio according to him, and until our meeting I was the strong hopeful Aries. Now I'm just a mess. I feel obsessed and wish he were healthy so I could pursue the intense connection we had before he remembered he had too much hurt inside. I haven't been the same happy go lucky me since I met him.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on May 30, 2012:
Zendi Gunat: Zendi there is a powerful statement of pain here. The crucible of human love and emotion is such that it can feel that it won't end, and that it will last forever. The pain will end. The Scorpion is extremely complex. If you can think about the idea that she is not entirely in touch with her insides. Blessings.
Zendi Gunat on May 29, 2012:
I am an aries man, i gave my love and my entire commitment to a scorpio woman some time last year, indeed i had the most amazing and painful moments with her. The beginning was dandy but currently flames have turned to dust. We are not lovers and we are not friends. I am not perfect so i didn't expect perfection from her, but i one thing i know for sure is that i tried to make it work but it didn't, not becos i wasn't strong to hold on but becos i realized i was the only one trying to salvage the relationship. She is the type of woman that can silence the roar of hungry lion and send it to deep sleep ( every man desire ) but she treated me like shit. I have a very painful story to tell but i can't go on cos am trying real hard to forget about her. The point here is that no matter how death a scorpio see's an aries, spark him or her with tenderness, undivided attention, fedelity and eligance as far as i am concern, he will light up with the burning desire to make u happy for the rest of your life.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on April 22, 2012:
Steve: Well said. The boring part that people fear is not in this combo. The time spent contemplating your fights can be really valuable. The deeper part of this reading is that both get a chance to transcend themselves, if they want to try to. But, that's for "church", and these two don't tend to be geared that way.
steve on April 22, 2012:
Well I had a relationship with a scorpio for 20 years. Our success was based on compromise. Although the relationship has it's share of feistiness, we are the envy of other more compatible and more boring relationships. If you can make this relationship work, you do amazing things together and even for each other...but you both need to look inward and choose battles carefully.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on April 05, 2012:
Brittany: The stronger and more stabilized you get, the easier it will be to get back in touch with your Scorp. All the best.
Brittany on April 04, 2012:
So this will be my final update. The libra man I spoke of before was lying to me and betrayed me. Trust was lost. But guess who stuck around...yep, my Scorpio. I told him that I couldn't be with him and that I'm moving on. And now I'm receiving letter after letter everyday and even one that was sent to my mother begging me to be with him, for me to Marry him. But I'm sticking to your advice christofer. I'm moving from my hometown, getting a job, looking for myself and im focusing on my future. But I will always love my Scorpio man but I have priorities that need to be tended to before I set off with someone who can't make up his mind. Thanks christofer for reading and responding. I will always love my Scorpio ...
maryjane on March 27, 2012:
OMG Im a ARIES and my Partner also Father of my Child is a Scorpio.. we fight all the time when we are toghter and when we are apart we miss eachother like crayze.. Hes really possesive and im laid back and out going! this is really buzzy. I love him so much that im going to do everything to make it work.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on March 19, 2012:
Brittany: If you are mesmerized by a person that writes pages of bipolar literature, and you have a happy, charming Libra right there for your choosing, there is no question. Just because has a spell on you doesn't mean you should drink the poison. Get your mind and heart in a calm condition and go seek peace with a Libra, or Taurus, or Virgo, or Pisces.
Brittany on March 18, 2012:
hello, im back for an update. i recently received a letter from my scorpio "bf" and he said he didn't want to be with me. he said "ha! you think your going to marry me?! pshhh!" saying things like that but afterwards saying "i love you, you are my beloved." , he had 18 pages of this bipolar writing. it is quite confusing and i can't seem to let him go. i am currently trying to date a friend of mine (a libra) and trying so see if my feelings will go away for my scorpio, but i guess i can't shake him. he has mesmerized me beyond anything i've ever known, now i feel the need for him. but im trying to hide it, trying to push out the feelings by dating my friend. its working halfway. i want to know how to fix the relationship between me and my scorpio...before i get too far into my friend (libra). please do not judge me..please. i just need advice and this is the only place i can get it
Christofer French (author) from Denver on March 06, 2012:
happy scorpio: Sounds great. All the best to both of you.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on March 06, 2012:
Brittany: Since you are a Virgin and he has his record of activity, I would say that you are in for a great deal of learning, patience and devotion. If I were your father I would worry for you. Since I am just a theoretical observer, I can say that an Aries has boundless energy, so you have much to give, and you can recover if you are hurt. The promise and the hope of love is what keeps the human race going foreward. Just be advised that a scorpio male full of his own sense of himself is hard to control. All the best.
happy scorpio on March 06, 2012:
Hi im married to an awesum Aries man for 6 years..we've been together for 14 years. He is kind, loving and a wonderful human being, a husband God has blessed with. we have arguments not serious, the sex is "OMG". So scorpio girls if you find an aries man..don't let go.
