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Astrology Secrets - Gemini Men
You’ve got your Gemini man but how do you keep him? The answer is to keep him happy, but how do you do that?
Gemini: May 22nd – June 21st
What Keeps Gemini Men Happy?
Astrology tells us that Gemini men are happy when they feel good. They are not much interested in Sport but prefer fashion, art and cultural pursuits. They like their food – but more for presentation – they never want large portions. They are the adolescents of the Zodiac and enjoy being treated like adolescents because of this. Usually they like incredibly beautiful women with style.
Using this Knowledge to Keep Your Gemini Man Happy
The obvious way to keep a Gemini man happy is to assist them in their quest to be the most stylish man in the world They will appreciate a partner who adds to their image like the best ever fashion accessory. He wants a wife and children to make him look like he’s on a fashion shoot everywhere he goes. You will need to understand his passion for fashion – predilection with presentation and pursuit for perfection. Do this: Study style, fashion and its history since Athens 500BC. Keep yourself well groomed – spend as much as 80% of your time on your own presentation and do look into cosmetic surgery
When You Shouldn’t Use the Knowledge to Make Your Gemini Man Happy
Don’t use any of these tactics if your Gemini man is not appreciative. Don’t use any of these tactics if you are uncomfortable with them. Don’t use any of these tactics if your man doesn’t make you happy.
ELKA on January 16, 2018:
I'm an aries and I'm in a thing with a gemini man. I had been with one gemini before. They are extremely love, affectionate, and sweet [Which is perfect because as an aries (or just me personally) I need that kind of affection for reassurance.] The first gemini I was with was too childish for my liking. The man I'm with now is everything. I love that he's so affectionate, thoughtful, and caring. He always wants to take care of me.
I love that we both have tempers, and I am like one of the only people who knows how to calm him down. He always tells me it's one of his favorite things about me.
I understand him, even if it takes me sometime to.
I'm getting better. Before I wasn't used to such mood swings. But now I know the signs before one and how to handle them.
He's a great guy, and he's always fun to be around.
Love my gemini.
alicia richards on July 31, 2014:
I have being with a Gemini man for two months when we first stated he was the best thing ever happens to me after spending time together I stated finding out he is annoying an hard to please he is always miserable get upset easily without letting me know what the problem is but he is loving .
kristina on January 25, 2014:
IM AN ARIES
Linda on May 09, 2013:
My gem man is an adorable dumbo!!! He always wants to sleep..very moody..never forgets & forgives..nice sometimes, but dumb & mean most times..I love him to bits..he s 43 yet my baby
shawana on April 25, 2013:
I am a cancer and I can't understand my gem. He has two personality he is fun one minute the next he is miserrable
MarieJai on June 23, 2012:
Im an Aries woman, I Iove You Gemini men. I understand my man and he understands me. I don't find them confusing at all. They can be moody sometimes though. But hey don't everyone once in awhile? They're sooo amazing. Je t'aime
Chyna labay on May 05, 2012:
I love my gem that's my baby he makes me angry in but keeps a smile on my face i want to marry jim
monique on April 22, 2012:
18yrs ago we were so much in love but becuse we lived in different states. And he moved so we lost contact with each other so now thanks to facebook we found eachother again! I got married and had kids and he never did. He lives in another state far from me. We talk and tex each other each day. I'm a libra and him gemini. And both in our 40's, I'm not to sure about him even after these yrs
saira on April 05, 2012:
i am leo n i hv been married for nine months my husband is gemini bt still i m unable to understad my man just getting mad
fiestyPISCES on January 23, 2012:
hmm, i find all of these comments interesting. im a pisces woman with a scorpio rising and a moon in sagitatriouse. which make me dreamy, somewhat sensitive, but a horrible attention span. the scorpiorising makes me bitchy and zero tolerence for fools, also very private and assertive. the sagitariouse part bring out this adventorouse side and deffinatly crave all the good things in life...the funny thing is that my venus us in aquarius, which means i crave my freedom very much and although i enjoy being in a relationship, i tend to pull back for fear of loosing my freedom or being chnaged by my partner to conform to their desires. im pretty confident as a woman and very intuative of others feelings around me. im also a straight shooter to the point that i either piss people off or hurt their feelings. im an extremly loyal personm ne it friend or lover. im also very transparent, so when im fed up with a relationship, its very apparent and i tend to move on quickly....im dating a Gemini man for about a year and 2 months. the way we started out was pretty crazy, we went from zero to 60 in 2.5 seconds. first day we met, we spent every day with each other like we had known each other for years. hes a great guy, but i feel he tends to be immature @ times and when i try and have a discusion about something that is bothering me, he gets defensive or shuts down. hes seem to be extremly sensitive. he used to be super attentive in the beggining and spontaneouse and just great company. now he seems to have gotten super confortable in the relationship. we live together, and we hardly go out anymore, he just wants to stay home and just be together. i hate to say this, but im suoer bored and just frustrated. im an extremly supportive person in a relationship and i feel like he says he is supportive of things that i wanna do, but his behavior tends to show me different. he makes me feel like he has some type of jelousy towards a lot of things i want to do that doesn't have anything to do with him. and if he does something for me, when we fight, he loves to throw it in my face. i look at it this way, if you constantly have to throw something in someones face about what you did for them, then just don't do it at all. I also feel that he can be very insecure at times, which is a shame, because he is a very handsome man. im starting to feel neglected and unappreciated. im at the point of possibly requesting a break and just be alone for a bit, so that i hope it may help him change in a positive way or be the man i first met....what does everyone think?
