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How To Kiss And Impress Your Boyfriend


The Kiss.....

'I wonder how your kiss feels,

To see love painted in your eyes,

To have your arms around me,

In lover's paradise'.

A kiss is not just a kiss. It is a sweet intimate act shared between two people that can either break or enhance a special moment. A succession of sloppy, bad kissing moments can turn off the desire to kiss at all,  for some, while sweet, passionate kisses can leave us gasping for more.

Kisses can be sloppy without thought and intrusive, while a kiss can also be the most heavenly delight bestowed upon man. Technique is the key to the art of kissing.

Kissing A Fine Art

Kissing A Fine Art

The Kiss of Desire

The scent of love fills the air,

With passion flowing free,

My lover’s breath upon my neck,

I moan with ecstasy.

Our bodies intermingled,

Flesh upon warm flesh,

I feel his mouth upon my cheek,

I can almost taste his breath.

Our eyes of fire finally meet,

To drown in strong desire,

My long blond hair strewn and damp,

Consumed in love’s strong fire.

Suddenly I feel his lips,

Sweep gently on my face,

I arch my back in pleasure,

As he quickens up the pace.

Our lips meet again to linger,

My red lipstick smudged by lust's flames,

His kiss becomes more urgent,

To fill my loins with pain.

I feel his hungry tongue,

Exploring with each kiss,

Bringing me to heaven,

Caught up in this bliss.

Our kisses last for hours,

No closer can we be,

This intimate encounter,

Sends passion's cries to me.

© Blondepoet Hubpages 2009

Making Out

Making Out

Hot Kissing

Hot Kissing

How To Kiss

A great kiss has great passion behind it. When you kiss someone without much thought and feeling you may as well not kiss at all. Biting your lover's lips to bits, sloppy kissing and leaving a trail of saliva all over your lover's face are huge no-no's, that turn people away from the desire of kissing in an instant.

To give a great kiss, you need to put some feeling behind it. If it is a first kiss refrain from diving in with your tongue full throttle, introduce your tongue slowly in your lover's mouth, let yourself feel each new sensation slowly.

A very sexy touch is before your lips meet,  brush your lips briefly over his lips, letting your warm breath blow gently across his mouth. Anticipation can be a huge turn-on for you both.

'I can forget my very existence in a deep kiss of you'. Byron Caldwell Smith

French kissing

French kissing

Different Styles For Every Mood

French Kissing:

Another term for french kissing is 'tongue kissing '. Producers have utilized this seductive kiss to create captivating love scenes in their Hollywood movies, creating some memorable kissing scenes we can never forget. Who can forget that famous kissing scene between Rhett Butler and Scarlett O' Hara in one of the most classic movies of all time, 'Gone With The Wind'?

When french kissing, it is preferable to close your eyes. Catching a glimpse of your partner's wide open eyes inches away from your own, can be quite a turn off and shock, if you are not expecting it.

Make this kiss as passionate and delicious as possible by not only using your tongue to explore the corner's and depths of your lover's mouth, but by using your hands to caress and tantalize your lover's naked flesh at the same time.

Butterfly Kissing:

A soft, ultra light kiss which barely touches the body parts. A kiss designed to tantalize and arouse your lover by lightly brushing your lips across his body, producing almost a ticklish sensation to the body. Butterfly kissing is also performed by flicking the eye-lashes quickly across the skin to give your lover a wonderful erotic sensation with promises of what is to come.

A Nibble Peck Kiss:

A big turn on for a lot of people is to have their ultra sensitive areas gently nibbled and softly kissed, such as the ear-lobes, neck and nipple area. Be careful not to bite your partner when doing this, unless of course he wants you to bite him. Nibbling and biting are two different things. Nibbling involves the sole use of the lips to produce a wonderful arousing sensation most people enjoy.

A Nibble Kiss Yummy In Making Out

A Nibble Kiss Yummy In Making Out



A Great Lover Gives Hot Kisses

What makes a lover great? It certainly isn't about having the perfect body to get you by. Relying on your great curves to satisfy your man doesn't quite cut it, if you lay there like a dead fish checking the clock in five minute intervals to see if its dinner-time.

A great lover is:

  • A woman who thinks and feels sexy regardless of her size.

  • A woman who has no inhibitions in the bedroom, who is comfortable with her own nudity.

  • A woman who is not afraid to show her passion and excitement to her partner. A groaning, writhing woman whose arousal is evident, further arouses a man's own excitement.

  • A woman who takes an active role in love making.

  • A woman who lets herself go free, submitting to her desires, with a desire to please her partner.

