When it comes to attraction, we all have something to say, men and women. Ladies, if we want men to behave in a certain way then we have to let them know what we think. We can’t leave it up to them to figure it out.
Well then,let me tell you what attracts women.
Someone in good shape
A hard, taut, body is our wish but reality is sometimes so very different.Truly, that‘s what we’d like. If he doesn’t have a six pack darn, we’ll settle for good care of his body. Part of taking care of his body includes keeping all body areas with hair well trimmed. After all, it could make for interesting conversation. Included in that self care should be nose, underarms, fingernails and toenails grooming.
Someone responsive to our needs
As Women,we don’t require a mind reader or magician but if you have those talents, then work them. If you can see that she doesn't like what’s happening between the two of you then adjust it or change it. Talk to her. Ask her opinion. Find out. We like that. We like to be talked to not talked at.
Fun to be with
We like to be around someone fun. That means someone who wants to try different things instead of the same ole, same ole. Shake it up a bit! Let your imagination go. Let yourself go.
Let's face it, we are romantic beings. We love to be romanced as much as possible. Sometimes, surprise her with a bottle of wine, strawberries, chocolate, a backrub, sexy underwear, jewellery, soft music or take her on a special date. Spice it up!
A good lover
- But that comes after we get to know him. A good lover is a good communicator. Although, we still want him to be tall, strong, hard bodied, sexy, sensuous, sensitive,caring and patient with us. Something in us yearns a little for that tough, rugged, devil may care behaviour too. He has the right attitude and knows where and how to touch us, to touch all the places in us that have lain dormant. That's what we would like.
A good heart
Yes, it's true. A good heart will steal ours any time. A man with a loving heart just feels right. Like that big teddy bear that's willing to love us no matter what our faults. He know them but loves us anyway.
Sure some of the other things on the list are physical but it doesn't make it less true. We are attracted with our eyes first and then we want to see where it leads. We want to dig deeper. Maybe get to know what's behind the face. Get to know the person. Find out their personality and if they would complement ours.
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Oladeji remmy. on April 27, 2012:
Thanks 4 d write up,bcos,it realy help a lot of pple out dere.like me.
Chris Eddy111 (author) from Ontario, Canada on August 15, 2011:
SleeplessnLaJolla from La Jolla, Ca on August 14, 2011:
Awesome! Well put!
wdlangchicago from Just outside of Kansas City, Kansas on March 03, 2011:
While I may not have a Vin Diesel kind of body, I do take care of it. Including the grooming.
And the comment about listening and communicating with your lover: Very important at every stage of a relationship.
Chris Eddy111 (author) from Ontario, Canada on September 16, 2010:
alphonsians93~ Hey Thanks.
Rookie70~ Good to know and thanks. Guess I'll have to drop by to see what you came up with.
Rookie70 on September 15, 2010:
Nice hub, and very inspiring. You gave me some ideas for my own topic. Thanks.
alphonsians93 from Cebu Philippines on July 28, 2010:
This is amazing and truly a great info...for new ones!!! Keep it up man!!!
keep it up man!
Chris Eddy111 (author) from Ontario, Canada on May 17, 2010:
@Keith Risden, thanks for your encouragement and I'm glad you left your comments.
Keith B Risden from Jamaica on May 15, 2010:
Hi Chris, just want to say I enjoy your writings even the ones I don't comment on. Classically pictures, we need more to work with to enhance the presentation of our hubs. Keep writing
Chris Eddy111 (author) from Ontario, Canada on May 12, 2010:
@callmefoxxy, I hear you girl. Guys I hope you do too.
callmefoxxy on May 12, 2010:
Excellent hub Chris! I'm BIG on #1, Seduction and Reciprocity!!! Yeah, Yeah, Yeah!
Um can I add... women want a great spot to make love in... aka a great, luxurious and inviting bed (like that pic up top)! NOT some rundown, cheap-ass hotel room bed, not your mama's broken-down, plaid couch, nor your roomie's cluttered with clothes, dorm room floor, lol. I'll take that shopping expedition now please, lmao...
callmefoxxy, my pen is a mighty sword!
Chris Eddy111 (author) from Ontario, Canada on May 11, 2010:
@epigramman, Colin, I'll take the shopping spree after the good loving though lol. That's some good choices in music too. One Love.
epigramman on May 11, 2010:
I thought what women wanted during sex was a shopping expedition - lol lol lol.
It's Colin here aka epigramman: 'irae' 'rice and peas'
Toots and the Maytals - Desmond Dekker - King Tubby
Steel Pulse - Blue Mountain coffee - ganga - Peter Tosh -
Black Urhuru - Easy Dub All Stars - "ONE LOVE"
Chris Eddy111 (author) from Ontario, Canada on May 01, 2010:
@entertianmentplus, all good. Thanks.
@Micky Dee, you know I love you boy!!
entertianmentplus from United States on May 01, 2010:
Very well done glad you shared this with us.
poetlorraine on April 30, 2010:
nice hub.... Micky come alive
Micky Dee on April 30, 2010:
Yo Chris Eddy! Could I take a class?
I'm all talk love! I do love you though. I do sometimes wish I were still alive!
Chris Eddy111 (author) from Ontario, Canada on April 30, 2010:
@Larry, maven 101, I think I have that book somewhere or have read it. Took a look at Cosmo's. Yep, gets you going for sure. Thanks for stopping by.
@Deborah Demander, count on me for sure, lol. Thanks for your comment.
Deborah Demander from First Wyoming, then THE WORLD on April 30, 2010:
Thanks for telling it like it is. I appreciate your candor. And, I appreciate the great pictures.
Larry Conners from Northern Arizona on April 30, 2010:
Excellent advise and suggestions to maintain and enjoy a healthy sex life...If you run out of ideas get the Cosmo's Kama Sutra with illustrations...some very interesting positions in there...Although, being in our 70's, we may be a bit over-challenged getting into them...and then getting out of them...Thanks for this, Chris...Larry
Chris Eddy111 (author) from Ontario, Canada on April 30, 2010:
@thevoice, I'm glad that you enjoyed it. Thanks for dropping by. I hope they are learning as they age.
thevoice from carthage ill on April 30, 2010:
terrific terrific hub write very true thanks guys learn when they get older its not one two three thank you mamm