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Who I Am: I Am Not What I Have Done, I Am What I Have Overcome


Writing is my passion. I have an undying thirst and quest in the field of writing. Some eat, drink or use drugs when stressed; I write.


‘Who Am I?’ This question - asked so often. In all actuality, I am a mother, an author, writer, a lady of standard who writes on everything and anything. I experience NO shame or fear when I write. Composing is everything to me; when I am discouraged or dismal, it causes me to bounce back and manage challenging situations.

When you know the answer to, ‘Who Am I? You can consider the things you are thankful for in your everyday life. When you can not answer ‘Who Am I,' it brings about suffering because you do not know your actual identity.

I am seeking to get to know myself, I write, and it transforms me to converts me into a stable individual. The beauty of writing is it helps me manage my drama. The better part of all, it helps me to administer my thoughts, so everything comes together, and I feel so free, permitted to hope, free to dream, and able to carry on with my life however I see fit.

Also, I am sure it is safe to say we will always have to decide...but sometimes people make unwise choices, and because of those decisions, they judge… yet you should not pass judgment on me for the things I have done. Because I am not what I have done, the bad choices I made in my life will not speak for me. Nor limit who I am personally.

Talented people make poor decisions, and those choices make them question their abilities. Only I have gone through long periods of my time on earth looking to realize who I am at my center to know the attributes that characterize and clarify my very presence in this world.

One of the biggest and most significant experiences of my journey is to discover who I am. At the point when an individual realizes who they are. The world around them comes together with happiness. If you wish to enjoy sharing your life with a partner, you need to discover your identity.


For most of my life, I have struggled, take part in fights that transform into days where I want nothing more than just to shed the very skin that depicts me. I have cried; I have hoped, and I have prayed, and I desired to remove my beautiful long black hair from the roots to bring an end to the judging of me.

Except, although I used to want to remove my beautiful black skin and cut the long pretty hair that many looks at to define me, I have learned to rid myself of uneducated people and everything that attempts to identify me as “Negro” or “Other.” The truth be told, in my life, I spent my days waiting for the surrounding people to make a change — I even permitted myself to address if the thing people thought was valid.

And the worst part is, I ached to avoid a day of existence that my brain, body, or soul could not endure anymore. I realize individuals see me; they thought my voice or behavior was not in what was acceptable.

Some ignorant individuals will attempt to make you feel unworthy to be in the room as they and my abilities are less than theirs. But through all of this, I have come to the reality that if I wait for people to consider me as what my value is or give me the respect I deserve, I will never know my worth nor get what I deserve.


I am unapologetically for being a black female, someone who has been refused many things for this title. An African American woman who that been through some negatives and advantages. Yet I'm an overcomer.

Over the years, as I developed into a mature woman, I have learned to demand respect and serve as a mother, a friend, a career woman, a child of God, a sister, a person with the belief that I can, and I am an overcomer who now loves herself.

Yes, it was hard, but I have wanted nothing more than to know my true self since I am a black woman, I am beautiful, and I am gratified. So, don’t judge me based on my past...I’m different now, and I am not what I have done. I am what I have done, overcome.

When a situation is so troublesome and intense that it’s an effort to get out of bed, except it was like my life flash before my eyes, and I refuse to stay down and be defeated. I can remember thinking I can do two things either to be a victim of the world or an explorer on a journey in search of a change from my monstrous circumstance.

It feels good to break the chains finally and be able to say I’m not what I have done. I am what I needed to overcome. I am a woman who learns how to love. I love and love and love until I have no more love to give. However, I discover through my experience to love and demand respect when it is due and loves myself, push people aside from that toxic and rid them of my life who has hurt me or don’t care about me.

There are things about me that no one understands, and that makes me different from everyone else. I am one of a kind, so unique, and this one excellent quality has made me stand out from the rest of society.

