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How to Know if a Guy Likes You

How to Know If He Likes You

You could have sworn you noticed a twinkle in his eye when he looked your way. The moment your eyes connected, you felt your heart skip a beat. His smile made your stomach do multiple flips.

Yet if you are anything like my best friend, the guy could be wearing a blinking neon sign that he is available and you could still miss it. Some signs of attraction, only your heart can decipher.

Your brain, on the other hand, can put serious doubts in your mind about whether or not to ask the guy out. At times, the game of risking rejection is very hard to play. Heck, its hard to even find the guts to make the first move. The stakes can be incredibly high when you focus all your passionate energies on your crush and you place your heart on the line.

Is this why so many of us prefer to stay in relationships that we have outgrown? I think it is easier to stay with what you have grown used to in comparison to the unknown. Just think how comfy your pair of old worn-in slippers is, compared to those patent high heels. You get my point then. Then again, what if that guy your heart has placed a bid on is exactly what destiny has lined up for you? You will never know if you don't try.

Your Own Feelings May Tell You What He Is Feeling

To find out what is going on, monitor what you are feeling yourself, when you get a chance to converse with him or when you lock eyes. Those long eye gazes hold a lot of information if you know what you are looking for.

All it usually takes, to figure out if he likes you, is to pay close attention to what you are feeling inside. The feeling you may get is not one can be easily described; most likely you can't quite explain it, and get easily flustered if you try. Are you nervous, nauseous, uncertain of how to act around him? Well, there is a good chance that he is feeling the same way around you too. Love, like lust, does a funny thing to humans. We suddenly lose our brilliant, confident selves and easily become shy, dizzy, and clumsy. Basically, we show our crush the side we are so desperately trying to hide.

Your own feelings help you interpret another's body language.

Your own feelings help you interpret another's body language.

Enjoy Your Crush—It's an Adventure

That vulnerability, that uncertainty, is the best part of having a crush. It's in finding pleasure along the whole journey to a relationship. Enjoy everything you are feeling at this very moment: the uncertainty, the anxiety, and the feeling that you can't live life without him. Appreciate the fact that destiny placed another human being in your path so that you could get to know yourself, and him. Maybe, if it's in your cards, this could be the right person for you to form a loving relationship with. You will never know if you don't try. Just remember, if you savor every moment of this game, the ending will be that much sweeter...


Emma on June 01, 2019:

So theres this boy and we have been in the same homeroom since 1st grade {i'm in 10th} and a couple weeks ago he confessed his feelings and asked me out. Then we started dating. One day we had a week off school and we went to his house and he had this crazy idea that he wanted to see my dead naked. I didn't know what to say. He had these really weird neighbors that were always around and I didn't want to strip in front of them. So we told our parents we were going to the beach and we did but...... it was a nude beach. Everywhere we looked their were naked couples. Then he told me to get comfy on the sand so he could slowly take my clothes of and we could be sexy. I was hesitent but soon i was down to my underwear and bra. He made it VERY dramatict and soon his hands were all over my groin and boobs. i soon realized how comfortable it was and i got to strip him and OH how fun it was! We spent the rest of the week there naked and sexy.

lauren vander merwe on March 31, 2018:

okay they're is this guy asked me out for my first time at high school and just one look in he's eyes and suddenly I shall this shine and he still doesn't leave me alone...he keeps touching or holding he's hand on my stomach he asked me out the 3th year and told me he has strong feelings for me. ..He yells my name until I look and winks at me. .He still asks me about a answer and tells me he has feelings for me?

love hurts on March 12, 2018:

I don't know if i should give up or keep on trying? Because when i decide to give up he ack's like he cares but when i try he dosen't even care. ????????????????SO WHAT SHOULD I DO KEEP ON TRYING OR JUST GIVE UP AND MOVE ONE??????????

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

isi on December 26, 2017:

the other day (my crush has a locker next to mine!!!!) i was at my locker and my crush came over and me and my friend were just leaving when he heard us saying how bad our lockers were (i think) and then he said isi look at mine, and it was a picture of a love heart that was drawn on with sharpie - what does this mean???

I can't get him out of my mind on November 18, 2017:

I'm in fifth now and got transferred to another school so when I got there,there was a girl who sat across from me and she said to me that the boy that sits next stop me flirts to girls and he came in the next day and idk what happened but I starting to like him so know he's my partner in school and what ever project we have in class he have to do it with our shoulder partner and he's my partner,but anyway he always pokes me pulls at my book back string,looks at me,tales my pencil and ask me stuff , and when I look at how to tell if a boy likes me I read all the stuff he does but he has a girlfriend witch is my friend and I'm kind a jealous and they had just broke up cos some one told him that she liked some one else but anyway I really like him and I don't know if he likes me but I'm afraid to tell him I like him what do I do I can't get him out of my mind!!!!?!?!?!?!??!?!??. If there's any mess spelling if not my fault it's auto correct

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helppppppp on November 01, 2017:

i like this guy at my school and i’ve been crushing on him for at least 5 years now and i can’t get him out of my minddd omg

rachel PLS HELP ME W THIS on May 25, 2017:

So there is this guy i RLLY like who i used to be friends with in like first grade (im in eighth now). Anyways last year i told my friend to give him a note saying "rachel likes you" and she gave it to him during spanish. so reaction. Then at my batmizvah near the end of the school year, i tell my dance friend that i want to slow dance with him AS A JOKE, and then she is like "do you want me to tell him? And I say maybe, so she tells him anyways. He stares at me and then puts his head in his hands and talks to his friends. And he leaves early to go to the mall next door :(. But my friend told me that when he got the letter in spanish he was blushing A LOT. Now, i feel like he purposely bumps into me, and im still mad at him so I occasionally bump into him or elbow him...BUT I STILL LIKE HIM SOMEHOW. like with the bumping into me, today, i was walking down the stairs and he was walking up, and he didnt move over to let me by! Instead he kind of smushed me against the wall and glared at me for two seconds and then ignored me. I DIED AT THAT MOMENT. but then yesterday i looked at him and then he looked back....errrr idk anymore. i need help like righttt nowwww.

Help! on May 26, 2015:

So, Today this guy was sitting above me, and near me all the time. Sometimes I just catch him staring me for a few seconds and then turns his head. Sometimes we just catch looking at each other and I just blush and look away. Also while I was sitting in lunch he was sitting behind me with his friend. Everytime I see him everywhere and I feel so shy around him. Also when he's around his friends he's so active, Hyper and Humorous but when he's around me he gets all shy and nice/friendly. Last week I saw him laughing with his friend and then he caught me looking at him and I knew he was staring at me so I just looked back.

