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How To Get The Party Started


Let's Party

When one attends a party, one expects to have fun! They want to make memories with friends and family.

No one likes a dull party and being a wallflower at a celebration is certainly not fun.

The host or hostess invited you, but maybe they could use some help to get the party started.

Maybe it's your own party and you aren't sure how to get the party started.

I've listed some suggestions to help you. You could also incorporate some of my ideas with some of your own clever creations and have a bash that your guests will always remember.

You might not consider my ideas as traditional party planning, but variation could be exciting. You'd be surprised at what your mind could accomplish when you leave your comfort zone behind.

You might think some of my suggestions are not for adult parties, but you'll be surprised at how much fun you could possibly have. Remember, to think out of the box...


Karaoke Singing!

You probably thought that karaoke singing was yesterday's good time.

NO! Karaoke is still fun!

Have an assortment of different genre's of music available for your guests to select from.

Also supply an extra microphone for duets.

Some people won't sing alone, but will sing their hearts away with a partner.

Strip Poker!

Yes Strip Poker! Near the entrance of the party have large totes or bowls filled with many props, costumes and accessories!

Have the guests wear as many items as they want and start playing poker! You didn't think I actually meant to STRIP their clothes! Did you? This game could go on for hours!

Musical Chairs!

We are NEVER too old for musical chairs! Well, if there is a chance you could break a bone then you might want to pass on this game. If you are overly intoxicated you might also want to pass, being dizzy might make you want to puke.

I can be brutal with musical chairs and I like to win! Set up the chairs using one less chair than amount of players. Turn up the tunes. Walk around the chairs. Turn off the music, last one standing is out of the game, also remove a chair. Repeat the process until there is one chair left with the winner sitting in it! Have fun!

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Spike The Punch!

Add some liquor of choice to the party punch and have a blast!

Or better yet inform the guests that the punch is spiked and watch them think they are drunk when in reality they are having fun being alcohol-free!

Flash Mob!

Place someone in charge of choreographing the flash mob! Depending on the number of guests, or how large the dance area is you might need a large outdoor area.

Watch YouTube videos beforehand to get an idea of how flash mobs have previously been done. Be sure you have this videotaped to add your creation to YouTube!

Table Dances!

WARNING: Be sure the tables are stable! This game could be dangerous if not done appropriately or if the dancer is a bit tipsy.

The dances could easily be done sober, if you have the nerve. You might actually get $1 tips if you are really groovy! Watch the video to get some ideas from a two year old Brazilian boy who can move like jagger!

Food Fight!

Who doesn't like a good food fight?! It doesn't have to be messy, just entertaining!

  • Jello (assorted colors)
  • Cool Whip (Reddi-Whip)
  • Popcorn (butter is optional)
  • Peanut shells (eat the peanuts first)
  • Mashed potatoes (one of my favorites to toss!)
  • Flick jelly beans at each other
  • Marshmallows, go big, not just miniature

Have towels and showers available for the guests!

Tell Jokes!

Have a microphone available. Each guest has the opportunity to share a joke or two with the other guests. Depending on the age group this could be lots of fun! Raunchy jokes are always entertaining.

After the jokes are all told guests could do voice animations of their favorite cartoon characters!

I hope these tips help get one of your parties started! If you have any additional ideas to add please do so in the comment section below. Thank you! It's time to get the party started!

P!NK - Get The Party Started

© 2012 Linda Bilyeu


Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on January 03, 2015:

I should add to make sure the tables are secure before one starts dancing on them! :)

Ms. Immortal from NJ on November 09, 2012:

Great party ideas! Karaoke is always great fun for a party. Not sure about dancing on tables, but if we all drink enough punch who knows what will happen.

Thanks, I will keep these ideas in mind for my next party.

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on August 06, 2012:

Come on Jason give musical chairs a chance. I guarantee you will have a blast! I could play it for hours or until I'm too dizzy from going in circles. Try it! :)

Jason F Marovich from Detroit on July 27, 2012:

Karaoke is a riot at any party. What I like most about it is that it's so contagious. I get a kick out of flash mobs, too. No one's caught me playing musical chairs or dancing on tables....yet. Fun hub as usual, Sunshine.

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on July 06, 2012:

Audrey ~ Christy ~ MelChi ... Thanks for stopping by! Party on!

