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Should a Man Wear Lingerie?

For many women the concept of a man wearing lingerie is absolutely ridiculous. What could possibly possess a man to want to wear a bra and pantie under his masculine clothing? Do some men actually do this a lady might ask herself? I can't picture a guy wearing lingerie and attempting to pass himself off as masculine. What happened to those white cotton briefs we have come to expect a man to be wearing? If you don't like the white briefs your supposed to wear guy...what about putting on a pair of mens boxers? Panties are just for us girls, not very complimentary on you, nor should you be wearing them.

I think an examination of male pantie wearing is in order. It is catching on among the guys and becoming more prevalent. I'll attempt a feeble explanation.

For those of you unfamiliar with gentlemen who prefer Hanes...satin high cut panties that is, many titles for the condition exist. In my own case, I'll simply state, I'm a transvestite fetishist..simply defined: womens underwear turns me on.

In all likely hood you know a guy who wears silky underwear. Maybe it's your brother, father or even your husband. Maybe its your teacher or boss. In any case he probably wears his panties right in your presence. Look closely, is that a tee shirt or a camisole? Wearing lingerie is a more common phenomena than people realize. Retailers are keenly aware of these men. Large profits are to be had simply by selling to this untapped market. Sales associate discretion and courtesy will ensure they return. Ever notice how the larger (mens) sizes are taking a more prominent position in the lingerie department of almost every store you shop in?

Most lingerie wearing men choose to do so in the privacy of there own home. In my own case that's where it started, but I've long since taken to wearing my intimates while in public. Many men wear full satin nighties or chemises with matching panties to bed. Takes the meaning of sleeping like a princess to a whole new level. He might do it because he enjoys the taboo experience of wearing feminine underwear (bad boy)or he might do it because he's a fetishist (like myself). In any case he's a cross-dresser (transvestite) ...nothing wrong with admitting to a bit of gender dysphoria.

I suppose women are becoming more open minded, people like yourself taking the time to read even the silly ramblings I have posted here. But it is people like yourself that open the door to discussion and acceptance of a men endulging themselves in what has traditionally been the domain of women. After all is there anything really wrong with a guy wearing lingerie?

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Eddie Mguire on February 12, 2020:

It is quite erotic and very exciting at the doctors for a full physical examination just in nice tight microfiber full panties while being looked over by the doctor and nurse, noticing my full erection encased in them. Those panties certainly felt so soft and snug on my almost nude male body, when I was quietly reminded by the nurse that my tight undies will have to come off very soon, as the female doctor continued examining all the exposed parts of my bare male upper torso. My moment of total nudity would come, when the doctor said "raise your arms and I did, as the nurse gently reached the waistband of my microfiber full brief style panties, then slowly peeling them down. The feeling was sensational, as the clinging panties were slowly coming off, especially when she was uncovering my very erect penis, then tugging them out from my rear cheeks,stripping them down and off and the nurse saying with a lovely smile " step out of them". I didn't want them to come off, yet that soft snug microfiber material being peeled off by the nurse was sensational, while being examined by the female doctor now being totally naked with a hard on. I loved it, as a male being snug and secure in those panties and both the doctor and nurse liked seeing me in them before being completely in the nude. and examined by a female doctor.

Eddie Mguire on November 08, 2019:

As I said before, a nice pair of shiny white colored lycra panties that are brief style that covers up a nice healthy erection, feeling very snug and secure in them. Much to my surprise, I learned that a lot of guys from Europe wear them as regular underwear and really like the feel of them. Their wives and girlfriends like their men wearing lycra panties too. Again for me, they fit especially nice under leotards with tights and are very arousing feeling and so snug, secure and nicely wedgied between my rear buns. The fun part for her is stripping them with my warm clinging leotard and tights, while watching my male assets slowly slip out from under the still clinging lycra panties with sexy warm leotard and tights. The feeling is beautiful, as all that warm clinging material is stripped down and off me by her gentle hands. Yes, panties that fit right certainly feel much better than baggy tighty whities or baggy boxer shorts.

Eddie Mguire on October 23, 2019:

I don't think there is anything wrong with a guy wearing a nice fitting pair of panties. Iv'e worn shiny lycra nylon briefs style, allowing for having an an unavoidable erection in them. They certainly fit and feel so much better than those baggy tidy whities or boxers. It's especially nice wearing them under leotard and tights on Halloween or during the cold weather. They aren't frilly of have decorations on them, just plain shiny colored like red, tan or white and certainly feel nice. My female doctor and nurse like seeing me in them, especially when it's time for those nice fitting panties to come off with my warm, snug leotard and tights.

jerry on September 28, 2019:

I'm 71 years old and love to wear nylon panties . I'm a straight man that wears panties 24/7 days a week. They feel nice on my tush and are comfortable all day long and night. They do not get as wet as cotton panties and if they get sweaty they dry rather quick. I like the colors and the styles. Men's under ware are so dull and drab. Women's under ware are so much nicer.