What does this mean?... I really like this guy and we have some stuff in common but i'm too shy to talk to him but I want to know if he likes me because he becomes really nice and shy.

help me please on February 09, 2015:

so i like a boy in my spanish class.I have never talked to him because i am way too scared. he sits behind me and stares at me alot and smiles. then just today he leaned his desk up and his head was on my chair. He kicks my chair alot. He's in the same lunch as me and my friends catches him staring across the lunchroom. Today though, my friend caught him staring and when i looked over at him, he was staring at me and he was trying to hide it.Also whenever i see him in the halls he checks me out Does he like me?

need help on February 02, 2015:

this is no help im going incane I need answers

prettykitty on December 14, 2014:

i need a test cause this is no help

itsallokjay on January 24, 2013:

me and this boy-trent...we're freinds. cept he always teases me about being asian. and trust me, i know im not like-indian indian. im not a stereotype of anything really. even culture or ethnicity. anyways-he teases me constantly. but...not always. we have had a few cnversations...about just silly things. we're only 13-which explains some of the topics, crayons, school, projects, our friends, yes-crayons. anyways-lets say we have three conversations a month. (yes, only three) in two of those, he would be like tapping me, or patting my head, or just finding some way to be close. he had a girlfriend, that i really thought it would work out between them-but it didn't. and i didn't know-but this was three weeks ago. yes-dumb me. but i have a tendency to be really shy, and practically invisible. (please don't tell me to break out of my shell, i can't) he's just really sweet, and in the end..-as retarded as it ounds makes me happy. which is really rare. i'm suicidal...i cut. simple. i enjoy being invisible and unheard...but...not by him. it hurts when he ignores me...or just doesn't seem to see me. you guys think i may have a shot? after all...he is the one who likes to tease me...but maybe the wrong way? and he doesn't tease other girls as much as he does pretty blonde-but she's his ex's nothing there...and the other two asian girls...but i know he only teases them about being asian...with irony involved. all i want to do ou uys think i have a shot?

victoria on December 12, 2012:

My name is Jenna Bueh from Australia my girlfriend left me a month ago and she was leaving with another man,i fell like my life is completely over. I read over the internet how you have help several people to get there love back. Have been dipresed for the past one month and what i need is to get her back and live with me so i decided to give it a try so i contacted him and explain my problems to him and he cast a spell for me which i use to get her back and now my life is complete and i am throughly greatful to this man,his contact emai Thank you very much and i am extremely greatful

dana kl on July 12, 2012:

What i would do is the next time he smiles at you, you should wave at him.

or be like, "Hey, what movie would you recommend?" and so on.

Emily on July 11, 2012:

There is this guy who works at the movie theater that I really like. When we see him I feel nervous, blush, and get butterflies in my stomach.

When we lock eyes he smiles at me a lot. He seems to act a little differently than the other guys who work at the movie theater.

I have a feeling that he might like me but I can't be sure. What do you think? I really want to talk to him more. Should I?

dana kl on July 10, 2012:

Preeti: I would say he's and ass. I wouldn't go after him, he's not worth it. Just date other guys. Trust me there are many guys out there that probably like and you haven't noticed.

Thomas Oukly: Hahaha i've had that situation with a couple boys before. What always works for me is to be straight forward. I mean don't be mean to her. Just tell her something like, "I'm sorry but i can't replicate the feelings you have for me. I see you more as a friend". She'll probably hate for a little while, but (in my opinion) being straight forward the first time hurts less than later.

XxJadeRoxX: I think there is big chance that he may like you, and since ur in the same class just go, and ask him for homework or just smile and say hi. That's what i did with a guy that did similar things, except after one time he smiled at me, and i smiled back he asked me for HW. Only thing is that i know that he is a very extrovert person (we dated for a little while). I think you should throw him a smile. then let him do the next step. look it like a tennis game right now the ball is on your court, once you smile or talk to him the ball will be on his court. ( Though don't do both smile and say hi or ask for Hw. one or the other. ) Then he'll have to do something and you will know for sure if he like you or not.

dana kl on July 10, 2012:

Ok I'm confused. So this guy i know him and his siblings. And we hang out. he'll play with my hand and hold it in front of everyone, and he'll put an arm around me, and when his sister got between us he kept a hold on me and pushed me closer. One time we were alone and he put his forehead on my head. he'll poke me, and try and hug me. He also sits next to me all the time. another time we were walking with friends, and i fell everyone was like are u ok? I answered yeah. But it took me a little while to get back up (i felt dizzy), and he waited for me as opposed to everyone else who just kept going. He also opens the door to his car for me (and the door to the house too), and when we were all hiking and there was tough soil to step he grabbed my hand to help. I also noticed the first time he grabbed my hand we were both laying down, and i happened to get uo and when i cam back he put his hand around me and we just laid there anyways i noticed his pulse got way faster than normal. I think he likes me but he hasn't ask me out. I mean he treats me like a girlfriend in front of everyone and in private but hasn't officially asked me out?

lovelove on June 22, 2012:

hey people tht have a problem with boys

XxJadeRoxX on June 19, 2012:

Hi! :) I have a huge crush on this hot guy @ my skool, and I think he has a crush on me because he pretty much always looks at me I mean like every time he always cuts eyes at me while he's talking to his friends too. He even once checked me out!! :D 1 time he also stared at me in class and I turned back to see if he was still looking at me and he was! :) he held a door open 4 me, & I believe 1 time he had winked @ me so what do you think this means? :) plz answers k thanx laterz!

thomas oukly on June 04, 2012:

i think this girl likes me shes always staring at me but i dont like her i like a diffenert girl named maddie . so how do i make jada jackson not like me? please help shes stalking Me!!!!!!!!!!!!!

preeti on June 04, 2012:

there's a boy who proposed me....i said yes. but after that he broke up wid me.i was very its 1 and halff yrs he left me. after broke up he never talked to me. but wen he sees me a type of twinkling i can see in his eyes even more wen my frns teases me wid his name i smiles and look at me. now during the ckasse he used to stare at me and wen i catched him for 2 minutes we will stare at each other and then he will look downward.does he like me. i even send a request in he never accepted it. does he like me. i love him a lot..HELP PLZZZZ...

E on May 23, 2012:

There's this boy in my class and he started to write "I love you" on all my pieces of paper and once he even said it to me although I know he isn't serious. I always catch him constantly staring at me but I'm too shy to return the eye contact. When we are talking he looks me directly in my eye and smiles and is turned towards me he does sometimes touch like my arm or our legs will touch and neither of us pull away. He teases me and plays with my hair also. The only thing is when we're not in class and I see him in the hallway he will just look at me and not say hi. Does he like me???

*sigh* on May 18, 2012:

man guys never understand the girls that are ''real'' are the girls that are ''different'' like shy or something like that

like what is SO bad about telling a guy about how you feel? my friend(who is a guy who understands girls) told me'' if something says something untruth about you then just move on because you know it's not true'' so dont reget what you did

Timemistake? on April 27, 2012:

Twelve years ago this adorable, confident, outgoing, eight year old boy marched himself up to our newly moved into house, and knocked on our door. He asked my mother if she had any kids and wanted them to be sent out side. So I was forced outside, where I would meet Him, and well the next twelve years of my life. To this day I remember the first glance i had of his smile, and his dark green eyes. We grew very close, we shared a love of sour foods we would split a bowl of cut up lemons everytime my dad would barbaque. When we finally got to the same school, and shared a bus, he would gather all of his friends at the back with him, to yell out my name, HI (my name) at the top of their lungs, as I got onto the bus.