  • A woman who is not afraid to show her man what she wants.

© Blondepoet Hubpages 2010

A Great Lover Is A woman Who Thinks And Feels Sexy Regardless Of Her Size

A Great Lover Is A woman Who Thinks And Feels Sexy Regardless Of Her Size


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lexi on April 22, 2012:

Thnx 4 dis advice just snigged my bf and kissed him 2wice.

He for definat wuz urgin for more. He kept hold in my hand and hug in mee. He's a fit boy.

Sundevils10 on March 26, 2012:

My name is Mjay and this really helps me to impress this guy I really like his name is Jack

thank u so much :)

sonam on March 18, 2012:

oooohh! oussom! It's really true which is given above. I agreed this all.

blondepoet (author) from australia on January 17, 2012:

Oh Seattle I totally agree. I do not want a piranah nor a vacuum cleaner, oh boy kissing is way up there, if a man cannot kiss I can guarantee I will not be puckering up aghh

Hell yes Camo Girl the tongue has to do its thing for sure but skilfully not sloppy, ooo I hate sloppy, have to say it again lol

Thanks Eden oh you go girl

Eden on January 14, 2012:

I love kissing my boyfriend coz he knows how to do it

Camo Girl!! on January 12, 2012:

I Hate guys who can not kiss and all the guys i have kissed are good kissers but there was one guy he was bad at it and he it was younger then me i am 16 and he is 15 going to be 16 but i like a Little Toung Kissing and Some Nibbling To!!!

seattleamilehigh1 from Seattle, Washington on January 10, 2012:

I wont date a woman if sheis a bad kisser, i know thatis shallow, but it's a important part of any relationship. Plus, a little nibbling never hurt anyone, at least not me! :D

blondepoet (author) from australia on December 16, 2011:

My pleasure crstloite

How to get over someone thumbs up to that :)

Oh Charles I totally agree. The kiss can make it or break it I say. It amazes me how many men I have come across kiss like a piranah or vacuum cleaner. Aghhh....I am sure it does not include you :)

Hiya The Monk wow you guys must have a top marriage. Woo hoo go for it :)

ubanichijioke hiya. Oh great to hear that coming from a man. Thumbs up :)

Truelovematch I agree when love is involved things are wildly intense especially that first kiss :)

Haha Harvey where??? You mean where to kiss or what to kiss, or venue??? You cheeky bugger

Harvey Stelman from Illinois on November 26, 2011:

Blondie, You never mentioned where? H

truelovematch on September 07, 2011:

It is all about Love!

Alexander Thandi Ubani from Lagos on August 04, 2011:

Great hub. Love the pix. When it comes to the act of kissing, i can proudly do it much much better. Kissing- a great way of expressing affection. . . .

TheMonk from Brazil on June 30, 2011:

I invited my wife to read this with me. We never managed to finish it on the first time. We got carried away practicing. lol!

Charles Hilton on June 26, 2011:

Excellent post on a favorite subject. :)

Kissing can make-or-break a romantic encounter. And nothing gets my juices flowing like a great kiss.

I wrote a haiku along the lines of your observations...


Softly enticing

Seeming like a feather

Caressing my lips


How To Get Over Someone on June 07, 2011:

Nibble kisses are amazing, nothing better! :)

Emma from Houston TX on March 17, 2011:

Nice and quite interesting hub which i enjoyed reading with my heart and mindset.

blondepoet (author) from australia on January 22, 2011:

Wow bruzzbuzz you are a man to be envied, what a great woman you must have. Have a great day thanks so much for swinging by :)

Raster it was my pleasure, just love kissing and kissing and kissing lol :)

Rastamermaid from Universe on December 15, 2010:

voted up,this is AWESOME!

Anything you want to master you need go resources.

This is great studying material and practice makes perfect!

Thanks for sharing

bruzzbuzz from Texas , USA on November 29, 2010:

"A woman who has no inhibitions in the bedroom, who is comfortable with her own nudity." That is the perfect description of my wife and she is a great kisser because of the passion she puts into it. Great hub. Thanks.

blondepoet (author) from australia on November 07, 2010:

Hi there Jasmine ohhhhhh. Woo hoo. Nice to hear I got you going. Oh look if you find Brad can you give me a call too, I hope we can share him. :)

Jasmine JellyBaby on November 05, 2010:

Ok I want to kiss you after reading this to say thank you for watering my lips lol. Absoultely brilliant hub nurse.. where's Brad Pitt when I desperately need to put these skills to work!

blondepoet (author) from australia on October 12, 2010:

Oh Manuel it has the same effect on me. Thanks so much for stopping by :)

Manuel Anna on October 12, 2010:

thanks for your sweet comment, the first day i kissed a boy i felt on top of the world althought, it was like i was drowning it will be the most memorable day of my life. Reading your text makes me feel like kissing somebody

blondepoet (author) from australia on October 10, 2010:

Thanx heaps breakingnews :)

breakingnews from Pakistan on October 09, 2010:

Good information about Butterfly Kissing.

blondepoet (author) from australia on October 07, 2010:

Oh epig aren't you just the loveliest. Oh yes we got to be careful of Canada, don't want you swiped from my grasp LMAO.

