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Aries and Leo - Oh, The Getting Along!

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The Ram and The Lion

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Aries - Leo

Leo is a Fire Sign. Aries is a Fire Sign. Aries is Cardinal. Leo is Fixed. This makes these signs similar, but different. Leo being fixed means they are much more stubborn and determined, whereas Aries is not as stubborn. They move on. Aries and Leo would be an adventurous coupling. But peaceful? You can't have two people driving the car.

The Idea of an Aries and a Leo sets up a funny image. The guy (pick them, Leo or Aries) would not need to sneak up on her. They each might sneek up on each other. The Leo could boldly turn to the bright and lively Aries and smile. Relating to each other, they would say. "Wow what a grin. Tell me about yourself. I would be glad to." If the Aries fell head over heels for the Leo, it could really work. But do Aries fall head over heels? The fixity of Leo and the cardinality of Aries are key elements.

Positive Postulate:

Since Aries and Leo share "fireness", there is a basic match up here. I mean, they would both like the same things in the same way, but the question does remain who would be the quiet thoughtful one? Positively speaking these signs could be a public and dynamic pair. Regardless of how the genders work, it looks like a dramatic match up. Maybe more of a small company than a marriage? Sun shine and Springtime. Could be something to watch!

Romance Recommendation:

Aries and Leo would have be classically romantic. "Classically" meaning great in the bedroom, but noisey at the breakfast table. A little minor violence could even be predicted. You can't say it wouldn't be romantic, but one would wonder about unsatisfied egos causing dissipating energy. This would not be boring.

Conflict Quotient:

Aries can head butt. Lions can roar. This question could deal with the ending of the relationship. They would be effective in conflict starting. However, I am unsure of conflict resolutiion. This would be where the main question would lie. Regardless of where the gender is, no one is going to back down. No secret conflicts here. Everything would be out in the open early. If there are any secrets, then they would be real secrets, because they would be perceived to be relationship-killing secrets.

Peace Parlay:

Life in the end is repetitive and mundane, and so is Romance itself. This factor asks the question: "Can we be bored together over the long term?" Leo and Aries, if they were too bored, might decide to part. An older Leo can get mellow and self-satisfied. That would not be too bad on the Aries, as long as they all allowed freedom for each other.

Keep Up The Interest Graph:

Leo and Aries could "keep up the interest". Long trips, fun outings, social projects and trips to Vegas. As long as they stayed interested in each other, it could be great.

Seven Year Itchiness:

There are some signs that by their nature are more stable in their love interests and family concerns as time goes on. Others are not. These fire signs might just be flashing red at the 7 year itch. But, if they are truly in love with each other, having fun and enjoying life as partners, they could sail through the 7 year itch. No one should make any assumptions though.

ASTROCOMPATIBILITY POSSIBILITY RATING: 60% Positive Long Term - 90% Short Term. This would be all fireworks and romance in the beginning. If as time passes, the relatiohship gets stabilized and confirmed, it could be promising. If it were to last a long time, it would be because it was such a natural marriage of interests and values, and egos would be well under control.

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Lions4Eva on September 10, 2019:

Agree with ProudLeo. Why is it that modern astrologers seem to conveniently forget that we lions have strength, teeth and claws to fight and protect ourselves and even to kill? But you remember Aries, Taurus, and Capricorn's horns and Scorpio's stinger but not the mighty lion's own impressive weapons? The roar is a warning that a mauling is soon to come if not heeded. More astrologers should emphasize our predator nature. Lions are not pets. They are powerful and dangerous.

LunaticEight from 8th House on December 13, 2018:

My dad is an Aries sun/moon. My mom was Leo sun/Libra moon. It was heaven or hell every day. No gray areas there.

Alexandrea Ambriz on July 14, 2018:

I was deeply in love with a Leo and yes he was an older Leo. He had me up and down and all my emotions he was cold one minute and hot the next he would not talk to me for days at a time. Times went by where I felt like he didn't even love me he said he did but I don't know did he?

Strong Aries on July 13, 2018:

My daughter and I just cannot get along. No matter how hard I try she is a leo and I almost hate her stubborn know it all ass.