One summer he bought be a stuffed turtle when he went on vacation with his family because he knew my favorite animal was the turtle, when we would walk off the bus and up our road together he would brag about all his friends, and how his teachers loved him, and he got good grades, when we walked home in the winter, he would throw snowballs at me, when I was walking a little bit ahead of him, trying to get my attention, he would laugh and I would give him a hard time, pretending to be mad at him, making him feel really little brother idolized him, my parents adored him, and he was my best friend. He would tease me, trying to get my attention, then would do something completely idiotic to show off, and well oddly enought he was good at everything he could get his hands on. He would call my name as he was getting ready to take our little fisher price ride in car, and speed down our very steep driveway to the bottom where he would skid completely turning the entire car sideways to stop it, before he hit the metal basketball hoop. He would show off new soccer moves he learned, or how he could juggle, play the piano, shoot a basket without looking, do tricks on his skate board, how he could do wheelies on his bike, and how he could hit a home run in baseball. He was the little boy who was getting chased by a million little girls at recess, and in middle and high school, but not at recess. As we got older having a crush on my neighbor and friend was getting harder to deal with, me being the really shy girl, didnt, or couldn't really get the chance to tell him, and him being the really outgoing popular drummer playing jock who was two years older then me. How could he have liked me? however there were always little signs that gave me just a little bit of hope. One day when I was in the seventh grade, he was in ninth, we were talking i was sitting on our front stoop, he was paicing in front of me when he stopped and out of the blue asked me if I had a boy friend, after I had answered no, he ended the conversation by saying soon.. One day me by brother, his friend, and Him were playing basket ball in his driveway when he called my name and said I want you to hear something, he then ran up to his sun room, opened up one of the windows that was behind him looked out to see if I was looking, and started playing "love song" by sara berellis on his piano. After he was done he turned around to the window smiling, do you know that song? I called up that I loved that song, which made him smile wider.

This one day, we were on our road in front of our houses talking to our other neighbors, when he whispered to me, come with me, I want to show you something, he took me down his driveway to the woods behind his house, taking me in deeper, he explained how he and his friends cleared the spot out, so they could hang out, he then took me to the creek just a little further, where he told me to cross the little tree trunk bridge, we bickered about getting across, since I insisted I wasn't going too because knowing my clumsyness I was going to fall in, and that I should just go back, he protested, please don't go back, don't leave, it's easy, you have been a dancer for all your life so far, you are fine. I said, that I never told you I was any good, and how I was a very clumsy dancer, so he scrambled around looking for a long stick I could use for balance. He helped me across the tree to the other side, we walked for a little while, as he explained everything he loved about the woods and spending time back there. it was his favorite place in the world. As we came to this very steep cliff of dirt, separating the hiking trail, from the creek below, we had to climbup, he went first, as he climbed it to the top he turned around, holding his hand out to help me up. At first we kinda just stood there, after he had helped me up, both looking into each others eyes, standing very close, still holding my hand. I wanted him to kiss me, but he didnt, he let go quickly clearing his throat, suggesting we start heading back, as we made it back to the opening of the woods we walked to my side of the yards, where we sat down in the grass right in front of the opening, we talked for a long while, he once again asked me if I had a boyfriend, had the same response of soon, when I said no. As we parted ways, it would be a while before I saw him again. The next year when I was in eighth grade, we were in my back yard, I was on our little, stage/patio, watching my brother and him kicking the soccer ball back and forth, when abruptly he turned and sat next to me, leaving my brother standing there, his foot in the air mid kick. It was awkward at first. Because I could tell he just picked a random topic, to give an excuse to talk to me. He said to me a little while later, that when I came up to the high school, and he got his liscence, he would drive me home from school every day. Until of course, I get a boyfriend, I remember just thinking, jeesh, what is his obsession about me getting a boyfriend? My first day of high school, we were walking home from the bus together when he told me to never give in to the peer pressures of high school, he told me to never change, to stay my self. And he made me promise to him, that I will never smoke or do drugs, he complained that more then the entire school did all that stuff. He told me I was better then all of that. That was the last time I remember walking home alone with him.

He met this girl, she was starting to control his life, stealing all of his time. And I could tell, he wasn't himself, he was changing, and I didnt like it, I knew he was better then that. Yet he and I grew almost completely apart. He started wearing all black, he started growing his hair long, making it messy, and unruly. The little boy, I was convinced I had fallen in love with a long time ago was slowly fading away from me. , the boy who was always neat and clean, hair always trimmed, very polite and sweet, very athletic, and wanting to be in the army when he grew older, was changing to become a huge partier, started to not care about whether he graduated from high school or not, he started failing his classes, he lost the respect of his mother, his teachers, and even me. His girlfriend would give me dirty looks as we passed in the hallway, she was the prettiest girl in the school, and she had the attitude that showed she knew it. Still he and I would make frequent eye contact across the cafeteria in lunch, I would look away, but he would keep his eyes on me. My best friend would fallow my eyes, whenever I would stray from hers, to meet his, she would notice as I look away, and look back at him, telling me that he hasn't looked away. I would roll my eyes, she would say that he definitely likes me, I just brushed it off, explaining, he has a girlfriend, if he liked me he had nine years to tell me. She would just say no, he didn't know if you liked him back, she would explain that he had been sending me hints for a long time, but I didn't reciprocate. Looking back now I do regret it. But I was young and didnt know how he felt, or how to send my feelings back.

He and and I didn't talk those entire last two years of being in high school together, until our annual every year neighborhood Christmas party at the house at the end of our colda sac when he pranced in, kissed all of the older ladies on the cheeks as he made the rounds, as he got

Hopeless LG on March 30, 2012:

There is this guy and he had sent a friend to tell me he thought I was hot. Well I blush easily and I didnt want him to see so I left.

When I pass him in the school halls he sometimes gets closer. I dont know if its on purpose though.

He has never once talked to me and he is actaully older.

The only time I ever see him is when I go to one of my classes and at lacrosse games, wich we only have bout five more games.

I cant even look at him when he passes by, I allways look down, away, or past him.

If you dont know I am VERY shy. Lots of girls want to be with him as well. But me im not exactly the one to look at unless it is below the neck. So basically if he did want to be with me I dont think he wants to now. Plus we arnt friends or even with the same "groups".

