This is a picture I took of my temporary dentures, which are the dentures I'll be wearing for a full year.
It's Normal To Feel Terrified Or Sad
Pretty much everyone is scared or depressed before they have to get dentures. This is because, if you're contemplating dentures, a lot has had to go wrong first.
You might have spent lots of money on dental work already only to have all that dental work fail. You're probably struggling to chew and/or bite your food and struggling with pain. You've likely lost at least a few teeth already-either to dentists pulling them or them shattering when you tried to eat something (the last tooth I shattered was a molar while I was chewing a piece of bread. I also had several teeth at the time that the dentist had pulled.)
I get it. You don't have much hope right now because you've seen things continually go down hill and you don't feel like there could possibly be a solution to your problem as simple as dentures.
But that's one of the amazing things about getting dentures that no one will tell you. You've fought every day, a losing battle. But with dentures, you'll find that things reverse. You suddenly have hope now. Your mouth is no longer deteriorating, it's improving.
It is also a huge life change. You've no doubt been told by your dentist or other people that if you get this procedure done, you might regret it.
I was told the exact same thing, by a ton of people. I had two friends tell me not to do it and every dentist I went to advise against it. They said I was too young at 30 to have it and that I should keep trying to get dental work done even though it was continually failing. This is despite the fact that I couldn't chew even bread without risking my teeth shattering.
The truth is that they're never going to recommend you to get dentures, no matter how bad your teeth are. (And if they do, then you need to take that seriously because most dentists will not.) This is a conclusion I had to come to on my own and I don't regret that decision.
Still, huge life changes like this are terrifying, even if you're pretty sure that you need them.
Dentures are not for everyone, so I know a part of you is likely doubting your decision right now, even if you're fairly certain you need dentures. If you have any questions about this, you might want to check my article here about how to know whether or not you're ready for dentures:
But if your teeth all have problems, if you get dental work and it has to be redone after less than five years have passed, if you're having trouble chewing your meals at all, or your teeth are always at risk for breaking while you eat...you probably need dentures.
There are moments in life where you have to make huge, scary decisions and you're uncertain of the future. These situations are unavoidable sometimes. But if you don't make the right decision and face your fear when you need it, then you could be hurt.
People die all the time from tooth problems. Here's a story of a 24 year old man who died of a simple toothache:
So if you have the money to get dentures, but you're scared, understand that a lot of people envy the position you are in. They wish they had the money for dentures because dental work is very expensive, especially the more you need to get done. There are people who are in pain all the time like you probably are and whose lives are at risk every day, but they don't have a choice.
Don't let your fear prevent you from taking care of yourself. Because choosing not to get dentures can also lead to an irreversible fate as well-death. Not enough dentists talk about this possibility.
The Cup I Soak My Dentures In Every Night
Things Won't Be Perfect Right Away
You will find people who aren't happy that they got dentures (although they are in the minority, most of us are thrilled about it.) A lot of these people have unreasonable expectations.
Is it reasonable to expect your teeth to improve in appearance dramatically? Yes, your teeth will look perfect!
Is it reasonable to expect that you will eat much better than before and not have to be afraid of your teeth shattering? Yes, it will get so much better. You'll be so happy.
Is it reasonable to expect to talk normally after you get dentures? Yes.
Is it reasonable for you to expect all these changes to happen immediately? No.
The truth is, you are getting an operation. They are removing your teeth (possibly giving you bone grafts and eventually implants if you have the money/health for it.) And they're giving you a prosthetic to replace those teeth.
A lot of people expect to just jump out of the chair after the surgery, have no pain and no recovery.
There are some people I've talk to who are very fortunate. Their good results are immediate. They don't have pain or swelling. They can eat potato chips that same day.
But a lot of other people are like me and that's okay, too. I bled a lot. I was on pain reliever for weeks. I had to go to the dentist a million times for adjustments and a reline so far (I'm a month in) and I couldn't even swallow at first without difficulty.
But I learned. I've learned how to talk better with dentures over time. I've learned how to eat better. Learning how to drink took me about a day, but learning to take my dentures out and put them back in took me many days.
My dentures used to feel enormous in my mouth. Now they feel normal. Just the perfect size and I was scared they'd never feel this way.
I'm still healing and I won't fully be healed for about a year, even though all my extraction sites are now closed and my gums look pretty good.
But I'm happy and it was worth it because now my life is getting better.
With any operation there is a healing and adjustment period. It's normal, but if you're not expecting it, you might panic right away when you can't even eat mashed potatoes at first. Be patient with your body. Be patient with yourself.