Brittany on March 05, 2012:
ok..i find this funny...cause, i feel like the roles are swicthed here in a way. im an aries female, he's a scorpio male. i fear he is too flirty and always set in his ways, and im so into the deep inner spirituality of people. the two of us our extremely in love with each other. (i'd say) unfortunatly, he cheated on me... 3times, (in the 1st and 2nd month of dating)......i can't bare to leave him....he is in jail because one of the girls was 14, that he cheated on me with (he just turned 20) and im so lost and confused as to why he would have done that. he did it in the beginning of the relationship on the second month and when he found out that i knew about it, he cried and begged and pleaded for me to forgive him...he thought i was going to leave him and i found him trying to commit suicide and i saved him..he cried again...he wrote me letters everyday (even if we were right next to each other)and they would say how much he loved me and how stupid he was for what he did.he keeps saying "please...marry me?" in his letters...he gave me his things, he gave me his $100 dollar cologne, he gave me muffin mix ( :D ) cause he LOVES to cook and bake. he told me a thousand times he wants me to be the mother of his kids and he wants knowone else to be his wife and mother his children, but me. we are both so young, and i truly want this to work. he is all i think about, he is on my mind constantly. he makes me stop everything im doing because i can't concentrate on anything BUT him. im afraid to say yes to his actual marriage proposal and then find i made a mistake because of the cheating...he always wants sex, and im a virgin..so....im guessing he sees me as a game....his family says he hasn't ever been this serious about a girl ever...that he spoke about me all the time. before he went to jail, he lived with his parents and he would always bae me little deserts and stuff and deliver them to me and act like a stranger and then make me laugh. he is silly in public places and so am i ....we love the same music, we both love psychology...we both love writing.....we see alot of each other in each other...and i think that's why we are attracted to each other. any advice would be great
scorpio gal on February 29, 2012:
im a scorpio..and im in a relationship with aries!!! although we hav misunderstandings...we imensly love eachother...and i blame myslf for the fights...problem is here...hez da nicest person :((( jus cant live without him..
Christofer French (author) from Denver on February 27, 2012:
nonyabusiness: I agree with you. Its just that Scorpio's inner self often gets lost in the translation. Scorpio gets misread a lot. They are deeply sincere.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on February 27, 2012:
Despair 29. I don't feel confident giving specific advice on these emotion filled situations. I know that people keep going back to sad and despair filled relationships because they are trying to learn old lessons, and since they can't they go back. And somehow, you can't tell people to seek peace, because that's not "meaningful". What I just said is true of romance in general. These signs can't back off and they can't dish up anything but what they are. That's why the continual stress. I would advise taking a psychic vacation. Give yourself a break.
nonyabusiness on February 27, 2012:
This makes Scorpios look bad. I am a female Scorpio and let me just tell you that Scorpios are ride or died friends and lovers. For you not to trust us makes us go crazy and then we tend to do things that would hurt because you don't trust us in the first place. Yes, we are overly protective and sometimes possessive but we make it up to you in loyalty and love. I know that I am a hard person to get along with if I am in a bad mood or just need my alone time but that's goes with my personality. Word of advice:let us come to you when we are angry or upset. My boyfriend is an Aries and we both work at our relationship non stop. I think people need to realize that its not just one person that's at fault in a relationship its both sides and you have to be able to work at it.
