Vikram Brahma has over a decade of corporate working experience. By profession, he is a Digital Entrepreneur, Blogger, Writer and YouTuber.
If you want to grow in life then definitely you need to build a good relationship with others. As we progress in life we need support and help from others. We are after all social creatures and without each other, we cannot grow and survive in life.
There are seven billion people on earth but God has created each of us for some unique reasons. How we grow in life largely depends upon the way we interact and build our relationship with others. In this article, we are going to see ways through which we can build a good rapport with others. So, let’s get started.
Never Try To Build Fake Relationship With Others
If you are looking ahead to build a solid relationship with others then you need to take care of some important habits. Now-a-days, people are very smart and they can easily identify your real motives.
A person who is ready to build a fake relationship will stumble many times in life. It is always better, to be honest in building a new association with others. If you will try to cheat anyone then definitely you will have many problems in life.
The good thing is many times you don’t have to speak about the relationship. It will automatically show in your behavior and habits. Just try to be fair and honest in all of your dealings with others.
Appreciate Others At Every Opportunity
Whether you are a boy or a girl, whether you are an employee or an employer, everyone likes to be appreciated. I have found that if you appreciate others for good work they really enjoy that moment.
When you appreciate others, you have to remember that it should a genuine one. Don’t try to appreciate others just for sake of it. Appreciation should come from the heart.
So, whenever you get a chance to appreciate others then it is always better to go ahead and do it sincerely. And if you have difficulty in appreciating strangers then start with your family and colleagues. Once you will start applying this formula offline or online situation you will definitely get the results and will have a better relationship with others.
Be Honest While Dealing With Others’ Money
Money is power, money is fame, and our society is run by the help of this energy. It has the power to change the mindset of people. If you are serious about building great connections with others then never ever play with others’ money and property.
You have to be honest and sincere in all your transactions related to wealth. The more you will be honest, the more people will like to deal with you openly. And I have learned that if a person is honest and dam hungry to learn then no one can beat such kind of person. So, have that kind of attitude in life and life will be more meaningful for you.
Honor Your Words With Actions
I am sure you have friends, who will promise to meet you at 5:00 pm but then they will never show up by giving excuses. Now if you will behave like them then people will never trust your words. Remember, if a person known to you don’t keep his promises then it is like talking to complete strangers.
A man is mostly trusted by his words and actions. It will be better if you can build a habit that matches words with action. And when you do such things then it shows that you value your words and that will make all the difference.
Be A Problem Solver For Others
Do you believe in helping others or do you believe in letting them figure out by themselves? My motive for existing in life is to help others through my articles, writing, books, and videos.
I believe in the concept of philanthropist actively. I want to genuinely help others. I am extremely happy because recently a few months back someone asked suggestions from me related to online work. And since I knew about her strength I suggested her one course and after completing that course she managed to publish her book within two months' time.
Always Give More Than You Can Receive
We can divide our habits even based on as a giver or receiver. Although there is nothing wrong being a receiver but if possible we should try to build our mentality as a giver.
When your subconscious mind will accept your suggestion as a giver then it will create many opportunities in life for you where you will always be a giver. Another thumb rule is to give with open arms and with full enthusiasm.
You should feel motivated to give more and more. In this way, the universe will identify you as an honest giver and it will have a ripple effect and you will get the return in abundance. So, then again do it more and more.
In this article, I have shared six points and even if you will work on any two points then also you can create a good relationship with others. But it is also true that not only you but the opposite person should also show some honor and respect in the same way. Then it will be easy to have an unbiased relationship with others.
This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.
© 2020 Vikram Brahma
Vikram Brahma (author) from Assam, India on October 07, 2020:
Thank you so much, Anupam for your comments and positive feedback.
Anupam Mitu from MUMBAI on October 07, 2020:
Great Philosophy of life. Keep it up