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8 Tips to Lose Weight Without Dieting

Kari loves to eat and hates to diet. She tries to maintain certain healthy habits so she does not need to diet


I Hate Diets!

If you are looking for a diet, look elsewhere. I hate diets. You go on them and lose weight, then you go off and gain all that weight back. It's a constant yo-yo life. And, this yo-yo of weight loss and weight gain is very bad for your body.

I'm going to give you tips that you can incorporate into your daily lifestyle. Tips you can personalize to fit your needs. This is not a cookie-cutter diet, no one-size-fits-all here. This is all about you and your needs. You do not have to use every tip I list. Even incorporating 2 or 3 of these tips will guarantee you results.

These are little changes that will bring great benefits. Weight loss will not be the only benefit won from these small alterations to your daily grind. You will find you are more energetic. You will think clearer. You will just plain feel better.

Dieting Does Not Work

Eat Until You Are Hungry

Eat Fresh!

Eat Fresh!

#1-Eat Until You Are Hungry

Sounds odd, but this is my number one tip to help lose weight. I know some of you may be wondering why one would even bother eating if not to become full. Why would you want to live your life hungry. I bet some of you may even be feeling betrayed.

You may be thinking, "Hey, she said EASY to incorporate, small changes, not starvation!"

Rest assured, this tip is not as hard as it first seems. I am not asking you to starve yourself. I would not follow any advice that encouraged starving. What I do is I give myself a small serving. When I am done, I wait an hour to see if I am still hungry. No matter how good the food tastes, I have to use hunger as the reason to eat.

I savor each bite, chew each bit well, and enjoy each meal more. The key to losing weight is to recognize when you are full. The problem to this is that your body takes 20 to 30 minutes to get the full signal from your stomach to your brain. Somehow you need to give yourself time to recognize you are full.

This is what I mean by eating until I'm still hungry. I find that 99% of the time I discover I am full after about 30 minutes, even though I was hungry when I finished eating. On those few occasions when I am still hungry I will take another small portion and then I am done.

Make Each Bite Count

Presentation counts.

Presentation counts.

#2-Slow and Steady

Eat your food slowly. Some will recommend putting your fork down between each bite. While this does work, I think it is more enjoyable to talk. When you take a bite notice the flavors and the texture. Notice how the different flavors combine. Chew slowly and pay attention to your food.

I, personally, do not like the put the fork down method. I will sit down and if there is no-one to talk to I may read or play an app game on my phone. These things will keep me distracted so that I am not just waiting for the next bite. When I take that bite, I pay attention to it and take a break from my book or game.

The great thing about eating slowly is it allows more time for the message to pass from the stomach to the brain. You may find that you are full before finishing your serving. Stop if you feel full. Save the rest for lunch the next day. Throw it away if you do not eat leftovers. It is healthier for you than finishing it.

I read an interesting article on Discovery Health that referenced a 2006 study about eating. In the study women were given pasta for two of their daily meals. The women were encouraged to eat as much as they liked until they were full. However, in one meal they were told to eat quickly and in the other meal they were to eat slowly.

During the fast meal the women averaged 646 calories in just 9 minutes. During the slow meal the same women averaged 579 calories in 29 minutes. I also learned the fullness signal comes from the intestines, not the stomach.

Never stand by the sink to eat. Always sit down. Plan for 20-30 minutes to eat your meal. Eating slow will also help your digestion. If your stomach gets too full you may get heartburn, eating slow will prevent this.

Know Your Food

There are always choices.

There are always choices.

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#3-Know Your Food

Some may say, "know thy enemy". I couldn't because I do not consider food the enemy. I think of food as a pleasurable experience. Food is my friend (however, at times, it is too good of a friend). I love to combine flavors and textures and colors and consistencies. Food allows an unbridled creativity.

However, you should also know your friends. Food is a friend that needs constant attention. We are bombarded by restaurant commercials, grocery ads, and beer billboards every day of our lives. Each lie tells us of food's importance. But what exactly is food and why is it important?

Food breaks down into teeny-weeny particles called nutrients. These nutrients ride the great arteries to their destinations, which are hungry cells. When we eat too many nutrients, we store them for later use. This is called adipose tissue, more commonly known as fat. The number of nutrients we need every day depends on our level of activity, age and sex.

