It's painful to end a relationship, but sometimes staying is what pushes you overboard. And if you are reading this article then chances are that you might already have this question in your mind.
But , at the end of the day the truth is that you don't need a particular reason to end something, if you are out here asking this question then its reason enough that now is the time to put an end to it.
You may have a partner, who is funny, kind , successful and smart, but they might still make you feel unfulfilled and stressed out , and that doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you, it simply means that you are not a perfect fit for each other.
So how do you know when it's time to end ?
1.Things don't feel right.
It's obvious to have doubts and insecurities in a relationship, because relationships are a piece of work, and you need to put in constant effort. But at the end of the day your heart knows what it feels so trust it.
2. It makes you feel drained.
Loving someone shouldn't feel like a burden, at the end of the day you shouldn't be feeling that you are going to lose something, because love is a fulfilling feeling, not a devastating one.
3. You feel the lack of support.
You have this weird feeling of not being supported by your partner. Because when it comes to following your dreams one person has to sacrifice a little more than the other because that is the true nature of a relationship.
You know you have to move on when!
- You live in the past memories mare than the present.
- The relationship brings you more sorrow than joy.
- You stay pit expecting things to get better.
- You keep on justifying their actions.
- They put little or no effort in the relationship.
At some point you will realize that you have done too much for someone, that the only next possible step is to stop. So, babygirl stop breaking your heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't even meant to be.
You can't force loyalty out of someone. You cant force someone to care about you. You can't force someone to be the person that you need them to be.
You just have to accept it for a fact that somethings are meant to happen but not meant to be, because sometimes the person you want the most is the person you are best without.
And you might not be able to figure out the why, NOW. But at some point in the future you will know that it all came together eventually . So stop putting your happiness on hold for someone who isn't holding onto you.