Melanie Chisnall from Cape Town, South Africa on June 25, 2012:

You've just made me realize how long it's been since I've been to or had a really fun party. Will have to do something about that soon! Thanks for sharing this, you've listed some fantastic ideas! :)

Christy Birmingham from British Columbia, Canada on June 25, 2012:

Awe, I remember musical chairs, right on!

Audrey Howitt from California on June 25, 2012:

Love parties!!!!

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on June 24, 2012:

Wow you guys got the party started and I missed it all, but I'm here now. Let's get the party started with ALL of your suggestions mentioned! I'm in!!! :)

amb1jer on June 24, 2012:

Who can resist spiked punch, food fights, and good music. Great ideas for a fun adult party.

Rebecca Mealey from Northeastern Georgia, USA on June 24, 2012:

These sound like fun ideas to rev up a party! I am going to have to check out this flash mob thing.

WhydThatHappen on June 24, 2012:

Great list! Voting this one up as awesome and sharing. Such simple but effective ways to get people to loosen up. I'll share a secret party starter that a Ugandan witchdoctor taught me, after I rescued him from some quick-sand: You chant, "Boots 'n Cats" over and over again while imagining yourself at a night-club, and you'll start to hear party music. It really works

DS Duby from United States, Illinois on June 24, 2012:

Great ideas and I found it just in time for "someones" birthday! voted up and sharing!

Nithya Venkat from Dubai on June 10, 2012:

Fun ideas to keep the party going. Karaoke and jokes are my favorite. Voted up.

Mohan Kumar from UK on June 10, 2012:

I'm in. ( i'mmmm comin home so you better get the party started' by Pink. ). I do so love a party. The ' sunshine' party sounds so much fun. I 'm good for a bit of DJ ing and will help choreograph a flash mob( my brother is a choreographer for music videos) - this list is a lot of fun. Can I add 'Twister' to the list too. Pleeeese.

Jools Hogg from North-East UK on June 10, 2012:

You could become a 'Party Starter Inc' Linda, make a living out of partying!

Nice hub, great ideas - I love karaoke, nothing like watching your old Aunts getting leery and then singing 'I Will Survive' or 'My Way' :o)

Dianna Mendez on June 09, 2012:

I had a good laugh while reading through this one. The strip poker and punch had me wondering but I can see how fun it would be now. Thanks for sharing.

Barbara Purvis Hunter from Florida on June 09, 2012:


Finally back, and your hub is so funny. But I have to tell you after one glass of wine all I do is giggle. I drive my friends nuts.

But I am ready for a party.

Have a great Sunday, Sunshine.

Your Hub Friend,


Terrye Toombs from Somewhere between Heaven and Hell without a road map. on June 09, 2012:

I wanna party with my favorite ray of sunshine...oh yeah, what about Truth Or Dare? :)

DragonBallSuper on June 09, 2012:

Very creative! im sure it'll be lot of fun then. Thumbs up!

lovedoctor926 on June 09, 2012:

These party ideas are creative and fun. The Brazilian baby dancing Zamba is too funny as well as the LMFAO national anthem video. Food fight with mash-potato and whipcream, shower is exactly what I was thinking hahhaha. It's good that you mentioned it. You are too funny! I can imagine having all this on video. Great hub! thanks for the laugh

Anamika S Jain from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India on June 09, 2012:

Awesome Ideas! Never thought of table dances and food fight so far. Nice Hub, Voted up!

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on June 09, 2012:

Daisy, I worry about me too. I'm just a hubber of all trades. Ha!!

Enjoy your company Bobbi!:)

Barbara Purvis Hunter from Florida on June 09, 2012:

I will be back to read this later tonight. Sunshine is the Queen. I just heard the doorbell---yes we have door bells in the country, Yhoo.


Daisy Mariposa from Orange County (Southern California) on June 09, 2012:

Linda (Sunshine),

Sometimes I worry about you...

I worry that you'll stop thinking of all your wonderfully crazy ideas.

You're the *List Diva,* and now you're the *Party Queen.*

Time to party!!!

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on April 25, 2012:

That goes without saying Rick. Let me know the time and place and I'm there!:)

Poetic Fool on April 25, 2012:

Linda, these are all great ideas but you left out the best one of all. Number one should read:

1. Invite Linda Bilyeu to your party!

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on March 28, 2012:

Have fun PDX, I would have thought you would take on the Karaoke! Haha!

