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So often in life, the fear of failure is a threatening invasion that hinders every dream. You will face many challenges on the way to victory, but you must not allow the attack on your mind to limit your success.
When a person allows failure to become overwhelming, it takes away the will to win, and it is the most surefire means of getting in your way. But, when you allow your desire for success to exceed your fear of failure, you can discover positive thoughts that will overrule negative views that will not let worry impede your success.
Fear carries a commanding voice that often speaks in your ear especially during your relaxing moments. However, it’s necessary to aim to silence the sound each day to prevent them from fooling you into thinking you can not overcome the inevitable challenges of your fears.
Often that fear is unfounded when you listen to a deceitful voice, dishonesty that will give you reasons to bear the conflicts that come your way. It is best not to hear the cunning voice of fear and find your unique reason for logical positive thoughts, attitudes, and actions, which are certainties to achieve your goals
Overcome Your Fear of Failure
Be Fearless to Move Forward: most of us have experienced the fear of failure, some more than others. Some have been so afraid of failing that they put forth no effort to do the things they are striving to do.
So many of us share the fear of failure; this means it is vital to find the common cause of our anxiety that undermines our efforts to cause us to experience a long life of collected failure.
The primary key to overcoming failure is to analyze your life and find the common cause, so you may understand what “failure” means. The fear of failure can cripple – it can prevent you from doing what needs to be done, and in doing, so it prevents you from succeeding.
However, when you allow fear to make you miss out on some of the best opportunities in life, it can be a glorious learning experience for someone else to discover how to avoid the possibility of a lifetime of failure.
Signs of Fear of Failure: It is not possible to live life without feeling some fear. Anxiety is experienced from uncommon things, but the primary form of fear is through failure. If you are reluctant to try something new, you are experiencing the symptoms a person has when they are having a fear of failure.
Learn to use fear of failure to our advantage: The big question is; how can you learn to use weakness to your strength to overcome the fear of failure? When people are required to go outside of their comfort zone, they experience anxiety; it is a part of being human. There are distinct ways to conquer the fear of failure. We can use these unique ways to overcome our desire and to defeat our concern and begin working toward goals.
How Fear Affects Our Decision Making: One of my favorite quotes is “Fear is a darkroom where negatives develop.” By ~Usman B. Asif. In deciding, most of us go with our instinct and follow it with passion.
When we feel a choice is a life-altering decision, we lose trust in our abilities and intuition. We lose faith in our abilities because the mind is sharing all the uncertainty involved in determining a life-altering decision.
Why we allow fear to affect our decision when we live to make a meaningful life-changing choice, we worry about what might happen as we desire to choose the “safer” route or what makes us happy.
But we should not want to choose the “more guarded” path; we should decide that which is right or best for us. A person who trusts their skills can make a quick decision, but an individual who doubts their abilities live in fear.
Fear takes a significant toll on a person when they fear base their decision making on assumptions, judgments, and expectations. The reason being they fear what others will believe in their choice and settle on what someone else thinks is right or best for them.
To make sure your desire to succeed surpass your fear, you must be able to say no. When a person gets into a habit of allowing their answer to be automatic yes, they let fear conquer them. It is crucial not to be afraid to say no.
Being able to decide rightfully when to say no and when to say yes will avoid conflict that will occur when you often say yes and don’t know how to say no. You earn respect when you can learn how to say no; when you are just saying yes because you cannot bear the thought of saying ‘no,’ you allow others to disrespect you, your time, and energy.
“The choice” you make and the people surrounding you can give a different perspective of what makes you happy. It essential to know when to say ‘no’…or you can continue to allow life to change your world unfavorably with a demanding ‘yes.’ Study shows peoples with the loudest exigencies have no respect for a person afraid to say ‘no.’
To succeed, your desire for Success Should Be Greater than Your Fear of Failure: You can allow your desire for success to be greater than your fear of failure, or you can let your fear of failure hinder you. Fear instill in you from birth; you should mature enough to embrace it as you grow older.
To succeed, your desires for success must be greater than the fears. It would be wise, to begin with, the determination to conquer your fears, worries, obstacles, and struggles.
Courage is the significant key to being able to allow your desire to be inclusive, to move forward even when you feel fear. Have the courage to advance and move ahead with any challenge, disregarding your fear.
The astonishing thing about failure is that it is entirely up to you how you see it. You can see it as “the end of the world,” or you can look at it as the incredible learning tool it is in life and the lesson it means you to learn.
Consider this; there is a difference between the desire to succeed and the fear of failure. And the difference is understanding that downfalls are merely a stepping stone, not a permanent situation.
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"Fear is a darkroom where negatives develop." ~Usman B. Asif.
© 2016 Pam Morris
Bharat Sharan from Dhanbad on April 12, 2020:
Awesome description. I learned a lot from the article, Pam.