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How to Overcome Depression and Anxiety with Balanced Mind for Natural Ways of Life

Author is a certified Yoga Teacher and Evaluator by Ministry of AYUSH, Government of India.

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Is depression a myth? Stop, check, and evaluate. Why do we affirm ourselves as depressed? It is an expensive word. Are we clinically disturbed people?

If we talk to people belonging to two preceding generations, they have not heard it in their time. But now every school going kid is familiar with that word—depression, that they say, I am depressed, instead of saying bored. The term depression has become a stylish word. Anxiety, depression, stress are depicted as fancy words, and drawing such emotions upon ourselves has become a trend by repeatedly telling it to ourselves and with others. But in fact, it has become very detrimental in nature. When we constantly talk about depression and the more we talk about it, it gets into our system eventually. Due to this, there is a higher possibility to face it, in reality, one day.

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What is clinical depression? It is a mental health disorder to be treated by a medical professional like a psychiatrist, psychologist, psychotherapist, or mental health counselor. Exercises, breathing techniques, and meditation shall help parallelly.

Why are we associating sadness with depression? Every sadness or failure cannot be depression. Unknowingly people use this term so casually without having the accurate knowledge on the same.

“Every sadness is not depression. Every headache is not a migraine.”

Let Us Glance at Each Symptom

Persons feel sad very often, losing interest in activities that were fascinating before. They start worrying about specific or non–specific issues very easily, having reduced interaction, or not having conversations with others. They avoid social interactions, being withdrawn by self, and show reduced motivation to work. Constantly worrying about something else together with parallel over-thinking going on at the back of their mind. They are getting destructive thoughts such as harming the self or feeling harming someone, consecutively. Overloaded with self-doubts, when given a task or duty to carry out, like, will I be able to - do it? - focus on it? - complete this? Will he/she like it?

Human when engulfed into negative emotions

Human when engulfed into negative emotions

Disturbances could also arise due to traumatic past events like a major accident not letting to drive again or a sudden slip from a mountain cliff and brain injury or loss of loved ones or survived after drowning in flood for a long time or triggered by medical conditions like hysteria or something else become a cause for depression.

To, overcome all these and become happy, attention should be on treating the disease and not the symptoms attached to it.

How Will All These Result In?

Panic attack, anxiety attack, perpetual fear, anxiety, uncertainty, insecurity, relationship issues, family issues, financial issues, all may creep in to push one into depression. If all these become a pattern not letting you live in your dream living, then it is no doubt but a complete downfall. Feeling of worthlessness, helplessness, and hopelessness, all looming on the person's mind. Where all these are coming from?

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What Shall Be the Source for Such Feelings?

Is it a lack of patience? In a way, Yes! The adverse effect of technology, due to which man has lost patience. Advance technology has brought him everything as soon as he turns the switches on. This cannot be so in everything else. Patience is essential to withstand feelings.

The expectation is the next best culprit. Too much expectation from self or others is not just that we make to ourselves. If someone else does a mistake, then victimizing and nagging at them, repetitively will only shape negative emotions like enmity, jealousy, and grudge. If we commit mistakes, then dwelling on the same thing and repenting for long bring us no good. On the contrary, it will push us more downwards. Forgiving is an art that is to be developed.

Image trying to depict lack of patience and high expectation

Image trying to depict lack of patience and high expectation

Where Does It All Start From?

Can we list persons or things or situations that drive us away from happiness? That is non-other than we, ourselves. As rightly said, our enemy is within us.

It is the "desire" where it all gets started.

Aspiring for something is natural. So, why are we facing depression? It is due to our habit that we defer our happiness as we are in constant effort attaining a thing and or fulfilling our desire. We strongly believe and condition our mind that we can remain happy only after obtaining it. This conditioning is the root cause. We can remain happy, even otherwise too. Even after achieving it, we still remain unhappy. There is a never-ending list of desires.

Materiality can only give us comfort but not happiness. Our aim should be to keep ourselves happy. Very often, materiality is mistaken to be happy and in turn, we run behind gathering more material comforts.

Could There Be an Answer To It?

There are numerous ways to it. Ideally, for avoiding complexities, simplicity would be the best answer. So, what best can be done instead? Following are a few manners if inculcated can turn all negatives into positive emotions and we can begin to see positive outcomes.

  • It is not only we who are facing this. Everyone has their share of uncertainties and insecurities. So, for heaven's sake, taking extreme steps at any cost is not a solution. Life is a wonderful opportunity given by almighty which is to be lived normally. Self-hatred in many ways is indeed detrimental by which we are harming ourselves.
  • Pouring our hearts out, speak out, call out, cry out, all such actions are only a temporary solution to overcome anxiety. Looking for a more enduring solution is what we need today.
  • Taking up difficulties as challenges and not as hurdles would be a clever move. It builds confidence in us. It may seem difficult at first, but in the end, it teaches us a great life lesson, which otherwise will not be taught in any of the schools or colleges.
  • What makes us happy? This thought makes us wait to be happy. Why wait to be happy until that is achieved? Trying to be happy in the process of achieving brings us more contentment and not the fear or insecurity of the achievement.
  • Pushing ourselves so hard that we forget to live is a big no. Let’s take time and breath. Is life all about competition? Living life is more important. More than happiness, contentment is what is essential. Every little happiness certainly contributes to its share in building confidence in fulfilling our dream life. So, let us not defer happiness.
Watching the lights and feeling illumination