Please, do not confuse me with what people say or think about me. I am not what happened to me; I am what I become; I am not what I have done; I am what I have done, overcome.


I am and love being a writer. I apply ink onto blank pages as I write and release all stress until I no longer feel the things that trouble me inside. I write until I’m happy no one may know every one of my troubles and secrets that always seem to hunt me except for the pen and paper.

I write when I’m stressed or when I feel lost. Writing helps me to release all worries and express myself, which allows me to represent myself in the best way and unusual ways and find my way back to myself. Also, it helps me let go of anything that I refuse to hold on to so I can continue to express myself.

Along these lines, I have a decision, and I center on knowing who I am and bettering the person I am, rather than allow others to make me a person that not sure. I am “not ashamed to say that I discover who I am.

It’s time that people know me, the real me, as I can communicate who I am and paint my canvas to articulate just who I am. An outline, I am a woman, a black woman with multi-abilities, for example, creative writing, Executive Administrative Assistant, customer service, manager, accounting/bookkeeping, and payroll.

A child of God, a mother, a friend, a sister, a conqueror, fearless, blessed, and I am not what has happened to me; I am not what I have done; I am what I have overcome. I am what I become, and that is an overcomer.

Who I am: I am not what I have done, I am what I have overcome.

How Well Do You Know Yourself?

For each question, choose the best answer for you.

  1. Do you remember your dreams?
    • Always
    • Sometimes
    • Never
  2. How do you show love?
    • Through words
    • Through touch
    • Through gifts
    • Through things I do
    • I don't know
  3. What do you want to do in life? I don't know. Change the world. Find happiness Make a lot of money. Read more: http:/
    • I don't know
    • Change the world
    • To find happiness
    • Make a lot of money
  4. What do you fear?
    • Darkness
    • People
    • Other
    • Nothing
  5. How hard of a worker are you?
    • I usually work pretty hard
    • I don't work very hard
    • I always work hard


Use the scoring guide below to add up your total points based on your answers.

  1. Do you remember your dreams?
    • Always: +0 points
    • Sometimes: +0 points
    • Never: +0 points
  2. How do you show love?
    • Through words: +0 points
    • Through touch: +0 points
    • Through gifts: +0 points
    • Through things I do: +0 points
    • I don't know: +0 points
  3. What do you want to do in life? I don't know. Change the world. Find happiness Make a lot of money. Read more: http:/
    • I don't know: +0 points
    • Change the world: +0 points
    • To find happiness: +0 points
    • Make a lot of money: +0 points
  4. What do you fear?
    • Darkness: +0 points
    • People: +0 points
    • Other: +0 points
    • Nothing: +0 points
  5. How hard of a worker are you?
    • I usually work pretty hard: +0 points
    • I don't work very hard: +0 points
    • I always work hard: +0 points

Interpreting Your Score

A score of 0 means: ?

Casting Crowns ~ Who Am I - Official Video + lyrics

The more you know who you are, and what you want, the less you let things upset you


Audrey Auld 'I Am Not What I Have Done'

I'm a very strong woman, a wonderful person and I know my worth!


This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2017 Pam Morris


Pam Morris (author) from Atlanta Georgia on June 07, 2017:

Thank you so much Dianemae, I really appreciate your time and everything you've written! Also, I am happy to read you can see my big heart through my writing; I appreciate your encouraging compliment.

Dianemae on June 07, 2017:

You are special! You are on the right path and you care about others and yourself. The future is a brighter place because your in it. Keep smiling.

Pam Morris (author) from Atlanta Georgia on June 06, 2017:

Thank you, Patty, I am happy to read you enjoyed my article. It took me a little time to realize it, but I learn I do have a choice in what matter and to have a real life a person have to choose righteousness. Thank you for your comment and support

Patty Florence from Illinois on June 06, 2017:

I enjoyed reading your article. It brought me to this place where I was thinking about our youth who have a choice in what matters. Choice righteousness, YES! Thank you.

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