Oh yes Siren tongue is wonderful as long as it doesn't drown half of my face off ROFL.

blondepoet (author) from australia on October 07, 2010:

Oh epig aren't you just the loveliest. Oh yes we got to be careful of Canada, don't want you swiped from my grasp LMAO.

Siren6 on October 07, 2010:

Plenty of tongue is my most preferred style!

epigramman on October 07, 2010:

..well I have no boyfriend in which to impress (as you are well aware of this invasion in Canada) but I always kiss the ground that your lovely feet walk upon ......

blondepoet (author) from australia on September 30, 2010:

Oh wifelv I can tell you I was hot and bothered writing this. Ahhhhh. Wow we have a lot in common, I consider myself a whirl at kissing too. Thanks for coming by.

Oh acaetnna you are the bees knees. Love you heaps. xo

acaetnna from Guildford on September 30, 2010:

I just loved your poem blondepoet, I've read it again and again, awesome!

wifelv from mi on September 28, 2010:

Your hub got me hot and bothered! I am one of the best kissers! I consider it an art and to me it is the crem'Delacrem'

of forplay...

blondepoet (author) from australia on September 23, 2010:

Oh exactly acaetnna so few....so hard to find......they really need to come here and get some lessons...seriously.

acaetnna from Guildford on September 23, 2010:

Wow a kiss is the most exhilarating experience. Why are there so few good kissers?

blondepoet (author) from australia on September 23, 2010:

Oh zamboy you could never offend me. Kissing from head to foot, oh only way to go I say. The ultimate. Bring it on I say. Roar!!!

zamboy321 from Philippines on September 22, 2010:

Hi BP. I hope you won't take offense with my joke. I kiss from head to foot. My friend does the reverse, that is, from foot to head, I mean from foot of the bed.

blondepoet (author) from australia on September 14, 2010:

Aww thanks so much Cags. Now you are a man who would appreciate the fine things in life, I bet you are a great kisser and romancer. Til Paris woo hoo!!!!!!!!!!!Hugs and kisses right back at you.

Hi there gr82bme thank you so much for coming back that just makes me feel on top of the world. A big smooch to you.

gr82bme from USA on September 14, 2010:

Great hub. I loved the poem. Its been a while I had to come back. Sorry so long. A lot going on

Raymond D Choiniere from USA on September 13, 2010:

Hey Blondepoet, yet another amazing hub by an amazing lady. I loved the way you set this hub up and talked about each different way to kiss. I think a lot of people should seriously read this hub. :) :D Maybe some of them might actually learn about passion and not just kissing. A kiss should be just as enticing and passionate, as the sexual acts that can derive from it. Kissing has always been one of my most enjoyed things to do, almost a fetish of sorts. When done properly, it can invoke an awesome response. Great hub! (((KISS))) (((Hugs))) for you as well. Thumbs up! :)

blondepoet (author) from australia on September 12, 2010:

That is very noble of you noble.

Hi there gradyp lol isn't that snail tongue a classic. Great to meet another hubber who detests those sloppy saliva ridden kisses. I am sure you have no trouble kissing.

gradyp on September 07, 2010:

Great hub. And I love the snail tongue! Did a double take just to see if I saw it right :D

I would agree about the "sloppy wet" kisses being a bit of a turn off. Not a big fan of those myself.

NOBLE on September 07, 2010:


blondepoet (author) from australia on September 02, 2010:

Thanks for swinging by susantoande26. :)

susantoandre26 on September 01, 2010:

Thanks,, Great suggestion for us..

blondepoet (author) from australia on August 31, 2010:

Hey there Thunder well if that is what shakes your bacon I say "go girl' woo hoo.

Thunder Vixen from The Heart of California on August 30, 2010:

I don't know about the no for the biting while frenching, that is a huge turn on for me and a lot of guys that I have dated, but they are passionate bites..

blondepoet (author) from australia on August 26, 2010:

Oh ruan I bet you are a good kisser too. Heck so many blokes have no idea, you could almost swear you were kissing a vacuum cleaner and they are going to take off half of your face like a piranah. Heaven, now that sounds like a heavenly place. I bet you would Ruan, hell yes.