Dispair29 on February 25, 2012:
I don't know if this page has given me hope or the sad truth! I am Scorpio female and have been hurt so bad in the past in giving my heart away, I tend to fall fast and hard, not sure if that has anything to do with me being born on the cusp of saggitarius 22nov.... Anyway I met an Aries 3months ago and he is a bit of a playboy or his past is definitely and he has been honest and told me about it saying he wants to settle down and I can trust him, he has never met anyone like me before and see's me as his future..... I have already realised I can be controlling but I have also been very supportive mentally and financially while he was out of work during this time....he is really suspicious of me and my where abouts and displays the same jealousy as a Scorpio yet I have given him no reason, we have been fighting a lot in the last 6 weeks and 5 days ago he stopped answering my calls After I turned off my phone the night before after a fight, called next morn 5 times and have had no response....as a stubborn Scorpio and someone who has been hurt bad before I have not called since as I feel if he wants me truly he knows how to contact me....but I am getting weaker by the day and want to contact but I know I will never know his true feelings if I contact him...I feel if he comes back then he really loves me and I was not "used"during the last few weeks when he needed help. Would really appreciate some advice as to what to do here....we are both early 30s but in love there is no sense!!! He is 5apr if that helps as I don't understand the moon signs.....should I contact him and always wonder if he cared enough he would contact me....he broke the contact....,or should I wait and if it's meant to be ...it will......thanks in advance for advice :)
Christofer French (author) from Denver on February 19, 2012:
Briana: It's dangerous for you to be you. It's dangerous for you to be with him. "Dangerous" I mean to be a psychic type reaction. You should respect each other first before anything else. Then deal with each other sensitively.
Briana on February 18, 2012:
I am a Scorpio woman and I'm in love with this guy and he's an Aries,all I can say is that everything they say is so true,we have only been dating for 2 months and it's still pretty steamy lol but I'm afraid in the long run we won't be together and that upsets me..I've never had sex with a guy and it be that good!!!
Christofer French (author) from Denver on February 15, 2012:
I am glad for you. Read the "Triad" article and send me you Sun Signs, Rising Signs and Moon Signs and I will do a free comment.
lolaluv695 on February 14, 2012:
I was looking for hope and now I've found it. I'm a scorpion woman and I've been with my Aries man going on 7 years now. It's been a rough ride. First year was great its what set me in for the long haul. My Aries is actually the only man I've ever been with. After the first year its like our relationship went to hell. He kept his cheating and flirtatious ways secret but it all came out in time. Insecurity set in trust destroyed but still couldn't leave eachother alone. And we have tried many times longest we have managed to be apart is a week. Fast forward 4 years later and two kids. Infidelity are a thing of the past but no trust insecurities lots of arguments and short fuses. We know by now that we just don't want anybody else we love eachother and we are great parents. The issue of marriage is now upon us. I love him I would marry him today because there's no doubt that he is the one I want. It's not that simple for him. He is more realistic we don't get along and we don't understand eachother. Who wants to get married knowing that they have a high probability by nature of getting a divorce in the future because of our differences. I needed some confirmation that we "a Scorpio and an Aries" could work and could survive together. I've found some inspiration here especially when I read about the couple that's been married for 30 years. Still could use some advice on how to understand eachother better and get along.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on February 05, 2012:
amazon 27: That is great! This is dynamic. The key is understanding each other.
Ivy: Yes. "not so serious and inflexible" - perfect.
amazon27 on February 04, 2012:
12th year w my aries...had our ups and downs in the beginning...always have the passion...married 4yrs. ....worked through it all..understand each other and have a wonderful marriage....I am 100%so scorpio and he gets me.
Ivy on February 02, 2012:
That's so true Mr. Flow! I have learned so much from him. I've learned to not be so serious and inflexible. He is thankfully opening up to me, but wow I've never experienced this kind of intensity before!
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 27, 2012:
There is some magic indeed. Sometimes its alchemical and makes you feel immortal. Sometimes it feels like it kills you, but then you get reborn. There is definitely something you have to teach each other.
Ivy on January 26, 2012:
I've been communicating with an incredible Aries man for a few months now. His hot and coldness frustrates me so much as a Scorpio woman. And my emotions frustrates him. However he keeps drawing me in...
I run away and hide for a short time then he chases me, I fall for it and then he disappear for a while and then it repeats. LOL
There is some magic between Aries and Scorpios.
X on January 25, 2012:
My ex girlfriend is an Aries and she was a lying sneaky b*tch. Selfish and cared nothing in the world but to get stoned everyday and sleep. She was very immature for her age.
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 23, 2012:
Aries can be generous, kind and compassionate. Each sign houses souls that are wonderful and evolved. Signs express things negatively in different ways. Aries are actually very talented and total achievers. You can have wonderful examples of high level souls in each of the 12 signs. How a person expresses themselves gets down to the totality of their chart.
justanotherface on January 22, 2012:
I am so sick of people saying that the Aries is self-centered, and very demanding in such a ways as being negative!!!aahhhh.... it is so frustrating. I feel that it isn't fair to say all those things because were also generous, kind and can be very compassionate!
