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Party Ideas: Sexy Halloween Party

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How To Organize A Hot Halloween Affair On Your Own Without Spending A Fortune?

Every year I throw a big Halloween party, not only to celebrate Halloween but also celebrating Samhain and the Celtic New Year. Last year our party was a great success, we had lots of witches, the Hulk, pumpkins and other Halloween themed dresses. This year, my friends are already starting to ask me about the party theme, so I have decided to surprise them with a Hot Halloween affair with a sexy theme, or at least a sexy interlude later in the evening.

How to organize a Hot Halloween affair on your own without spending a fortune?

Ask yourself who? Where? How? When? Organization and delegation are essential for a successful party. I am already late starting to organize the party but I will manage and thankfully I have very helpful friends which will make it easy to delegate tasks, like preparing food for a buffet, bringing and hanging up decorations -last year a friend came with so many pumpkins for decoration that we were eating pumpkin soup and tart all the way to Christmas!

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Halloween 2007

The Guest List

First of all start making a list of the people you are inviting. It is your party and you want to have fun so invite all those crazy friends who you know are game for anything.

Secondly, once you know how many people are coming you can think about where you will be holding your party. Maybe it is good enough in your living room or you might need to use other areas such as dining and kitchen area and the garden or terrace. Once you know what areas you are opening to your guests you can think about decoration, food and drink, music and entertainment.

Halloween Invitations:

Make sure you invite your guests with plenty of time so they have the time to get organized and choose their costumes. Make it clear in the invitations that they should come disguised and that it is going to be a Hot affair.

You can invite people over the phone, by text message, by emails or sending them invitation cards. Nowadays you can download personalized invitations and print them at home. Whichever way you choose, make sure to allow enough time and request an answer to know for sure who is and who is not coming.

Dressing For A Sexy Halloween Party

One of the most important things for a successful Halloween party is to have everyone playing the game and coming dressed up. For a sexy Halloween party make sure that you ask your friends not only to come disguised but to come dressed in the sexiest Halloween costume they can find. This will create expectation in your guests, a good start for a successful party.

To find a sexy Halloween costume is very easy as there is plenty to choose from. You can buy your sexy costume at a specialized shop or if you have the time and sewing ability, you can look online for sexy costumes ideas and create your own. Remind your guests that they don't need to spend money on complicated costumes, but they do need to "show off some skin" in order to qualify for entrance.

This year I’ve already chosen a sexy costume for my Halloween party, I’ll be dressing up as a Lady Cop. I found this sexy costume at Halloween Costumes (you can see the picture on the right). As soon as I saw it I fell in love with it. The sexy Lady cop costume comes with a black mini dress with "Office Naughty" embroidered in white and a vinyl waist-cincher to help create an hourglass figure. The costume also includes a police hat with removable badge and a black tie. I am hoping this will bring all the “bad buys” straight to my party! You can find this costume here. And if being a law reinforcer is not really “your thing” there you can find many more high quality Halloween costumes with a sexy twist, for all budgets and sizes.

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Setting the Sexy Party Scene

Creating a sexy atmosphere for Halloween is easily done with lighting. Using only candles for lighting can add to the scary Halloween scene, but it also adds a romantic and seductive atmosphere. If you are concerned about candlelight you can always use low lights or dark light bulbs.

You can use scented candles. Cinnamon is not only aphrodisiac but it also adds to an autumn-winter mood.

Curtains are also great for creating atmosphere. You can use transparent red or black curtains to separate your living room from your dining room. This will create a more intimate place to be. A great idea is to create a tiny room with curtains and furnish it just with cushions on the floor. This can be a "private" area for a conversation!

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The Music

For a Hot affair, make sure that you have some appropriate music to welcome your guests. I personally like Enigma, it is mysterious and sensual; perfect for setting the mood. Later on, when everybody is ready for a dance you can put on something more funky or why not some Lambada and Samba.


Whenever I have a party with lots of guests I prefer to do a buffet and let everybody help themselves. That way I do not need to be in the kitchen or supervising any food preparation. Buffets are easily done in advance. You can ask your closest friends to bring something for the buffet. They will be delighted to make you something for the table. Women always like to be complimented on their cooking so your girlfriends will make an effort to bake their best cake or make their best salad.

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Always have plenty of soft drinks and keep the alcoholic drinks to a maximum of 4 different types. A big party is not the time to show off how big and varied is your bar -unless you want to spend a fortune. A sangria is ideal for Halloween and it is very easy and cheap to make. I usually have Sangria, plenty of red and white wine and whiskey and vodka. This might be a limited choice but believe me is enough to keep everybody merry and happy.

When I Was Red Riding Hood


Some Fun Ideas

Have a sexy dancing contest for men and women. With the revealing costumes, that could be an enjoyable prelude to other party games.

Make up teams and play Pervartistry, an adult, but tasteful, game where two or more teams compete to guess risqué terms and phrases through hilarious charades and drawings. This is sure to take the sexy mood up to a new level.

Truth or Dare, you can add a sexy twist to this classic.

Whatever you do have fun!

Have Fun!



Wendy Iturrizaga (author) from France on March 07, 2016:

andy: thanks dear zombie!

andy on February 29, 2016:

Princessa Great hub i like being a zombie at halloween not too much make up needed for me lol but the best sexy halloween costumes i have seen at one party was watchmen silk spectre i don't know if you have heard of it i think its up there with Michelle Pfeiffer's catwoman both very sexy but remember a costume not just for halloween ;-) lol

jeremytorres on October 07, 2011:

WOw...Sexy hub.Love to see girls wearing them.

designer123 on September 01, 2011:

Since Halloween is on a Friday this year, careful planning is needed to make it memorable. I'm gonna have lots of fun since I'm not throwing a party, but attending one just down the street. So no driving for me and no cleaning up!

