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Top Ten Things That Attract Men To women


Top Ten Things That Attract Men in Women

When it comes to attracting men, first impressions are super important.What are the things that men find attractive?

Here are the best ways to attract men to love you

  • Appearance
  • The eyes and smiles
  • Attracted to a woman attracted to them
  • Simplicity
  • Maturity
  • Positive women
  • Playfulness and sense of humour
  • Confidence
  • Independence
  • Having a strong Foundation of Loyalty and Honesty.

1) Appearance

Appearance is the first thing a man notices about a woman. Beyond that it will vary depending on what is the man's favourite physical asset (hair, eyes, smile, breast, legs.etc.) After appearance comes personality and sense of humour.

It's been said that men fall in love with their eyes and women fall in love with their ears. However with age comes wisdom. Men learn all that glitters is not gold and women learn that actions speak louder than words.

2) The eyes and smile.

The very first thing men notice when they meet a woman is the eyes of the woman which catches the man and then the smile in her face which reflects that she is a happy person and she can keep him happy.

Most men always want to believe that a woman should have two very beautiful things in her face: First- the beautiful eyes with a good eyebrow and second, the beautiful smile, their face and facial expression.This is what will say a lot about a person and will determine or not the desire to actually meet the person. When somebody is smiling and producing positive energy, the men believe that is the kind of person you will notice consciously.

Just as women are attracted to any number of different aspects, features, attributes, etc. in a man, upon first encounter, this is pretty much the same for men when they meet women.

Some are drawn in by a beautiful smile, a toned body, sexy but not slutty fashion sense, shoulder length hair (optional), easy going positive personality with a good sense of humour. Beauty will not hold my attention forever. It's been said;

Men fall in love with their eyes and women fall in love with their ears. However with age comes wisdom. Men learn everything that glitters is not gold and women learn that actions speak louder than the words.


Attractiveness, simplicity and Maturity

3) Attracted to a woman attracted to them

Heard it is said that women choose who they love and men choose who loves them. I think this is pretty accurate to be honest. Most men seem to be automatically more attracted to a woman who is attracted to them. This is why it is much easier for a woman to "pull" than it is for a man, hence men who get lots of girls are "studs" and women who get lots of men are viewed in a poor light, to put it politely.

4) Simplicity

Some men don't look for gaudy makeup or Physical appearance on girls that try to be something that they are not. The simple and made-up beauty, the clean freshness of the girl next door. It doesn't matter if they are athletic and trim or if they are chubby.

It is what is in their hearts and their minds. Women who always have a smile on their faces are loved by men. It shows the beauty of her mind. Moreover women should be simple and mature. Men usually don't get attracted at the outer beauty. The inner beauty of a woman is given most importance by men. It is what is in their eyes and their smiles. It is what God wants men to see.

5) Maturity

Maturity in a women is very attractive. There’s a difference between being mature and playing grown up. Her willingness to help others, not women who really just try to see what they can get by helping others.An opened minded women is someone who gets to know you before you make an opinion or at least give some advice, instead of shooting down your dreams and beliefs because they simply don’t understand.


Independence vs Loyalty

9) Independence

Men are attracted to women who are independence and have a life. You cannot be with a man all the time. At times you have to give him space to be alone. That is being independent. Make sure you keep to your life prior to having him.You can keep your schedule busy with your girls.

10) Having a strong Foundation of Loyalty and Honesty.

If a man wants a long term relationship. With consistency and loyalty, tell your partner your depest secrets. We all need that deep connection with someone. This makes it flourish .We open up when we feel safe, we take risks when we feel safe. Have that connection of deep intimacy and make him miss you in your presence.


Positivity,Humour and Confidentiality

6) Positive women

A woman who is a positive and happy with herself is considered to be a real beautiful woman. Yes, positive and happy with herself, and not a lot of complaining, I know men love that for sure.

7) playfulness and a sense of humour

This does not mean that men are attracted to funny women. They are attracted to women who appreciate their sense of humour. They want women who are attracted to their jokes. You've got to be that person that he wants to be with the most.

You've got to work in a way that nobody else can. Let him crave for more. Create that dynamic feeling that he cannot get anywhere else. Any time he thinks of you, he is going to think about fun things. He is going to associate you with fun and that is super attractive.

8) Confidence

If you walk into a room like a model, so confident and sexy. Heads up, shoulders back and arms swinging loosely and swinging your hips, you have every guy staring at you. While you walk that walk, wear the colour red. Red is very attractive and also appealing to the eyes.


This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2021 Millicent Okello

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