LarryPantySissy on February 04, 2019:

I appreciate the best panties for men articles I’ve seen. Need to try something besides Fruit of the Loom nylon full panty briefs. It does help to have female friends who know you wear panties every day. It’s such a thrill to talk about my kink with my friend face to face or have her touch my leg in hose.

Steven on January 21, 2019:

Anyone coming to Singapore?

LarryPantySissy on January 18, 2019:

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Now I am sending panty pics of me to a female friend and she doesn’t mind. Some humiliation comments would be nice.

LarryPantySissy on December 22, 2018:

I like telling women I wear pantyhose and panties. Like my bartender. I don’t think she minds

Atlmac on December 20, 2018:

I am in my 70s and have been wearing panties for quite a few years...Jockey brand. My favorite is black bikini micro fiber bikinis and string bikinis because of the light weight and smooth feel. Panties fit me much better than men’s briefs and just feel so much more comfortable.

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Shanna on June 14, 2018:

I was about 4 yr. old went I start too wear girls panties. They belong too a neighbor girl we were the same age, same size. She love playing dress up.We did not know it was wrong. Her Mom came in and caught us. She make sure we did nothing wrong . She help us more like she help me. This was a new neighborhood . Not very many neighbor so I be came her playmate .The Mother of the my Playmate one day ask my Mom to come over . She had us sever tea in our summer-dress. Mom was very happy to see me as a girl because I behaving very nice and trouble-free .

lee on June 06, 2018:

i tried my first pair of my sisters panties when i was 17 i just loved how the felt on me i got so hard.. and now i wear them 24/7 i dont cross dress or wear lace i wear every day panties i wear hipsters and bikinis as they fit me nice and i love the soft stretch cotton and the colors they come in..and i do not hide the fact that i wear them as a lot of poeple know that i do if you saw me you would never know that i am wearing them

sissybun on May 19, 2018:

well its been five years now since the sale lady made me her sissy girl bitch in that time I have lovey girly tits and a nice round ass my hair is long I clean shave all the time I do all the house work my miss is the one that wears the pants when we make love I just love to suck her strap on cock one night she had a male friend over one night and she had me suck is cock after he came in my mouth she said now dear you need to feel like a women she remove my skirt and show him my nice pussy ass well after that night and many more nights I become her bitch

Christafaye from PATRICK SPRINGS VA 24133 on March 10, 2018:

Im a crossdressing m that loves to wear boyshort panties and cami's during the day and i wear a tshirt and panties to bed my wife doesnt like it she says im gay and im sick and i need to be committed but i think they fill better than boxers and briefs and like me if i buy them im gonna wear them like it not

gfm on January 05, 2018:

yes I am a older man I been in panties for years the lady I room with went out to day to buy me some new panties as I joke about it she told me this year you will start to dress more girly I said yes when I come back you have a shave make sure you are clean shave no body hair after that put on the panties I left out and the bath robe ask witch one the see thought robe I did as told I wait for two hours she came back with a other lady now my dear this lady going to help me make you my girly bitch and after that day and three hours I was turn into a sissy girl now five month later I still am

Bertie on December 22, 2017:

Why dress going to bed, if I have to wear anything I wear nothing at all, that's way I am ready (no pun intended) for anything, if the door bell rings I answer the way I am, who has not seen a naked man before

Christopher M Turner on November 29, 2017:

Im straight i love wearing panties i love boyshorts and cami's and now bra's

black knickers lover on October 16, 2017:

I just LOVE black knickers, I am always in black knickers, I love being up black knickers . all I really want is to have sex with us both wearing BLACK KNICKERS (full briefs)

Ieatkittycum on October 09, 2017:

I love the feel I'm totally heterosexual but I love wearing sexy outfits like lingerie thigh high stockings bras and panties while I pleasure myself and my cock will stay hard for a couple hours so it's all about having fun





Bud on July 21, 2017:

Funny thing about wearing panties. I have been wearing hem since I was 12yrs old (now72). It started with suffering a sever rash around my waist, family doctor tried various remedies but nothing seemed to work. these were boxers ( I wore briefs ) to none at all ( didn't like). He suggested that I should try girls panties, because they had much narrower waist band, and due to body shape they would set lower, and not at my waist line. As you can guess at 12 this didn't go over very well. out of desperation I tried them; it worked. As time went on I chose never to go back to mens underwear. In all my years I have never run into a woman who was turn-off by them.

gdm on September 14, 2016:

yes I a male and I love wearing panties been in panties for years then I start to wear bras and now after a few years I been in panties and bras all the time yes I even had lady friend but sexy bras and panties for me even had one lady gave me birth control pills she told me take them and soon you have nice girly tits I did and now I have nice girly breasts I would not change a thing and the lady love me the same

Scoobie on September 12, 2016:

I wear tan or light colored panties under leotard and tights during the cold winter months. Sometimes with snug warm overalls and long sleeve button up shirt. I've worn my warm outfit to the doctor's office for an annual physical exam. The doctor is a female and really nice, her nurse is also lovely too. When in the exam room, I'm told I have to be completely undress for my physical. Both doctor and nurse compliment my outfit, but it all has to come off including leotards and panties. She leaves the room, telling the nurse to let her know when I'm undressed and in a gown. I blush and try covering my full erection underneath all my warm and snug clothes, especially the leotard and soft clinging panties. The nurse says she will help undress me. The nurse has me standing up behind the privacy curtain, as she slowly unbuttons my overalls straps and bib, then as they drop to my waist, she unbuttons my warm flannel shirt and gently pulls it off. I feel like a little boy loosing his security blanket, blushing and squirming as the lovely nurse continues undressing me. The only items I had to take off myself were shoes and socks, showing my feet encased in blue Danskin tights. She would remind me to hold still, while finishing opening the side buttons on the warm, snug overalls and firmly pulling them down and off. Soon the doctor comes back into the exam room to see if I was ready, but I was still in leotard and tights with sexy soft panties. The nurse did basics blood pressure, weight and height measured. I had such an erection, well outlined under my blue leotard and tights, still blushing and squirming. The doctor then said, "being there no patients for a while, let me help my nurse get this tight underwear off and I can continue doing your examination". It was a beautiful, long, ticklish process peeling off leotard, tights and the clinging nylon panties, keeping my erection and male genitals snug and secure. Soon I was just in panties, when the doctor gently rolled them down below my waist, as the nurse would free my wiggling feet from the leotard and tights. The lovely lady doctor and nurse would smile, admiring how nice the clinging panties fit my male anatomy. The nurse would gently hold my squirming body still, while my excited penis was freed from the panties, then peeled down and off by the doctor. Finally I'm naked and gowned, looking like tent city under the long white gown while the doctor completed my full physical exam. In the end, I got a clean bill of health and both the doctor liked my winter outfit, especially those beautiful panties I was wearing. The doctor also mentioned that being erect while preparing and during my physical is a men's normal healthy reaction during a medical examination.

pantysam on January 16, 2016:

I am an older dude in my seventys and have been in love with white panties ever since I was seven years old! I always checked out the girls panties playing in the yard at school, on the swings and slides and it turned me on so much. that feeling I have about white panties is still as strong today. I ad a girlfriend years ago who used to have me put her panties on and she would these wonderful things to while wearing them. she would fondling me and jack me off and would blow me through the panties! it was so wonderful. I loved wearing her panties so much, I started wearing the off and on for years. now I wear them all the time. my favorite oanties are vanity fair full cut white nylon panties. love them so much. don't care about wearing any other womens clothing. just panties.

girdled on January 14, 2016:

Girdles turn me on, have for 60+yrs. Not spanx, shapers, thigh slimmers, butt-lifters. Women are afraid of the G word now-a supposed male contrivance for oppression of the gentle sex. Ooh, forgot how simply they are to control. Hah! So ladies, if you have found an old panty-girdle in the back of a closet, nylons, slips panties, bras, garter belts, petti-pants, tu-tu's baby dolls, camisoles, tap pants, teddies, waspies, cinchers, corsets, all in ones, crinolines, bustiers, merry widows, any of that weaponry of oppression, send them to me. I promise to examine them intimately with my personal professional interest, for a report of my findings to follow. I will, in honesty, report a slight bias - I am wearing taupe nylons as I type, pale yellow panties with a shadow panel, a sheer marquisette brassiere, zippered half-slip, and piece-de-resistance, a zippered hi-waist Poirette Promise panty girdle, with 6 meddlesome garter clips harrangues my loins. Such torture they are, but somebody must do this vital research! So do your patriotic duty and send me those nasty old girdles gals. I will handle them gladly!

john wood on January 10, 2016:

If you havent tried silky nics your missing out .i love them and am always looking for new pairs .

also all other garments which are so silky and shiny to touch when on heels are a must to set iit all off

slinky panties on January 09, 2016:

Hi BD949,

What u did was not gross nor offensive:)

Good day


and i love wearing my women's jewelry too like my women's timex 01017 gold and silver version of that watch and my 3mm millgrain wedding band and my women's speidel id heart charm bracelet and my women's 10k gold wavy thumb ring and my diamond engament 7 diamond cluster ring too i love it all along with me wearing my women's hanes her way sweat suit and my women's cotton hanes her way paties too

Mike from Harrisburg Pa on October 31, 2015:

I especially love Victoria's Secret. I was talking to a lady friend about this then she dared me to try a pair on. When she had seen I was wearing a thong she spnked me then said she loves it.

michael on October 27, 2015:

woman boss man got job and dress as woman 8 year

tortinwall on September 29, 2015:

Just threw out the last of my mens' underwear. I now have nothing but girlie stuff, mainly skimpy and black but some pretty and lacy for when I'm feeling sexy or when I'm going for a swim and secretly would like to get found out.

looking on June 06, 2015:

I am 60 years and I enjoy wearing panties, my wife who is half my age buys them for me.