Mohan Kumar from UK on February 03, 2011:

Sounds like an absolute blast. I have been Zorro once for a fancy dress party and Captain Hook another time but have not done anything 'naughty' as an outfit. Although the Zorro's cape was a useful accessory! Great tips for a naughty blast!

Ian on September 16, 2010:

We always throw a sexy halloween party and it's a blast. We use those Shadow Dancers DVDs on our screens and it turns up the heat a little, especially the It's Wicked edition.

Matrix00 from egypt on April 24, 2010:

hello nice hubpages hits 4u

Wendy Iturrizaga (author) from France on November 01, 2009:

Happy 2009 Halloween everyone, have lots of fun!

Wendy Iturrizaga (author) from France on April 01, 2009:

Andy: you do not need to wait until th enext halloween, the same tips can be applied to similar parties like carnaval and summer parties.

Have fun :)

AndyBaker from UK on April 01, 2009:

Halloween will be around again soon enough...

Great hub!

fourseasons from Pink City on October 23, 2008:


very nice informations and looking great !!


Wendy Iturrizaga (author) from France on October 09, 2008:

Isabella: I will try to post some more photos, but I cannot assure you that they will pass the "HP hub police" and in any event, I am sure my guests will prefer to remain anonymus ;-). Thanks for commenting and have a scary time this halloween!

Isabella Snow on October 09, 2008:

Sexy Red Riding Hood!! I love Halloween parties! Make sure to post more pics after this year's party!

Wendy Iturrizaga (author) from France on October 09, 2008:

thank you compu-smart, I guess I am always looking for an excuse to dress up. I love parties and I have found out that when people are disguised they let themselves have more fun. It is funny, but dressing up seems to make them more assured and confident, they are in "party mode" even before they arrive to the party.

Tony Sky from London UK on October 09, 2008:

Halloween partys are a great excuse to dress up in sexy nurses out-fits or police woman;) ,,not me though! lol,

Princessa, you sound like the life n soul of any party! n happy halloween 2u n all!:)

Wendy Iturrizaga (author) from France on October 08, 2008:

Waynet: do not forget to come back to tell us about the "naughty antics" ;-) Have a fun naugthy halloween!

Earth Angel: A friend came dress in a belly dancing costume last year and she actually offered us a demostration of her "art"; it was amazing. I think it is a great choice if you can do the dance... it is sooo sexy, even I was left open-mouthed!

Enjoy your halloween!

Earth Angel on October 07, 2008:

GREAT Hub Princessa!!

What, no belly dancers?? That's my Halloween costume as I retired from dancing a few years back!! I might take it up again; it is wonderful exercise!!

GREAT Hub with wonderful photos!! Thanks for sharing!! Have a BLAST at your party this year!!

Blessings and ghooool!! Earth Angel!!

Wayne Tully from Hull City United Kingdom on October 07, 2008:

You are seriously hot, anyway I will be dressing up as usual as a zombie this year with make up created by myself and lots of drink followed by naughty antics later on....

Wendy Iturrizaga (author) from France on October 06, 2008:

epifanny: Thanks, you too have a fun-filled halloween ;-)

Wendy Iturrizaga (author) from France on October 02, 2008:

Dottie1: Sure I'll have fun, I have years of experience at it :-)

RyanRe: I like the Baywatch idea, sounds hot! I am considering the Pirate's costume for myself; either that or the Plug and Socket costume.

RyanRE from Bellingham, WA on October 02, 2008:

@Princessa ~ I am still not sure what we are wearing this year. We are going to another couples theme party, so that gives us a little guidance. One I idea we had was a roller derby girl and a roller derby ref. We also considered a "Baywatch" theme. Pam A. and David H.

Dottie1 from MA, USA on October 02, 2008:

Sounds like you'll have fun again this year at your hot halloween sexy affair and great tips without spending a fortune. You sound like a pro at this!

Wendy Iturrizaga (author) from France on October 02, 2008:

Reagu: A Friday Halloween calls for a weekend long celebration ;-) Have fun!

reagu from Los Angeles on October 02, 2008:

Since Halloween is on a Friday this year, careful planning is needed to make it memorable. I'm gonna have lots of fun since I'm not throwing a party, but attending one just down the street. So no driving for me and no cleaning up!

Wendy Iturrizaga (author) from France on October 02, 2008:

Just_Rodney: I love parties, the wilder the better! Thanks for the birthday wishes, I'll be having a glass for you too ;-)

Rodney Fagan from Johannesberg South Africa, The Gold Mine City on October 02, 2008:

Great idea, I see what you meant when you said you always have big bash, enjoy it and wishes to the Birthday man

Wendy Iturrizaga (author) from France on October 02, 2008:

Uninvited Writer : thanks for stopping to comment, I am glad you liked it.

Susan Keeping from Kitchener, Ontario on October 02, 2008:

Very sexy :) Great contribution.

Wendy Iturrizaga (author) from France on October 01, 2008:

Rodney southern: Thanks for commenting :) : snail mail or e-mail? just remember that you "must show some skin" to be allowed in LOL from San Francisco, CA USA on October 01, 2008:

Great hub as always, Princessa. So . . . is my invitiation to your Halloween party in the mail?

rodney southern from Greensboro, NC on October 01, 2008:

Thanks for a very fun read! Great job!

Wendy Iturrizaga (author) from France on October 01, 2008:

RyanRE: That is one of my favourites, I wore it for our carnaval party! What are you wearing this year?

RyanRE from Bellingham, WA on October 01, 2008:

The naughty nurse outfits are my favorite. Last year I dressed up as a "dirty doctor" and my girlfriend was my naughty nurse. We had a blast!

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