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Reasons He Doesn't Trust Being in a Relationship With You

Reasons he doesn't trust you.

Reasons he doesn't trust you.

We all know that whenever you start a new relationship with a guy, he is seen to always be on his best behavior with you, and at the same time show you the best parts of himself. It only takes a while before his real attitudes and flaws begin to show up. Now, here is when the issue of lack of trust begins to come in.

Trust, being one of the most important aspects of a healthy relationship, is something you shouldn't joke with or ignore because, without trust, you will find it difficult to survive in your relationship and your relationship will not flourish.

Now, you may be curious about finding out why your man doesn't trust being in a relationship with you. While there are signs that your partner doesn't trust you, the reasons why he doesn't trust you may be harder to figure out.

To help you understand his reasons, here are therefore some possibilities of what might be happening.


1. HE IS INSECURE.

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Insecurity in men may be caused by so many factors. Though most of this his insecurities may not be caused by you. Some examples of insecurities your man may be having are.

* His sexual ability. This has to do with his worries about how he performs in bed.

* He always acts a little suspicious of his girlfriend, etc.


2. SOMETHING WENT WRONG IN HIS CHILDHOOD.

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If your partner is one of those children who didn't receive any or enough love from their parents, or their parents were the type who always promises and fails him, then this would be one of the reasons he is having trust issues, because his parents failed him when he trusted them on what they said.


3. HE HAVEN'T WORKED ON HIS TRUST ISSUES.

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Perhaps he is scared of getting out of his comfort zone and learning to trust people. This may be something hard for him to do, especially if in his past he trusted someone (maybe his ex-girlfriend, his friend, etc.) but unfortunately, they broke his trust. Because of this, he says to himself that he can't trust anyone, which therefore affects your present relationship with him. In other words, since his trust was broken before he therefore now finds it difficult to go down that path again.


4. HE HAS CHEATED ON YOU BEFORE.

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This is a pretty funny situation. The fact here is that a guy may feel he cannot trust his girlfriend if he had cheated on her before even though she decides to work things out. He feels since he cheated on you there would be a possibility that perhaps you will be unfaithful to him too. Therefore, he now thinks that if he can't be trusted, neither can you be trusted. Needless to say, this is unfair for him not to trust you because he messed up.


5. YOU'VE LIED TO HIM BEFORE.

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Now, in this scenario, you are probably at fault. Even though the reality of things is that one cannot be completely honest with everyone all the time, that doesn't mean you lying to him shouldn't have any negative impact on your relationship or his trust for you. It is therefore advisable we try to remain transparent and truthful to our partners because sincerely no one loves to be lied to.


6. HE THINKS YOU ARE TOO GOOD FOR HIM.

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Lol, this can be a really funny situation. Okay, you know it's a good thing that your boyfriend thinks you are such a blessing to him and he goes ahead telling you that you are the best thing that has ever happened to him, right? But the bad side of this is when he seriously thinks you're too good for him, he may therefore start thinking you may not stay with him over the long run. From here, his insecurity sets in and he then begins to lose trust in you because he feels you will someday leave him alone and go for a better man.


7. HE HAS BEEN CHEATED ON BEFORE.

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Obviously, this is never your fault, and yet you are left to deal with the fallout. He finds it difficult to trust any other woman because his ex-girlfriend was unfaithful to him. But seriously, it is sad and unfair that you get to be blamed for what another woman did to him in his past relationship.

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