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6 Empowering Thoughts to Uplift You Instantly in Your Darkest Hour

Let’s start this journey with a question. How does one up one’s health? Eating healthy food that provides all the right nutrients in the right proportion. Tick. Drinking plenty of water. Tick. Exercise. Tick. Getting adequate sleep and rest. Tick. Everything looking perfect.

Now let us add on one thought…..'Everything is unfair . It sucks’ or better still, ‘I am all alone. Nobody loves me’. Keep repeating this thought mentally for a few days. Check how you feel. Maybe not so good anymore. Now try telling yourself ‘I am so lucky. Everything always works out for me'. I can’t prove that everything will work for you but a lot of things will!! Chances are that your mood will be uplifted and you will feel much better. Really, do this experiment to see the power of the mind over the body. Let your personal experiment add to the tonnes of research on the mind-body connection.

What food is to the body, thoughts are to the mind. The mind is constantly feeding on thoughts - your own, your friend’s, your boss’s, your neighbor's, your favorite show, that news channel that is always on, the newspaper, social media…. whew. This is just a small list, by no means exhaustive. Some interesting observations about the mind…

  • Unlimited storage space which means you remember a lot more than you give yourself credit for. Also, unless you have worked on your memory, you probably record a lot more junk simply because it is more interesting (similar to the body, you would say).

  • Secondly, at least with the body, the hand acts as a mediator between the body and the food whereas in the case of the brain, thoughts can appear out of nowhere. So, tricky territory here.

  • Just like a mighty banyan tree was once a teenie-weenie seed, your thoughts are like potent tiny seeds. They are also the wings which can release you into freedom.

"All That We Are Is The Result

Of What We Have Thought.

The Mind Is Everything

What We Think We Become."

— Buddha

If physical immunity is a function of eating healthy, adequate exercise, and drinking enough good fluids, then mental immunity should be a function of good, healthy empowering thoughts.

Just the right time to remember the story told by the grandfather to the grandson about the two bulls. Both reside in each one of us - one is the Angel Bull and the other, the Demon Bull - says grandfather. The grandson is curious to know as to who wins. The grandfather’s reply is intriguing ‘The one you feed more.’

The Demon Bull has the easy job and its food comes easy. Anything negative which evokes emotions like worry, fear, anxiety, unhappiness, anger, irritation, hate, jealousy, greed will do.

The Good Bull feeds on all your positive, empowering, uplifting thoughts and emotions. So, we now have a responsibility of keeping it well fed at all times, so that even at the worst of times, it retains control.

Which bull are you feeding?

Which bull are you feeding???

Which bull are you feeding???

So, therefore, we call unto service these 6 statements that can serve as the most nourishing daily fodder for your Good Bull.

1. This too shall pass

Life is a rich tapestry of experiences, events, incidents. It is the biggest roller-coaster with twists and turns when you least expect it. Life doesn’t always pan out the way that we wish it to. There are days when the tunnels of darkness seem never to end. And the rays of the sun seem more fiction than reality. When the gnawing pain of your current experience – critical illness, painful breakup, job loss, financial worries- seem all too-consuming and the only reality, when you almost come to breaking point, that ‘this is the end of the world’ feeling then this thought can be your ‘life saver.’

Touch your heart at such times and remind yourself “THIS TOO SHALL PASS”.

But this thought is not just for the bad time. Tell it to yourself often in your good times as well, as it is even more important to retain good sense and remain grounded during the good times.

2. I am never alone. There is a Higher Force always watching my back

Call this Higher Power what you will – Cosmic Consciousness, God, Divine, Krishna, Jesus, Allah but exist it does. Once upon a time you were just an egg and look at you now. A baby grows the most in its first year and you definitely didn’t orchestrate that. Plant a seed in your garden or a pot if that is all you have and experience the miracle of life unfolding. Nothing is more beautiful or magical!!! Now extrapolate it to you and think of your own miraculous journey from egg to the present.

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Be open to the signs and whispers this force sends out to you through an accidental friend you meet who has just the thing you need, that family member who reached out to you just when you wanted to vent, the accidental lecture that you listened to that had just the solution you needed, that beautiful bloom which filled you with some strange beautiful energy the whole day.

3. I am the Super Hero, of my own life

We all love to watch action movies with larger-than-life heroes. They meet with the worst and most dangerous of situations and always, always come out on top. That’s why we love them so much. And yet when it comes to our own life, we are so halfhearted. We let fears, worries, anxieties take over. No more. From this moment on, choose to be ‘The Hero of your own life, the very best” Go through all the ups and downs in your life as if it be the biggest adventure. Make it special, different, unique and worth your time and energy.

4. I am so so Grateful

There is enough and more research and books on ‘The Attitude of Gratitude’. There must be something to it for it to have worked for so many millions. But like the proof is in the pudding, make it a part of your life and experience it for yourself. Start with the Hero- Yourself.

