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5 Tips for Getting in the Mood

Tantowi grew up drawing and designing. Now she makes videos for a living and loves every second of it.


We all know that romance plays a vital role in keeping a healthy, active relationship. It can go a long way in helping you keep the spark alive in your relationship. The truth is everyday life and the many responsibilities we have as human beings can often take away from the importance of romance in our relationships.

There are many ways to take your time and make it work for you in devious ways. With that in mind, I created a list of ten things that you can do to get into the mood, create that moment, and master the art of seduction. This post is not only useful for foreplay but also if you just want to spice things up in your current relationship or marriage.

Put on Some Soft Music

So you’ve invited your girlfriend or boyfriend over for a romantic dinner and you want to make this evening special. You know that you want to surprise them and create an atmosphere of romance but you couldn’t remember the last time you even opened up a music player. Nothing like this has crossed your mind in quite some time but your mind is still racing on how exactly to create that romantic moment in front of your partner. The good news is that there are many ways by which you can get into the mood by finding the perfect soundtrack to set the mood for a romantic evening. A lot of people may be surprised at just how much music can impact their moods.

Music can be one of the sexiest tools for seduction or romance. It can set the mood and create a feeling of togetherness and intimacy. So, don't forget to put on a romantic Spotify playlist when you're in the mood.

Light a Scented Candle

Almost everyone loves candles. There is something about that gooey wax that makes us feel at one with our surroundings and brings a sense of romanticism. Candles not only have this emotional effect but can also create an atmosphere perfect for seduction. A romantic evening can be greatly enhanced with strategically placed candles.

Candles are sexy, I don’t know why. Maybe it’s because they can be beautiful just sitting there unlit, waiting to reveal their true nature once they’re lit. Maybe it’s because they can cast a romantic glow over the room.

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Lighting a candle may not seem like an extravagance, but what is the cost of turning on romantic music, lighting a candle, and snuggling up with your partner? Even if you can't afford it every night, the art of seduction can wait for these special moments. It is often forgotten that scent plays a role in romance. It's all in your subconscious. Scent memories are very powerful and they can help establish the right mood. This is why I unashamedly recommend scented candles as a seduction tool.

Be in the Moment

Have you ever thought about how important it is to be in the moment when we are with our partner? There are so many distractions in our lives that it seems sometimes we forget to nurture our relationships or even remember our loved ones. It’s easy to get engrossed with work, friends, and everything else our lives include.

The best way to create a great experience with someone is to be in the moment with them. Your partner wants to feel like they are part of the experience you are having. This means thinking about what they need to feel comfortable. Your body language, facial expression, and tone of voice are all cues to tell your partner what you need from them to create the best experience possible.

Leave Your Phone Behind

In a perfect world, your phone would stop sending you notifications and redirect you to events and things that interest you instead. However, that doesn't always happen. Rather than ignoring your phone, focus on the moments that matter. Set aside a few minutes each day to talk with your partner. You should resist the urge to check your phone when you are thinking about spending time with someone. Let your partner know how much you appreciate their presence and wish them luck on their special day.

Don't Forget to Flirt

Romantic love is a beautiful feeling that should not be overlooked. If you are looking for an opportunity to show your love for someone and there is no one available, try flirting with your partner regularly. Flirting is not only appreciated by the people you flirt with, but it also builds your relationship in a positive way.

Flirting is a great way to help you find out what your partner is thinking and feeling. It might even help you find out whether you're able to trust them. If you're taking advantage of a flirting tactic, don't just stop there. Continue flirting throughout the day and engaging in small talk until you see a positive change in your partner. Then, take the initiative and ask them out on a date. Flirting doesn't have to belong or be done under the guise of dating. Try using random small talk during your day at work, and you'll find yourself becoming more empathetic with other people as you continue flirting.

The mood it creates is often described as "magical" or "romantic". We have no idea what to call it when it happens. It's more than just liking someone a lot and not thinking about anything else. You feel warm inside. Even familiar things seem new again as everything looks prettier.

This content reflects the personal opinions of the author. It is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and should not be substituted for impartial fact or advice in legal, political, or personal matters.

© 2021 Tantowi Gilang

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