Good Tips


Each gram of these dietary components have a standard caloric content:

* Carbohydrate = 4 calories

* Protein = 4 calories

* Fat = 9 calories

I'm not advising counting calories, but it is good to get a rudimentary knowledge of what you are eating daily. I check when I eat something new. I also check playing, "Should I Have This or That". (ie: Should I have a candy bar, bowl of cereal, or power bar.) You should also check to see how many of the carbohydrate grams are added sugar (added sugar is very bad). Try to keep fat grams down to your daily requirements.

Take time to gain a working knowledge of nutrition. Counting calories is a start, but some calories are "empty", or without nutrients, while other calories are packed with nutrients. Calories are only a calculation of energy, not a calculation of what your body needs to be healthy.

If you know nothing about nutrition and would like to find a diet plan I will recommend the Diabetes Food Hub, published by the American Diabetes Association. These websites are easy to understand and will help you learn portion sizes and how to provide variety in your diet. And, the recipes look delicious!

Find out your daily caloric requirements before going to search for sample menus. Most will be labeled by calories, usually 1200, 1500, 1800 and 2000. Sample menus and free recipes abound on-line. The recipes are fairly flexible. Many resources are available free on the internet.

Bad Carbs


#4-Stay Away From Sugar and Flour

I'm not kidding on this! If you want to see the pounds melt away, you must limit your sugar and flour intake. I know these fall under carbohydrates, but they are two very bad carbohydrates. These two are much too easy for your body to break down and result in an energy burst that is soon used up. (AKA: Sugar High)

Sugar is a drug to our bodies and like several drugs we can become addicted to it. Eating sugar stimulates the reward centers of the brain (just like heroin and opioids). And, just like other drugs, we build up a tolerance to sugar. What used to be enough no longer is. We want more and more to get that good feeling.

In you need something sweet, eat something that makes your body work a little. If you need to have a cookie have an oatmeal raisin, not the double dutch chocolate. Oatmeal is extremely good for you and raisins are full of iron. This doesn't mean you can eat the whole box, but in moderation they are better for you.

The hardest part for us busy people is keeping away from processed foods. Processed foods are full of sugar. Keeping frozen and fast foods to a minimum does result in a learning curve that can take a few tries before we hurdle it. Remember that fresh is always preferred to processed.

As you learn about foods and nutrition it becomes easier to pick healthier choices. You'll realize that a salad covered in fried chicken may not be any better for you than the sandwich. Soon it becomes a way of life. You'll realize if you have eaten too much one day, and adjust it the unconsciously the next.

Drink Lots of Water

MMmmm, cold refreshing water.

MMmmm, cold refreshing water.

#5-Drink Water

I know you have heard it before, but this one tip cannot be stressed enough. Water is a natural appetite suppressant. It has the added benefit of making you feel full. Water also boosts your metabolism. Drinking water has many benefits including weight loss, decreased headaches and back aches, clearer and more radiant skin, and feeling more alert.

Many people prefer a drink with more taste. A good alternative is a flavored water. You can usually find an inexpensive carbonated version. Plain water is best. Juice needs to be looked at individually. I try to stay away from juice because most are mainly sugar. Milk is good in moderation, skim being best for you.

The best tips are try to stay away from carbonated, caffeinated and alcoholic beverages. Alcohol in excess will cause you to gain weight. It is full of empty calories. Many caffeinated and alcoholic beverages will actually dehydrate you slightly if you drink too many.

Get Enough Sleep

Heal yourself, get enough sleep.

Heal yourself, get enough sleep.

#6-Get Enough Sleep

I think of sleep as the healing time for our minds and bodies. It is a time to catch up on the daily processing. Denying our minds and bodies this time out dulls our creativity, focus and productivity, Sleep deprivation results in weight gain, increased error, decreased alertness and increases in illnesses.

Just as the shoemaker needed to sleep for the elves to make and repair the shoes, so we need sleep so our "elves" can make and repair our bodies. Sleep is the healing elixir of life. We rebuild, refuel and reboot our systems. It's a time for our minds to make sense of all we experienced, time to classify and sort the daily input.

Enjoy a Walk

Walking is relaxing.

Walking is relaxing.

#7-Take a Stroll

Let's look at a little something most of us would like to ignore. It's called exercise. Are you like me? Do you start feeling all sticky and smelly when you hear the word exercise? Do you run for your ibuprofen in anticipation? Well, "exercise" should have been a four-letter word, but "walk", although four lettered, does not deserve it.

