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Will Dating Sites Be Beneficial to You?

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We will be so enthusiastic while texting our loved ones! Nothing compares to the eagerness to see their reply on our phones. This excitement creates more connections between them and us! Back in those days, talking to our loved ones on landline phones would be a thrilling experience for us. The more we wait to talk to our loved ones, the more we fall for them! We will be anxious to talk to them! We had beautiful dating experiences back in those days!

Since online dating was introduced, we have lost the little joys of dating we had in the past! It would be easier for us to date if we learned how dating was in the past!

An investigation Aziz Ansari & Eric Klinenberg

An investigation Aziz Ansari & Eric Klinenberg

Earlier, people looked for partners in a traditional way. similar to approaching via matrimonial websites! People used to publish ads in daily papers. by mentioning their preferences and lifestyle choices in newspapers. They got connected with the concerned person through a toll-free number. They share their preferences and make further decisions regarding the relationship!

Back in those days, people chose each other even without seeing each other, and they took their relationships further. We could say this is the starting phase of dating! After this phase, people switched to calls! People used to connect with each other through landline calls! After this phase, the messaging feature came in. The first message sent was "Merry Christmas!" in the year 1992. In 1992, when the first message was sent, people wondered how it was possible to communicate through text on mobiles!

Now, the messaging feature has been upgraded to the next level with technological advancements. Initially, the message limit was only 100 messages per day. When we had a messaging limit, we used to prioritize chatting with people! Despite limited messages and work counts, we tried to communicate efficiently with our loved ones! We efficiently used those limited text messages because we valued our loved ones more! Our dating culture and romance were shaped by the limited messages!

Next Comes The Online Dating Phase!


Initially, we'd be so curious about getting to know the person, much like being excited about a prize in a game. The starting phase is mysterious in its own way and creates an attraction towards the other person. But we might get bored if we frequently communicate with each other! There are some basic rules for messaging that won't project us as desperate!

Rule 1: Don't reply to your crush immediately. It takes some time to reply to them. This will create an interest in you.

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Rule 2: Wait for the replies while you are having a text conversation with your crush! Don't bombard their inbox with multiple messages. This would make you look very desperate.

Rule 3: The one who receives the last message is considered the winner of the conversation!

After the messaging phase, next comes the stalking phase! Most people begin their dating life by stalking their crush's social media profiles! However, when we see some negative posts on their social media, we tend to jump to conclusions about the other! We cannot say that we love everything about the other person. No one can be the perfect match for another person in the world!

We'll end up making assumptions if we try to learn about each other only through social media! We'll lose our excitement and stop putting effort into knowing more about that person! Don't try to learn everything through social media. Learn a few details through social media, and get to know the person through meetings! Give space and time to each other!

The Author Of The Book, Aziz Ansari advises us

We should not place our hopes in dating apps! This would prevent us from getting to know what we really look for in life. Sometimes we get along with some people, even though our physical preferences don't match!

We might not know what we really want, and the rules keep changing. Keeping an open mind in the dating phase would help us choose better partners! There are some ground rules for keeping the dating apps running! Your photos play a vital role in dating apps! There are some strategies to upload pictures on dating apps like Tinder or Bumble. It's okay to put pictures of our favorite things if we live in Japan! But here in India, you follow these rules to get matched with more people!

Most women usually take pictures from a straight angle. The profiles that keep flirtatious, top-angled pictures get matched with many. Most men dislike profiles of women who have pictures of themselves posing with liquor! But in contrast, the candid pictures catch the eye. Also, women like it when men upload their working stills. Men posing with their pets become the center of female attention! But most men dislike the profiles of women posing with dogs, presuming they are cheesy!

It's natural to have second thoughts about having a relationship with technological advancement. Women in middle-eastern countries won't mostly upload their selfies! Because they have their faces covered most of the time! Such women have freedom only in death and marriage.

Dating Apps Have Helped Them To Meet New People


And with apps like Snap Chat, those women felt some sense of security. Since it has disappeared, image or text features! It's evident that technological development has become a helpful tool for many.

It differs from person to person, as dating is based on perceptions! There is nothing wrong with using a dating app! But read this book before you enter into a dating phase! It will help you grow as a better person in relationships and aid in efficient communication! You'll find all kinds of tips about dating! You can find it in this book, "Modern Romance,"

Find the Amazon link below, if you want to buy this book!

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