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 19, 2012:
Aries Moon will give secret anger. Scorpio Moon will give complex internal ruminations. Cancer and Pisces, now that aint bad. No drop dead fights. Let the Cancer be the boss. Let the Pisces be wiser and show kindness. This could be very harmonious and loving. Cancer back off on the loud demands, and stop tapping the foot impatiently.
chantel on January 17, 2012:
would this all be true for a scorpio moon and aries moon?
our sun signs are cancer and pisces...if you have any input please email me!!! this is my 2nd relationship after a divorce, we have a baby together and it would mean a lot to have some tools under my belt to make it work.
Shef on January 17, 2012:
LOL you all are so true! I am a scorpio and like an Aries friend who don't like me back!We had 3-4 big arguments in past 2 years due to which we went away and just because of my efforts again back to the same friendship again. Its like a circle of arguments-separation-friendship which just goes on and on.
Tmscorp on January 08, 2012:
Except the arguments. We haven't argued yet. I hope they don't come either because we both said we don't have arguments. I think our synastry keeps things in a harmonious state. ^_^ - Scorpio Woman
Tmscorp on January 08, 2012:
This sounds alot like me and an Aries I've been dating. I think I might be in love with him but I don't want to get ahead of myself. and freak him out, even though he says I won't but I still feel the need to hold myself back just a little even though it kills me a little..
alliah on January 08, 2012:
i am scorpion girl, and i am so inlove with my aries boyfriend what ever it takes i'll wait for him..his my ideal future husband
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 06, 2012:
Observe above my continuing comment. Romance is designed to make you transcend yourself. You have to use your conscious mind to make changes. The positive aspect of love and romance, economic survival, the maintenance of family life, the desire to parent your children, etc. is enough to actually change the rambunctious, aggressive, selfish nature you were born with.
Priscilla on January 06, 2012:
Guys, cheer up! Its bad but its not that bad lol. Ive been dating a scorpio for over 2 years now. We fell in love really quick but when we started dating, we couldn't stop fighting. We would fight once a week at least. And the reasons were always silly, too silly to be true. After a while we stopped fighting so much and now a days we already know how each other work and I guess we just adjusted to it. We changed because we love each other to death and we want to make this work. He is very emotional and sensitive and I do have trouble dealing with it sometimes but it only helped me have more patience. It took him a while to understand I love romance and every now and then he surprises me with something new and exciting and I just love it. He is very jealous and controller and I do like to think Im the boss but we found ways so he can control and I can boss around lol. Mind over matter, always, and you can make it work!
Christofer French (author) from Denver on January 03, 2012:
If you had a Scorpio father, and he was as you say, then you probably need to think about your current relationship in psychological terms. Once you have him, now, what are you going to learn from him. Maybe, you are supposed to learn something and then go on. Who knows? But this is definitely more complicated. Of course, Aries is so dynamic, pondering father issues may be too arduous.
Erica on January 02, 2012:
I'm an aries woman I am having a bit of difficulty lol with my scorpio bf. He is rather mean to me....Like I'm really sensitive and get really hurt and won't say anything and he'll just keep going on like nothing happened and when he notices that I 'm not responing then he tells me that he was kidding and to forget about it. Like I love him but he just does things to me that makes me thinks twice of him but I can't let him go even if I tried. I am 19 and he is my first real relationship and he is 24 he had many relationships more than I did and other things....anyway we were Friends first and only friends like I was waiting for a true love to come along and then bam before we knew it....well I started falling in love with him and vice versa. We have come along way together we are best friends..we spend every minute together only us everyday and when it's good it's going great but when it's ugly then it's ugly. But scorpios are really rude very inconsiderate of the one's they love feelings. Note my father is a scorpio very violent and mean hates everyone including himself I was raised by him.....and all of my mean traits come from him. So this is to all the scorpios out there funny how only the scorpios are talking shit lol....Don't be quick to judge
justanotherface on January 02, 2012:
(continued)...beautiful strong independent personality! we are not just another girl off the street. We are woman of strength, pride,and compassion we love because we know its a reason to live for. We fight for what we believe in because we are believers in life. We have complete faith in life even when all hope may see lost. We find a way, trust us, love us, show us how crazy you are about us, how much you adore us. Tell us you love us every now and then let us know that you care that you will always be there no matter. After all forever is forever. right?! don't back down now... Scorpio... you want a challenge... well so do we! and we don't mean war. We mean just don't lose faith no matter how hard it gets. No matter how rough it is! If you really love us you'll show us not just say it. And that doesn't mean by buying us roses and expensive gifts all the time. Love can't be bought, which im pretty sure we both believe in. We LOVE your intensity, your passion, and your complete determination in life. And that doesn't have to go for just the sex like everyone keeps saying that, that is the only thing that was good out of the relationship. Were all about action! We have to see it to believe it, to be completely sure of somethings. (not everything; ex: faith) Were just as afraid as you of being deeply hurt and betrayal is a huge NO! Im hoping that all my fellow arians still stay true to the truth, even if it hurts.If a relationship isn't working break it off before you move on.Please!And scorpio trust is earned... By showing us, just like we gotta prove ourselves to you u gotta prove yourself to us. And try your best to be understanding, please. Aries don't forget you MANNERS! and pactients, after all its a virtue.other than that keep up the magic;) everybody everything happens for a reason so don't worry about the hard times cause if you two can pull through that you can make it through anything. Its all about understanding, pacitents,trust, and balance. good luck to all the ones in and out of love:)