And I know it might sound like a horribly, long process, but honestly the time has flown by. I can't believe that a little over a month ago, I got my dentures! It feels like yesterday.
People ask all the time,"When will the pain go away with my dentures?" or "When will I be able to eat?" They're scared it might never happen. But I guarantee that it will. Unfortunately there is no time table that fits everyone.
For me, a couple of weeks in, I was eating everything. For someone else, it was the same day as their extractions. And for someone else, it wasn't until a year later (that's the most extreme I've heard of, so this is very unlikely to happen for you.) But it will happen eventually and it will feel worth everything you went through to get there.
Denture Storage And Cleaning
While I just use a simple plastic cup to hold my dentures over night, you may want to actually purchase something intended to store and clean your dentures. They come with a drain to make it easier to get your dentures out of the water it is soaking in without accidentally dropping them into the sink and also make traveling with dentures more convenient.
Here's Another Picture Of My Dentures With The Soft Reline In Them (The Light Pink Material On The Top Of My Dentures)
Every Day Is Better Than The Last
I will tell you what's amazing about the recovery of full extractions and getting dentures. Every day is significantly better than the last. Not a little bit better, but significantly.
Every day, the swelling would be visibly smaller, the pain much less. Every day, I could chew a little more. Every day, I could handle my dentures being in my mouth without pain a little longer. Every day, I could say words easier.
When you have bad teeth, life is the opposite of this. There's less food you can eat over time, less food that you can chew. You know it's only a matter of time before you shatter more teeth. You see blood when you brush or floss. You are even more disappointed than you were before every time you go to the dentist for a new check-up. Something new is wrong.
So the beginning of getting dentures may be difficult, but it's a turning point. Things will no longer get worse, you'll find them always getting better.
It's easy to panic sometimes when you're new to dentures. Like, if you can't chew at first, you might panic and think,"Oh no! How will I get through life without chewing?"
That's the old you talking, the one with bad teeth, the one who has bad things happen to their teeth and has to adjust to every bad new thing. Now, you're going to have to constantly adjust to good things instead. One day, you won't be able to eat mashed potatoes, but the next day, you might not only be able to eat mashed potatoes, but also be able to eat a sandwich, too!
It's really hard to get past those old mentalities. I'm still struggling with them. You're so used to the old rules subconsciously, that you still follow them, even though you shouldn't. Like, I was so scared to chew on the right side of my mouth when I was first learning how to chew. When I had bad teeth, that was my worst side. All my molars were hollow on that side. I told my mom it was like chewing with teeth made of glass. If anything touched those teeth at all, I knew they'd all instantly shatter. So even though those teeth were gone and I had new, better teeth, I got terrified that it would hurt really bad if I chewed on the right side of my mouth. I forced myself to do so, but it was scary.
In the same way, it's been scary trying to eat foods again that used to hurt me in the past. I keep expecting them to hurt me and to be moaning in pain, but that never happens now that my gums have adjusted to the dentures. There are some things that they still don't understand how to chew yet, like really chewy things, especially if they are thin, like beef jerky and bacon. But it doesn't hurt when I try to chew those things anymore. I just can't chew them into tiny enough pieces to swallow so far (and that will probably change, like I said, every day gets better!) But the point is the pain is gone.
A Must For Keeping Your Dentures Clean
The Toothbrush I Use To Brush My Dentures With (Very Different Than My Old Toothbrush)
It's Important To Stay Positive
What will help you during recovery the most is staying positive. This can be a battle. I definitely got depressed at moments when I first got my dentures. This is because I was still in pain from recovery. I got scared I'd never get better, that my pain would never end. I also got scared that people would think I'm a monster without my teeth if they saw me.
The truth is that I told a bunch of people that I was getting dentures and most of them forgot because they didn't care that much. I've gotten compliments about how beautiful my teeth are now and have had to remind people that I already told before that my teeth are fake now. No one notices and no one cares.
My husband has bad teeth still and he's jealous of me right now. I can eat ciabatta bread. The other day, he tried, even though he knows it's too hard on him and was howling in pain. My heart ached as soon as I saw him like that. I remember how that pain felt, how horrible it was, how it sometimes kept me up at night, and how no pain reliever could soothe it.
But now I can't feel that pain anymore. Even when I try to chew stuff that I can't chew there is zero pain. All that pain is just a memory.
Staying positive helps you recover and adapt better. Staying positive helps you get through the hard parts. You have a lot to look forward to after you pull your teeth!
