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Why Some Guys are Still Single at Age 35? – [Effective Dating Tips for Men]

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Effective Dating Tips for Men

Effective Dating Tips for Men

First of all, being single at a very ripe age of 35 comes with some benefits. If you are single you are excluded from the unnecessary stress of parental responsibilities. And it is also a fact that romantic relationships are the number one cause of grey hair.

But if you are bored sleeping on your own and having the freedom to go out with anyone you want to, and if your palms need weekly shaving. Then, there might be things you need to work on to be in a relationship.

Before we proceed with the basic tips of how not to be single, let us have a quick mind framing. This will manage your expectations of these tips and methods, and avoid frustrations later on. Please do note that not one tip is a solution to your problems, and in Science, the word solution means a mixture.

Here are the most probable reasons why you are still single at age 35 and what you can do to be in a relationship before you turn 36:

You are bald and you keeping wearing a cap even indoors

Some women don’t mind your choice of style, but for most, they find it very distracting. You must also realize that hair is not a deal-breaker for women. Women are attracted to men regardless if they are bald or not. So why does wearing a cap keeps them away? Always wearing a cap when you are bald, and wearing it indoors is a sign of insecurity. Women are already designed to be insecure and they do not want that emotional competition with their future partner. Women are attracted to confident men even if they have an airstrip above their forehead. They want to feel secure and worrying your baldness is a distraction to women and a potential romantic relationship

You are afraid of water

No female regardless of species likes a stinky male. Though sweat carries a little of mating pheromone, fermented sweat is definitely a cock block. No woman likes to date or be in a relationship with someone who is contributory to the worsening problem of Global Warming. If you are living in places where water is not scarce, take a bath, one simple act can go a long way.

Some situations cannot be solved by taking a bath alone

  • Yeah, invest in deodorants and cologne. If you belong to the amazing few, that even after taking a shower, they sweat too much and minutes later will smell like a skunk trying to scare away predators.

You talk s#@t, like literally

  • Dental hygiene is very important. It reflects your overall personality and if you have bad breath then you will scare 99 % of your potential mate. We save 1 % for those who have bad breath but are very rich. They are exemptions. So if you don’t own a yacht or a football-size lawn, then maintain good dental hygiene.

You have a pet inside your nose

  • Women were created by God to be petrified by cockroaches and if they see little cockroach legs coming out from your nose, then they will be afraid of you. We all know that those pets are dear to you, but for the sake of being in a relationship, trim them. Just a short trim to keep those baby legs inside.

You are gay and your Asian

  • Homophobia is still a serious case in countries where equal gender rights are not generally accepted. Unlike most parts of the Western countries, gay couples are discriminated against in most parts of Asia. Thus, the number one reason why you are not attracted to women is that you are attracted to men. If this is the case for you, then hiding your actual sexual preference will not be a help for the overall fight for equalities. Coming out will be your best choice and this can set you free and be more open to searching for the perfect relationship for you.

Finding the perfect relationship is not a treasure hunt, but it can only be found through a shared journey. The perfect person for you is out there and are you are missing the opportunity to spend more time with him or her because you lack the courage to be yourself. Finding a partner only requires two basic traits, and that is to be clean and be confident, regardless of what is your stature in society and how you look. Be your self, some even love the company of an asshole. So if you are a nice guy, be clean and start searching for your mate

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This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2020 Erl Sua


Erl Sua (author) from Philippines on November 16, 2020:

Thank you for your feedback.

Seeing comments in the comment section from people appreciating my work encourages me more to write.

Erl Sua (author) from Philippines on November 16, 2020:

Thank you for the feedback.

I learned about the cockroach legs from my girl classmate in college and how she was grossed out, seeing little legs coming out from the nose.


Kalpana Iyer from India on November 15, 2020:

Too good! "If you are living in places where water is not scarce, take a bath, one simple act can go a long way" Truer words have never been spoken.

Nigel Koay from Malaysia on November 15, 2020:

Hahaha, i laughed pretty hard at the "pet inside your nose" section, i think this article helps a lot, thank you for that!

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