justanotherface on January 02, 2012:
i think for us Aries chicks... well i know were a hand full sometimes but who isn't. Yes we have our differences between each other,(aries and scorpio) but i think really if you want us to be completely by yourside, because honestly were not ganna stand aside and let you tell us what to do all the time, YES! we are still going to have our strong voice and
Christofer French (author) from Denver on December 24, 2011:
Yes. You will have to be more accommodating. With two driving and independent types like this, there has to be an understanding that everything is "quid pro quo". You give and you get. Sometimes the calculation is tough to detail, but in an over all sense you have to give without pain and receive with thankfulness.
Zendi Paul Gunat on December 23, 2011:
Great comments indeed. I an aries met a scorpio lady 5 months ago, the starting was pretty amazing, but as time went on it became extremely complicated but thanks to horoscope it gave me a detail process on how to go on with a scorpio woman. believe me I had to make my self venerable to accusation and all manner of disregarding attitude then things started working out very well for us and am soon getting married to her which means I would have to be more accommodating.
Shaina on December 03, 2011:
Wow I have always been intersted in astrology as a hobbie. I never really believed a relationship was more then the here and now. I have been dating a Scorpio man for a year he and I have the exact issues other scorpio-aries relationships have. He is a very jealous hearted person I am a flirt by nature but mean nothing by it. There are trust issues because of it and I don't trust him because he can be very hush.hush about other aspects of his life. When we love its like nobody exists but us, however when we fight its on. Were both possesive and have a high ignition point with one another. He doesn't seem to grasp that if he puts limits on me it only makes me want to fight the condition to which he expects me to adhere to. I have went back and forth for months with how I see this longterm. I can't stand being away from him even though he drives me nuts. I can't live with 'em can't live without 'em its really frustrating. I know a lot of it is because of the sex. It'S like nothing I have ever experienced before. Scorpio men are highly irrisistable to me and I to them apperently considering this is my third relationship with one. If we could just accept certain things about each other I think we could be content with each other for life but were both wicked stubborn so only time will tell..
theastrology from New Delhi on December 01, 2011:
Hey! Nice Article on .. Here, I have got good information about Aries and Scorpio zodiac signs.
Lind on December 01, 2011:
I love a Libra guy and I am an Aries girl
Scorpio Female on November 30, 2011:
I'm married to an aries, over 30 years now. I'm having the 30 + itch! He can't keep up wth me and he's only one year older than me!
jazzy baby on November 24, 2011:
im the happest i have ever been and im a aries and hes a scorpio.sometimes he pisses me off cuz he can act like hes better then me but at the end of the day we make up i love him and would trade it for the world reading all this i can see it may be hard cuz some of the post dounds like me and him its like when im right im right and that's that and he will give in or say sorry with even knowing why he sorry and it kills me but we find our way everybody is diff so im wishing for the best for us don't want nor need anybody but my botty bear
scorpio 412 on November 23, 2011:
me and this guy has been dating on and off for about 5 years now. im a scorpio and hes a aries it gets really messy and its really hard but somehow we always manage to find each other again
Scorpio19 on November 16, 2011:
My boyfriend is an Aries. He says what's on his mind, but I try to not rock the boat. But little does he know, Im ready to let him have it. But this is dead on. We haven't really argued but we have become angry with each other. We are both stubborn and strong. He is very similar aggressivly to me but we all know Scorpio's always have an extra trick up their sleeves. The passion is definitely there. But he makes me so mad I just want to physically fight him.
ariesgirl on November 16, 2011:
I'm an Aries, and my best friend since child hood is a Scorpio. We get along great. we only fight every so often, but we couldn't live without each other.
starreaux on November 02, 2011:
scorpio and aries have a certain magic you can't put your finger on matter how much they fussy they can't live without each other ....
cassie on October 27, 2011:
i just got out of a relationship with a scorpio man, and i am an aries. he was too much to handle. always said that i didn't care enough and i didn't give him enough attention and stuff when in reality i was busy with school and work, and i like 2500 miles away from him. however it was a great relationshipwhen we were close. now he just finds reasons to fight with me, so i really see where this is acurate.
the funny thing is we broke up and another guy came into my life who is also a scorpio. we get along great yet he's leaving soon. i think i want a relationship more than he does. with all this in the past idk what to think. scorpios haunt me, i swear, and i love scorpio men. weird.
