I wrote this Article to inspire young people to enjoy their single Journey that they don't have to rush to have a relationship.
1. Focus on God by building up your relationship with Him, and a time of understanding who He really is.
When I was a teenager, I always went to church, after class, job trainee, and even though it was raining and storming I still went to church. Every Monday to Friday we had a youth prayer meeting, for Saturday we had a Youth conference, and Sunday is the Lord's Day.
Building up relationships with God while you're young is one of the best things that ever happen as a youth. As the bible said; "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom."-Proverbs 9:10. What does the bible mean here? When you love the Lord with all your heart, strength, and mind you will know who He is, Omnipotent, Great Healer, Provider, Savior, and you will know the things he teaches us to do and the things we should not do, therefore here begins the wisdom.
A pearl of wisdom from God is your direct path towards your better future. Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Putting your faith in God's word gives you peace, joy, satisfaction, and confidence that He is a God who controls everything that you feel complete and satisfied without worrying about the future. The busyness of knowing God, building a relationship with Him while you're young is so valuable for this is the foundation of everything to succeed and be an overcomer in this uncertain world.
Jeremiah 29:11: For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD ,“plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
2. Make and spend time with single friends.
Being single is one of the most fun times because you have a lot of time to do things with your single friends. Here you can eat together, buy clothes, travel, celebrate special events like birthdays, valentines, Holidays, you can talk about goals in life and problems that you will never feel alone.
I started having a best friend since I was in high school, we were in the same class from the first year to the fourth year. I remember then, she always picked me up at my aunt's house because we go in and go home together. We also do assignments, projects, and activities together. When I went to college, I enjoyed making friends. We also do homework, activities, thesis, group study, and the relish in feeling that we graduated we were all dean lister at the same time. Now we're working and enjoying life that God-given us and helping our parents in terms financially.
3. Learn new skills while you are Young.
Learning new skills may not be easy, but this is the path to becoming the best version of yourself. Here, you can also see where your passion is while trying new things.
In the beginning, it wasn't that easy to learn new things, perseverance, effort, and consistency are the best investment to become proficient in a new skill that you choose to pursue. Doing this while you are in the Single season is the best time because you could give you all your spare time and focus to learn a new skill that you can apply in your life.
Gaining new skills is valuable because sharing knowledge or important things with other people especially if it's a solution to their problem will give you a huge income which you can use in your Travels, Emergency fund, Future Investment, and possible to bring you financial freedom.
"Learning new skills may not be easy, but this is the path to becoming the best version of yourself."
Traveling alone can be an incredibly rewarding experience. Go someplace you’ve never been, either solo or with a bunch of pals. You’ll be amazed at how much fun you can have. One of the best ways to explore all your potential strengths, weaknesses, and options in life is to travel.
Aids you get to know yourself while traveling, you might find yourself stuck in situations you won't normally experience in your daily life. This can help you understand yourself and how you reach such circumstances, preparing you for future similar situations.
Travelling is good for the health so decide a place now and pack your bags. Remember, you only live once, so start traveling to different places and get some life-altering experiences.
5. Enjoy the Freedom.
Everybody has something that they really enjoy doing. Whatever that is for you, this is your chance to focus on it as much as you want. It’s yours, and you don’t have to share it with anybody. The best way to enjoy being single is by…being single. Don’t go looking for love just yet. It will come along, and when it does, you’ll be ready for it.
Freedom is the opportunity to get to know yourself and really connect with your values and thoughts. Use this chance to assess these. Later, you’ll need this information about yourself when new love interests enter your life.
Singleness is great, it can be hard sometimes to be alone with your thoughts so often. However, learning how to be alone is important. Not only will it let you be comfortable in most situations, but you can prove to yourself that you’re independent and don’t need to rely on a significant other to be happy.
You can do whatever you want, so figure out what that is and go do it! Take advantage of this time and make it count
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