One more thing my friends say stuff around him while im there and it makes me sound despret or like a stalker.

erg on February 24, 2012:

lauren u should ge t the fuc ove rit :@2222222222f

niea on February 18, 2012:

i went to his exhibit last feb16 2012 without telling him, then my friend noticed him looking at me for a long time like he knew but he did of course, we're friend in facebook. so yeah. he shouted my name, and asked me a few questions, really awkward, cause i was high hahaha

luna on February 12, 2012:

hey guys,

i have a problem...

i see this guy on the bus every once in a while & i feel like i really like him but i'm too shy to even LOOK at him!! it's awful!! :( i'd really appreciate your help... i described my problem on my blog, maybe you can check it out... & comment down below or write me a msg - anything!! i'm going crazy...


Casey on February 10, 2012:

This boy i like always comes and sits next to me but he doesnt say much, its nearly valentines so i wanted to ask him to be my valentines but this girl already asked him and he said yes

i dont know whether to ask him and pretend i dont know but he might think im a total idiot

hes cute but im not

he knows i like him and so do lots of others but he doesnt show anything, whether he likes me, whether he doesnt

today he at somewhere in the room thne when i sat down he came and sat with me and my bff

does that mean he likes me?

if he does i wish he would show it

lauren on January 30, 2012:

I talk to this guy on facebook nearly everyday and we put like four kisses on the end of each message, the problem is that we dowe dont talk at school which is a problem because i really like him and i dont talk to any of his friends so its kind of hard to get too know him more. I've looked at sites to see what people suggest and they all suggest the same which is to speak to him which is kind of hard because he isbt in any of my classes :(

What do you think i should do?


abbey on January 29, 2012:

i really like a guy named will and he is in all my classes but three

and in 7th period we used to sit by each other, because my BFF ally sat in front of me and behind him ,and she moved to another class, so we were seated by each other,so he and i began to talk and i thought he is a great guy and we're friends,then one day we were reviewing a work book page and our hands brushed,because i was called on and answered the question, i looked a way shyly, but i looked out of the corner of my eyes to see his reaction and saw him staring blushing and giving me a dreamy look,till he noticed and turned away

abbey on January 29, 2012:

i really like a guy named will and he is in all my classes but three

and in 7th period we used to sit by each other, because my BFF ally sat in front of me and behind him ,and she moved to another class, so we were seated by each other,so he and i began to talk and i thought he is a great guy and we're friends,then one day we were reviewing a work book page and our hands brushed,because i was called on and answered the question, i looked a way shyly, but i looked out of the corner of my eyes to see his reaction and saw him staring blushing and giving me a dreamy look,till he noticed and turned away

Jojo on January 26, 2012:

You guys hve it better than me .

Okay. I have liked this one guy since fifth grade and right after christmas break she kept staring at me and i have hd friend talk to him and i put his liking me to the test so i hang with other guys. Earlyer this week we had to be science partners and he kept looking at me! I dont know if it means anything and i want him to make the first move but im scared he wont. I think he knows i like him because we weee qatching a video in science and he would look at me nd i would look at him back then we would do that everydy but i really want to know if he likes me so please give me info because it has gotten so bad that on weekends i miss him way to much and continuaslly i listen to it will rain and talking tk th moon by bruno mars and not strong enough by apicoplitica .I swear i am a love sick puppy so I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!

momo on January 21, 2012:

when i see my crush, i panicked. always bumping things and trying to run away.

Thenewgurl on January 17, 2012:

Ps I'm a weirdo

Danewgurl on January 17, 2012:

Hey guys my frend is a sports y funny hot guy and I have always really liked him until lately I have been crazy about him so when he's around his frends he's really mean to me but when we r alone or with a small group of not his best frends he is super nice to me he blushes and also I catch him randomly staring at me it's. Weird and last year I showed him the real side of me that's fun loving cuz I wasn't that attracted to him and I think he notices I'm super shy around him and forgot one thing he has a gf but they about to break up and I don't know if it's because of me and they r a popular couple Help!!!???

angela on January 17, 2012:

what should i do about it i'm nervous.

love angela melendez


Upset With Him on December 12, 2011:

Its me again, um i mean he don't really flirt with me anymore :( but everday in class he asks me for a pencil and he will wink but he just borke up with his gf a few days ago what should i do?

Breezy on December 10, 2011:

Please guys I really need help. I found this guy that I really like. I mean, I'm head over hills for him. I have never really liked a guy before but I think I'm falling for this guy! I constantly catch him staring at me, and when he sees that I saw him, he smiles shyly, blushes, and looks away. On 11/11/11, we all decided to just randomly stop talking and make out wishes at 11:11. Afterwords he asked what mine was and I said that I could figure out if this guy like me. He asked who and I just said its someone you don't know, it was really him though. He said aww , but then he turned his face away from me completely randomly for a few seconds. He is always hugging me, pushing my bangs out of my face, and complimenting me. He even has a pet name fOr me! (his little panda) I wanna tell him and I'm thinking of telling him either this weekend or next but I'd he doesn't like me. I don't want to ruin our friendship. What should I do?

Swimchick on November 16, 2011:

Today in art class me and my best guy friend were sitting next to each other really close and the guy I like who never looks at me does. It was awesome I think he was getting jealous

Annoymus on November 15, 2011:

I like him alot....4 about 4 years. I'm in 8th now....Finally at 6th grade I thought he started to like me....he made it really obvious....and my friends told me if he asked me out it would be a dare cuz they thought he never liked me...also I wasn't allowed to "date" anyone....he asked me out and I freaked out! Then I told him no cuz he just surprised me and I was I shock. The look on his face broke my heart....I really liked him....After that he still flirted but it wasn't the yr he liked pop girls and was popular....I was miserable and I wasn't popular....I feel like I had ruined my life...He was such a jerk but I guess I was a jerk too for rejecting yr... I'm still like him......He started staring at me and makes an effort to look me straight in the eyes when he passes me....his friends even laugh when I walk by....then during break he shows off and he keeps telling his friends to pass him the ball or whatever...and when I walk to class his friends are like "his name, his name" and then I see him turn around and look straight at me.... He's so confusing cuz he's a flirt with almost every girl except me....Does he possibly like me?

Lily:) on November 09, 2011:

How can i tell if a guy I don't know likes me? I like him kind of but I really want to get to know him. We have the same P.E. period but different teacehrs and he stares at where my class is sitting a lot. I already figured out that though, he has friends in my P.E. class but in the morning I see him, there too...he glances at me ever time and I fell like i'm just thinking over it too much. maybe he's noticed me glancing over at him? but a couple days back, at lunch I sat at one of the benches and these two other girls we don't know stood by us and ate their lunch and he came over to talk to them. We used to try to guess his name and I guessed daniel, chris, etc...and so we called out those names and acted like we were calling someone over there. The first time he glanced over at us, then my friend called out “chris” again and he actually said, “what?”. She panicked so she looked away but she told em to try. I called out, “chris?” and he answered what again. We don't know each other but he was responding to us for sure.