Denture Toothbrush - Much Gentler On Dentures And Easier To Use Than A Normal Toothbrush
I did this for the past year. I kept going,"Maybe if I put getting dentures off for a little while, then I'll have my teeth that much longer."
Guess what? I don't miss my old teeth and don't understand any longer why I put myself through all that pain. Why did I let myself have all those infections or that giant abscess the dentists had to drain?
I didn't need to. I was just scared.
And now that I'm on the other side, I feel relief.
I remember when I was about 24 years old and I first found out I had horrible teeth. (My teeth deteriorated rapidly due to disease, which is why it took only six years after that point for me to very obviously need dentures.) My dentist lectured me as some rude dentists are prone to do. Rapid decay like that is not usually caused by taking care of your teeth poorly, it's usually caused by disease, but he lectured me as if I hadn't brushed my teeth in five years. The truth is, I brushed and flossed every day. It's not fun to floss with bad teeth, the floss gets stuck sometimes and the holes rip up the floss. Plus, it hurts and bleeds all over the place.
You've probably heard all the lectures if you have bad teeth, heard their unreasonable demands. If you have bad teeth, for instance, suddenly it's a requirement for you to brush your teeth six times a day, while a normal person gets away with 1-2 times a day.
And I remember them threatening me that if I continued to neglect my teeth (which I wasn't doing), then I'd need dentures by the time I was 30. I did get dentures when I was 30.
I don't know why dentists want to terrify you by talking about dentures like it's the end of the world, but they try to do this. It isn't. Don't listen to them.
I feel this giant sense of relief instead.
First of all, I never get teeth pain anymore. The worst I get is a slight soreness at the end of the day because my gums are tired of my dentures and want a rest for the night. The second I take my dentures out, one hundred percent of that slight soreness is gone. With your old teeth, you just have to put up with pain. With your new teeth, if you have any slight pain, you can take them out and say,"Go hurt somewhere else without me" and it works!
Secondly, I don't hate going to the dentist anymore. I no longer obsess over the cost of things because the big costs are behind me. And all those drills and shots in my gums and other scary things? Yea, those things don't effect me anymore. I will never get another root canal. I'll never need a tooth pulled. I'll never have to have an abscess cut open without numbness again. Or have a cavity filled and drool all over myself because of the numbness.
The worst that ever happens now is that I get an impression of my gums done that lasts for like five minutes.
You're so scared and anxious before dentures every day and then after recovery, there's so much relief. You'll wonder why you put it off and see it as foolish afterwards.
Get A Dentist Who Lives Near To You And See Them Often
One of the mistakes people make, like I said before, is expecting things to be perfect right away.
The truth is, you're going to have to go to your dentists for adjustments. Possibly a lot of them. Eventually you will need relines as well. I went to my dentist so many times. I was scared they'd be irritated by it.
But every time I came back, things were better. Especially with my first relines. I was able to eat normally immediately afterwards.
One of the reasons people hate their dentures sometimes is because they accept whatever they got at first and never try to get adjustments. The truth is, the better your dentures fit, the better they work. So if you don't get adjustments, you're going to hate your dentures and they're going to fit you terribly. Some people just give up at this point and they shouldn't.
Even if you somehow chose the wrong dentist and they can't fix your dentures (which is very unlikely to happen), then you can go somewhere else and have a different dentist fix your dentures.
I guarantee you the pain will go away eventually if you don't give up. I guarantee you will be eating all kinds of things with your dentures on if you don't give up.
But this is why I was so thankful to have a dentist who basically lives down the street and why you might want to consider someone near you as well. Because you might have to visit them a lot and it's so much easier to get there for extra appointments if they're close to you.
Your Self-Image Will Change
This can be both a good and a bad thing at the same time.
On one hand, your dentures will be so beautiful. Your teeth will look better than they ever have before. Some people have teeth that look pretty bad before they get dentures, so this could be a huge confidence boost. For me, my teeth weren't that bad looking. If you looked closely, you could see some of the cavities in my front teeth, but most of my problem was in my gums or inside my teeth. A lot of my teeth were pretty much hollow.
But still, my new teeth are much prettier than my old teeth were. So I enjoy smiling more now.
On the other hand, when you take your teeth out, which you are supposed to every time to give your gums time to rest, you might feel disgusted with yourself and how you look. You might think you look older or gross in some way. Being without your teeth can make you feel very self-conscious.
So it can be a big adjustment. You might feel insecure a lot at first and probably hypercritical.
When I first got my dentures, I made a few mistakes.
