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Top 6 Tips On How A Real Man Should Love His Girlfriend: Relating The True Love To His Phone.

Millicent okello is a freelance writer and a teacher who writes about various subjects, including education and creative writing.


The Gift of Love

Love is the most beautiful feeling that can happen to anybody. When a man is in love, it doesn't just happen. There are things that usually unexpectedly find their paths into the man's life until he ends up seeing himself head over heels in love. As for that reason, the man is likely to do the following:

  1. Men love what they see.
  2. A man will go/ approach for what he has seen and liked.
  3. The man asks for or persues what he likes.
  4. He takes care of what he has liked.
  5. He will answer the needs of what he has liked.
  6. Service the needs of what he has liked and loved.

1. The Man Loves What He Sees

Well, why should a man love you like he loves his phone?

A man's first impression on a woman is what he likes about her when he first lays his eyes on her. Imagine him walking into the phone shop. He will fall in love with the first phone that impresses him and makes him happy. This could be because of the phone's features or type. It could be an iPhone, Samsung, Itel,infinix, etc.

Whatever makes him happy and like for it, will make him to definitely go for it. In the same way, when a man sees a woman that he likes for the first time, He will be attracted to her by the way she looks. Her smile, dressing, height, body weight, or even her face, will make him approach her. Anything that must have made him happy about her, made him like her just like the phone in the shop.

2. Approach What he Has Seen and Liked

After liking the phone at the shop display and loving it's features or make, the man walks strait to it. He will get hold of it and look at it. At this point, he has approached what he has seen. Just like the phone, in the same way, the man will walk strait to the lady for he will have loved whatever he has seen. A simple greeting and complements about the lady will actually make the man to be next to her. Who knows? Some relationships started just by a simple hello.

As for this reason, just like the man approaches the phone on the display, He does the same with the woman he has seen and liked or loved because of her "features."

3. The Man Persues What He Likes.

Here, after spotting and then approaching what is liked and loved, the man has to persue it (phone) He will ask for the price of the phone and other more interesting features it might have. Just like the phone, after appreciating and approaching the lady, the man tries to seek for more information about the woman in picture. As for this, He will not get tired neither will he give up on what he wants.

Being the gentleman in need of his heart's desires, the man will go after the woman of his dreams. This will come in to the point of exchanging contacts for communication purposes. The same way he would get the phone so that he can use it to communicate and do other staffs like browsing and others. As for the woman, the two will soon start dating and if all goes well, it could end in a lifelong relationship.

4. He Takes Care of What He Has liked

Buying the phone from the shop, the man walks home feeling happy and satisfied. He will be taking good care of the phone. Could be buying a screen protector to protect it from breaking when it falls accidentally. He could even buy a phone case or Wipe the screen when it gets dirty.

Same applies to the way the man will love the woman. The Man should take good care for her. Making sure that her heart is not broken like the screen of the phone. Loving and caring for the lady by commiting to her heart, mind body and soul. Being responsible for all her needs . The Man can provide security to the lady, emotional and even financial support if need be. He has to care for her just like he cares for his phone.


5. He Will Answer the Needs of What He Has Liked.

Who doesn't answer the phone when it rings? Well unless you don't want to. The moment the phone rings, the man will always answer it no matter who is calling. In the same way, the right man will always answer to the woman of his life whenever she is in need. The man in the picture should not ignore the woman just like he wouldn't ignore his phone calls.

Like he loved his phone when he first saw it, in the same way he should love the woman just like he did when he first lays his eyes on her.

When the phone is broken or needs repair, the owner repairs it so that it can be of use again. In the same way, when the woman is not feeling ok ,She could be ill, down emotionally or physically. The man has to come in to her aid. Take care of her physical and emotional needs. When the woman in picture needs the doctor's attention, the love of her life has the responsibility of taking her to the hospital for check up.

6. Service the Needs of What he Has Liked and Loved

The man's plan should be perfect. Be the friend to the woman of his life. Like a mirror, the woman should be a reflection of the love of her life. Everything should be alright between the two people in love. The Man should be the pillar of his woman. Some extent put his life in stake of the woman. The two love birds unite as one and take care of each other's needs.

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Like the man needs the phone to survive in his ways of communication, in the same way, he will need the woman of his dreams to be part of his life. The two will learn to live together. Every single moment they spend together should be like eternity.Being the soul mate, the lover and everything in life.

In conclusion, a man should love his woman just like he loves his phone. Not just giving all the attention to the phone and forgetting about the love of his life that once made him go crazy in love. Love is a beautiful feeling. Love your partner like you will never love them again.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2020 Millicent Okello


Millicent Okello (author) from Nairobi, Kenya on October 11, 2020:

Hi Dora.

I really like the fact that you have seen how the two comparisons come out clearly. It's so unfortunate that some men love their phones more than their wives.

Happy to know that you loved the poem my African roots.

Thanks for the comment.

Dora Weithers from The Caribbean on October 11, 2020:

A very interesting comparison between love for a phone and love for a wife. Your message comes through clearly.

I also like your poem "My African woman Roots." Well done!

Millicent Okello (author) from Nairobi, Kenya on October 10, 2020:

Hi john. Happy to know that at least you value your wife more. For some people it's the phone that comes first. Thanks so much for the comment. I really appreciate this.

John Hansen from Gondwana Land on October 09, 2020:

An interesting comparison here, Millicent. I don’t love my phone however, so I doubt my wife would like to be loved like it.

Honestly, I don’t even like using my phone and I only have it for emergencies, if I am travelling or away from home. I usually even turn the sound off so I can’t hear it ring lol.

You do make some good points though, because many people can’t be without their phones.

Millicent Okello (author) from Nairobi, Kenya on October 09, 2020:

Hello Eric . I hope you are ok.

Thanks for the comment.

Millicent Okello (author) from Nairobi, Kenya on October 09, 2020:

Hi Raymond

I understand that loving a phone can't beat the feeling of loving another person. It's quite amazing that you can record to date when you fell in love . A few men can.Of course at some point you had to give attention to the phone which never lasted. Your priority first of course comes first.

Thanks for the comment.

Eric Dierker from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A. on October 09, 2020:

An interesting concept. I like it.

Raymond Philippe from The Netherlands on October 09, 2020:

Allthough I believe you can love a phone at first sight ;-) it can’t beat the feeling of loving another person at first sight imo. Speaking for myself, I fell in love with my wife on september 2 in 1977 and this love hasn’t diminished. I have been fond of many phones during those years, some of them even quite smart, but none of those “love affairs” ever lasted.

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