I love to wear my white cotton hanes her way panties and my hanes her way sweat suit out fit i love it

Unknown on February 14, 2015:

Help, I really like to wear panties, I have never tried them all of you guys say it feels good now I want to try!!!

richelle on January 04, 2015:

It started out as a dare, the when I found out how good the felt that was it, and I have been wearing them for the past 20 years. I like the nylon ones better than the cotton ones. For the summer time the cotton one are cooler and more comfortable for me any way. Now I wear them every day, and my girl friend kind of likes them on me, and told me to wear them every day we are together.(the nylon ones that is) The only time I had a problem was when I got sick and was tan to the hospital and the doctor in the E.R. said why are you wearing these? I told him I like them better than the old style men use. Comfort and freedom that's the name the game.

birrbb on January 01, 2015:

I've just confessed my love of panties to my wife of 14 years. She suspected but didn't realize the real desire to wear them. It shocked her, and concerned her a little when I first brought it up. To my surprise, she gave me a pair of black nylon panties this Christmas. It was the most thoughtful gift I've ever received - especially knowing how little it did for her. Later she admitted that it did turn her on a bit when she was picking them out for me. She is still concerned about what this may lead to so we've decided that I can only wear them when she has picked them out for me. It's only one pair but its a start. She also mentioned that the ones she got me weren't very "girly"... can't wait until Valentine's Day.

Rossie on December 29, 2014:

I have been wearing panties off in own all my life, I also like sex with man wearing panties or other fem. clothes I am married and I think I have more panties then she has , but she does'nt look in my drawer our she would be surprised . I like the silky ones but I also like any fem. clothes I wish I could go out dress in them but I am afraid to .I live in Oklahoma ,you can email me at I go by the the name Rossie

Me too on November 15, 2014:

my wife introduced me to panties shortly after we were married 15 yrs ago. At first it was embarrassing but now panties are all I wear. Two of her close girlfriends know but have not seen them

My doctor is a woman who has known my wife since grade school. She has seen me in panties many times and let's my wife be present in the exam room

The only thing that still embarrasses me is when my wife takes me panty shopping

Me too on October 12, 2014:

I am a 35 yr old woman who keeps her husband in panties. It took me almost a year to get him to try. He felt embarrassed but tried it. No intake him to outlets stores selling Hanes or Bali panties. I have thrown away his underpants. He also wears thigh highs for me. At first it was only at home. It excites me. Since we have the same woman internist, I

He has to wear panties to the doctor. She allows me to be in the exam room. His embarrassment at standing in panties before the doctor and her assistant is a turn on. So wives, put him in panties and not only at home

like wear panty on September 22, 2014:

I wear panties all the time,my wife dont have a problem. With me wear and sometime i wear bra too. And have nighties i wear to bed. I have wear one that i have make her want to have sex . I am happy that i find this site that a lot of msm wear pantys like me. That is cool that we can express how we feel about wear panty.

ed on August 12, 2014:

i wear panties and camis 24/7 i do not wear the ugly mens underwear any more they feel bad. there is nothing wrong with men wearing ladies undies. be proud that you wear them

dean on July 24, 2014:

I am gay and I love wearing panties and bra. I wear them all the time it makes me feel so feminine. I love the feel of them on my shaved body.

bill on July 14, 2014:

I wear them because they keep me semi hard, the best is slipping them off the wife putting them on and making love . Still i will wear every chance i get , always take them on bussiness trips for sleeping in . Just love panties, the smell the licking everything about them . Happy wanking in panties to all .

mark anthony on July 13, 2014:

I wear womens panties all the time,and I think they feel great.It doesn'tmatter if they were for women originally,men can wear them too.they just Enhance my man hood.

es on May 03, 2014:

Mens under wears are very warm and uncomfortable often causing skin infections and it is about time that they change the texture of the fabric to a near transparent like panty . What is the difference, you are wearing them inside anyway. and besides women take it in a near matter of seeing a man in the nude and not enticed to him by what he wears. perhaps they have no imagination and know nothing about the power full instincts that we have in us to know what the women want to see. Do men not penetrate their gaze into a woman's cloths gazing at the out line of her panties and the tighter the skirt the stronger their gaze against her skirt and desires build up . A semi transparent media is that which causes more flex to gratify reality and surely want for a closer look . and they all know when that look comes their way. it is not so that men made and designed the panties to suit their gaze . then surely the women should know what they should do when they do not feel attracted to their men . Pretend you are watching a group of body builders all men and if one of them is wearing a near transparent under wear . it is no surprise to any one that the first light is the deepest measure of clarity that draws you attention to a satisfying view of reality . I myself watch for the most transparent in a woman and possibly show the most visible of my self and I know where their gaze goes to in the context of the mass soon I provide the needful and interest takes hold . If we do no t fill our minds with the gems stones in the park and the women are blinded in the home alone . Relativity falls short of productivity. Women only pretend to be good

billinmich from michigan on April 16, 2014:

i love wearing panties, from cotton bikinis to my fav microfibre hipsters, i walk around semi hard wearing them . i too have a wife that doesn't mind, and sometimes slipping hers off and putting them on me simply makes me cum harder . MMm hard now , have to go relieve this wood .