  • Thank each part of your body for all the functions it does involuntarily 24/7
  • Thank your family
  • Thank your friends
  • Thank the sun and the moon and stars and all the elements of Nature

As you progress on this journey, you will notice more and more things to be grateful for ….even something like the sunshine falling inside your living room and brightening your day.

5. I am lucky. Everything happens at just the right time for me in the best possible way

This is one thought that feels very good for some and totally fake for others. That is why the gratefulness thought has to precede it. Once you start feeling grateful for all the beautiful things happening in your life, no matter how small and simple they may be, the stage gets set for this thought.

6.There is enough in the Universe for everybody and there is a beautiful space meant just for me

Often, life seems like a race. When thoughts of competition, scarcity, insecurity takeover, this one thought can simply dissolve them with ease.


  1. Call it Affirmation. Call it Statement. Call it ‘Thought Games’. Call it what you will but practice it on a daily basis every day. Repeat it to yourself five times first thing in the morning and last thing at night till it becomes a part of your system. Anything practiced at these times of the day finds its way into your subconscious easily.
  2. Be open to life. Life will throw the right thought seeds. You will come across just what you need when you need it. Just like your social media feed throws up content based on your interest and history.
  3. Link one daily routine activity with each of these statements... so that it becomes default mode. For example

  • While eating - practice Gratitude

  • While exercising - practice the Superhero thought

  • Come up with a combination that works for you.

4. Feed the Good Bull so well that even in the face of a tough situation the

Demon Bull doesn’t really wrest control. And you come out of ‘those dark hours
of the night’ with ease.

5. It is an uphill task to build immunity while ill. So too with mental immunity. Get
the drift. When you are feeling mentally, emotionally down, it takes little more
effort to bounce back. But, if you have gotten this ‘Thought Practice’ going,
bouncing back becomes easier.

6. Life is not in the big moments – but in the small, seemingly insignificant,
everyday moments. Ask yourself.. Is your health impacted more by following a
good healthy daily routine?? Or by that one super healthy meal that you ate on


Your thoughts can lead you to hell or heaven. Like is said, it is all in your mind. Each of the 6 thoughts outlined above is a “Power Bomb”. Repeat it to yourself, write it down. Empower yourself by yourself. Uplift yourself by yourself. And soar like an eagle over life’s troubles.

“Watch your thoughts, for they become words.

Watch your words, for they become actions.

Watch your actions, for they become habits.

Watch your habits, for they become character.

Watch your character, for it becomes your Destiny.”

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2020 sowspeaks


sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on August 14, 2020:

Umesh Ji ! Honoured to have you visit and comment!

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on August 14, 2020:

Hi Manuela, thank you for reading through and I am sure you will do a great job of putting them to work for your mind. Best of luck!

Umesh Chandra Bhatt from Kharghar, Navi Mumbai, India on August 04, 2020:

Motivating. Well presented.

Manuela from Portugal on July 24, 2020:

Very Nice enpowerment thoughts, I need to work in some of them to take care of my mind. Thank you!

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on July 09, 2020:

Hi Chatra, thank you for those kind words.

CHATRA RAM from BARMER INDIA on July 04, 2020:

Nice and importent thoughts

Thanks for share

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on July 04, 2020:

Hi Poonamji ! Those are indeed really extremely kind words. I am honored and deeply touched.

God bless us all !!!

POONAM MALIK from Faridabad on June 30, 2020:

Dear Sowrabha, this article has cleared the mystery I had in my mind. Now I know the mystery behind your million-dollar smile and simple and powerfully magnetic personality.

The world is a beautiful place because of people like you.

God bless you.

Peggy Woods from Houston, Texas on June 26, 2020:

I had never heard the advice about feeding the 'good bull,' but it makes good sense to accentuate the positive things in our lives instead of focusing on the negative. Thanks for reminding us of the power of our thoughts.

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on June 26, 2020:

Hi Inspiredbro, gratified with your kind words. Deeply appreciate.

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on June 26, 2020:

Hi Vikram, happy that you took away something from the article. True, all the Guru mantras are actually hidden affirmations and that is why invariably yield results. The gestation period depends on the effort and energy we invest in it. Thanks for the kind words of encouragement.

Inspiredbro on June 24, 2020:

Good too see someone deeply talking about thoughts , really liked your work.

Lots of love from New delhi.

Vikram Brahma from Assam, India on June 10, 2020:

Hey Sowrabha, nice detailed article and I liked all empowering thoughts especially "I am the Superhero" :). Yes, like guru mantra we should say something positive to ourselves every day and day and night. Once those thoughts will impress our subconscious mind it will start showing it's effects on us. Thanks for sharing this article, Sowrabha. Keep writing more my friend.

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on May 27, 2020:

Thank you for those really kind words. I am sure that you must shaped a beautiful life having lived this path for decades as you mention. Thoughts can liberate and positive thoughts are the starting points of a positive life. Take care and stay safe.

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on May 27, 2020:

Thank you Ajit. Glad that you liked the hub. Yes we have the power to reengineer our life and we should.