First of all, I kept looking at myself in the mirror only when I was brushing my dentures, meaning, I was only looking at myself in the mirror whenever I didn't have any teeth in my mouth. It's very important that you look in the mirror and take pictures sometimes of your new smile with your teeth in. It helps you get through some of the hard times in the beginning to see how perfect these new teeth look and how much more people will probably like your smile now. You need that confidence and hope boost when you're in pain or struggling to eat.
Second of all, I was panicked by how my dentures looked. My gums were purple (I have very light colored skin, so this looked odd) and my teeth were too small for my mouth. I've always had small teeth, but suddenly, they felt ridiculous. I was doing that thing that I warned about earlier, where you can't expect perfect results with everything right away. You need to give it time.
I started crying because my gums were purple. It really didn't look that weird and my husband didn't even notice it until I pointed it out, but I was pretty hysterical about it. And from videos I've seen, there are a lot of people who don't love the way their dentures look...at first.
Turns out, I just needed to give it time to heal. The denture material for the gums was kind of see-through, so my gums only looked purple because my real gums were purple from blood and bruising. Once they started to heal, my gums looked normal and pink again.
And once the swelling went down in my gums, my "tiny" teeth looked bigger and more normal in my mouth. They no longer looked ridiculously tiny. You have to heal and the swelling has to decrease before you can see how your new teeth will truly rest in your mouth.
I've heard a lot of people get freaked out by the size of their teeth with their dentures at first, only to adjust to it later. Even people who show me their new smiles and look so beautiful that I'm jealous I've heard complain about their new teeth and how they look. Because they're not giving their mouths and themselves any time to adjust. They're also feeling extra critical and insecure about themselves.
Dentists take molds of your teeth before they make your dentures, not only so the dentures can fit against your gums better, but also so your new teeth can be similar in size and type to your old teeth (but without all the decay.) So you have to trust them some and give it time.
The benefit of getting temporary dentures if you can, at first, and then permanents later, is you can see if you adjust to the new teeth or not and if there is anything you still don't like after a few months, you can always change this.
This is true, even if you get your permanent dentures right away. People with dentures make the mistake of thinking they're "stuck" with problems too often because that's what it was like when you cracked a tooth. You were stuck with a broken tooth or you pulled it and got stuck with a hole.
Dentures aren't like that. With dentures, things can always improve. There's always the ability to adjust things or make a new denture.
So don't panic.
More People Than You'll Ever Know Wear Dentures
You Need Emotional Support
The best thing to have is people in your family or friends in person who support you. But that's not always possible or not always enough, especially if none of them have dentures because they'll have no idea what you are going through.
Let me tell you something awesome though...the internet has made it possible to connect with all kinds of people. A lot of those people are getting dentures soon or have dentures as well.
I don't recommend going to a dentist or doctor with most of your concerns. They can give you weird medical facts, but they don't have any experience with dentures themselves (probably) and will have zero ideas of how to comfort you. It's better to talk to people who are going through the same thing as you. They'll help you feel better.
The first thing I recommend is youtube videos.I've included some of them in this article, but there are a ton of people on youtube vlogging their entire dentures experience, from before they get dentures to a year or more afterwards.
And secondly, I recommend looking for supportive groups or hashtags on social media. I have two facebook groups that have helped me so much that I will link to below.
Facebook Support Groups
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Ellen Perry on September 11, 2020:
Thank you for posting this. I'm having my extractions in 3 days. It's a relief to know all the positives. I've been thinking about it for over 2 years. My teeth have always been a problem. I feel like now is the right time. I will definitely check out the FB groups. I'm glad it worked out well for you.
Betty Kirschbaum on September 04, 2020:
Thank you for this article! I’m2 weeks in and having several issues. This is encouraging- I hope to be wearing my dentures more every day.
Megan on August 11, 2020:
Incredible post ! Thank you
Tara Sears on June 27, 2020:
Thank you so much for all of this information. I had all my teeth pulled on Monday and got dentures the same day. The pain has been something else but getting better slowly but surely. The worst pain has been like the sores/ulcers on the bottom part of my mouth.
Linda Courtney from Bloomsburg, PA on February 17, 2020:
Thanks for this article. I've had an upper denture since I was 24yo as I had bad weak teeth like you. I'm 62yo now. I just recently got a lower denture after the thousands of dollars in crowns went downhill. The upper denture was easy to get used to, but this lower is not so hot. It's been 4 months though and I'm getting a reline in a couple weeks. I'm hoping that helps. Right now I cannot eat harder, firmer foods or sandwiches (which I really love). Thankfully my dentist was onboard with the dentures and did not try to disuade me. They did push implants though which I just couldn't afford. Great article and hope it helps someone who's thinking about it.