Nicole-Singer1234 on November 08, 2011:

There is this guy I really like and (I'm 13) he jokes around with me all the time he tries to sit next to me in all my classes and afterschool hes always like going to what activity we are in Together and he'll be like what's up and (we have a special handshake:)) and we'll do our handshake he always stares at me but when I look at him he looks away (I want to ask him out but I'm scared of rejection and if he rejects me I'm scared it will ruin our friend relationship) WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!(go on being his friend and wait for him to make the first move, or ask him out and hope it all goes good?)

Upset with him on November 08, 2011:

Okay usually at school he will come hug me and sit in my lap,but today (11-8-11) he sat in my lap,hugged me, played with my hair, and called me sexy.He winks and flirts with me,but he does with other girls and whhen I see him do that I get a little upset.Should I get a little upset or not?

LL on November 05, 2011:

plzz someone help me out......i like a guy in school bt i dnt ever try 2 shw dis in my he always makes an eyecontact wid me and smiles....actually he doesnt talk wid girls in d class often..we bth r a lil bit shy bt i lyk him alot..we rarely talk bt still i feel we bth r emotionally attached....i've noticed he makes an eyecontact only wid me nd no oder grl nd smtymz he even tries to do things so that i notice him....plz could he be lyking me???plz tell

jessica on November 03, 2011:

hi i know this guy that ive known for well lets just say about 3years. i liked him from the moment i saw him, but wanna know if he likes me. he often tries to tickle me, frequently comlements me infront of every1 e.g. "why r u so beautiful", smells my perfume, notices when i look different, dress different or when im sad, pays attention when im sick e.g. quickly gets water and a pillow and stays next to me, he plays with my hair, looks at me and never stops smiling and never does anything to hurt me. the problem is he doesn't text very often because he is usually overseas and lives in germany, and im not sure what to do to find out if he likes me,im worried i may lose him but when i see him we r so attached 2 eachother and both never want to leave. he often tells me i love u but i feel like its a friend sort of i love u. plz help me i dont know if i should love this guy or try and move away which i dnt think i can.


i like cheese on November 01, 2011:

I like this boy and he barley even know me and hes a bad boy and when i was walkin in the hall he was standing really close to me and doing it on purpose like there was absolutley no space in between us he was in back of me then at lunch he kept staring at me and walked into me on purpose and hes always saying random stupid things to me

For Only The Clueless on October 30, 2011:

so theres this guys i really like and i barely know him he glances at me but thats it and we only have lunch and spanish together but he has friends in both so i cant really talk to him and if you saw him he is really cute and truthfully i think he is way out of my league so need help, alot of help

Laura on October 23, 2011:

This guy ive known since 8th grade talk very little too, and didnt know quite much. Now im a sophmore in high school and hes a Senior. We hang out constantly, he makes me smile just by me looking at him. We look in each others eyes every once in a while. And he looks at me, and when i catch him he smiles or waves. Even my friends look out for me and watchs him stare at me without me even knowing. He hates to see me sad and asks me for a hug when i am. And persistantly does this. its like he wants to touch me. I have strong feelings for this guy.

But how do i know If he likes me or Just Being A Great Friend?

Holly on October 23, 2011:

So There Was a guy at my school but he is a year older than me (im in primary school btw) and we sat beside eachother...but sometimes he tilted his chair close to me so that we touched legs...he always stared and me and never look away...but he is in High school now and im still at primary school..he has another girl now and i miss him i think he actually liked me




Katie on October 21, 2011:

So I have known this guy forever, and he never used to talk to me. But now I have started noticing that he stares at me during class. And when I look at him he quickly looks away, or pretends that he is looking at someone else. Also he has started talking to me a lot. And whenever he says something funny or makes a joke he looks over to see if I laughed. And he smiles at me a lot too. So confused. Also my friends say that it looks like he likes me.

lalala on October 18, 2011:

so barely moved to a new school, and theres this guy, sine the day i saw him i thought he was cute, he sits next to me in a class. and i also have him for another period but doesnt sit next to me but he askd the teacher if he could sit next to me. he always tries to talk to me. he stares at me and makes jokes. i like him alot, but i dont know how to show him. i think he likes me back.

Cant tell on October 16, 2011:

Im a teachers kid and this guy used to be in my moms class. I have known him for years. He is always telling my funny stories(as do i) and he is always smiling when im talking to him a bit. Like the corners of his lips will go up and he smiles when im done makeing my comment or telling him a joke. My bestie thinks he likes me but i cant tell because im not exactly any guys first choice ( glasses braces ) but i think he kinda sorta likes me. The wierd part is he knows i like him and sometimes when i go to talk to him ill say hey *******, and he will go No i wont go out woth you. then he will look at me out ofthe corners of his eyes and smile at me..... HELP!!!!

So confused on October 16, 2011:

Ok, there is this guy i like. He was in my class last year and he always stared at me. He showed so many signs of liking me. But this year, i only go to one class with him. He still stares at me but he never talks to me anymore. Then we had a dance. his friend was just like see u tonight and started teasing him. That night he just stared at me again but didn't say anything to me. I thought he was going to ask me out but then he turned away and asked someone else! Does he like me or not? Im so confused:(

Leen on October 12, 2011:

There is this guy in my class, he always either sits behind me or in front of me (but becuase of our teacher) anyway in math he always seems to annoy me but when i turn my back and face him he just smiles widely and i always feel my stomach do some flips so it seems i like him. but when i asked his best friend to ask him if he likes me he said no. but it he always seems to annoy me then make me smile, joke around with me, and you know all the regular stuff boys do. Does he like me or I should not keep my hopes up?

Leen on October 12, 2011:

There is this guy in my class, he always either sits behind me or in front of me (but becuase of our teacher) anyway in math he always seems to annoy me but when i turn my back and face him he just smiles widely and i always feel my stomach do some flips so it seems i like him. but when i asked his best friend to ask him if he likes me he said no. but it he always seems to annoy me then make me smile, joke around with me, and you know all the regular stuff boys do. Does he like me or I should not keep my hopes up?

Sarah on October 11, 2011:

So there is this guy that I have been crushing on for about a year now. We used to talk and all of a sudden, he stopped talking to me. I dont know if his friends said something to him or made fun of him for talking to me. Now, when we pass eachother, sometimes he smiles and waves at me or sometimes he puts his head down when he sees me and walks past me. Why does he put his head down, why is it sometimes he says hi and other times he puts his head down. I really like him, when he is around me I get really nervous and dont know what to say.