Alexis.A on October 22, 2011:
I'm an Aries and I have a Scorpio sister, boy do we fight a lot. No I'm not that sort of person who has to be always right, I just want people to be honest with me. My sister is a compulsive liar and when she's in the wrong, she gives a pokerface, Scorpios will NEVER admit they're wrong. They will argue till their very last breath, never mind if the argument doesn't make sense anymore. My sister is also VERY competitive, if she loses she will trash things up, everything must be ME FIRST! Oh and she's a vindictive little bitch, like if I ignore her(not on purpose), she has to go on her crazy revenge schemes to 'PUNISH' me.
I see people talking about all these crap about Aries when Scorpios are the ones who are INSANE! I would say Scorpio guys are milder though but them girls make me wanna tear my hair out!
JJ on October 16, 2011:
Hi i'm Ares man (25) and I was in a relationship with a Scorpio (22) for two and half years. At fist everything was perfect to the T but with time and getting to know scorpios temper and stubbornness it just got to the point a needed a break, but after 5 months of no contact what so ever..
It just took a eye contact from car to car (since I live close by the college she attends to) and she was calling me... have been dating for about a month ... god I LOVE HER I rely need her back in my life I don't care how a pain in the a** she can be some times.. I just feel something that pulls me towards her and my hart just what's to go nuts when i'm close to her .... I hope it works out
fgrsfdc on October 09, 2011:
Scorpio K on October 03, 2011:
Hi Jim! I'm a Scorpio who was engaged to an Aries man. We were together for 7 yrs. I caught him texting & calling another girl for 3days straight, constantly. I've caught him talking to few girls before but I know he was so in love with me, he just gets tempted sometimes. Our relationship was so amazing & we were always inseparable but one day when I caught him, didn't want to admit it. He left to his friends house, broke up with me over the phone, hid from me. I found him at his friends house, & his friends wouldn't let us talk. I had noticed lately hes been excited hanging out with his friends. I think his friends controls him. For a long time he didn't really have friends. It was just me & him. Do you think one day he will come back & realize? Do you he just need time because he's frustrated. I'm still crazy in love with him but now, he acts like I never existed. He made drastic changes all in one day, shortsaled the house, got a new number, cut all contacts for me, doesn't want see to me anymore, but then I asked him if he wants me to completely move on, he told well knows in a couple of months here I will give you my new number, & we can start talking again (we just email now & he hardly responds).
Guest on September 16, 2011:
Aries (female) and Scorpio (male) going on 5 years and still strong!!
Best relationship I ever had. Completely dependent on trust and understanding. If you can sit down and listen to what the other person has to say, then you have a good chance (true for any relationship).
Chazzy on September 01, 2011:
Me and My aries girlfriend just getting started.. and God, were fighting as hell! .. we didn't expect everything that we will attracted to each other as love at first sight, yes, she's not the passionate one, and she is selfish, she admit that, and I cried so many times about that.. but I can't let go her for some reasons.. She can't give me up to for some reasons that we can't find.. we enjoy being with each other , but when we fight, better have some pail of patience, because we scorpios, have to be patient as soon as possible, because aries is the one who give ups the fight anyway because they forgive and forget unlike us.. And I really don't understand why Arians flirts so much, like were getting insecure that there are times that I think that is my love that good enough to make her stop that?.. but after that she'll return to me and say, i love you, don't let go.. what's up with that?.. darn.. this will be a complicated match.. but what can I say.. we love each other.. in an odd way.
