Romance is the basic foundation of love. How you treat your partner is a reflection of your feelings towards them.
Rekindle the Love.
Have you ever wondered how you can rekindle your lost love with your partner? Well,this is the right time to make a beautiful comeback to the fading relationship.
Most of the time, people tend to fear and give up on their loved ones when they know, think or fear the reactions that will come with the attempt of trying to win them back.
It is therefore advisable to do the following:
1.) Reach out for your loved one
After the separation, it's that you are likely to fear facing the love of your life. Don't be afraid. There is still connection between the two of you. Communicate. Be the first to reach unto them . Yes, the first. Whatever happened between the two of you that led to the breakup ,will not make your love hate you when they see you for the first time. Say hello with a smile when you bump into each other.
As they leave, turn around and give a warm smile. This will send a message. Don't stay and start a conversation there.
2 ) Call/text message
Make sure you call your loved one later in the day. If you are afraid of calling, you could text by simply saying.
" Hi,You were looking great partner." Wait for them to reply to your text or email. If they get back to you immediately, then that is surely a good sign. Feel free to communicate. I mean, this could be the chance you have been waiting for.
3) Ask them out
What do you think ? Yes, ask them out. After the simple sms or call your loved one could be thinking about you. The smile and the simple hello or hi. We are human. The following day, ask if s/he is busy and ask them out. This should not be romantic based but a friendly get together outing. A Cup of tea or coffee, a walk in the park, or watching a movie. Visit the places you once went to and boom! The chemistry will start rekindling again.
Be simple. Don't try to bring back the memories but let them feel it. Thank them for their time when you are back. Suggest for another time together to start all over again. A conversation may at time tend to be tenacious.
That night, text them good night. I had a wonderful moment." Happy holidays. " If they text back, another good sign. If they start texting you especially about the good moments, well ,hit it on! Chat as much as you want untill you will feel them close. coming back.
4) Be yourself
Whatever may bring you back together, be yourself. Don't force them to talk about what they don't want to talk about..
Be gentle and show respect to the person. If the person accepts or asks for another moment out, thank heavens the key spare is given to you.
In the above simple instructions, your loved one is likely to come back especially after you have had the rekindling of your love again .
If it doesn't happen, then it was never meant to be. There could be someone somewhere waitingfor you. It's never the end of a book's chapter.
5) Find something that you enjoy doing together
Whether it is a shared hobby, dance class, daily walk, or sitting over a cup of coffee in the morning.
Try something new together. Doing new things together can be a fun way to connect and keep things interesting. It can be as simple as trying a new restaurant or going on a day trip to a place you’ve never been before.
6) Focus on having fun together
Couples are often more fun and playful in the early stages of a relationship. However, this playful attitude can sometimes be forgotten as life challenges start getting in the way or old resentments start building up.
Keeping a sense of humor can actually help you get through tough times, reduce stress and work through issues more easily. Think about playful ways to surprise your partner, like bringing flowers home or unexpectedly booking a table at their favorite restaurant. Playing with pets or small children can also help you reconnect with your playful side.
For each question, choose the best answer. The answer key is below.
- What percentage of couples would rekindle love?
- Do you think that it is important to rekindle love?
- No.it will make no difference.
- Yes. Rekindling your love will make you happy with your partner again.
- Maybe. Because I would not want to rekindle love with someone who ain't ready to love me.
- No.it will make no difference.
Interpreting Your Score
If you got 0 correct answers: No.I don't think so
If you got 1 correct answer: Maybe. To feel loved again.
Surprise is another way of bringing back your lost love back to track. Hkw about arranging for a surprise party, birthday party or surprise them at their places of work just to see them. Remember to carry their favourite drink or packed lunch. You can also go to a nearby restaurant for lunch together.
Before you surprise your partner, make sure to know their next moves. Not that you spy on them but make arrangements for your plans. I mean, you do not n't want to show up at their work places only to be told that they are not around. If need be, find out from their workmates if they are around. Let it be a surprise.
This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.
© 2020 Millicent Okello