EB Black (author) from U.S.A. on November 25, 2019:
@Red: I am so happy for you! Thank you for sharing your experiences with us!
Red on November 25, 2019:
To all of you wanting dentures, do it. I just got an upper denture (bottom teeth are still well enough to keep) and I am thrilled! The first week after was hard for me. I drive for my job so I couldn’t take the Norco prescribed to me. But after that it started to get so much better so fast. Also, get the seabond adhesive that covers the whole denture plate. It makes it far more comfortable during the healing process. A bit of cushion. This is my healing denture, I will get a permanent denture after I finish healing. I put off the consultations and procrastinated. Now I wish I hadn’t. Life is better, and I can smile again! Eating solids takes a bit. I’m finally up to soft muffins, and scrambled eggs! When you schedule it, see if they’ll give you something for anxiety. Mine prescribed me Valium to take an hour before the appointment. I don’t remember most of the appointment. Mine doesn’t knock you out for it. So that’s another good thing to check.
Chip on July 25, 2019:
I found your posting to be a relief for me. Thank you
Deborah on July 21, 2019:
Thank you for your story! It made me feel so much better! It also took me over a year to get my upper denture. A lot of pain and agony. Finally, this past Friday the last of my upper teeth were pulled and my temporary denture went in. Even though I was swollen , when my dentist handed me a mirror to look, I cried! I haven’t had a beautiful smile in so long! Thanks for giving me hope that right now it seems so painful and scary but I know things will get better. Thanks for the boost!! Deborah
EB Black (author) from U.S.A. on June 26, 2019:
If it helps, temporary dentures fit everyone badly because they are not molded to your mouth. But dentures can always be remade or refitted and the better they fit, the easier they are to eat with.
Like, it's been years since I wrote this article and my dentures no longer fit the way they used to. But I can still eat the majority of things and I know that once I get my insurance back, I can get a reline or get a new dentures (when they will cover it) and they will fit even better and I can eat even better again.
Dentists are very pessimistic about this stuff and I get it. It's not the same as having your natural teeth, but it's so much better than the damaged, disgusting teeth and they really should point that out more so we can feel more happy and more positive about our dentures.
Instead of being terrified and avoiding getting them.
Rachael Tomlinson on June 24, 2019:
I am so pleased I have found you I have had the majority of my teeth extracted just 6 left top and bottom, I had to put off the final extractions as I had to move suddenly but now I am so nervous of having the rest taken out and the temporary dentures fitted but I really need to do something as my mouth is so uncomfortable and I am struggling to eat.
My biggest scare is my dentist has really laid it on thick that I am going to struggle with the dentures so I have kind of got myself into that mindset now and don't know what to do next, I am also conscious that my temp dentures have been made some time now so my gums will have settled more from when they where originally done.
Stephanie on April 24, 2019:
Thankyou for this article. I feel better now knowing im not alone. I just got my top done 6 days ago. And i keep telling myself it will get better. Im young woman and felt like im the only one
Virginia Hyman on March 19, 2019:
Nice explanation, I'm 5 days post extraction and still black and blue. I had a rough procedure of grinding down bones for my dentures to fit properly. It's still worth it ti me not to worry about tooth pain and further emergency dental visits. I think the dentists who advise against dentures have never had a toothach that makes you want to pull your hair out and scream.
Amy on February 04, 2018:
Thank you so much for posting this. I found this just after I scheduled my procedure. It really helped me a lot. It was great to hear a younger person's point of view (I'm only 40) and your outlook was exactly what I needed to hear. I am now almost 3 weeks post surgery. Not quite where I can eat real food yet, but I am ok with my progress because I know it will get better. My goal is to be eating real food with little issue by spring break (we are going to L.A.!) Thank you again!
Ron Campbell on January 27, 2018:
Thanks for your article, I’m going to have all my teeth removed on Thursday night and start the process with temporary dentures , a little nervious however, would rather go this route rather than spend thousands trying to save something for a few years, dentist has already told me dentures are inevatable.
EB Black (author) from U.S.A. on September 17, 2017:
KDG14: Thank you so much for sharing your story! You are very brave. Although no dentist actually told me directly that it was time for dentures, I knew it was true deep down inside and it took me much longer to accept that truth. You are very strong for accepting it and I know your healing will go great with your positive attitude!
