The rules of the game
No touching was allowed; he knew he could only talk to me. He chose to whisper in my ear, caress me with his warm breath. His challenge was to bed me…
I am a teaser and I am not ashamed of it neither do I hide it from anyone. If you check my facebook profile you will see there that I openly admit to loving teasing and denying. I am a playful girl who enjoys the hunt as much as the trophy. I like to play games, I like to learn new ways to amuse myself and last weekend I just experienced the power that a good talk, a whisper and an “air caress” can have on me.
I have always had a soft spot for beautiful male voices. I knew that I could be turned on just by hearing a voice with a seductive and sensual tone whispering something in my ear.
Last Saturday while enjoying myself at a birthday party I met someone who managed to turn me on just by talking to me. It was the first time I met him but we agreed to play a game that we thought amusing. He had made it clear that he wanted to bed me that night and I had made it clear that it was not going to happen. Still we agreed to play a “tell me” game. He was going to convince me how much he could please me if I accepted his proposal. His only ammunition would be his words and he was not allowed to touch me in the process. I was just going to listen to him and give him the chance to convince me how good he could be to me.
What would you do to me? Was my question. He looked at me wondering what my game was. “Come on, tell me, get me exited without touching me” I teased him. He looked at me with a crooked smile, guessing my game. For a second it crossed his mind to leave, but he stayed. He brought himself closer to my ear and started to slowly describe all the things he would do that night if I accepted his proposition. He was direct without being vulgar. He had the right words to make my legs go soft and my skin hot and humid. When he finished he looked at me satisfied, knowing the effect of his words. I could see the effect that imagining how to please me had on him. Trying to compose myself I looked at him in the eyes and asked him for more. He smiled and gave me more. Every time he whispered to me, the world around me came to a halt. I was enjoying his stories so much I could almost feel all the movements and all the things that he was promising to do with me if I only let him.
We spent a big part of the night like that, his voice growing darker, his breathing faster and his breath hotly caressing my ear. He kept to his word and never touched me, just whispered to me, teasing me. Eventually he noticed the effect his words were having on me and he changed the game. Instead of me allowing him to do all the things he was promising to do to me, he changed camps, knowing I was hot as hell and decided to not give me any more until I begged for it. He would not touch me unless I begged him to do so. He took me to a more discreet corner of the room where the lights were dimmer and asked me to close my eyes and turn around against a bookshelf. With his head he pushed my hair aside and continued whispering in my ear. He still didn’t touch me, knowing I was desperate to feel his touch but he was playing the game, waiting for me to beg him to do it...
Talking about sex, if done correctly, dissolves fears and inhibitions, enhances intimacy, fuels desire, and creates trust between partners.
Why whispering turns you on?
- Whispering can help in the game of seduction because when someone whisper to you, the quality of their voice changes. Instead of just words you hear an audible turbulence which alternates between whispers and voicelessness.
- When someone whispers to you, automatically they have to get closer to you adding intimacy to the moment.
- To hear someone whispering to you the person has to be very close to your ears which are a very erogenous zone. When the person gets very close, not only you hear the whisper, but also you feel the person breathing softly in your ear which can be very pleasurable.
- When someone whispers to you, you are obliged to focus your attention on what the person is saying, ignoring other conversations or noise in the room.
Why sensual stories and erotic talk are so powerful?
Sensual stories and erotic talk are powerful because for most people they are considered taboo. An erotic story is something you would read alone in your bedroom, not something you would ordinarily tell someone in a party.
The forbidden always has an arousing side. Listening to someone whispering sensual stories to you in a public place automatically has a turn on effect because you know it is taboo. Of course it is important to judge the level of erotic language that you can use with a person. Men and women have different levels of language preferences; cultural background and age are other good pointers to the type of erotic language that you can use. If in doubt be receptive to any feedback you get.
Next time you want to seduce a man or a woman then whisper to them. Try playing my game and come back to tell me how much you enjoyed it.
Anath (author) on August 25, 2011:
Hi Anamika, I see you already share the delights of sensual talk, you are a lucky girl. Keep having fun!
Hello Cheeky girl; you know, the most exciting thing about this experience was that it was my first encounter with the "whisperer". I had never seen him before but although physically he was not my type, I was incredibly attracted to him. I just couldn't get enough ;-)
Cassandra Mantis from UK and Nerujenia on August 23, 2011:
Wow, what a terrific hub. I think if the two people are intimate and trusting enough, then they can share personal and intimate conversation. Two people in love have to get to know each other. I always feel there is strong curiosity on both sides...
And whispering and sensual chat is a turn on too. I enjoyed this hub. Thank you. :)
Anamika S Jain from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India on August 22, 2011:
Well... I got to admit that whispering and sensual talk definitely turns me on especially because I know that my Guy means it...
Anath (author) on June 22, 2010:
It was so exciting to play that I didn't want to end the game Cheeky Girl. It was a challenge for me to see how long could I resist without begging for him to do at least half of what he was telling me he would. It was a challenge for him to see whether he would succeed or not.
It is a shame for the curious that I don't kiss and tell ;-)
anonymous on June 22, 2010:
Spelled it wrong several times now.
Back on track, I find this to be a very interesting post. Thanks!
Cassandra Mantis from UK and Nerujenia on February 17, 2010:
My, what an interesting hub here. Whispering in your ear, and turning you on - that's what the guy was doing. He was pushing your buttons. You must have been pretty good to resist that! Ha! How it ended is none of my business, although I am sure many would love to know what happened later...!
Pulling is an art. Some people are very good at it, some work hard and get nowhere. When we are open to the notion of being pulled, we allow ourselves to indulge and play the games. It works better if both people know how to play. And are interested in each other, otherwise it's a case of "no thanks". It's lots of psychology. The other person works hard to make you want them. The thing is, they have to deliver. I have found some men could talk the talk, but not walk the walk so well. The gift of "the Gab" as the irish call it does work, but we have to progress beyond it. Man cannot reproduce by words alone. Most insightful, Anath!
There, that ought to get some more comments in for you! : )
Anath (author) on February 16, 2010:
Thank you Angelica.
Angelica Maria on February 11, 2010:
Oh I love the whispering and Sensual Talk its a perfect way to transport you to the sky and see all the stars you have never seen.
Great Hub Anath.
Anath (author) on February 07, 2010:
I still haven't cool down logic, c.
trying to be poetic loveubabe?
loveubabe on February 07, 2010:
it is as true as in daylight itis day n in the dark itis night.....lovely story.........
logic,commonsense on February 07, 2010:
Great story! Got me going as well! :)
Anath (author) on February 06, 2010:
As long as it is properly done it can ve very exciting Hokey.
Hokey from In the energy. on February 06, 2010:
Wow! I thought I was the only one who liked whispering. Cool......
Anath (author) on February 06, 2010:
just telling the truth ;-)
Truth From Truth from Michigan on February 06, 2010:
good hub, well done.