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We have all grown up listening to fairy tales and watching romantic movies. Where the hero and the heroine pledge eternal everlasting love. But what happens in real life. Do we find true love or disappointment?
Today I'll share with you how we can attract this love. That our hearts have always been seeking.
What is true love?
True love can be thrilling beyond imagination. However, it is much deeper and calmer than just a restless excitement. When you are in love, you want your loved one to be around you. You want to hold on and cling to them. True love is not about clinging and craving or control. In fact, when we start holding back the person whom we love. It only ends in misery, pain and disappointment.
Most people, when they are in love. They want to be showered with just compliments. Those are actually flattering for the ego.
True love, however, is based on genuine support. Towards the highest good of each other. Now that we know what is true love.
The next question is, how do we attract this true love?
There is a universal principle that whatever energy we give out to the world. The same comes back to us. So if we want true love. We have to start by being the love that we are seeking. This means loving everyone from a very pure heart.
In love, we want our beloved to always see the goodness and good things in us. But can we see the goodness in everyone?
Despite all the mistakes they might be making. We want our loved ones to stand by us in our bad times and support us.
Can we do the same to others?
While they are going through their battles and try to help them from an unconditional space of giving. When we learn to do that, we start attracting true love. Now one thing to be careful about loving everyone doesn't mean and it is not always prudent. Overtly display this love towards all. But we can always feel this love inside and try and awaken the goodness in everyone we meet.
How do we attract true love from that one special someone?
True Love is just like the sunshine, Which is not partial to any particular flower or leaf or a blade of grass. And shines freely on all
But we differ in our receptivity to the sunlight. While some people like to openly embrace the sunshine. Others draw thick curtains and block out the sun. True Love is not partial to any one person. But when we start loving everyone without condition. We attract that evolved soul who is ready to receive this unconditional love.
In fact, He or She will reflect you. Your own love, more clearly and intensely and beautifully. Then anyone else. The bond that connects you to this person. Is the same bond that connects you to every spec of creation.
But the only difference is. Both of you have evolved enough to love everyone this way. And that is why you attract each other. And nothing can be more fulfilling than this relationship. So when we focus on being the love that we are actually seeking.
You never know when love will find you when you least expect it.
Signs of true love
When we are in love, we feel many things that we consider as a sign of love. Here I am going to tell you about some of those feelings of love, which you must have also felt.
❤️ When we are in love, we are always lost in the world of our own thoughts. At that time, we do not even know what is happening around us.
❤️ There is a feeling of yearning in love. It seems that something is incomplete, which is missing. This is what happens when your love is far away from you.
❤️ ️ When we hear the name of that person, then a wave of happiness starts running in the whole body.
❤️ ️ It flies away till sleep at night, just the thought of that person keeps on coming again and again.
❤️ When he is not in front, he feels like talking to him a lot, but as soon as he comes in front, the lips are stitched, not a word comes out with difficulty.
❤️ When you start liking his every childish antic, then understand that you love him very much.
© 2021 Ark
dashingscorpio from Chicago on June 08, 2021:
I've come to realize there is no universal definition for "true love".
Each of us has our own idea of what love is supposed to feel like, look like, and how people (in love) should act like.
If you don't (feel loved) it doesn't matter what is in the other person's heart. Essentially people want to be with those who (express) their love (the way) THEY want and need love to be expressed. When a person says: "If you loved me you would..."
What they're saying is they (don't feel loved) because you're not saying and doing the things (they) consider to be "proof" of love.
Note: This will vary from one person to the next. What "worked" for your ex may not cut it with your current mate.
Gary Chapman wrote a book "The 5 Love Languages" several years ago espousing the different ways people express their love and how to figure out what your partner needs in order to (feel loved).
Communication and observing how they treat you is the key.
People generally treat others the way they want to be treated.
"Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
- Oscar Wilde