Cyndi, You comment was too funny!! I want to meet you at a party now!!:))

El Ray, A D.J. or burned CD's is a fabulous addition to get the party started!! Thank you for adding them to the list! I agree the punch would be cheaper than bottles of booze, but I was suggesting we prove that one could have fun without alcohol!:)

Thank you for your getting the party started comments!!

El Ray on March 28, 2012:

After spiking the punch, it will be much easier to get the party started! If you make enough of it, spiked punch can be more cost-effective than buying individual bottles of booze, wine, etc. Just be sure to relieve all drivers of their car keys when they arrive. Karaoke is a lot of fun, but if your guests really want to shake it up ... get a DJ or two. If that's outside of your budget or none of your guests have DJ skills, burn some CD's with your favorite dance tracks.

Voting this up + awesome!

Cynthia B Turner from Georgia on March 28, 2012:

Great tips for parties. I don't think Karaoke ever goes out of style. Some of the worst singers think they are the best singers (that would be me :-) and make for lots of fun! Especially if your guests can laugh at themselves (that would be me :-) Thanks for sharing.

Justin W Price from Juneau, Alaska on March 28, 2012:

these are fun tips, Linda. I like the idea of the placebo effect with the punch bowl. i will definitely try that next time!

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on March 12, 2012:

That's what makes the party more fun Jimmy! We get to laugh at the guests who could hopefully also laugh at themselves:)

Jimmy the jock from Scotland on March 12, 2012:

I'm Ready to Party now but don't let me near that Karaoke machine, my singing would scare everyone away lol.....jimmy

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on March 12, 2012:

I love playing musical chairs. There should not be an age limit on this game, as long as you could walk you could play. I'm glad there were no injuries Deb! You are correct the game could be cut-throat!:)

Deborah Neyens from Iowa on March 12, 2012:

We played musical chairs at a neighborhood party a while back. It got pretty cut-throat, but no actual injuries, fortunately. : )

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on March 05, 2012:

KDF...Clothing is optional! LOL

KDF from Central Illinois on March 05, 2012:

We'll I figure if I strip down, I will be the life of the party. I didn't get the leave clothes on memo, no wonder after I showed up, everybody left! : )

zzron from Houston, TX. on March 04, 2012:

I'm on my way! LOL.

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on March 04, 2012:

Hi Ron! I came very close to adding pole dancing, but I passed SO thank you for the suggestion! Bring it!!:)

zzron from Houston, TX. on March 04, 2012:

Pole dancing is also good if you don't have a table and well I guess if you have to keep your clothes on, a good time will still be had by all. LOL.

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on February 25, 2012:

Hi FordeAhern! I'm glad I was able to help you get the party started! I hope you get to watch the P!nk video, she's awesome!! Thank you for the votes! Keep on partying!:)

FordeAhern from Broadford, Co. Limerick. ireland on February 25, 2012:

A great hub, it was fun to read. Thank you. We have a karaoke machine and its great fun. Board games can be a loads of laughs, have you played Antics We have great fun here when we bring it out to have a game.I could not open the video of pink, It stated that its not available to me in my country. Anyway Voted up awesome and will bookmark for my next party. cheers

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on February 24, 2012:

@cloverleaf I would love to sing a karaoke duet with you!!:)

@Rolly You could show up at anytime and cut-offs are mandatory!!:)

@cebutouristspot Come on over, I won't start the party without you!:)

cebutouristspot from Cebu on February 24, 2012:

Wow party. I bet this are tried tested tips and you are a good party host. :) Hope you are my neighbor so you can MC my party :)

Rolly A Chabot from Alberta Canada on February 24, 2012:

Am I late... I was not sure on the dress but I hope cut-offs work.


Louise Fiolek from Calgary, AB, Canada on February 24, 2012:

Karaoke singing never fails to get the party started. Problem is, after one or two cocktails it's impossible to get the mic off me LOL. It might be ok if I could sing...

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on February 09, 2012:

Come on over Marcy:)

Marcy Goodfleisch from Planet Earth on February 09, 2012:

Sounds like a crowd I won't want to miss!