KelzScorpio1031? on August 31, 2011:
I'm the Scorpio IN L?VE with my Aries 1st friend, 1st best friend since we were 4 years old! We're engaged & MADLY IN L?VE after only 1 month courtship & haven't even had sex yet! We've noticed TOOO MANY signs that we're meant to be that to deny it....we'd HAVE to be psycho! My cell # is his entire birthdate! The extra # is 7....Completion! His employee ID # is my childhood address! We complete each others sentences & can absorb each others pain....we ARE a match made in heaven! We even did the l?ve match, romantic compatibility, couples compatibility, sexual soulmate on astrology.com......ABSOLUTE MATCH! I prayed to God to give me signs that this is true l?ve 1 night before I went to sleep. When I woke the next morning, both of our horoscopes were in my email like each day except this is thee 1st time I've read my daily scope!!!
On August 16, 2011,
One day you'll realize that the l?ve you've been waiting for has been right in front of u the whole time! Considering you're always on the go at breakneck speed, it's easy for u to miss the obvious. Slow down & read the signs before u miss the l?ve of your life!
You're forever drawn to the danger of l?ve. The more potentially bad for u, the more u rush headlong in true moth-to-flame fashion! Being 1 of the most stubborn signs of the zodiac, you're not easily convinced to choose otherwise. One day your perfect bad boy will come in, for better or worse!
I'm sure most of u believe in God, regardless of how true ANY horoscope reads.....ALL IS POSSIBLE IN GOD! And NONE of know what our rib/ribcage looks like! Media has played a hugely demonic part in intercepting our true l?ves & fates with their superficial brainwashing. NO ONE has ever dug up a perfect diamond without having to carve the roughage off of it & then carve the facets that we know as a diamond! In other words, it's takes TREMENDOUS pressure, time, heat to form a diamond. Tooo many of us are expecting our soulmate to just fall out of the sky or show up in our mailboxes in absolute perfection! It doesn't exist! Quit being so difficult, let go, l?ve deeply, let God, & LIVE A GLORIOUS LIFE! ?† ;-)
aries on August 29, 2011:
i was with a scorpio we realy loved each other but now um with a leo
Someone xD on August 16, 2011:
I'm a Scorpio, and I usually attract MANY Aries friends.
I really do love them. They usually last a year or two, and usually ends up with a bitter fight. Oddly enough, I'm usually not the one to end the friendship.
It makes me extremely upset, too, because they are usually very close to me; dear to my heart.
Scorpios! Try to stay away from Aries.
They will leave you very sad, most likely. D: >
Danielle on July 24, 2011:
I am a 28 year old Aries (yes, age is a factor in this) and I am engaged to a 38 year old Scorpio male. We have been together for 3 years now, planning a summer wedding next year. I have had my wild days, and when I found my mate, I was fresh out of the latest less-than-fulfilling relationship. I now have the undivided adoration of a man who I find to be as magnetic as he is maddening. We Aries women have a strong fire, mine being only tempered by his deep Scorpio water. We are perfect opposites, in such a complementary way: he is reserved to the point of appearing cold, I wear all my emotions in my eyes (no hiding anything from his piercing gaze); I am ambitious with my own fires burning, he is slow to action to the point he turns me into a nag; I am a clean freak, he is a pig. But there are the good points, and as most things with us, the good stuff is almost primitive: I am woman, he is man; I am fire, he is water; I am loyal, he is doting; I am the butterfly, he is my flower; I am heart, he is body; we fit together so well in these ways that our only conflict comes when either of us step outside our own circle and into the other's space. As long as there is respect to not "boil the water or put out the fire", life is harmonious with us. I really feel that he is my life mate, specially designed to be there to teach this Aries to be the woman, to be soft and learn that in the right man, control can be relinquished. It make hims feel powerful to let him slay my dragons (event though we both know I am perfectly able to take care of myself). He adores me for letting him be "the man" and I "the woman" even though are planets have given us different mindsets. I have my moments of doubt, those awful days when I hate him for making me burn so hot, it reminds me very clearly of that Eminem song "Love the Way You Lie" (i.e. "...When a tornado meets a volcano..."). But then I look into his eyes and see that for him, there is no woman on this earth but me, so deep is his love, that I can't help but let those fires bank a little bit. No man has ever loved me so much that is was a tangible thing, and as an Aries, I will not let it go without an epic fight. I love him, and I know no man will ever be able to compare to the singular, soul-felt, sexually-charged, outright worship of the Scorpio man!
yng on July 07, 2011:
scopios repspect the honesty from the aries and the realness
Ariesgal on May 21, 2011:
I'm aries, he's scorpio. We dated for a year and then broke it off when I left for grad school, now we've been back together for about 9 months, after a 10 year gap. Yeah, 10 years apart and now we're back... some things never change. He can be controlling, even/especially in the bedroom, but it works. The sex is EXPLOSIVE!!! We're kind of a strange situation now where I'm the one with the better job and more money but so far he is hanging in and I am trying to be a little bit more considerate of his feelings and not my usual barging through life ways. :) Anyway, moral of the story is we really do love each other and this amazing connection and bond we had so many years ago never died. When we saw each other again it was fireworks and nothing had changed. So hope this time we last!