mrs. holmes on September 09, 2011:
My husbands a gemini an im a cancer i tend to be moody, bitchy, an whinie but he always seems to figure me out.At times i feel im the only one that figures him out as well. Now its no easy keep his good side out but his bad one doesn't last always. His very flirtacious but ive learned to cope an not be so over protective lol ive recently allowed him fb....lol but i know he loves me so i give him his space to be his self
Ptolemy on August 29, 2011:
This is the most superficial garbage i've ever heard! I'ma gemini man and NONE of this would make me happy. 'Do consider cosmetic sugery?' What kind of relationship needs cosmetic surgery to be predisposed to succeed? If you want to make any man happy get to KNOW him!
RJA on August 14, 2011:
As a gemini man, i would suggest that some of these comments are pretty accurate, some are just silly and badly unsound . Ive seen woman and marriage over the years. I do have preferences.. this is called experience. Please take note. If gem, man. I was wed to a taurus 15 years.. not great, love, of money, selfish, angry. humiliating, at times, not bright, especially in, bad in bed. . As for Capricorn u might love being bossy and being money orientated and materialistic , maybe even being dull or thick. but no. Scorpios, lovely people, dark macarbe and so secretive, very.... Cancer, also lovely,however, temper problem. My best friend is a Cancer and as a friend i can can phone her ,she is so lioness about her buddies . Aquarius fascinate me in a big way, u girls are amazing. I've never been out with a gem woman, it would be fun . Im now with an Aries woman for the first time, she is everything..... Spontaneous, witty, a tad bossy, which is fine. I'm so lucky, very sexy indeed. slightly dismissive but never deliberate,its a bit like kind of holding on to a wild horse. I sometimes have to use the Gem Scathing, sarcastic, caustic , whiplash tongue that we posses, but to browbeat or humiliate, never ever because i love her. on a very rare occasion, she might row but we are OK after ten mins. The thing is she appreciates me..for who i am not what i am. She doesn't mind me,and the way that i am which (does) surprise me. I am difficult, awkward , annoying, Not moody, love sex. Don't give a crap about all sorts. I'm shocked . .She so is accommodating to my faults but i love her deeply . She has bought me.. Have... never dated an Aries woman, I Will not tolerate fools. This is where she kicks , in, bless her... human side. she likes romance, which i think is important, i have no problem with it, because she deserves it. I loved this Woman so much....Aries women.. u rock......Because only you girls.. can figure the Gemini Bloke out..
me on January 07, 2011:
i have recently reconnected w a gemini man i dated for years, years ago. i'm a leo woman...um, i'd have to say the plastic surgery thing & superficiality regarding fashion DOES NOT apply to him. never did. he makes me feel like the sexiest thing on 2 feet, even when i'm having a rare not confident day! when we dated previously (most of our 20s) his "dark moods" were more conspicuous, but now in our 30s he seems to have learned a bit more of who he is & is more the "good twin" on a regular basis. he is always there to listen when i've had a rotten day & i am there in kind, although we're both pretty cheerful & about 5 min of bitching and done! we both feel better, ha ha! he knows something about almost everything (huge turn-on) & loves to try new things in the bedroom and out. in short, he's the most amazing man i have EVER met & i feel truly blessed to have him back in my life!
leah on August 20, 2010:
i am with a gemini man and honestly a lot of the things she said are true, the fashion and the cosmetic surgery BUT i think they like talkin more about it then having you actually do it. i am a capricorn i mean we are as opposite as can be me=stable him=sponataneous, me=morning person him=not i mean it goes on and on and on.... YET we balance one and other he pulls me out of flippin bubble and i get him to be stable about 21 out of 30 days and our fights are off the charts but for some insane reason we love one and other. i don't know how many times i have told him there is the door if you want a supermodel go get her if you want this go get it but like i said most of it is just a need to talk and reassure themselves that they are loved and wanted and when given the option of stayin or goin they will stay as long as you stand up for yourself and tell them that you know you are good enough for anyone including them.
lyza on August 19, 2010:
I am with a gemini and i am a leo... our relationship is good but he does get in his moods and pushes me away. when this happens i give himm his space and let him deal with it on his own. he will never open up to me so i let him be.. by the next day hes back to him self
Rita on February 15, 2010:
My husband has a Very Dark Side...and its very evil at times.I have been w/this man for 20 plus years...Not sure if hes trying to drive me any with his BAD ATTITUDE
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Jennifer on November 28, 2009:
Wow very interesting....I have a gemini man and I am a gemini women.. Yes gem,s must be kept entertained, and yes Gem men are in pursuit of a very attractive women but geezzzz no woman ever should feel that they should chance and become so plastic unless they want to. Wow I just have to say that it would seem like this article is from a desperate persons point of view.