Walking is the easiest exercise program in the world. Parking in the back of the parking lot and walking into the store is a start. We are raised to think we should drive everywhere. I've known people that will jump in their car on a nice day and drive three houses down to visit.

I once had the pleasure of meeting a family from Poland. They were wonderful people. We had much in common, except our concept of distance. They taught me this every time I offered them a ride during their stay.

"Oh, it's only a mile or two, we'll walk", they would say.

Walking brings great benefits. Even as little as 30 minutes a day will decrease your risks of getting heart disease, cancers and strokes. Walking will make your bones stronger, help you sleep better and give you more energy. People who exercise regularly live longer, have lower blood pressure and experience less illnesses.

It 30 minutes does not fit into your schedule try breaking it down into 10 minute units. Take the stairs, not the elevator. Park in the back of the parking-lot and walk in. Take a walk around your building at lunch.

I chose walking because it is the easiest and cheapest method of exercise. But it is not the only exercise we do on a weekly basis. Moderately heavy housework is a good alternative, I just find walking more relaxing. Washing the car is another good way to incorporate activity into a busy lifestyle.

Laughter, the Best Medicine

Laughing for 15 minutes burns about 50 calories.

Laughing for 15 minutes burns about 50 calories.


Laughter is good in it's own right. Laughing has several healthy bonuses that we do not think of initially while laughing. All we know is it feels good. Something that feels good and is healthy, seems like an oxymoron doesn't it?

Laughing makes you feel energized. It makes you more attractive to other people. Laughter lowers blood pressure, boosts the immune system and helps us feel relaxed.

Laughing for 15 minutes burns 50 calories. It may not sound like very much, but laughing for 15 minutes every day adds up to losing 2-4 pounds over that year. Weight loss with a smile!

Sum It Up

I hope you can take some of these tips and make them a part of your life. Make eating a conscious decision. Eat because you are hungry. Laugh, sleep, eat and stroll...enjoy your life. Know your food, whether it be friend or foe. Eat more freshly prepared foods and drink water. Make your battle cry, "Raw Rawks!"

And remember, it is the journey that takes us where we are going. Sometimes we stumble, but we also get up, brush ourselves off and get going again. Just a little change in direction often leads to an easier path in the long run.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and does not substitute for diagnosis, prognosis, treatment, prescription, and/or dietary advice from a licensed health professional. Drugs, supplements, and natural remedies may have dangerous side effects. If pregnant or nursing, consult with a qualified provider on an individual basis. Seek immediate help if you are experiencing a medical emergency.

© 2017 Kari Poulsen


Deanna Friel on July 12, 2018:

These are really helpful tips. There is so much out there on dieting it all starts to sound the same after a while. The tips you list are somewhat different and not phrased the way they normally are. Thanks for writing it.

Kari Poulsen (author) from Ohio on December 02, 2017:

Natalie, Thanks for stopping by! These tips are not only helpful to lose weight (and keep it off), but are healthy for your body in other ways also. I believe dieting is unhealthy. Constantly having your weight go up and down is a big stress on your body. :)

Natalie Frank from Chicago, IL on December 01, 2017:

These are really helpful tips. There is so much out there on dieting it all starts to sound the same after a while. The tips you list are somewhat different and not phrased the way they normally are. Thanks for writing it.

Kari Poulsen (author) from Ohio on November 23, 2017:

Thanks RTalloni! I hate dieting! But, as you say, reeducation is needed. Once you know how bad things like sugar and flour are for you, it is easier to refrain. (At least I think so.)

Kari Poulsen (author) from Ohio on November 23, 2017:

Patricia, walking is one of the best things you can do! It does make us happy. Thanks for reading and commenting.

RTalloni on November 23, 2017:

This post on the topic of dieting has tried and true advice that you've put together very well. The need to diet is rooted in a lifestyle, isn't it? Being willing to reeducate ourselves and taking to heart what is wisdom for healthy living makes all the difference.

Patricia Scott from North Central Florida on November 04, 2017:

Yep diets DO NOT work. Lesson learned the hard way. I began a journey 2 years ago in October of this year and have lost 65 pounds. I have written about my journey here on HP and need to update. My key is to walk and walk and walk. I am one who could eat nada all day forever and not lose weight. But walking keeps the weight in check. And it makes me happy happy and relieves the stressors that we all have.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Angels are on the way to you today. ps

Kari Poulsen (author) from Ohio on November 04, 2017:

Thanks Salefinder, These tips do help. :)

Salefinder on November 03, 2017:

Sounds interesting

Kari Poulsen (author) from Ohio on October 31, 2017:

Jo, One little change at a time will help. Thanks for reading and commenting. :)

Jo Miller from Tennessee on October 31, 2017:

Very good advice, Kari. I need to get back to eating better and exercising more.