Ru-an from South Afirca on August 24, 2010:

Wow BP as always you make some really incredible hubs. Reading your poem was a bit like an intimate kiss. Kissing is one of the most awesome, erotic things i can think of. Having said that i cant remember the last time i kissed. I long to find my love and give her the kiss that would take her to heaven.

blondepoet (author) from australia on August 23, 2010:

Thanks heaps nikitha it certainly is one to get your teeth around.

nikitha p from India on August 23, 2010:

Wow! very interesting hub.

blondepoet (author) from australia on August 21, 2010:

Oh Katie I totally agree. A good kiss is so so important yet sometimes it is hard to come by. I have had some Don Juan's whom you would think would kiss like the angels themselves but actually turned out to be piranahas. Eeeeekkk. Come on blokes you need to get your noses and lips into this one.

Katie McMurray from Ohio on August 21, 2010:

Kissing is So important. I feel a great kiss is a very powerful component to love and being in love. I love to kiss my boyfriend, we have fun fun fun with it and talk about it. It's how I came up with Kiss Kiss Revolution. Its a kissing game I invented and wrote a hub on it. I love your bit on How to Kiss Your Boyfriend Like a Pro, very good tips and kissing your boyfriend like a pro gets you devoured like one as well. Oh La La the power of KISSING!

blondepoet (author) from australia on July 07, 2010:

Hey there Stan LMAO I must have done something right then. I bet both you and I know which activity is most enjoyable lol. Thanks heaps for coming by. :)

Stan Fletcher from Nashville, TN on July 06, 2010:

Wow. This one is making me pack up my computer and quit working. There's other work to be done!

blondepoet (author) from australia on June 26, 2010:

LMAO Bailey you are not the first to say that. Omg can you just imagine one of those coming for you. Yikes it would make a lot of us a speed runner in seconds.

Hey Silver wow that makes three of us with the snail thing. I am thrilled you liked my poem. It was the best way I could describe the incredible sensations when you are with the right person. :)

SilverGenes on June 26, 2010:

OMG I love that poem! And I'm with Baileybear on the snail LOL

Baileybear on June 24, 2010:

That snail tongue photo is pretty freaky

blondepoet (author) from australia on June 22, 2010:

Hey Hey Cindy woo hoo. Corrupting? I???? Oh hell yes LMAO. xo

Cindy Vine from Cape Town on June 22, 2010:

Are you corrupting the youth again?

blondepoet (author) from australia on June 22, 2010:

Oh Morsi I do not blame you. I do too indeed. :)

Hey there Ixxy oh it does stir up some kissing desires. Oh what a lucky girl. Bet you know what you are doing. xo

lxxy from Beneath, Between, Beyond on June 22, 2010:

This whole thing makes me wish K@ri was here right now.....great job. I love mixing and matching kisses, nibbles, licks...

Morsi 69 on June 20, 2010:

Great Topic and good info

i wana try hahaha

thank you

blondepoet (author) from australia on June 14, 2010:

Thanks so much Kamran :)

Kamran100 on June 12, 2010:

co0l hub....

blondepoet (author) from australia on May 31, 2010:

Hiya Girish I am delighted you enjoyed my poem. Thank-you so much for coming by. :)

Girish1000 from India on May 30, 2010:

Great hub...i really enjoyed to read the "The Kiss of Desire".

blondepoet (author) from australia on May 18, 2010:

LMAO ralwus I bet I could give you a good run, ....I think a marathon is in order here. :) :)

ralwus on May 17, 2010:

i'll bet you've had every kiss i have had, almost. but then, i am much older. xox

blondepoet (author) from australia on May 17, 2010:

Hey there LM I am always happy to oblige how bout today at 6.00pm under the dock :)

Tony from At the Gemba on May 17, 2010:

I have read the hub... When is the practical (oral) exam??

