What if it isn't "Happily Ever After?"
Trust me, I know it may be hard to think you failed. You cannot think about it that way. Just because you see a future does not mean it is written in stone. There is a way to get through it all.
The Beginning was Beautiful
Just Take a Breath.
It is going to be overwhelming and emotional for a while and there is going to be a lot of doubt and fears. Just breathe and know that there is so many people that understand no matter what the situation is.
It Was a Long Five Years
As some have read in my older articles, we had our fair share of obstacles as a married couple. Sometimes so much happens that you just can't come back to each other the same way. Different things effect people differently. It is not always easy to be a young married couple.
There is a Light at the End of the Tunnel
Okay, I'm better, Now What?
It has been about 3 years since the final separation. We tried multiple times to make it work but we were just too far apart emotionally. Now, I have been with an amazing man for 2 and a half years. Sometimes it takes the wrong one to show you the right one.
Let Yourself Be Happy
Look Ahead, Not Back
The past may be something hard to let go. Especially if you are like me and don't handle failure well because of childhood trauma. You need to know that you did what you could and that sometimes, you met the right person at the wrong time or they were only there for a lesson to be learned. It's hard to tell the difference and your heart is no help at all.