Geoff on April 15, 2014:

Despite the still at times negative comments I get from my wife in relation to me wearing and buying panties,(just as my last two ex-wives), I simply cannot imagine going back to wearing male 'undies.' I now wear nylon and satin high cut large panties, satin bikini panties, pink and mauve sheer nylon briefs all of the day and night. Perhaps it is a fetish that some define as 'abnormal for men', but I cannot fully explain just how much of an erotic thrill I get from not only wearing panties, but also from buying and washing panties. I also get turned on by spraying perfume on freshly washed panties..

My wife has ,( much to my surprise), has recently bought me

six pairs of extra large size satin full brief panties, and yes, pink and purple panties ARE the sexiest for me...I have also discovered the erotic pleasure of wearing panty liners in the constant hot days- good for no itching from sweat~! She has also given me three pairs of nylon panties that I can use for self pleasure...That is also amazingly sexy for me- but I cannot comprehend her varying moods in relation to my life choice.

Lori-Ann on April 01, 2014:

Yes, they are more comfy, for me they feel great rubbing in all the right places. That's the reason I wear panties, for sexual relief.

Halley on March 21, 2014:

Yes indeed the panties and bras are more comfortable to wear as compared to men's wear

Mike from Harrisburg Pa on March 15, 2014:

Definetly. How many people are going to actually look? For me panties are more comfortable and better looking and pantyhose keep my legs warmer in the winter.

Howard on February 27, 2014:

I have been wearing panties for over two years now and I love it. I would never go back to mens underwear. I use a pantyliner in my panties. I also wear pantyhose from time to time.

Danafla on January 08, 2014:

I have my own lingerie now..and I enjoy wearing panties, bra, and slips to bed. I always seem to have nice dreams. I really don't know why i started wearing my mom's and sister's clothes. All i can say is that I had great times wearing their clothes.

Danafla on December 30, 2013:

I have been wearing since I have been about 11 years old. It started innocently enough...I barged in my Mom's bedroom when she was getting ready for work. I wanted to tell her that I was too sick to go to school.....What I saw was a beautiful woman in her bra and panties... she was putting on her pantyhose. She said ok , but I would have to clean the downstairs windows. Needless to say, all i did all day was play with her lingerie.!

Nois on November 28, 2013:

I was searching the web and I found this site. I am very interested because I am female and I sell used ladies panties. I have come across many men which like this as I am also a Mistress and have many 'subs' ask for used items because it turns them on so much.

So I set up my online shop. I wear and then sell my thongs, panties, knickers, bras and bikinis, 1 day or longer, however the customers require. Check out my site at and if you like then please do order.

I am in the UK but will post anywhere.

erica2012 on October 24, 2013:

I am proud to wear panties every day!

Right or Wrong...

It just feels good. And no one has the power to judge me!


charles foster on October 02, 2013:

i love granny panties. love to here from others im 52

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sissygdm on June 23, 2013:

yes I wear panties have been for year one day I went to a store and was looking in the women clothes when a sale lady ask if she could help I said yes what are you looking for I told her some panties she ask for your wife I said no I wear panties she look at me and said I heard that before you are just shy of buying them for your wife I told her I don't have one then I show her my panties that I have on well come with me girly man I did as told she toke me to the back and close the door then she told me to undress I love a man that wear women clothes and hope I meet one then she ask is the only thing you wear are panties no I told her then she toke a good look you are shave all over yes your breasts yes would you like to try on a bra and a dress to I said yes after I was dress she told me you look very nice I think you should wear that home i cant do that yes you can and will because you are taking with you and now I become her sissy girl

pantyfreak on January 03, 2013:

I started dated a new gal about 6 months ago and had to hide my panty collection for her, I've been wearing womens panties for over 40 years and never want to stop. About a week ago we were drinking at my apartment and the subject of panties came up, well I was drunk and feeling brave and said I have been keeping a secret from you that I think you should know about, So I told her about my panty fetish and she could'nt believe it, I went to the closet and brought out 4 boxes all filled with nothing but panties, We went thru the boxes and we picked out which ones she would keep and which ones she would allow me to wear, Allthough I still wear the silky string bikini panties she said she didn't want me to wear.

sissybun on September 16, 2012:

sissybun here well it been a year now the pill that my ladyfriend gave me made my breast enlarge i had to qiut my jop itold my friend that i qiut work she said good i was hoping you would now you can keep house for me i said ok till i find other work well it been five month now and no longer looking for work i have become house wife for my friend and love it i guess this what i must do she told me you see i knew you were a sissy

Stephen on September 11, 2012:

I have found a cool girl to buy the panties from. She is very cute and sexy. She makes me happy and satisfied wearing the panties she is modelling.