Kari Poulsen (author) from Ohio on October 29, 2017:

Thanks for reading, Peg, and leaving a comment. I feel every little thing can make a difference. :)

Peg Cole from North Dallas, Texas on October 29, 2017:

Excellent tips for weight watching and keeping those calories to a minimum. Recently I've taken on a new approach to eating and thankfully, it follows many of your fantastic tips, like reducing the sugar, dairy, and deserts. I like the tip about choosing a different type of cookie, too. The walking idea is one that many people forget about, as you've mentioned, driving their cars even a few hundred feet to get somewhere. I try to park in the outlying areas when shopping to increase my walk time. Thanks for sharing these ideas here.

Kari Poulsen (author) from Ohio on October 27, 2017:

Linda, It is so hard to get enough sleep with life so busy. It is the one thing we always try to do without. But it is more important than people think, not just for losing weight. Thanks for coming by, reading and commenting! :)

Kari Poulsen (author) from Ohio on October 27, 2017:

FlourishAnyway, I ate a "raw diet" for about 6 months. You are right, fruits, grains, nuts and vegetables are enough. I had to stop because I could no longer afford it. It is very expensive to eat well! I'm terrible with dessert. If I eat something sweet, I'll crave sweets for about a week. Even one candy bar. Life is really not fair! Thanks for reading and commenting. :)

Linda Crampton from British Columbia, Canada on October 26, 2017:

Thanks for sharing the good advice, Kari. The area that I definitely need to work on is to get more more sleep. I know I'm not getting enough at the moment.

FlourishAnyway from USA on October 26, 2017:

I’m towards the end of a Vegan for a Month Challenge and have found that my relationship with food underwent a dramatic reset so that now fruits, grains, nuts, and vegetables are actually enough. Previously I was an over the top craver if indulgent desserts like triple chocolate fudge cake with homemade heavy whipped cream topping and candied pecans. I drink a lot of water, too. It’s refreshing.

Kari Poulsen (author) from Ohio on October 26, 2017:

Dora, Number 4 is so very important. And as you say not just for weight loss. Sugar and flour do lead to obesity, which has it's own set of problems, such as high blood pressure and diabetes. Drinking lots of water helps flush the toxins out of our system, keeping us healthier. Most of these tips are not just for weight control, but for general health, as you say. Thank you so much for reading and leaving a comment. :)

Kari Poulsen (author) from Ohio on October 26, 2017:

Mary, Thank you for taking time to read and comment! Keeping away from processed foods is wonderful. You can't get any fresher than out of your garden. The vegetables we raise always taste so much better than store bought. I find when I don't get enough sleep, I am hungry the whole next day. :)

Kari Poulsen (author) from Ohio on October 26, 2017:

Betty, Thank you so much for your kind comment. That eating until you are still hungry and waiting to see if you get full really works. Sugar is a craving we all get. But sugar and flour are actually very bad for us. Good luck! :)

Dora Weithers from The Caribbean on October 26, 2017:

Kari, your tips are all sensible and practical. Number 4 has worked for me and the others are so necessary; you want to do them even if not for weight loss. Thanks for your help.

Mary Wickison from USA on October 26, 2017:

I live a pretty healthy life, although I should get more sleep than I do.

We don't eat much processed food and we grow some of our own vegetables and fruit.

You're right, diets to lose weight don't work until you change the lifestyle.

Betty A F from Florida on October 25, 2017:

Excellent article, and great advice! It's funny reading this today because I have been on this recipe kick for the past few weeks where I'm making everything from chocolate ganache to cheesecake, and even hard candy. I've been thinking that I'm probably going to put on few pounds and should start thinking about ways to avoid that.

I had no idea about the 20-30 minute span of time that it takes for the signal to reach the brain that tells us that we're full. That is really interesting. Knowing this now, I'll be making an effort to try smaller servings, and then waiting for a while to make sure that I'm not actually hungry.

Lots of great tips here. I bookmarked this article for later reference.

Thanks for sharing this!

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