Great hub

blondepoet (author) from australia on May 16, 2010:

Thanks heaps Jennifer :)

Jennifer 987 on May 15, 2010:

A tour de force on the art of kissing. Keep it up and check out http://www.compatiblechoice.com

blondepoet (author) from australia on May 12, 2010:

Hey there Dave I like your way of thinking. :) :)

Dave Mathews from NORTH YORK,ONTARIO,CANADA on May 11, 2010:

I love jj's idea only reversed. It also works well on all parts of the anatomy too.

blondepoet (author) from australia on May 09, 2010:

Oh jj I can tell you I am brewing up the bottle of kahlua as we speak. I am going to keep a bottle in my pantry for those special occassions ROFL. :)

jj200 from My Bedroom on May 08, 2010:

Nice, glad I could stir up a great memory. With the right context and the right flavors, a kiss like that can really get you both off to the races...



blondepoet (author) from australia on May 08, 2010:

Oh jj200 that kiss sounds divine. It brings back a memory for me too, except it wasn't Kahlua but some divine cream caramel. So I can 100% relate to what you are saying. Kahlua I adore that drink, I will have to make trying this one top of my list. :)

jj200 from My Bedroom on May 08, 2010:

I don't know how I found myself here, but interesting read. Being a guy and having done my fair share of kissing I strangely have only ONE kiss that I remember and it was very memorable. The story behind it is actually great, but I'll just share the kiss. We were drinking alone in the woods when all of a sudden she kissed me, she gently pushed a small amount of Kahlua from her mouth into my mouth, followed by a bit of tongue. It wasn't backwash or warm saliva-y or anything. It tasted sweet and was totally sexy. I had no idea this was coming. It was so hot.

Just thought I'd share, though I can see this going horribly wrong, so don't blame me if you try this at home.

blondepoet (author) from australia on April 29, 2010:

Great to hear Munat you go for it. :)

Thanks heaps for stopping by hussain. :)

9hussainA on April 29, 2010:

it is nais

MUNAT on April 29, 2010:

I realy luv to do dat anyway

blondepoet (author) from australia on April 27, 2010:

Hi Nitesh great attitude lol. :)

NITESH YADAV on April 27, 2010:

just hold it in ur harms and start kissing and go for more

blondepoet (author) from australia on April 09, 2010:

Oh Lisa I hope you arrive there faster than a speeding bullet. It was a pleasure to see you and I bet your boyfriend is going to be in for a treat and a half :)

Hey there licot oh do have fun in the process :)

licot on April 09, 2010:

very nice hub... learn how to kiss someone... later i'ii try each one of them...

lisa brazeau from Canada on April 09, 2010:

okay stop. I'm reading this as I'm getting ready to board a plane to see my boyfriend in Toronto. This is not fair!!!!Now I'm counting the minutes till I get there.

Brilliant hub BP, love it.

blondepoet (author) from australia on April 09, 2010:

Oh Sam it has that effect. Do not despair if you do not have a woman an orange is a good substitute. :)

Hey Gina you sexy beast you. I am not sure if you have a man to get back to basics with, but as I mentioned to Sam a nice ripe orange is a good substitute ROFL. :)

Gina Coole from London on April 08, 2010:

BP - Gosh I thought I knew all there was to know about kissing - just how wrong can a girl be? I see I need to go back to night school on this one - Once I've re-read your hub I'm looking forward to the practicals!

sam on April 08, 2010:

wooo:-)even i'm wantin to kiss now:-)

blondepoet (author) from australia on April 04, 2010:

Thanks so much Mark, you look like you would have no trouble in the art of seduction, with those good looks and twinkle in your eye. BP can just spot it :) Thanks so much for the praise, tell me more ROFL.

markbennis on April 02, 2010:

Fantastic hub here blondepoet, you executed this one like a true Queen of Venus, Passionate, Seductive, Inviting and Intuitive. You certainly captured the imagination and soul of the reader, powerful stuff.

blondepoet (author) from australia on March 29, 2010:

Thanks so much mboosali oh yes, kisses are the essence to life.

mboosali from Minneapolis on March 29, 2010:

wonderful poem . . .

and good hub, kisses are wonderful and important.

blondepoet (author) from australia on March 27, 2010:

Yes Ross that first kiss, it packs a punch lol. Thanks so much for coming by.

Chibuzo Melvin Mobis from Nigeria on March 27, 2010:

This actually reminded me of the 1st time i saw my wife..

This intimate encounter,

Sends passion's cries to me.

You have got a great hub here.

blondepoet (author) from australia on March 24, 2010:

Oh thanks a million samboiam am going to check it out now. :)

samboiam from Texas on March 23, 2010:

Great hub.Just wanted you to know I have linked this hub to my latest hub Funny Before And After Pictures.

blondepoet (author) from australia on March 21, 2010:

Oh I am so glad adrienne2 you liked it. I feel the kiss myself every-time I come here. :)

Fierce Manson from Atlanta on March 21, 2010:

Way to go blondepoet, this is one steamy hub! It was like I could feel the kiss right off the hub. Great stuff.

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