Just ask about Stephen. I am a regular buyer of her sexxxyyy panties and love to wear them. She also perfumes them for me! mmmmmmm A++

Cindy Jane on August 27, 2012:

I am a crossdresser born a male but see myself as a girl who hasnt gone through a gender transformation. I recently came out as the real me to my girlfriend and a few select friends and now feel so free, buying my own clothes, and lingerie etc and wearing make up. Clearly Cindy is not the name given to me at birth, but I just had to have a pretty name. I've been married twice, had 5 kids between two other mothers, and secretly wore the panties and sometimes other items, from suspender belts and stockings to nighties and dresses. They all knew I had a big fetish for their underwear and have at times invited me to wear it, which has always been the most breath talking experience for me. They didnt know the full extent of what I really wanted though or of what I was doing on in their absence, which I so wanted them to know. It was also something i couldnt come to full terms with within myself and so although the pantie wearing was a frequent experience it wasnt something i pursued as a way of life. till about 8 weeks ago when dying for my girlfriend to know I wanted her to put her knickers on me and touch me I decided to come clean (pardon the pun) and share it with her. I actually want to be a full time girl and even go on to full gender transformation, as i realise now how I've wanted it all my life and believe I was born to be a girl, so to speak, I am not a man in any real sense of the word other than I have the tackle etc. This would probably surprise a lot of people who know me, as they probably think I'm a bit of a lad, even though I've been called a girl or like a woman many times and have been told i walk feminine and have other feminine ways. Even the word feminine turns me on, I love being feminine and the more feminine i can dress and the prettier the better. There's nothing like a lovely pair of panties on for making you feel good and they totally de-stress me the second theyre on. I now wear them day and night and sleep in gorgeous little nighties. I have lovely white skirts and dresses, pretty pink panties and other items and I have now bought my first two bras that i pad out and wear with matching knickers and sometimes stockings etc. I absolutley adore my femininity and this new found freedom to dress and my girlfriend who has found it a bit difficult here and there has now come into full acceptance of it and loves it. We buy matching stuff and wear it and as we are the same size more or less we also share clothes. We are quite different in out taste but have crossover areas: I am very pretty orientated and looking sweet and cute but sexy sometimes, but she is more dark and sexy. I just love girly and the the girlier the better. And then there's the make up OMG, I just love putting that stuff on and having sexy beautiful eyes. I have always had long hair - naturally curly, and so I dont have to do much there. I'm actually 52 but have more or less a full head of hair and come from a family where we look very young for our age, so I pass for 38ish and am bit of MILF haha!!

sissy bun on July 16, 2012:

yes i have wore paanties for years it strated when a lady friend ask me if i would try a pair of panties on i said why knot i toke the panties from here and put them on she look at me and said you should wear them all day i said yes then we went out to the mall to shop she said that she had to get some bras and panties i said ok i go to good lets go and maybe you can pick out some panties for you and a few bras i never thought about what she said the next thing i knew i was getting fit for a bra and dress after we got home she told me that was fun i hope you like what we brought i said yes but why did i get fit for dress and bra why sissy girl you have to wear them girl you cant wear male cothes all the time when you come over here you are my sissy girl now lets have some coffee and then you can get dress up in your new clothes she went and brought out the coffee and hand me two pills take them with your coffee i did as told well that was one year now and i am a sissy girl now i know longer wear male clothes so please if you like e-mail me at thank you hope to hear

graham on July 16, 2012:

yes i wear panties all the time to please a lady friend she told me thati should wear a bra i said yes i love too now i only wear bras panties under my clothes

Ptv on June 26, 2012:

Anyone else LOVE to wear the smallest and tiniest thong/g-string or bikini they can find mmm love tiny thongs or thong bikinis tan lines are amazing and the GF loves it

Spockstickle on June 20, 2012:

Boxers are for grandpa, tighty whitie briefs are for junior. REAL MEN WEAR PANTIES!!!

laurie on June 11, 2012:

I also wear womans me and we can talk

birmingham michael on June 05, 2012:

I first started wearing panties when I was 13 and my 10 tear old sister asked me if I would like to try on her pantiesI was amazed how wellher nylon panties fittedc me.From then I was hooked.

j on May 19, 2012:

Hi all iam a man that has been wearing panties 27/7 over 34yrs. I even wear panties to the doctor. Just wear what you wnat to wear.

Ben D Badgi on May 05, 2012:

Seriously guys, please spell-check or proof-read your posts before you submit them. You make us panty boys look like illiterate morons!

BARRY on May 01, 2012:




Larry on April 17, 2012:

I have been wearing panties since I was very young, now I am 56 and still wearing them.

rcs on April 12, 2012:

i wear panties and camis all the time i started to wear panties when my wife gave me some of hers to wear. now i shop and buy my own panties and camis i even wear panties when i go to the doctor. it does not bother me to be seen in panties

GearJammer on April 09, 2012:

Tonight I was watching "Bones" on FOX and they were investigating a crime scene where they found the remains of a woman under an 18-wheeler. They got inside of the truck and found panties inside. They were accusing the truck driver of killing truck stop hookers and the driver had to admit that they were his. He then pulled the waistband down on his pants revealing his pink lacy bikini panties. He told them, "I only wear them when I'm out on the road because they're so comfotrable! Please don't tell my wife!"