This woman does the stupid things and always getting herself in a fix and expect me to get her out , then when I help her out she smarts off and is disrespectful and rude. All under my roof. I hate to say it but I hate my daughters attitude and disposition I wish she would get out of my home and don't look back..

ProudLeo on May 24, 2017:

Dude, lions do far more than just "roar." We have sharp teeth and claws and can tear any other Zodiac animal apart. Don't forget that.

lioness on April 17, 2015:

Now we are 3 days further and yesterday he texted me out of the blue just to ask how I am doing. I replied on a casual way. He said he became ill. I asked what he has. And he replied that it's not a cold or flu or something, that he is probably just down.. What is his goal? Why does he come back so fast? I am getting so confused with this. What am I supposed to think? Is he regretting his choice of dumping me? Why does he want me to know that he is down with his feelings? And what should I do?

lioness on April 16, 2015:

Hi I am a leo woman. Back in September I've met an aries guy (5 years younger than me) in the film academy where both of us are taking courses. All the time I saw him looking at me very deeply and like he was in love. He came to sit next to me during all the classes and tried to become friends with me. He texted me once in a week on friendly way. Our conversations were usually "sweet, but mean". He liked it, I liked it. He knew about the fact that I was married and soon that I would go away from my husband and that I no longer had physical (no sex) or emotional connection with my husband. So I tried to keep him on distance from me. I was playing hard the get. Then, 4 weeks ago we dated for the first time (it was going to be on a friendly basis) bcause we hadn't seen each other for a while. It was at his place. He cooked for me. We ate and drank. Had nice conversations. At the end of the night I became tipsy and he kissed me. It was heavy and with a lot of passion. I said that I couldn't go any further but actually I liked his dominant body language forcing me to go further. Neverthless, I told him that I had to go away. So next morning we dated again and this time we had sex. Diring the following 4 weeks we had a great connection. I cannot call it a telation, since it was not. The first 7-8 days he texted me every day several times during the day. And then it stopped. He started to text me every 4 or 5 days. Just asking how I was doing and whether I was willing to meet him that evening. every time I said ok and I went to him. Dinner, movie, sex, a kot of talking. After every sex he laid down on my chest or belly and hold so tight and sighed deeply. He gave me all the time the feeling that he had a deeply crush on me. And ge told me that sometimes also. Then 2 days ago I texted hin to ask whether he was doing well and I asked if we could meet up to see each other. He agreed and told me that we had to talk. Eventually that day he broke up with me. 2 weeks ago I made a short movie and my (ex)husband was leading actor. And my Aries guy came around that day to help me in the crew. But he knew this, I had told him before about this fact. He looked very weird that day. And the next day we dated and I asked what was wrong. He told me he had a weird feeling about it. It wasn't pleasant for him. And I nade him comfortable by assuring that within 2 months I was going to leave him and that I even had called my lawyer that day to get information on how I should do everything. That day this unpleasent conversation ended and I thought we were clear. So back to 2 days ago he told me he had neen thinking about that the last 4 days. And that this was a shock for him. That he doesn't want to be there while I will through my rought tines of leaving and divorcing. He told me that either way, even when I become single, we could have no future together. I allways gave him a lot a space. Never stalked him with calls or text messages. And never asked for more then what we had (just fun and sex). He told me that he has feelings but that we really have to stop doing this "love thing". He really likes me and still wants to meet up. He said that besides the love and sex part nothing has to change. God, thus was a shock for me. I stayed calm and cool. Keeping up my proud. But he saw how much he hurted me. And I also saw the pain in hjs eyes. He hugged me several times. Saying sorry all the time. I know you don't deserve this, but please do understand me. I just told him this was very painfull and hard for me but that it's ok. We were outside in a cafe. During the rest of the evening be stared at me with pain in his eyes. I couldn' t take it longer. He wanted me to stay for another drink but I told him that I had to go. So we left. He walked me to my car, he hugged me and kept standing there and looking behind me when I left. Short after that he texted me to say that he was really sorry for hurting me, that I don't deserve this, but that he had to be honest and no matter what he will be there for me. I didn't respond his text message. What do I do now? I am deeply wounded as I really really liked him so much. And everything between us was just perfect to be true (he yold ne that too). I am going to give him space and not contact him. Shall I do this? My gut is saying that he needs rest. Over a couple of weeks I will see him anyway in the film courses. But why did he do this? Did or does he liked/loved me like I did? Why running away like this? Would he give it a second chance when my marriage is over and when I am single? How does he handle with the beeak up which he chose for? I really don't want to lose him as I really like him and really do care for him. I want him to stay in my life. But I also have my proud. What shall I do?

