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How Much Help Should You Take?

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Ask For Help When You Need To

One of the biggest mistakes you'll ever make is not getting any help.

Asking for help when you have a problem isn't, at all, a bad thing. It doesn't mean (or make you look like) you're weak or stupid. It's okay to ask for help when you really need to because you can't do it all by yourself.

If you want to constantly make progress and be successful in life, you're gonna have to ask for assistance sometimes.

But it's important to not overly rely on others to fix your problems for you. It's your problem, and so it's your responsibility to undertake it.

Never Let Others Fix Your Problems For You

Leaving your issues for others to solve might be good for you short-term, but it's bad for you long-term.

See, there are lessons you have to learn that come with taking on your problems and if you keep letting others solve them for you, then you miss the chance of learning these lessons.

And as a consequence, the same problems will keep reappearing into your life and you wouldn't know how to handle them yourself. Thus, solving your own problems is very important for your personal growth.

The Ultimate Solution To Your Problems

So if you're the one to solve all of your problems, then the greatest solution is to become a better problem-solver. Train yourself to be comfortable with uncomfortable situations. Go through your problems courageously and realize your full potential!

The best way out is always through.

— Robert Frost

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