KDG14 on September 14, 2017:
I want to thank you for this great post! My names Kristin. I'm a 30 year old married, mother of, two boys (ages 1 & 4). Many things have caused my to end up with awful teeth. Mostly caused by the bone weakening from me having Celiac. I wasn't diagnosed age 29 while pregnant with my second child. Lots could have been avoided with my teeth if I had been diagnosed years prior. Anyways long story short. Yesterday (9/13/17) was extraction day, and temporary dentures went in. I was a case where the dentist didn't just recommended full dentures, but insisted. Hearing the words "have you thought about full dentures, we need to get these teeth out". It was the hardest thing to hear. I broke down in tears in front of strangers at the dentist office. Fast forward a couple days of shock. I started realizing it was the only option for me. Prettier teeth, perfect teeth in fact, NO more pain, no more hiding my smile. Still hard to accept but those thoughts helped. Especially the getting did of pain. So yesterday took over 6hrs but I made it. Little pain. Very minor swelling. Following those care directions to the T to make sure I heal quickly. Your story helped. Hearing other people's stories really help. Especially stories from other young people. So thank you!
EB Black (author) from U.S.A. on August 10, 2017:
There are a few thoughts I have concerning your difficulty eating with dentures and some of them involve questions I have for you...
I didn't get my permanent dentures until a year after my teeth were pulled. Are these your permanents? Did they make them before or after they pulled your teeth? Have you gotten a reline (if they aren't permanents)?
I think what makes the biggest difference when eating with dentures and adjusting to them is whether they fit right. If you're wearing dentures that they made before they pulled your teeth and they haven't adjusted them in any way, then I am actually amazed that you can eat at all. My first dentures, the temporary ones that I had before the reline fit horrible. They moved around constantly and poked me and it was painful to talk and even drink sometimes. Your description of them moving around a lot reminds me of that.
When I got them relined, almost instantly I was able to eat a lot more things and a lot better. I still have to practice a lot to get better at it and there was still rocking around some, but the better your dentures fit, the less this will happen. For example, I have my permanents now and they're better than ever. I can eat almonds and stuff. But I chose a dentist that was more expensive than some other dentists and they fitted me with wax dentures repeatedly to make sure they were compatible with my bite, mouth, and gums before they made my permanents, so they fit me like a glove. No rocking around or anything.
If relining at the dentists office isn't an option and these are your permanent dentures, it's actually possible for you to reline them yourself. They sell relining kits anywhere they sell denture supplies and they are actually not that expensive, just a couple of dollars.
That will help you more than anything and even if you mess up the relining, you can just scrape it out and redo it any time! Or if they start not fitting again or the stuff starts peeling off.
The next thing you can do is try denture adhesive. I've never needed this personally, but I have a lot of gums left and some people don't have as much as I do because they waited until more teeth were pulled than I did. (I still had 22 teeth left when I got my dentures.) There are a lot of types of denture adhesive. I haven't used any, but I've heard that the powder is the best, even though it wouldn't sound like that would work. But it can help you a lot.
Patience is also super important, patience while you learn to chew new things and pushing yourself to keep trying new things. You won't even realize you're making progress sometimes when you are.
And lastly, if you haven't gotten your permanent dentures yet, I spent more money to make my teeth porcelain and my denture thinner and lighter weight. and porcelain teeth work better than the plastic teeth. They bite better, chew better, they make eating things easier.
Another tip is switching back and forth on the sides of your mouth you are chewing on with each bite. People sometimes say with dentures that you need to chew on both sides at the same time. If you can do that, that will probably help you a lot, but I could never figure out how to do that. It made zero sense to me. But switching back and forth with each bite, at least in the beginning an help balance the denture on each side so it doesn't drift to one side.
Make sure to take the tiniest bites you can until you learn how to eat better. I had to take really, really, really small bites at first. And even to this day, if I take too big of bite (although it's rare that this happens now), it will flip my dentures around and the food will get underneath them and it's a big mess. You probably have experienced this yourself and already know what I mean.
And don't bite with your front teeth for now. Bite with the side teeth, sort of. Because biting with the front pulls your dentures out.
Now that I have really well fitting nice dentures, I don't have to follow those eating rules, but when I was only six months in, I did.
Hope that helps! Tell me if you have any more questions, thoughts, or want to discuss this more. I might have more tips that I am forgetting or more ways to help if you need it!
Paul Stanley on August 09, 2017:
Thank you for the really great information on Dentures.
I have been wearing my full dentures for 6 months and I totally agree - it gets better and easier all the time.
My one question concerns eating with dentures.
Afraid I have yet to master this task.
When you are eating with dentures do the dentures stay in place or rock around (side to side). I can eat with dentures but they are constantly moving around.