Christofers Flow on April 15, 2015:

Sounds good. Either one of you should expect "sudden change" from your loving partner.

jenny76 on April 14, 2015:

During our breakup conversation, he told me he hasn’t been happy for a while. No time frame was mentioned. Yet when we were together, he never once acted like there was anything wrong. We would laugh and joke just like before. He told be he’s tired of being lonely (I guess referring to us not living together). That made me feel so hurt for him because I NEVER wanted him to feel like that. I very loved him. I need get him back and my last chance was love spell . Entered on the website , because I read that she has a lot of positive feedback. I’m not disappoint. My lover back to me in only one month. We are happy couple now.

Christofer French (author) from Denver on December 20, 2013:

Katarina: Glad you "got it". I know you will do well.

Katarina on December 20, 2013:


I totally got what you said and will do exactly so. Thank you so much for your response!

Christofer French (author) from Denver on December 12, 2013:

Katarina: There are elements working FOR and AGAINST you. I am not being flippant, so please listen. You are obviously drawn to one another. The Aries and Leo combo ensures that. That "against" part is that you are Aries and Leo. The first part is HOT HOT HOT. THEN.

I am speaking now of the ideal symmetry of what could occur for you. First, you can't "make him commit". I know what you mean, but in fact, you can't. Ideally, your female LEO would make an invitation to sit down under a shade tree and not fear your pride (literally and figuratively). He must be PERSUADED WITHOUT APPEARING TO BE PERSUADED. You must appear to be not so fervent. This will create resistance in him. You draw him in with your Leonine grace, and pleasantness and that far away look as you gaze over the Serengetti. Of course you are a great lover and secretly on fire, and you could just gulp him up. BUT YOU DON'T. You act with royal restraint.

With an Aries, they are always ready to GO. Just GO. They aren't always leaving, but they are always going. You must not lose your nerve. When he looks distracted or ready to leap to a new subject, you must keep that royal restraint and let the relationship BE WHAT IT IS.

You don't want to end up with a lousy relationship. Not with this combo. So, be patient. And just when he starts getting more serious, don't start licking him with your Leonine personality. Keep your royal restraint. If it's real, it will reveal itself. Then comes the next question.

Now that I've got you, do I really want you. And that is a question you both will ask. Blessings!

Katarina on December 11, 2013:

Hi, Christofers. Thank you for the great blog and your responses, I am a frequent reader. I am a Leo woman, recently started dating Aries man. I don't want to jinx it, so all I'll say - it's great. What can I do, as a Leo woman, to make him commit. I'd very much like to be in a serious relationship. Thank you!

Christofer French (author) from Denver on September 11, 2012:

OK Leo girl. Leos are honest, especially when they are apologizing for doing Leonine things. Have you ever seen a Lion creep along on all fours with their front paws out, moving slowly, and their nose is pushed forward and they have an ever so sleepy sweet look in their eyes? Work on that look. Completely master the humble leo look. It will probably be foreign to you, but when your self interest is involved you can do it.

Imagine Clinton apologizing to Hillary without the speechifying and the flashing cameras. (Clinton is a Leo. It doesn't matter his political party) Anyway, get down in the grass like that, and even though the Ram is liable to give you his horns (figuratively). Keep on apologizing, and even though you spend your time trying to prove how smart you are, work on a speech that sweats repentance, ignominy and dumbness -- then, if you are lucky he will forgive you. But he is an Aries, so don't hope too much. Blessings.

Leo girrll on September 10, 2012:

I am a Leo women and I just broke up with an Aries man. The only reason why I broke up with him is because I'm impulsive. I didn't want to break up with him but I did it because I was mad but I absolutely love him! And I want him back but I don't know what to do? I'm afraid that he hates me and I don't want him to hate me. Please help me!!

