A woman can never be a man. A man derives his happiness from his accomplishment to produce.
WOMEN AND CAREERS
A man looks for simplicity, femininity, fertility and fecundity. It is as simple as that.
A man can marry an HIV Positive woman or an illiterate woman and be happy in the marriage.
But women don't know this. They think a man is attracted to her career, her house or her car.
When a man dates a woman based on those, he is only seeking to prove a sexual point. “I am a man and I can sleep with an ‘empowered woman’, “
There is nothing beyond this egocentric fulfilment. That's why if the man goes ahead to marry a woman whom he got interested in because of her career, the relationship is headed south always.
Happiness in women begins in her first family and ends in her second family (marriage).
A happy woman is a woman who comes from a family of parents and siblings while her happiness thrives when she has her own family (husband and children).
Women will never get happiness from careers. This is because women were not wired to work for themselves or pay their bills. They were wired to raise babies. To teach babies about compassion and love while strictly enforcing her husband’s values on the babies.
25% of career women are on antidepressants. Why do you think so? Because there is no happiness in careers for women. Around 60% of career women are in the church seeking happiness which they never get.
Modern liberalization tricked women into the labor market. It cheated them that they can be just as equal as men if they postpone fecundity and instead chase careers like men. When they get to 30 years, they discover that it was all vanity.
But what you need to understand is that women hate working. They hate paying bills. If she can get a man who will tell her to sit at home and raise babies, she will be happy. This is what I see in the Somali community.
Of course, you will begin arguing here that I need a woman who ‘will support me’, what does that even mean? Do you think she will support you? She will support you and later remind you about it. Don't look for support from her.
As a man, get into marriage with the mindset of raising a decent family, not because you are looking for unlimited sex. You will fail. Before you marry, find out if the woman you are dating is ready to raise children from home, not from daycare or a boarding school.
A man’s duty is to liberate his woman from the chains of modern civilization and western democracy crooked ideals.
Women are getting angrier, degenerative, defective and unhappy every day.
Eve had been perfectly happy by her husband’s side in her Eden home; but, like restless modern Eves, she was flattered with the hope of entering a higher sphere than that which God had assigned her. In attempting to rise above her original position, she fell far below it. A similar result will be reached by all who are unwilling to take up cheerfully their life duties in accordance with God’s plan. In their efforts to reach positions for which He has not fitted them, many are leaving vacant the place where they might be a blessing. In their desire for a higher sphere, many have sacrificed true womanly dignity and nobility of character, and have left undone the very work that Heaven appointed them.
I always talk about basics. Life is about basics. A man is that male animal. Don't break the laws of nature in the name that 'we're humans'. A man should just be a man: basic, simple, a bit crude and indifferent and domineering to his female(s). It's all about the animal kingdom.
You will hate to read this but I will bluntly tell you that careers have a direct influence on the feminine values and characters of women.
A woman whose career rotates around making children happy will easily and naturally preserve her femininity than a woman whose career involves interaction with adults.
For example, a nurse or a doctor is likely to be depolarized because of her interaction with the sick, the hopeless, blood, flesh and deaths. This is why most nurses and doctors are angry or depressed all the time. We don't blame them, blame their career.
My mother is a nurse, I can relate. I know what my father has gone through and I interact with nurses all the time.
A woman who is a human resource officer will easily detach from her femininity because she is handling conflicted adults, writing dismissal letters and being bossy at work. This egotistical feeling of being powerful pours into her relationship turning her into a cold-hearted individual unable to relate with her man on a feminine wavelength.