I'm Ahamed, and I've worked in document control for a long time. He adores writing and has done freelance and blog work all over the web.
Additionally, it's fascinating to note that whenever we discover a new lesson, we ponder, "Why aren't more people talking about this?" Well, I've compiled some of the top secrets no one is sharing with you in this article. Continue to read
1. Every day, whether you like it or not, you tell a tale.
Why would Netflix invest millions in optimizing their movie posters or Mr. Beast be willing to spend $10,000 on a YouTube thumbnail if you shouldn't judge a book by its cover? Whether you like it or not, the way you show yourself to the world tells a tale. You make up a story about yourself if you spend the entire day in bed watching Netflix.
If you wear flip-flops to your brother's wedding, that tells a tale. You tell a narrative if you go to the grocery store in your jammies. What narrative are you conveying to the world, then?
2. You're much more adaptable than you would imagine.
You are aware that you don't require the most recent iPhone, but you are also aware that, strictly speaking, everything else is a bonus once you have access to water, food, and shelter. You've grown accustomed to a certain way of life, and certain things make your life simpler and your downtime more enjoyable, but when you stop to think about it, you have a higher standard of living than the majority of kings and queens in the past 1000 years have ever had, and they managed just fine.
3. You have no rights whatsoever
Nobody is required or required to give you something just because you believe you deserve it. That is the way things are. Like countless other things in this world, it is unfair. You must be aware of how to handle this kind of circumstance.
So even though you attended college and earned a valuable degree, no one wants to hire you since they require 25 years of experience even for an internship. You're angry. You call the world unfair and utter curse words. Guess what? It will repeat itself repeatedly.
4. You're by yourself
Make no mistake, you are on your own regardless of the saying that goes, "If you want to move fast, go alone, but if you want to go far, go together." Nobody should care about you as much as you should care about yourself. Nobody will take care of you if you don't take care of yourself.
Every person is the lead in their own movie. Each of them has unique motivations and objectives. Sometimes, they might coincide briefly with yours. You will always be totally responsible for taking care of yourself, whether it be for a few weeks, several years, or your entire lifetime.
5. Almost all advice is unhelpful
Although it seems paradoxical in a film about lessons and advice, the truth is that most advice is ineffective for two reasons.
- No one is ever in exactly the same circumstances as you are
- so someone first needs to have gone through it and succeeded.
Even something as simple as producing eggs can be done in a number of different ways. There are around 18 recipes available. The only way to turn unhelpful advice into helpful advise is to test it out and see if it applies to your particular situation. You see, people are not held accountable when they offer you advise. You have the option of acting or not. It might or might not be successful. On their end, it makes no difference. It is your duty to gather all the little parts that might apply to your own circumstance and test them out on your own.
6. Continue pushing even when it's terrible for you
Have you ever been caught in the rain while returning home? There isn't really anything you can do about being drenched right now. The only thing left to do is to keep moving forward.
It stinks to be you when you're going through a truly difficult time in your life. One crucial lesson is to simply keep walking, especially if it isn't much you can do about it right now. Hopefully, things will improve gradually and the sky will be clear once more. Just keep moving forward. Every aspect of life is transient. Things will get better.
7. Your award will expire if you don't maintain working to earn it
If you were someone's best friend ten years ago, that doesn't automatically make you that person's best friend forever. And both of these apply. Even though you made a mistake once, it doesn't guarantee that you'll do the same mistake again. Continue to gain the titles you want to keep and give up the ones that no longer reflect who you are.
We recently read this one in a book, and it caught us off guard. We absolutely enjoy it. We were aware that past performance does not guarantee future success, but this particular blow was different. You cannot describe yourself as an athlete today if you played football in college.
8. First give, then take
This troubles a lot of people because the prevailing mindset is, "Okay, but what's in it for me?" They, therefore, start with their viewpoint, which can be erroneous logic, but even if you are slightly cheated, you won't lose much.
It costs you $100 to find out that a buddy is particularly bad with money and untrustworthy if you lend them $100 and they never return the money despite repeated warnings. Giving first will ultimately open up a lot more doors than it will close.
9. You and the majority of people are probably stupid
Most things are simpler than you think, and you are probably more stupid than you realize. We know you believe you're brilliant, but there are probably a lot of things you don't know that you don't know, so you're probably not as smart as you think you are.
You must be conscious of this and adopt a learner's attitude. From the moment you are born until the moment you pass away, you are fundamentally on a learning journey.
10. One door does not automatically open when another one closes.
You don't cause things to happen; rather, you are only in the area when they do. The same holds true for opportunities. People use the door metaphor to console themselves, but they shouldn't interpret it as sound counsel or a general pattern. That's simply not how it operates.
Finally, you have a more freeing feeling when you realize that you are but a blip in the limitless cosmos. Interestingly, you become a better person when you stop taking life so seriously.