Christofer French (author) from Denver on July 27, 2012:

momma35beth: These issues seem more to do with your ages and the values of each of you. You obviously have a handle on the meshing of Leo and Aries. Blessings to you.

momma35beth on July 26, 2012:

I want to say that I am a leo and my boyfriend is the aries. we have been together for going on 13 years. when I read the information about our signs I could really relate. What I want to know is can he really be head over heels for me. I have allways felt like I love him more than he loves me. We have a 10 year old son and I feel like he is the reason we have stayed together. He tells me all the time that he loves me and stays because he loves me. but he is not very affectionet at home or in public. He is older than me by more than 10 years I don't know if that has anything to do with it. My thing is that I can not see my life with out him. I think that sometimes he would be happy not being with anyone. Like the information said life can get repetitive and mundane. I want romance and well I don't know what he wants. I want to spice things up and so does he but he wants that to include another person and well I am not opposed to that but I am a bit jelous about it too.

Christofer French (author) from Denver on July 19, 2012:

Sugar: You can wait. Aries is about as fast on the trigger as anybody. Leo wants to make things happen. You are personally acquainted with your own techniques, but something tells me if you just figure out just a subtle way of finding out how he feels, that will probably work.

Sugar on July 18, 2012:

I, a leo woman, been seeing this Aries guy since April. We are not a couple but we are very close to each other... you know what I mean! And he's a true Aries! Got his own principles in life! I really love him big time. He does have feelings too but I guess he's not ready for a relationship yet! I'm confused. What do I do?

leo women on July 11, 2012:

As a leo women dating an aries man, I have learnt that patience n compramise are the major factors in dealing with the power struggle, I found that when I let my aries man take the drivers seat and njoyed proving a point about the control issues , I received more love and attention from him, just by sitting back and letting him steer, aries men hate to be controld or nagged or pressured, happy to report its a year n we still going strong

Leo guy on April 17, 2012:

@robin chase your leo . Show your deep unconditional feelings to him . I am sure this will first intrigues him then he will yield . As a leo i wud love it . I wud love your dedication n loyalty ur unconditional love.

Christofer French (author) from Denver on February 04, 2012:

Bridget 25: If you still have your Aries, then you have had to become patient with your commands. Ene: The same. Aries and Leo want to teach each other the same lessons. Leo is more stubborn. Aries is more on the move. Other than that they are great for each other, so that new loves can come along and take advantage of what Aries and Leo have learned. Anonymous: Leo's fixedness gets a goal and wants to see Aries learn. Aries, if they want the Leo, will go ahead and learn. If Aries, does not really love the Leo, then byyyyyyyeeeee!

Anonymous on February 03, 2012:

Imma Leo woman and my Aries man is impulsive, on the spot, random and has an ego bigger than his head. This has really helped. Thnx

~ Anonymous

Ene fuck scraps on November 06, 2011:

It's all true I was really attracted to this girl N it turns out she is a Leo wer not together r anything but I think this site has good advice and guidelines for me an aries

Bridget25 on October 25, 2011:

Im a leo woman in love with an aries man.he is so sweet and humble but hates 2 b told wat 2 do even if its logical!it drives me nuts when I say left he has 2 say right

Pam 25 on October 23, 2010:

My Leo Man wants me back after two years he wants to erase the sadness ...he's stubborn and sooo determined, I moved on after two years of hollow sadness I got my real self back again. Aries women are a challenge to Leo men. But This time, I think, I won't play game.

robin on July 28, 2010:

I am aries and i am in love with a leo man. For years i have tried to forget him and find someone else, which hasn't worked. If i cant be with him i'd rather be alone, forever.

Tandy on July 19, 2010:

as an Aries, "do aries fall head over heels?" Yes we do but the real question is "How long does it last?"

Flavia V. on May 07, 2010:

My Leo drives me crazy.He always gets upset about anything I do...I mean...every little thing I do wrong,he gives me the cold shoulder.PLS,HELP!!!

Steve Andrews from Lisbon, Portugal on August 15, 2009:

All your hubs are really interesting! I have just written one about Leo women friends in my life. I seem to be getting more and more.

Do Aries fall head over heels? As an Aries I would answer, yes!

jayb23 from India on August 03, 2009:

Great hub, being interested in astrology, I myself agree with what you have written. Good work.

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