What is Love
Love is a point at which all the tension is suddenly released in a series of involuntary and pleasurable muscular contractions which expel blood from the pelvic tissues. You may feel contractions in the body mind and soul.
Just like a hiccup, a sneeze, a ripple or a peaceful sigh, love can be mild. It can be sensational as the body glows with warmth. When you feel it, it will be so intense or ecstatic as you lose awareness of yourself for a time.
Love may feel different with a lover, friend or partner, and different when you feel it and you make love with another strange person. It may feel totally different at times even with the same person.
Often, we become happy at times when we want to get additional loving and reach the highest level. Although love feelings may subside, eventually without it, it may take time and longer to resurface.
When you get sufficiently happy and don't have romantic feelings, your body mind and soul may ache for a while. a number of women have never had feelings of love .
When you don't love, you are missing something pleasurable. You can try to by, reading books about it, watching romantic movie clips, or make love with your partner, boyfriend or lover.
It is also important to know that making love does not become one more "performance" it is therefore important to know that love is natural and it has to be felt from the heart, mind body and soul.
When we live in reality especially when it comes to matters of the heart, love knows no boundaries. Nobody likes being lied to or taken advantage of.
The moment a woman realizes that the person she has been with in the relationship has been lying to her, her heart will never be the same again. It may take ages to rebuilt the same trust. The same applies to the opposite gender. The question is, how long will it take for the other party to affirm their trust to them again?
Chosing to love and to be loved are two different things. When a person falls in love, it is never a choice but rather a happening. You can fall in love head over heels with someone but they don't feel the same with you. I would rather someone tell you that they nolonger have feelings for you than to show it in action. As much as it May hurt, you got to pick up your broken pieces and move on with your life. Nobody is stuck to the other.
Millicent Okello (author) from Nairobi, Kenya on November 08, 2020:
You are welcome John. I appreciate your comment and expect more.
John Hansen from Queensland Australia on November 07, 2020:
Thank you for sharing this very nice article, Millicent. You described love very well.