When I hear what you can eat with dentures I'm amazed.
Wondering if you have any secrets or advice concerning how to eat with dentures or how you learned to eat with dentures.
Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated!
EB Black (author) from U.S.A. on July 26, 2017:
RB11 - I really recommend joining the facebook groups I linked to in the article. They'll answer any question you have and literally get hundreds of posts per day on every single one of them. I was in a very similar situation as you and it's very terrifying to be in that situation, but being in those groups helps. You are also always welcome to comment again on this article if you want to or contact me through social media as well.
Dentures change your life for the better, but it's still not something you want to adjust to and go through alone.
RB11 on July 26, 2017:
This article has eased my anxiety tremendously! I am going in for my procedure in a few days. I don't know anyone with dentures, I feel like I'm the first person to ever get them since I have no one I can ask any minor or major questions to based on experience.
EB Black (author) from U.S.A. on July 05, 2017:
Joshua - You have an amazingly positive attitude and I think that is so great. Yes. When the teeth get removed, one of the best parts is that there will no longer be pain. A lot of us who had severe teeth problems experience pain every day and just for that alone, just knowing you never have to be tortured by that severe pain or go to the dentist and get anymore painful procedures makes the whole thing worth it, I agree.
If you are this happy already, I think you're going to be very, very happy once you get your dentures and learn how to chew with them. You'll be amazed with how your teeth are now. Good luck with everything in your future and thanks for commenting!
Joshua Allen on July 04, 2017:
Thank you for this article. I am 27 years old and just got every single tooth pulled yesterday july 3 2017. I have a very good dentist. He reccomended dentures due to how many failing and missing teeth i had. I wont go into my story but i will say this. I dont even have a temporary set due to medicaid not paying for that. But hey thats ok. Im letting my gums heal and then going to get my impressions. They were not able to do my impressions with teeth because my bite was so badly off. So we decided to take them all out and get a good first impression. Honestly i thought i was gonna be horrified. And i was. But the hard part is gone. The teeth are removed. No more infections. Long nights in tears from a bad tooth or infection. Thats hard to do when you have to work ar 4 in the morning. Point being is if your holding back dont. Dont do that to yourself. It will all be worth it. 2nd day and no teeth what so ever. But hey soon enough ill be looking so good. And itll be worth it.
EB Black (author) from U.S.A. on July 02, 2017:
Ann-I'm sorry to hear that you are going through so much! I don't have any advice for any of those other things you mentioned, but I did read all of them and just want you to know that I am here listening....
I do hope you can get these dentures. While it won't fix the other issues you are going through, it will definitely help you get back out there and stop having to hide as much. Well, at least out there as much as your other health problems allow. And will make your life better by allowing you to eat normally again and maybe help you feel good smiling.
I hope life improves for you in many ways and am glad that my article could help you in some way.
Ann on July 02, 2017:
Well apparently I was meant to stumble upon your blog because I will begin my own adventure soon.
I am a 62 year old grandma, used to being outgoing and personable (former pro entertainer back in the day), but for nearly a year life hasn't been all it should be. I almost didn't mind so much when my back teeth started decaying and had to be pulled. But when my "smile" teeth started just snapping off leaving me with sharp shards sticking out, causing pain spots against the inside of my cheek, not to mention being scary to look at, we'll, that's when I began to withdraw.
My son and dil were upset when I refused to attend their housewarming. I explained that I was embarrassed and that I didn't want to be seen by strangers like this. My dil then tells me I shouldn't care what people think. Oh yeah? I pointed out to her that if SHE was going through this, she would never see the light of day again until they were fixed and certainly wouldn't be seen by anyone, not even my son. Isn't it amazing how flippant people can be when it's not them? Frankly, it hurt my feelings and made me angry too. So much for love and support, right? I didn't ruin her party by not being there.
Now my hubbs...fantastic! We still cuddle and smooch, lol. He's very considerate about my feelings and has felt terrible that it's taken so long to finally be able to get my mouth fixed. As a couple, we are adjusting to aging...golden years, my a**! Nearly overnight we lost everything...his job, our home, our lifestyle (no more horses, no more date nights!), a decent income, decent insurance, etc. When our 6 figure income went away we sure found out who our friends were and saw them as they really are. Wouldn't even help us move, and I'm disabled, bedridden now! We now both receive social security plus his military retirement and VA benefits and his parttime job...Talk about a fixed income. It's going to cost us $6k for my dental work and we can do that because we finally got a buyer for our horses Trailer (taking a huge loss on that).