Help me!!

going crazy on October 10, 2011:

oh sry on my first day i thought this guy was cute..................before he ask me my age he looked at my schedule. i hav every class except on with him

going crazy on October 10, 2011:

ok well im going to a new school and i dnt rlly know anyone there on my first day i thought he was cute he kept staring at me he asked me how old i was too. ive been there 4 about 2 weeks. well on friday ther was no were else to sit at lunch except next to him i was going to sit there,he didnt want me to and just put his bookbag there to take up the space. then today he said his friend likes but like just to bother. what does this mean pls help me

isis on October 07, 2011:

okay.....theres this boy in my class that i really like and we have different classes and every time he always went out of his way to just glance at me...we always starred at eachother for really long and he would always even or a little cause just say good job or congrats if i did something right like answer a question (i thought it was cute).....then next year (this year) he just completely ignored me....then later on he started looking at me again....we still glance at eachother...then once right as he passes my locker we just stare at eachother for a long time that he's just standing there..then he smiles and goes to his locker...i don't know..does he like me?

abc on September 24, 2011:

sooooo im new at school, and im like a totally weirdo compared to everyone else..... I don't look or speak like anyone else... well anyways there's this guy i have span and geo with, and im not sure whether he likes me. On my second week at school I was walking to one of my classes and he walked past me in the hallway. When he walked past he stared at me with his mouth slightly open, and didn't look away. He ALWAYS does this when i walk past him. And the other day i had a bunch of school stuff to carry and he was like 15 metres in front of me, and when he saw me he held the door 4 me. like he literally held the door 4 me while i walked in side :O Oh and he swapped seats with another boy in span, and that seat is beside mine..

sofia on September 22, 2011:

there's this guy my bestfriend, and i was pretty sure he likes me cuz his mom and friends said so but the other day at lunch i caught him staring at me with a weird expression like he was on drugs or something. then the next day he sat at our table and even though three of his friends came with him he was talking and looking at me the whole time then we walked back to class together. so now i am pretty sure. teehee what do i do now???

darl_ene on September 16, 2011:

I have a friend who just likes "messing" with me but also likes making me laugh.He likes sitting behind me and touching my hair or sitting beside me and putting his hand over my chair..Does that mean he really likes me or is just flirting and toying with me?

kaylie on September 15, 2011:

theres this guy i kinda like but he works with me and lately ive been catching him looking at me and then sometimes he follows me and i really wanna know if he likes me

Sam C :)))) on September 02, 2011:

I have this guy in two of my classes at school. The first one looks like Nick Jonas and the other one is in my strings class. The one in my first class, I catch him looking at me alot and when I catch him he quickly looks away. Sometimes he would look at me and smile. And the other looks at me alot and when I look back he and I lock eyes for about 3 seconds. He kinda creeps me out cause he likes to eat ALOT of mints.

Beatles Luver on August 28, 2011:

Okay, help me out:

My parents for years have been trying to make me get together with whatever boy is the most sophiosticated in town; for example the son of the mayor or the son of someone on the school board. My dad is on the schoolboard and that's why they want us to get together. So one day they introduced my to this new boy, Ryan Centofanti. I didn't really think anything of it and just ignored him all the time because I knew it was one of my parents tricks. So basically, I was really nasty to him. But one day he got seated next to me in the Orchestra (He's a violin I'm a viola) and I learned that he memorizes all his music, and he has this cheeky little grin that makes me melt. I fell for him but the end of the year was fast approaching. So I left him a message in his yearbook to listen to "Julia" By the Beatles (A Love Song) and gave him my phone number. He hasn't called me yet and the school year is starting up again soon. I am elated though because I learned that he is in my classes. The only contact I have with him is the messages his mom relays to my mom through errand runs. He is never there with them; it's just his mom and his younger brother. I really like him A LOT. I can't stop thinking about him and have been up until four A.M. every night because i can't fall asleep. My birthday was two days ago and when I blew out each candle I made the same wish: Please Let Him Like Me!. The only problem is I can't admit this to my mom because of the whole "Get Them Together" thing, and I was really nasty to him in the beginning so I'm not sure how he feels about me. HELP!! (And Thanks)

Mickie on August 24, 2011:

I have a crush on my best guy friend. My 2 best friends (girls) are telling me that he likes me. My other friend, Amy, Likes him aswell, but I never told her I like him. Ciara my other friend told me he likes me, and I never told anyone I like him. Ciara says I like him and he likes me but I'm not sure, Ciara says he always looks at me, smiles and laughs at my stupidest jokes, always wants to sit beside me, I drink something and he drinks the rest, we play fight and call each other swear nicknames and he always touches me, not hugs but like when I sit on the ground he'll go to the back and lean on me and he offered his hoodie to me lots of times, but I just don't know if he really does like me, and if he does then what about my friend, Amy who likes him aswell? I dont want to hurt her but I dont want to be hrt myself and if he likes me, should I go for it???

T-pain on August 19, 2011:

There's this boy that knows i like him and he somtimes stares at me or touches me somtimes and follows me and then when my sister comes he follows her and i waz wantin to know: if he likes me(:

N.D on August 16, 2011:

Okay,I like my brother's friend from 3 years.And I only see him in my summer vaccation. I think he likes me, but this year.. weird things happend. First I had a dream about him 2 times in a row.. and I wasnt thinking about him AT ALL ! And in these two dreams I dreamt that he arrived with his family to have their summer vacation at the same place we were. Then next day, I saw him. And I was like OMG my dreams came true!:O The first day he came he was standing with a bunch of friends infront of me, and so did I. He thought that I wasnt looking at him so he whispered his friend and pointed at me, and his friend answered back with a " Yes " and a wink ;)

And I've catched his friend ( The one he was talking to the first day ) Spying on me alot ! And another time that my crush was sitting with a bunch of girls, and that really freaks me up! and when I was passing infront of him I said to my friend " Lets go another place " and when he heard that he left the girls and went to his best friend ( The one that was spying on me ) I wanted to see if he left these girls so I passed infront of the same place, and his friend saw me, but my crush didint.. his friend then whistled to him and when he looked they winked at each other with a little laugh. And I was just infront of them ! :D

Does this mean he likes me or is it a begginig of a Love Story?

Please answer me, I've been asking the same question for 3 years, he's always on my mind and I reaaaaally miss him! :(

josephina on August 16, 2011:

There's this one guy..we met online and yet we haven't met till now but now i think i have started to like him but this guy sometimes makes me feel that he has no value for me where as some times he tries to purpose to be his girlfriend but never saysit.I've got his cell no. but i have never called him,not even sms..well and he tried to puepose me but i don't know how well will we get aling...i have no idea but the major problem is does this guy loves me??

macl on August 15, 2011:

hello pipo i realy need your help i realy like this guy who was ma six grade class mate .he got my no coz i learn with her cousin.we started texin and normaly koz me dear in ma text but am not sure if he likes me coz we hvn met i tottaly nid ur help u cn email me at claire at pliz its ergent

lulu on August 14, 2011:

well, there is a guy that I like that looks at me all the time but when I look at him he quickly looks away and when I am around he flirts with every single girl except me, what does this mean ??