Kay on May 10, 2011:
I'm a Aries Woman, and he is a Scorpio Male. There is just something about him that drives me crazy,We just seem to click. We talk about the most random and crazy things ever and its great!!! I honestly haven't really felt like this for anyone in a long time. I kind of goofed and ended up getting into a relationship with someone else, but ended it because I wanted the Scorpio man much more(the only reason I was dating other people is because Him and I had a talk before and he didn't want a relationship) But when he found out I had a boyfriend he said he never said he didn't want a relationship(although he did!) There was just something about him that I just couldn't resist,So I broke it off with the other guy and now choosing to just stop seeing other guys and see how things go with him. I really hope they go the way I want them too, like I said we click, theres just something there.
Blah on March 12, 2011:
I like an Aries guy who is mysterious and I'm a Scorpio and people say I'm predictable and non-mysterious. This page is confusing me.
Chaarna on February 17, 2011:
To the Aries woman above; I agree! I think what will trigger Scorpios jealousy the most is _not knowing_. We're into control, and not knowing what's going on and why it's going on will be highly destructive.
I am scorp sun, rising, mars and venus, but I am very rarely jealous. My Aries told me early on what the deal was with him; that he enjoyed flirting, but never would go further than that. I appreaciated the honesty, and had but one request for him; never do it infront of me.
I think if something is true with us scorps, it is that we value honesty. As long as Aries keeps it honest and feeds information to the point other signs might think would be blunt and a turn off, Scorp will have no grounds for jealosy. We'll be flattered, and definitely not scared off. There is no darkness in this world that can scare a Scorpio! Aries should be able to take information like this from Scorpio as well. Which means the Scorp has to open up and actually share things. Try it sometime, Scorps. It's sooooo hard, but it's worth it! Just close your eyes, take a deep breath and just blurt out some of those emotions you keep locked up; there's positive ones in there: tell them to your Aries, he'll appreciate it!
With that said, I am definitely not perfect. The Eye for an Eye approach is something I can not help, and would give the world to loose. If my Aries is distant because of work, I will get distant because of spite.
Long story short: It can work, but both needs to communicate about all the big things as well as the little things, Scorp needs to open up a little and Aries needs to realise that in this relationship there is two egos that needs to be fed. One just isn't as open about it.
Scorp man on February 10, 2011:
I am super attached to a girl I just met. She's an aries (obviously.) I can't get her out of my head, and neither can she. We fight like cat and dog and then make up.
I always seem to say the wrong thing. I guess I do take myself too seriously. Any advice on maybe lightening up a bit? I really want to make this work...
Aries woman married to a Scorpio on January 14, 2011:
We've bee together for 10 years, married for over 5, have two kids together, and are among the happiest couples I know.
We worked through most of the stuff early on. We both changed.
There was jealousy on his part at first, but I was brutally open and honest, telling him in horrid detail about every crush I had, but never cheating, and he realized he could really trust me. He is now the least jealous of all men I know. He's friends with the guy I was madly in love with for a year while we were dating.
His home/family is his thing, so I compromised by allowing it to be our mutual area of interest, putting money into making it a comfortable nest, not something an Aries loves, but not a bad thing for family life. In return, he has no problems staying with the kids whenever and wherever I want to go. It's great having that freedom once you're a married woman with kids, especially for an Aries.
What I appreciate about him is his ability to take my brutal honesty and his insights about life in general and my hidden motives in particular. I need that.
Scorpio male 2 on January 13, 2011:
If you don't, then what are you doing browsing through this hub?
miss_scorpio on January 05, 2011:
nah i don't blive in this crap.. my bf is aries n his da most understanding, loyal, unselfish ive eva known,,, i as a scorpio women i think im more flirty than my aries bf,, but do agree sex is amazing hahah.. its not about astrology,, biggest question is how men n women can get allong,,, ahaha peace
fiery gal on December 25, 2010:
I am an aries chick with a scorpio guy i am seeing. Man he is very quiet, laid back complete opposite of me. i am out going and loud. i don't hide my feelings but it seems like he doesn't care because he is very preserved and holds his feelings in. BUT i know i care about him dearly. :) he is an amazing person. I am working on myself to make this potential relationship work.