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on May 27, 2020:

Thank you Umeshji ! Will try to live up.

Nitin Khaire from Mumbai on May 20, 2020:

What a good article! Empowering thoughts indeed. Thank you for reminding me about the power of positive thinking.

I have been practicing this for decades literally. It's one of the most liberating facts of life-think positively and life will become worth living.

Thank you Sowrabha for this reminder. Very well written.

Ajit on May 14, 2020:

True, Sowrabha Our thoughts and the way we handle them, re-engineer our life

Well written and summed up in a simple yet powerful language Keep writing

Umesh Chandra Bhatt from Kharghar, Navi Mumbai, India on May 11, 2020:

Encouraging and motivating, Keep up your good work in HP.

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on May 09, 2020:

Hi Nithya Venkatesh, thank you for those words of encouragement. Happy to know how you connected with the article. Keep safe.

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on May 09, 2020:

Hi Eric, you 10 yr old reminds me of my own and how they seem to have an uncanny knack of getting it so right. Thank you for stopping by.

Eric Dierker from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A. on May 07, 2020:

You reminded me of my conversation with my ten year old yesterday. "Dad where is your sweet spot to go to in your brain?"

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on May 07, 2020:

Hi Flourish Anyway , your life is living proof of the power of positivity. More power to you .

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on May 06, 2020:

Hi Nikhil! Thank you for your insightful comments. When we are receptive to positivity a lot of messages start popping up all over. Keep feeding the good bull and stay happy.

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on May 06, 2020:

Hi Natasha! Thanks for your comments. Challenges are an inseparable part of life and with the right perspective we can always win over.

Nithya Venkat from Dubai on April 30, 2020:

Great article, positive and inspirational. Thoughts are food for the brain- so true. I enjoyed reading your article; you have shown how to handle tough situations with positive thoughts and by being grateful.

Anuradha chiripal on April 30, 2020:

Well written

Positive thinking....

FlourishAnyway from USA on April 29, 2020:

I fully believe in the power of the messages one tells him or herself.

Nikhil Sharma from India on April 28, 2020:

After reading this informative yet powerful article, I couldn't agree more on the importance and power of our thoughts. Just like you said, what foods are to the body, thoughts, and ideas are to the mind. It is a beautifully written article mam.

Thank you for sharing your powerful thoughts with us and spreading positivity. It has really helped me to believe more in myself and to feed good thoughts to my mind. Looking forward to reading all your upcoming articles mam.

Natasha Tungare from India on April 28, 2020:

This is wonderful article maam!! I completely agree with all the points you mentioned in here. This is the time when people need to uplift themselves despite of whatever is going on around:)

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on April 28, 2020:

Thank you so much Prateek for those kind words. We feel so super-powerful when we realise that by changing a thought, we can change our life. Super, isn’t it?

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on April 28, 2020:

Thank you so much for those encouraging words Suchismita. This is feed for my good bull. The circle continues and grows.

Jayarama Somayaji on April 27, 2020:

That is an thought provoking, meaningful article Sowrabha. It's really guide for uplifting body and mind. I remember the book "Learn to Live", written by Late Jagadatmananda, which has lot of positive thinking.Keep writing more articles Sowrabha, God Bless..

Jnathri H on April 27, 2020:

A very inspiring article. Life is truly a race and I enjoyed reading this article.

It has so much positivity.

Halemane Muralikrishna from South India on April 27, 2020:

Your article is somewhat off the styles defined by style guides, but I loved reading it. You've fantastically put the positive thinking and affirmations in a well-knit string of 6 beads. If we start developing inferiority, we never achieve and if we bother too much on others, a good time will never come. So, anybody reads your article will think, ok, let me try, Ms Sworabha.

Prateek Jain from Madhya Pradesh, India on April 26, 2020:

You are share some powerful information. I really liked the thought which is there in between bye Louis L hay. Gave a new direction to my thinking. Keep writing mam thank you for sharing this valuable information with us. As time passes you are mastering the art of writing and portraying difficult concept in an easy manner.

Suchismita Pradhan from India on April 26, 2020:

Thank you sowspeaks for sharing such a wonderful article.I always try to feed the good bull.I always believe that its your thoughts that gives direction to your mood.I can totally relate with this article.Keep writing,love reading your articles.

sowspeaks (author) from Bengaluru on April 26, 2020:

Thank you Lorna for that very warm comment . When I read your comment the thought that struck me was ‘ Hey this is proof that You are not alone and there IS a force watching out for you ,giving you just what you need ‘ And I am really glad for you ..take care and be happy in the knowledge that you are loved .

Lorna Lamon on April 26, 2020:

This is a wonderful and uplifting article which I thoroughly enjoyed reading. I try on a daily basis to feel the 'good bull' and through this charming story will inspire others to do the same. I was feeling a little low today, however, your article was like a breath of fresh air and a tonic all at the same time. Thank you for sharing. Take care.

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