Maddie :P on July 03, 2011:

ok so this happened last year. I was hanging out with my friends, never noticing this boy sitting with his back to me. So I'm like who is this. So the guys turns around and our eyes lock for like a minute straight without any talking. I felt my heart skip a beat, legit. I felt blush to my cheeks as he chuckled and stood up and brushed a piece of hair out of my face. Mind you guys, neither of us had said a word until he's like, Hey I'm ____. Nice to meet you. He's taller than me by a good 3 inches, and i am TALL so its almost impossible for someone to be taller than me.

So later that year we slow danced, and he left saying i had a really fun time with you tonight, sweet dreams.

And after that i was hooked, through out the skool year i thought of him.

This summer (2011). I come to the pool and he's hanging out with our mutual friends. So i don't go up to them right away, which is really weird for me. None of my pool friends go to my school. So like when i am at skool, i'm the most confident, i dont care what people think or say and i dont take any crap from anyone. Then there's my crush. i get goosebumps and i get super shy, and i'm unsure if i can go into a room that he's in. So anyway...

So i'm in line for food when out of the corner of my eye i see a friend point toward me and my crush jogs over and lifts me into the air and hugs me. I can't breathe for two reasons, i like TOTALLY LOVE HIM AND HE'S HUGGING ME! and he's like crushing me with thte power of his hug. And he's like i missed you. Can i have your cell and keep in touch. We have soo much in common and he always lifts me on his lap and kisses my head and makes me laugh, and he's sooo sweet. He' wiating for the right gal and he plays different instruments as do i. he is the cutest guy on earth. but he's 2 years older, I'm 14 and he'll be 16 soon. But ohhh help me.

KaylahHD on June 27, 2011:

Plz help me should i tell him to quit or wait til he asks me out?

Roxanne Hearts on June 11, 2011:

theirs this boy named kevin in all of my classess and he stares at me and smiles and talkes to me flirts with me and sometimes he stares at me with a smile on his face and his eyes are shining, then when i turn to stare at him i ask him what is he doing he says "i don't know" and looks away. when i was working out on the lunch tables at scholl my bff found him staring at me and making noises like sex noises when i was going up and down and when i look up he smiles and turns day i caught him staring at my chest (boobs0 and he was smiling allot. he is always slapping my face and being very perverted. does this means he likes me or something else?

Dzastaina on June 10, 2011:

So this article barely said anything about methods to find out whether the guy likes you or not, it should rather be called "Reasons not to be afraid to be in a relationship/make the move" or "Reasons to overcome yourself and ask the guy out" something, it's a lil misleading now... And, I would like to note that just because you like someone, that doesn't mean that they like you back, there is a chance, but just because when you love or like someone, you automatically show more affection to them, smile more and complement them more, and people have a weird trait to love back those people who love them, old truth. But unless you show attention and know how to show it, the possibility that the person likes you back is not that high.

So yeah... I reckon that's all I wanted to say :D Peace ;]

I'm just a girl who likes a guy. on June 08, 2011:

This guy I like and a bunch of my friends went to the movies. He told one of my friends he liked me and then he went and held hands with another girl. SHE WAS MY BFF and ppl called us a cute couple when we were walking to the high school. but we werent dating and i asked him why he said nothing and he just said bcuz i like it when they think like that and put his arm around me. But i felt bad bcuz he was dating another girl and she broke up with him bcuz of it.

daydreamer on June 04, 2011:

there is this guy who i kind of like. He lives a block away from me but he is a year older then me. every time I see him in the hall he looks at his feet or when he is with friends i think he cracks a smile. He will be at the high school so my friends say that this summer is my last chance for a while but sometime i dont even think he knowa im alive. how do get get him to notice me? How do I start talking to him?

GirlPower on May 23, 2011:

Alright all you girls out there who are confused and/or like that special guy. Don't waste time admiring him from afar and wondering, it'll ruin your life. Get it over with as soon as you can. Get him alone to ask! If its yes, congratz. A no, then whatever it's his lose. You all are great girls. I was always insecure about guys, enough to not be interested whatsoever. But this guy, Nathan, always looked at me and called me. Whenever I was near his friend he'd sit or walk between us. He always opened up to me cuz he was always a loner. When he opened he smiled and we talked on the phone for hours. His friend told me he liked me and apparently heard us and blushed at me. He asked me out n its been a year since we've been together! Girls, guys are confusing but if u two really like each other or you like him then don't wait forever ASK!!!!! Who knows what'll happen

THATGIRL on May 12, 2011:

There's this guy at my school and he always looks at me.We always go to the locker at the same time.I haven't talk to him at school but I sometimes talk to him on the computer. I don't know if he likes me? advice please

Cheal on May 12, 2011:

uhm.i have someone i like,after i broke with my bf,he keep shouting my name,and keep saying "Love" then , he told me that he likes me in a serious way but i didn't mind it,now everytime he plays basketball,when he shoots the ball and get a score he stares at me,but when i ask him he likes me to,he doesn't give any answer and then smile at me... does this that he likes me?

Nikki on May 09, 2011:

There is this guy that i have never talked to. I like him a lot and i keep having dreams about him. I sometimes see him look at me but not all the time.. i really hope we can AT LEAST be friends but i doubt he likes me ):

Schnitzel :P on May 07, 2011:

Thanks I'm bored for your advice!

I always try to make eye contact but i cant! Im to shy..

Thanks again!

I'm bored :) on May 06, 2011:

Dear Schnitzel, I really think that guy really likes you, but I am not sure if he does. Just take it easy and you will know because you get that feeling like butterflies in your stomach. I have been through this a lot and I am 17 so you can trust me. You will never know when it is going to be your last day on this earth so live life to the fullest each and everyday. If you think a guy likes you and you like him back, go for it, girl! Anything else? Tell me how it goes (on here). I will be glad to help you anytime! Good luck!

I'm bored :) on May 06, 2011:

So there is this guy who is in my class and he always looks at me. I can't tell if he likes me or what but I am almost pretty sure that he doesn't but here is what he does.

He will look at me for about 6 seconds then look away. He will smile at me a few times per hour. He will start conversations over and over again. It makes me shake and when he talks to me I want to talk back but my voice will start shaking. Should I ask him out? Does he even like me? Please answer :)

lizzy on May 06, 2011:

when i kissed my bf for the first tym i ws shaking he held me thight and saids theres nothing to worry about he put his hands rounf my waist and i put my arm aroung his neck now by that u fell like ur glued together but u dont wanna go then he made the first move make sure it last for 5 or less seconds

Way too confused on May 06, 2011:

The guy asked me out! My bff texted him and asked him if he liked me and he said yes and she told me that and then she said "omg he just asked for your number!" so... He called (lol luckily I had gone pee before this) and he sounded so scared and faintish when he asks if I would go out with him!

Schnitzel :P on May 06, 2011:

Hiya, So there's this boy on my street, i like him... Kinda... But he is always mean to me, when ever i go where he is he'll either just stare at me or if he has a friend he'll say something mean. Then if i laugh and say "yeah" he'll smile and look at the ground. Its really weird, but ya. And when ever im around him i get so nervous even my sis and friend said that i turn really red when he's around us. And when he goes on his bike he always trys to do tricks and stuff, then when we laugh at him he will chase us! It's to weird..

