Friendship Is Special
How do you describe friendship? It’s not easy, is it? They say the Eskimos have a hundred words for snow. I am sure we have quite a variety of words in English, or Chinese, for friendship, too, but we are usually stuck with just a few, like good friends, trusted friends, best friends, or intimate friends, etc.
Friends are special people. They don’t have to be the same, and a few similarities or a little bit of common interest are good enough to make a couple of fast friends. They are not worried about being judged. They feel good when they meet. They argue, they fight, but in the end, they are there for each other when it counts.
It sounds a lot like family, and it’s justifiably so – don’t you often have the feeling of family when you are amongst your good friends? On the other hand, it’s sad but true: in many cases, you can’t even consider some of your family members your friends! That’s probably why some people talk to their friends about things that they would otherwise keep secret from their own families. And that’s definitely why a true friendship will last a lifetime – consider this: less than half of American marriages can last that long!
I recently came across some interesting writing about friendship on the Internet (www.friendship.com.au) that I would like to share with you:
The Beauties of Friendship by Samuel Francis Wooland.
- The first person who comes in when the whole world has gone out.
A bank or credit on which we can draw supplies of confidence, counsel, sympathy, help and love.
One who combines for you alike the pleasures and benefits of society and solitude.
A jewel whose luster the strong acids of poverty and misfortune cannot dim.
One who multiplies joys, divides grieves, and whose honesty is inviolable.
One who loves the truth and you, and will tell the truth in spite of you.
The triple alliance of the three great powers, Love, Sympathy, and Help.
A watch which beats true for all time, and never "runs down."
A permanent fortification when one's affairs are in a state of siege.
One who to himself is true, and therefore must be so to you.
A balancing pole to him who walks across the tight rope of life.
The link in life's long chain that bears the greatest strain.
A harbor of refuge from the stormy waves of adversity.
One who considers my need before my deserving.
The jewel that shines brightest in the darkness.
A stimulant to the nobler side of our nature.
A star of hope in the clouds of adversity.
A diamond in the ring of acquaintance.
A volume of sympathy bond in cloth.
Friendship-one soul in two bodies.
An insurance against misanthropy.
One truer to me than I am myself.
One who understands our silence.
A link of gold in the chain of life.
The essence of pure devotion.
The sunshine of calamity.
A second right hand.
Friendship is beautiful, and I can’t say it any better. That “One more friend means one more way”, as the Chinese people would tell you, couldn’t be more true. Now, let’s all go make some friends.
farheen Ansari on April 10, 2015:
A best friend is like a four leaf
sweety on December 09, 2014:
I am missing my childhood friend has she went to mumbai ...
So not able to contact her
Reason very big misunderstanding
Beoz of a boy named Rahul..
What to do know??
akin kim on March 18, 2014:
my frnd is my lyf n i dnt wana lose hr evr she undrstnds me mre thn ny 1 in da wrld ,she is a gr8 spcl gft i got in my lyf n b4 i got hr i ws in a wrld of darkness coz of sum reasons..... n da spcl grl is "crystal" urf my momo luv u momo i wsh v r nvr sepratd frm each othr..........
bestfriend on January 07, 2012:
Yes friendship is hard to find especially when your bestfriend is your ennimie
CoolBunch (author) from New Jersey on December 05, 2011:
Let her know the truth, be honest, and be patient. I am sure things will work out fine between friends, if the friendship is real.
Anushka Garodia on November 14, 2011:
Hey my friendship is broken of some misunderstanding between us.How can I get her back... Plz... help me some one..
CoolBunch (author) from New Jersey on October 31, 2011:
Dear Hasina, thank you for visiting. Friendship is precious but not hard to find. Wish you best of luck!
HASINA CHITRAKAR on October 30, 2011:
SO NICE....MY FRENCIP WAS BROKEN DUE TO THE MISUNDERSTANDING IM MISSING MY FREN O MUCH.................
AND THANK U FOR POSTING THIS SERVICE THANK U SOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH.....................
CoolBunch (author) from New Jersey on December 23, 2010:
Thank you! Fayaz, it is my great pleasure and honor that this posting is of any service to you.
Fayaz achakzai on December 23, 2010:
Very Nice I will use it in My Conversation class,
CoolBunch (author) from New Jersey on November 19, 2009:
Thank you, MrsMoe! Everybody needs some good friends.
Wish you the best!
MrsMoe on November 19, 2009:
This is beautiful! I lost my best friend to cancer this year and I miss her every day.