Melbu on April 04, 2012:

Ha, pansie my a.. Paul. Everyone is different, some are into the wigs and wanting to become a woman, which is not for me to judge. For myself, I love the materials, the look and all under my clothes. I am not gay, but I think I'm what they call a metro sexual, so I take care of myself physically.

I do not act like a woman, nor do I want to be a woman, I ride a bad a.. motorcycle, and most of all I love women. So... How about if this pantie wearing pansie kicks your a.. Paul.

Have a nice day,


GearJammer on April 03, 2012:

To Paul:

Yet you come here to tell us you are blithely above it all? Obviously you are NOT over it, because you came here! Spare us your sanctamoneous, albeit phony... bullshit!

Paul on April 02, 2012:

It's a perversion (fetish), men who have some big issues within! Boys who want to feel all sexy like girls! I can understand it and relate to it although thank God I do not do it! I went through this phase when I was about 15 for a year or so! I was exploring my sexuality and yes I was 100% heterosexual but wearing the lingerie gave me a thrill. I remember at age 10 wearing a dress on Halloween and also getting a tush off of it. But after age 18 I stopped doing it and decided I was a man and was going to act like a man and be a man for the rest of my life (over 30 years now). I'm glad I dont have this fetish because I think it's a sickness inside that doesn't need to be fulfilled. I still have some other harmless fetishes and a huge sex drive (I love sex and I love women) but I'll be damn if I'm going to be a pansie and wear women's lingerie or panties. Men who do it unless your gay or a transvestite should take a good look at yourself in the mirror and find your shame. It's in you somewhere. Imagine yourself getting caught by your coworkers or family members, friends, etc. yea that's the shame I'm talking about it, own it!!

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ecs on March 27, 2012:

i wear panties 24/7 i do not wear mens underwear any more i also wear camis i like the lace around the top. i even wear panties when i go to the doctor . i have about 50 pairs now i like to wear delta burk. they fit very nice

satinylon on March 23, 2012:

hi, Julie

There are plenty of them ( including those very discrete one in singapore ) : P so don't what is comfortable for u and feel the sensation....of the slinky material which u don't in 'male underwear'. Good day to all.

Julie on March 21, 2012:

Im wonder how many of us (men) are wearing panties and I've never seen a sign of any guy wearing any in public under their male clothes I wish I could. Because I'm still feeling I'm the only one

buster on March 20, 2012:

Been wearing panties for a long time.I am near buffalo ny. Would like to talk to others about panties ect.My email is Hit me up we can chat. I would like to meet others that wear panties and see what happens

Melbu on March 19, 2012:

Danafla, you are not gay of you just choose to wear panties. I love women and have no desire to be gay. I have finally come to terms with who I am, and I will not stop wearing panties. I own no male underwear, even for a doctors visit. I do own women's boy shorts for a doctors visit.

I hope to find a woman that understands and accepts me for who I am.

nylonguy on March 13, 2012:

Nylon panties are the best, wish people were not so uptight about what others wear. They are uptight about everything in the south. When I'm at home, not uptight but in panties. My wife knows and is somewhat supportive. I wish she would accept it a bit more. Oh well. be happy! Wear what you want.

Danafla on March 10, 2012:

As I said earlier, I started wearing women’s lingerie around age 11. I so remember the first time. I had come home from school and felt a little different. At that point I was rubbing myself off but I needed something more. The thought of seeing my mother in those skirts with her long beautiful legs got me thinking….so I went to her bedroom and looked through her panty drawers. I found a white slip, pantyhose and panties that had lace around the waistline. I tried them on and my heart started pounding….I was hooked. I started getting really hard as I put on the panties and slip. I then picked out a bra and stuffed some of her panties to fill the cups of the bra. I then put on the pantyhose and my legs started tingling. I looked at myself in the mirror and I knew it was wrong but I was so hard and turned on. So there I was all dressed up and I started humping the bed. The feel of the slip and pantyhose sliding along my cock sent me to a place that I had never been before. I came all over my mom’s lingerie and I was terrified. I cleaned as much as I could and put everything away. I felt so bad, that I was the only one that would do such a bad thing. I was all alone not knowing that there were others like me. I was ashamed of the lengths I went to wear my moms and sisters lingerie.

Now here I am, wearing lingerie to bed and panties under my work clothes. I am afraid to commit to a female because of my fetish. No women would understand. I know now that I cannot stop wearing and that is my problem. I need an answer. Why did this happen to me? I love women. Am I gay? I have never even thought of looking at a guy.

Ben D Badgi on March 10, 2012:

For all of you women reading this... make your man wear your panties! You will be glad of it! It will improve your sex life and the both of you will be happier. At first he may pretend to protest and say that he doesn't want to, but eventually he will give in, because he secretly DOES want to wear your panties!