I had no idea what to expect, still don't really. But it's nice to hear from someone who understands the feelings behind all this. I'm not aging gracefully at all...I remember being your age like it was yesterday. I've been through so much since 2012. Lost 2 sisters to cancer 7 months apart, my mother on Christmas Eve from Alzheimer's, at the same time lived in our son's unfinished basement for 18 months. They didn't even offer...we had to ask because we had no where to go. Seems kinda silly all this fuss about broken, rotted teeth after all we've endured so far but I can't hardly eat cuz I got nothing to bite with or chew with. Emotions are crazy, constantly embarrassed when I have to be seen in public, sad and lonely. Whatever is about to take place now has GOT to be an improvement, as you say. This isn't about vanity, it's just one more loss. So I'm ready to be happy again. Let the games begin! Thanks for being so candid!
EB Black (author) from U.S.A. on May 17, 2017:
@Debra: It's okay that all you can chew is small bites right now. That's about where I was when I was only 2 weeks in as well. You get better and better at chewing all the time. And I just recently got my permanent dentures and they've made it so that I am better at chewing than ever! Just be stubborn and keep trying and remain positive and it will get so much better. *hugs*
Debra on May 16, 2017:
Thank you so much for writing this! I am 2 weeks in and becoming very depressed about being able to eat. I had my bite fixed today and was so excited to chew, but it doesn't seem to be working. Small bites, up and down, I'm trying but I end up in tears. Anyway, thanks for your optimistic view and I will keep trying to stay positive!
Redbird985 on April 12, 2017:
On day 6 after having all my bottom teeth pulled. Getting stitches out tomorrow. (Top teeth are caps with a few missing teeth-will address that procedure when I get more money). I never THOUGHT I was depressed about it but your article gave me a lot of insight and tips for when/IF it happens. I'm 63 so my feelings might be different than a 25 year old. I'm actually happy to be able to EAT without pain. And have a nice smile. My procedure is 12,000 for the denture and 4 implants. My Insurance is worthless. And my dentist has for 3 years preaching about the HEALTH aspect of getting this done. I really love him.
Thanks to your article I am really looking forward to the coming months. Your article is a blessing!
EB Black (author) from U.S.A. on January 09, 2017:
@Ashley: That's not easy to answer because it varies wildly. I'd look online for reviews and see a couple of dentists and see what you like. Different dentists are going to charge different amounts depending on who they are and what you want to get done. But to some degree, you probably get what you pay for.
For me, it cost $11,000, but I also got bone grafts and anesthesia. If you're awake and don't get bone grafts, you can save money. You can also save money if you don't get a temporary denture like I did and just go without teeth for a few months and get your final denture only (which I am still waiting on mine.)
I've heard of people paying as little as $3,000 or less for the whole thing.
And it also can cost as much as $30,000 because they want me to get indentures, which will cost about $19,000 more, but I think I'm going to pass on that. Those are dentures that actually attach physically to your jaw, so they have more strength and keep your bone from decaying as quickly, but they are very expensive. So the cost can vary extremely dramatically.
Also, you are likely going to cost less because I got a jaw surgery ans that complicates procedures like this because I had a metal plates in my jaw.
Ashley on January 09, 2017:
I am 23. I have a calcium deficiency and i have very weak teeth and they are deteriorating fast. I have been wanting to get dentures for some time but i dont have dental insurance and i have no idea what the cost will be... can you give me any insight into that area??
EB Black (author) from U.S.A. on January 05, 2017:
@Sharron08: Have you asked your dentist about dentures? You can remove all your teeth at the same time if you want full dentures. Did they give you partial dentures because now you no longer have teeth?
@Michelle: Thank you. :)
Michelle Kuehmeier on January 04, 2017:
Thank you. I'm continually hating my natural teeth and have considered this route. I am encouraged by your (similar) story. You are an example of beauty inside showing through to the outside!
Sharron08 on November 16, 2016:
Iv had first molds done what next plz
EB Black (author) from U.S.A. on November 08, 2016:
Please keep up that hope, Vanessa! Day 4 was awful for me. I was depressed, too, but it gets so much better as you heal. The best part is when you get your first reline.
I'm so glad you are smiling right now and if you ever need to talk about your struggles with it, I am here. Big life changes like these are scary.
Vanessa on November 07, 2016:
Thank you so much , this has helped me more then you know. I am going through the whole denture thing now as I speak , I was starting to get depressed and this is day 4 for me. This article makes me feel there's lots to look forward to , I'm smiling that's important for me. Thanks :)