Every woman is a gift to the world. As a woman, there is a lot for you to be grateful for. As a woman we owe it to ourselves to be good role models, we should be good role models to our environment and children. As a woman, you should be the pride of your home. You should be supportive, caring for not just your immediate family but for others.
As a woman, you should be the light of your community; you should be a proud career woman (even if you have to work from home). Just being a woman puts you on a pedestal. As a woman, you have this God given natural abilities and endowments that can make you rule anything.
Every woman should always be careful of how they live their lives because the way you live your life today determines your future, remember you were designed to nurture. I will discuss this in three different categories:
1. Choice making in marriage: women must be very careful in taking decisions about marriage because your choice determines your future. Like an adage goes “it is how you lay your bed that is how you will lie on it”. Every woman should engage their selves in counselling before marriage so that they don’t fall into the wrong hands.
2. Decision making: women should be very cautious in the way they make decisions because the decision you take or make could make or break you. Whatever decision as a woman you make should be heavily thought through. Count the cost before you engage in whatever decision you wish to take. For instance, Decisions in the areas of: career, business, adoption, clothing etc.
3. Determination: every woman must be strong and determined. For instance, to be a good wife, to be a good mother, determined to be a good role model for other aspiring young women. With determination, the sky is your limit. A woman should not be quick to give up, she should try harder, be determined to press on. There is an adage that says “the downfall of a man is not the end of his life”.
Most crumbled marriages results from lack of love or inadequate love for either the husband, wife or home. Some women love their kids too much and neglect their husband forgetting that he desires love too. You have to be collected as a mother and a wife; you should know how to manage people and materials. Create a timetable for your kids and also create a timetable for your husband or wife. Don’t forget that a man will always be a man, same as a woman. They will either require your attention or they will seek for it elsewhere.
It is heart-breaking when I hear some women complain of having low self-esteem issues. Ladies come on, no matter your size or shape or looks you will always be beautiful, even the bible lets us know that all things were created beautifully. All you need to do is look in the mirror and think positive thoughts, don’t dwell on your imperfections because everyone has got one imperfection or the other, everyone!!! Just breath, be optimistic, everything is going to be alright.
Here are tips I think would help you through whatever difficulties you might be encountering:
1 Be nice and homely to people.
2 Be accessible, Let people meet you and know you.
3 Interact more with people because no man can survive as an island
4 Treat people with respect. Treat people like you would want to be treated.
5 Lastly, don’t ever get tired of looking beautiful.