Watching the lights and feeling illumination

  • Finding happiness in little things, as basic as cooking a meal for someone needy, having a sumptuous lunch with near and dear ones, listening to music or teaching our favorite subject to others, helping senior citizens in their activities, can all bring us joy. No one knows better than us to provide happiness to ourselves. We are our best friends.
Enjoying the aroma of blossoming flowers

Enjoying the aroma of blossoming flowers

  • As someone said that repeatedly telling something may happen to be a reality one day. Similarly, we should not miss a single opportunity to smile and laugh, rather create an opportunity for laughter. Daily prayers and a sense of gratitude towards everything in life will certainly grow gratification inside us. These eventually bring calmness within our minds.
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Feel Natural to Live Happy

Every human is a combination of all sorts of emotions. It is said that every person undergoes either of these feelings at one point or the other in his/her lifetime. How we maintain ourselves during those times is what makes or breaks us. Spiritually speaking, after coming to this world, a man needs to undergo several turmoils to emerge as a better soul.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2020 Ashwini Kini

Comments

Ashwini Kini (author) from Dakshin Kannad on July 11, 2020:

Thank you Mrs.Anjana Yash. As you rightly pointed out people in general, will be denying the fact that they have issues that need professional help. Its a kind of taboo in India that people who seek psychiatric help will be tagged as insane or lunatics forever. That is one major reason that people deny to accept their issues. And more so is their family also. A well-wisher should certainly do help in taking him/her to a professional seeking their course. That willingness to recover should preliminarily be from self without which any sort of treatment will not be of great help. Thank you for your feedback too.

Anjana Yash on July 11, 2020:

Nicely elaborated for better understanding of this term Depression.Well done Ashwini. Many a times one doesnt seek help because one is stil in denial that he or she has a problem requiring professional intervention. That itself delays recovery leading to secondary issues or further deterioration.So primarily we need to have perons in our lives to whom we can can turn to with confidence like a friend ,a family member...... . Ultimately road to recovery has to come from within.

Ashwini Kini (author) from Dakshin Kannad on July 10, 2020:

Thank you Mr. MuraliKrishna Sir for spending your valuable time on this article. As I was writing this article, I could remember various instances from different situations in the lives of people that I acquaint with. We, in general, get upset for various matters, but those could be petty issues. Knowing to overcome those consciously will be a great help to ourselves.

Halemane Muralikrishna from South India on July 06, 2020:

I got to learn a lot from your article. Feeling fancy with a disease should not be the objective but being healthy by overcoming various challenges and reaching the target should be the aim. People unnecessarily get upset on petty worries and get offended and develop complexities. Subsequently, it will appear as a false obstacle in life. They also get acquired with many so-called lifestyle diseases like obesity, diabetes, hypertension, migraine and multiple disorders. as rightly pointed out by you, Ms Ashwini, understanding realities and realising the temporary hindrances will help to overcome difficult situations.

Ashwini Kini (author) from Dakshin Kannad on July 05, 2020:

Thank you Mr.Rajesh Naik for spending time reading this article.

Ashwini Kini (author) from Dakshin Kannad on July 05, 2020:

Yes, Ms.Cijini. I, personally love and enjoy cooking. It will help in setting up our mood right back. The process of cooking teaches us so many things too.

Rajesh Naik from Mangaluru on July 05, 2020:

Article is very informative about depression and psychological related matters and the status of mind and the way to divert and control.

This message should reach all category people to help them to overcome from the routine problems.

Thank You

Cijini Manoj from Kerala on July 05, 2020:

What you have written always happens to me.....and i overcome this by experimenting new dishes.....i felt cooking is the best therapy for overcoming depression....thank for this wonderful article

Ashwini Kini (author) from Dakshin Kannad on July 05, 2020:

Certainly Yes Mr.Srujith. When we ourselves have put us into worry we have all the power to put ourselves back to happiness.

Ashwini Kini (author) from Dakshin Kannad on July 05, 2020:

Thank you Ms.Ashwini and Mr.Shaji for reading the article.

Ashwini Kini (author) from Dakshin Kannad on July 05, 2020:

Thank you Ms.Shweta. Such differentiation between sadness and depression is essential in order to maintain a healthy living.

Ashwini Kini (author) from Dakshin Kannad on July 05, 2020:

Thank you Ms.Sneha for taking the time on this article. Deviating our minds from unnecessary things and focusing on something productive becomes very essential these days. Else we deplete our energy.

Ashwini Kini (author) from Dakshin Kannad on July 05, 2020:

Yes, Ms. Geeta, as you rightly pointed out, I have watched some instances where people are disturbed for various reasons and causes. This has made me write this article. Thank you for reading.

Shaji on July 05, 2020:

Beutiful article and presented well

Srujith rytes from Vishakapatnam on July 05, 2020:

Ups and down are common, but we are the reason for anything in our life, if we put ourselves into worry we have the power to put ourselves back to happiness. Your explainations were simple and spot on to the problems people have, very useful article at this point for the world

Ashwini K from Karinja on July 05, 2020:

Very informative article madam .nice to read and very interesting.Good luck.

Shweta Dixit on July 05, 2020:

Wonderful Article Ashwini. Many people find it hard to differentiate between being sad and being depressed. You have explained so well.

Well done Keep writing

Sneha Bhat from India on July 05, 2020:

Extraordinary article Ms. Ashwini Kini.. This article has given a clear picture of what exactly is depression? What is the difference between depression and sadness? How to overcome from all these and what are the positive attitudes one should always follow to deviate the mind from depression. Enjoyed reading your article...

Geetha k on July 05, 2020:

Very informative article. It has dealt with a lot of aspects of this psychiatric condition.Lucid language ; thought provoking and written after a lot of research.