Girly Girl on May 05, 2011:

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate your time!! I actually am just gonna move on and forget about him because there is this kid in my class once again and I'm gonna ask him tomorrow because I looked at the signs of guys and how they react so yeah. Thanks again! :)

me:D again... on May 05, 2011:

dear girly girl, dontt get the wrong idea jus cuz hes hanggin around with other girls, in L.A. wenever he talks to you its probly cuz thats wen he feels most comfortable with you,so yea i think you should ask him out,BUT get to know him first.! i once got in a relationship with a girl i barely knew and it ended like in 2 weeks-.-' find his soft spots (not literally) and ask him out. but not in frontt of anybody,obviously. cuz that jus kills the mood. but send him little flirty signals,or jus get his # and txt him alot likee every 2 days then wen the moment comes ask who he likes and if yer not in the list of names dont get bumbed,hes jus shy. hes most likely gona ask who you like so mention his name and surely he will compliment back,he jus wasnt sure if you liked him also or he didnt wana awkwardize the friendship. ask him outtt!:D byee

me:D on May 05, 2011:

lol well,(.) jus try to get him to noticee you in any way,alot of guys really like shy's bcuz its cutee. (well i think it is)but nyways yeaa try listining to his conversations just to try to find out things yall have in common. but dont get the wrong idea if you hear him talkin bout other girls and how 'hot' they are. it all goes back to this, (gettin him to notice you) will get him thinking about you and realizing the positives about you. he will probably start tryin to talk to you,even if its jus a little question that he asks you should get the conversation goin from there. even if yall have never talked wenever yall lock eyes jus smilee and look down shyly or jus try to be cutee,but not too much,it could get annoying. hopee i helped youuu(;

Girly Girl on May 04, 2011:

Ok please help me! There is this guy in my grade who I really like but I don't know if he likes me. He only talks to me in Language Arts which is only 45 minutes. When he looks at me I get butterflies in my stomach. I am not sure if he likes me because he is always hanging around other girls but not me except for L.A. I really want to ask him out but I am really shy around him. Should I ask him out? Does he like me?

Girly Girl on May 04, 2011:

Ok please help me! There is this guy in my grade who I really like but I don't know if he likes me. He only talks to me in Language Arts which is only 45 minutes. When he looks at me I get butterflies in my stomach. I am not sure if he likes me because he is always hanging around other girls but not me except for L.A. I really want to ask him out but I am really shy around him. Should I ask him out? Does he like me?

brianna on May 04, 2011:

ok HELP ME!!! you should tell ur friend u like him then if she wont talk to u then thats not good friend and if he asks u out do want dont think about what you want not what other =s want to

HELP ME!!!! on May 02, 2011:

Ok well there is this guy,and we just started swichting classes in the sixth grade. Like a month ago we started actually! Anyways my friend likes him, but now I am starting to like him! OH NO!! In P.E he ALWAYS picks me for his team, right when I am walking toward him he annouces to everyone in P.E ," she is my bff" but he says my name which I will not give out. He always calls me bff and smiles at me. Does he like me?? I would also like to know,if he asks me out what should I do about my friend? And also, my other friend told me she is jealous about him calling me bff, and I just started calling him bff too, so............ PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

$ on May 02, 2011:

Dear lucii:

It sounds like he kinda likes you. Just think about it... He keeps complimenting you! Not only that but he said you look like his ex. He loved his ex, right? But, this could also be a bad thing, because he could just be liking you because you remind him of his ex. Now about that "girl he likes" at first, that girl he was talking about but wouldn't tell who could have been you! He said it was your friend? Hmm... Try to pay attention to how he acts around her. If he acts normal around her then he probably just used her name as a cover up because he don't want you to know. He may have just been nervous or something. You never know! Hope this helped some(:

Way too confused on May 02, 2011:

(Lol I accidentally clicked post) anyway he only talks to me except our friend Micah and Madison (who I know he don't like). Also, my friend Abby textedit him an asked him if he likes me and he never replied. He always finds a way to be close to me. My only problem is that I don't know if he likes me or if he's just actin like that! ( like I said, he's a goober and a dork and a nerd.... We actually have alot in common lol) I'm also homeschooled so idk what goes on at school. He's one year older than me (dec. 28 for him and jan. 3 for me I think he turns 16 this year) I reaaaaalllllyyyyyy like him and it's driving me crazy not knowing how he feels about me. Someone please reply?

Way too confused on May 02, 2011:

There's this guy named Kleigh (pronounced clay, lol) and we've been friends for a while now. He's a total goober(: and ever since our church group went to putt putt he's been very... Attentive to me. I catch him looking at me all the time (usually out of the corner of my eye and I'll stare back with the corner of my eye lol!) but if I look back at him he just looks at the floor. The other day he was playing pool with one of the adults in the youth group and when he'd talk he'd look at me and then lightly laugh. Well, he eventually won and the leader left and he asked if I'd play pool with him and I said I would, but I can't because of the cast on my arm and so he goes "pleeeeaaaassssseeee??????? *puppy dog face* please play pool with me?" and I said no again and so he just kinda moped around after that. He's always doing things like that. Whenever he talks to me he always stares straight at my eyes like he's watching a football game or something (it's awkward for me, though, when we're standing cause he's like, a lot taller than me) he's always a gentleman to me and listens intently to me when I talk. One night at church i said something and he was sitting in front of me and he turned around and just smiled at me...? And after the service he turned back around and looked at me again and smiled like he needed to tell me something exciting. One night I swear he said "I love you" but I doubt it. Lately I'm the only one he talks to at church (exce

Luciie on May 02, 2011:

well theres this guy and we sit next to eachother in maths, we mainly talk about our mates but not much bout eachother, nd sometimes we go out together, and he normally winds me up so i tickle im co hes dead ticklish, also when we was on the bench i had a mirror putting makeup on nd he said i look prittyer without it on, and we ad a laugh together (i put makeup on him) and he turned the mirror towards him nd said ohh i look fit, then said that he could only see me in the refelection, also he says im his 'bestfriend' even tho ive not known him long and says i look like his x girlfriend who also was his bestfriend and that she was the only one he has ever loved to this day!! what does that mean? re these clues? but also he tells me he likes girl but wont twll me who it is, then a few dys ago told me it was my mate mariahh so it carnt be me, he 'used' to be the no.1 player, bt he said hes moved on now!! wht shall i do i need help??

mekalah(help me plz) on May 01, 2011:

This guy that I like says he likes me too a lot and we talk everyday through text. Well more like flirt. But I keep seeing him flirt with other girls on Facebook too. Idk if he texting them the same way he is me. I don't want my heart broken again so I don't want to fall for him if he isn't serious about this. He might just be messing with my head. Help me please..

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