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on February 09, 2012:

Absolutely and BTW Ardie's invite is still open ;)

Marcy Goodfleisch from Planet Earth on February 09, 2012:

Can I come to your next party? I promise to wear a lot of layers. I do great Karaoke, by the way! Voted up and interesting!

drbj and sherry from south Florida on January 28, 2012:

Very intriguing party ideas, Linda, but the Musical Chairs and Table Dances ideas should be utilized only for very young party-goers (under the age of 12). Otherwise the hostess' liability exposure is tremndous. Trust me. Those older folks often injure body parts when they fall!

SusieQ42 on January 27, 2012:

What a great hub, Sunshine! I love your ideas, especially...well, all of them really. Laughter is the best medicine you know.

Swetank Raj from India on January 27, 2012:

I just love PARTY! And never missed a single in life if offered. Karaoke is the best way to rockup the party as i believe. Great hub!

Victoria Lynn from Arkansas, USA on January 26, 2012:

Great ideas! I love the song by Pink. We often do karaoke at my Christmas parties. Lots of fun. We also do door prizes, sometimes, which is fun. Flash mob and musical chairs are a great idea, too! Great hub. Lots of votes and up!

Kathleen Kerswig on January 26, 2012:

I know I love the winters here.

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on January 26, 2012:

I hope the weather stays this beautiful also. We have to love Florida winters:)

Kathleen Kerswig on January 26, 2012:

I think we might just stick with music playing without the game. Thank you for your good wishes. I'm sure it will be fun. He is going to be visiting from up north and he doesn't know anyone here so it will be a true surprise. :)

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on January 26, 2012:

HI Kathleen, While musical chairs is an absolutely amusing game, I'd be extra careful with your father and his party guests. I hope his party is a smashing success!:)

Kathleen Kerswig on January 26, 2012:

I am planning to give my 83 year old father a surprise party in two weeks. Maybe I'll have the guests, including Dad, play musical chairs. That might be interesting to watch. :)

Great hub!

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on January 26, 2012:

@veronica that's a fabulous idea!!! The more the merrier!!

@rasta Your secret is safe with me!:)

Marvin Parke from Jamaica on January 26, 2012:

How dare you spike the punch..........will never hear me say that.

Veronica Roberts from Ohio, USA on January 26, 2012:

How about all of the above? That'd be a heck of a party!!

This was a fun hub! Much-needed on a drizzly day. =]

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on January 26, 2012:

@tammy Come on down!!:)

@nell that would be my non-spiked punch! It would be TOO funny to watch the guests as they THOUGHT they were drinking! It will show others how much fun can be had without alcohol!

@audrey, Happy day before your birthday!!!:)

Doesn't anyone want to play musical chairs?!?!

Linda Bilyeu (author) from Orlando, FL on January 26, 2012:

@alecia, we need to have a party ASAP! Pink rules!!

@fpherj YES I did spend more time then my parents preferred in the principal's office!! No clean-up, just eat it! PARTY in da house!!

Audrey Howitt from California on January 26, 2012:


Nell Rose from England on January 26, 2012:

Hi, I love the idea of making out the drinks are spiked but not really! lol! and I love to sing to Karaoke! great party!

Tammy from North Carolina on January 26, 2012:

I want to come. I especially like the spiked punch and karaoke.. What a combination! Parrrttaaayyyyy!!!

Rosemary Sadler from Hawkes Bay - NewZealand on January 26, 2012:

Looks like your parties are a lot of fun. I think good music and Karaoke is my best way of getting a party on its way.

We would have games such as getting all the guys to roll up their trowser legs and sit in a line, while the blindfolded wives/partners had to feel all of the knees and say which was her husband/partner. This was a lot of fun and brought a lot of laughs.

A great fun hub

Aurelio Locsin from Orange County, CA on January 26, 2012:

Great ideas but I do like the other kind of strip poker better. Voting this Up and Interesting.

Suzie from Carson City on January 26, 2012:

Sunshine....Sometimes I wonder how many extra wheels you have spinning in that pretty head of yours! If I was a betting woman, I'd bet you spent a whole lot of time "in the Principal's Office," as a kid. Since you're also very convincing, I can just imagine the trouble your friends got into, following your lead! Mashed potatoes?? Whipped Cream??...WHO is on "clean-up committee??" I'm on the music committee....when's the party??

Alecia Murphy from Wilmington, North Carolina on January 26, 2012:

You can never go wrong with good music and good times. I have to say Karaoke is my favorite way of getting the party started and of course P!nk! Great hub!

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