If women all over the world would make their husbands and boyfriends wear their panties, we would have world peace! Men would forget about war and conquest; they would stay home with their women, wearing panties and making love instead of war!

mike on March 09, 2012:

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Billinmich on March 08, 2012:

I know the feeling, i first tried panties on when i was 7 or 8, on the outside of my clothes, later in life when like 17 i stold a gf's moms panties from their bathroom, hmmm, i still get a boner thinking of those satin blue bikinis

Danafla on March 07, 2012:

My Mom was a beautiful woman and she loved to tan her body. When i was about 11 i saw her in a different light, a sexual being. She used to wear a bikini that showed off her nice tits and legs. She had the same suit in two differnet colors, one was a rose color and the other a bright yellow.One afternoon i walked by the back yard and saw her sunning,and it hit! I looked at her and i got a stirring in my stomach and the other area.

I went into the house and went into my mom's bathroom where her other suit (yellow) was drying.I stripped off my shorts and shirt and tried on her suit. I don't know why but I did it. I was so turned on. That is what started me wearing womens clothes.After I wore her bikini I started wearing her and my sisters panties and other clothes. I just got a nice feeling everytime I wore their lingerie.

I have gone through stages of quitting and throwing away my fem clothes. It has been only recently that I have come to terms with my fetish.While I am still a closet dresser, I will no longer be ashamed of wearing my lingerie.

37 yrs old size 6 panty 38c bra 5'11" 178 (single).

PS. I love to wear panties and slips to bed.I sleep great!

hotboy818 on March 05, 2012:

i want to share my personal panty pics with someone. anyone interested hit me up at i'm 31 years old and love wearing panties and then take pics of myself. and i want to share with whoever...

jason on March 04, 2012:

I wear ladies panties 7 days a week! Mine are Satin G-strings of various colours, but many are pink. I started wearing them because they are more comfortable then mens underwear, also thinner and lighter which feel free and allows the region down below to "breathe". The women I have seen love them and are generally turned on by them, in fact 80% of the pink ones I have, have been gifts from ladies and often came with BENEFITS!!! I've been wearing them for about 10 yrs, I am a 40yr old man. For what its worth it's panties only, no bras or stockings etc, reason is because I have hairy legs, no tits and wear them for the before mentioned comfort, benefits etc not because i want to be female like. But each to their own, and good luck to all.

Rick on March 02, 2012:

Hi Anonymous - haven't tried my moms but love wearing my girlfriends. Also been keeping it to panties but maybe should extend to bra's.

Any of you guys dig stockings??

Anonymous on February 29, 2012:

hello. im a straight male, 14 years old, and i just love ! wearing my moms lingerie and underpants and sometimes bra when nones around, ill never wear them outside my room because i know my family wont support. i wish i had a credit card and a private adress to buy a corset and wpmens pantiies and all that. im actually wearing my moms panties, bra and lingerie roght now. email me at for tips pls

michael on February 28, 2012:

live and let live

if men went to wear lady

Melbu on February 25, 2012:

Hi all, I'm a straight male and I have been wearing panties since the age of 12. A little over a year ago, I threw out all of my men's umderwear "yuck" and I have been happily wearing panties 7/24. I can't stand hair, so I finally shaved my legs and I love the feeling. I like to wear pantihose when it's cold out.

Happy Trails to ya all!!!!

billinmich from michigan on February 25, 2012:

lovee all things fem, panties i love , both on me on her or used, mmm love the smells . slips are hot, girdles are tight and i don't last long in them,

aaaa on February 24, 2012:

i like to wear panty..and you know i also wear napkin...but im a boy

Mike on February 22, 2012:

ditched the mens pants years ago and always wear knickers/panties, they are much more comfortable, nylon ans silky ones are nice, but having such a variety to choose from is nice. The wife does not seem to be bothered by it.

pat on February 21, 2012:

I am a male that enjoys wearing sheer nude pantyhose or fishnets but no panties for me I go commando I love how the material rubs on my bare skin. I get a nice boner while wearing the hose.Last winter early in the morning it was a heavy storm I decided to do something daring I slipped on a pair of my fishnets & a warm jacket & pair of boots nothing else the snow felt wonderful against my body I decided to remove my jacket to get the snow to fall on my boner I then to proceed to wank off WOW !! WHAT A EXHILARATED FELLING!! the next morning I did the same but wore the sheer nude pantyhose try it you might enjoy this like me but do it @ 3 a.m. the bet time to do it.

fsufan11 on February 18, 2012:

After reading the previous five posts, I agree that I would not wear women's clothing in public --- even in Las Vegas! I like to wear bras, slips, half-slips, crotchless panties, garter belts, nylon stockings from Fredericks, and high heels from Fredericks. I am currently at the public library wearing a crotchless panty under my jeans. Wearing the panty gives me a wonderful feeling! Cross-dressing does NOT make a man a homosexual!!! I am very straight, and I love women!

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