“Do you want to grab a cup of coffee?”
The popular pick up line, “Do you want to grab a cup of coffee?” is still commonly used in today's dating world. Going on dates can be a daunting experience. Thanks to a recent study, meeting for coffee can actually help you weed out the crazies from the potentials. So the next time you’re wondering if your date has any long term potential, pay attention to the coffee drink that they order.
Alan Hirsch, MD, neurologist and author of What’s Your Food Sign?, surveyed 18,631 women and men about their coffee drink preferences and personalities. His result is quite interesting- there’s a correlation between the two!
In addition, body language experts Judi James and James Moore decipher what your caffeine fix reveals about your self esteem and personality traits. In their new book, The You Code, James and Moore dissected the different personalities associated with the types of coffee drinkers.
Is it true? Who knows, but wouldn’t it be fun to find out?
BLACK COFFEE DRINKER: Sharp, neat, and to the point. Black coffee drinkers are considered minimalists. No sugar-coating, no faking, and no drama. They are usually associated with high flyers and professionals. Consult these coffee drinkers on money advice. Don’t be surprised if their piggy banks are quite obese.
ESPRESSO DRINKER: This person is known as an experienced, exciting, and energetic partner. They are fast talkers, always looking for a good time. The downside is they tend to be moody.
CAPPUCCINO DRINKER: People who drink cappuccinos are cute, loving, and warm. They are usually passionate and caring. Since they are creative, honest, kind and hard working, they put a lot of effort into personal relationships. Like their drink, cappuccino drinkers are all frothy and bubbly. They enjoy sex but are easily bored by an unimaginative partner.
LATTE DRINKER: They like to savour their coffee, taking time to ponder life’s complexities. They are indecisive, usually lets their partners make the decision. They are super laid back, calm, and appreciate chivalry in a man. They are very supportive in a relationship.
MOCHA DRINKER: They are complete romantics and love to be in love. They can be very affectionate, compassionate, and insightful. These spontaneous flirts are unreliable and have a hard time committing to long term relationships.
FRAPPUCINO DRINKER: They are trend setters. Full of life and an adventurous spirit, they like to mix things up. Unlike the cappuccino drinker, they are more on the extroverted side, and makes friends easily. Usually known as life of the party, they are always looking for new activities and would never turn down a challenge. They usually need someone who can put them in check once in a while. They make exciting sex partners in bed.
DECAF SOY MILK DRINKER: A self-righteous, attention seeker with a tendency to be picky, fussy, and squeamish in the bedroom. This person is usually high maintenance.
The Cappuccino Drinker
World's most expensive coffee: Kopi Luwak
Fun facts about coffee!
Did you know...
- Kopi Luwak is considered to be the rarest and most expensive in the world! It is grown in Indonesia. The Asian palm civet (looks like a weasel-like animal), eats berries for their fleshy pulp. As the beans are digested, internal digestive tract adds a unique milder flavor to the beans. They are excreted intact from the animal’s feces, gathered, washed, dried and roasted. It costs about $50 per cup!
- Coffee grows on trees, up to 30 feet tall! The coffee bean is a seed inside of a red berry. The berries are picked, dried, and stripped down to a green-colored bean. The beans are roasted at 500 F until they start to “pop” and double in size like popcorn. Light roast coffee has MORE caffeine since the longer coffee is roasted the more caffeine is cooked out of the bean.
- Seattle has the most number of coffee shops per capital in the U.S. (35 per 100,000). Hawaii is the only U.S. state that grows coffee. It is also grown in Puerto Rico, a U.S. territory.
- Americans drink 400 million cups of coffee/day, making the U.S. the leading consumer of coffee in the world.
- Japanese people bathe in coffee grounds fermented with pineapple pulp to improve their skin and reduce wrinkles.
“Ca phe sua da,” the traditional Vietnamese coffee. It is a very strong coffee, usually prepared with sweet and condensed milk and slightly crushed iced.
Jeffery Mike on November 02, 2020:
I'm an espresso drinker and I love it. Recently I tried mudwater (https://mudreview.com/) and I found it healthy drink but you can't compare it with coffee but you can say it coffee alternative. But there is nothing that replace coffee.
febriedethan from Indonesia on October 24, 2014:
I'm a cappuccino and latte drinker :)
Evelia Veronica Rivera from Bridgeport, CT on July 10, 2014:
Elisabeth on May 20, 2014:
Great hub! I didn't know that the type of coffee you enjoy says so much about your personality. I usually enjoy my coffee black or espresso. Well, so much about romance.
mak hilal on March 02, 2014:
what about tea ?
Toy Tasting from Mumbai on February 12, 2014:
O Lovely, I am a Cappuccino drinker. I loved whatever it is written about me. Thanks for sharing the information. :)
Kim Lam (author) from California on October 25, 2013:
Thank you, in that case you need a detox. LOL jk....:-D
Jen on October 24, 2013:
What about those of us who regularly drink all of the above. The word addict comes to mind... and now...a steaming cup o'joe. Hope I can scrounge up some decaf or I see a long night of Hub-stalking in my not so distant future.
Nice Hub. :)
Astrid on November 11, 2012:
This was really fun... Love this kind of trivia :-) so here comes my question: I love a double espresso with just a dollop of real whipped cream on top. No sugar... What kind of personality is that? :-)
Kim Lam (author) from California on June 28, 2012:
Mmm lattes...yum. Thanks for stopping by Donnah, glad you had a good read!
Donna Hilbrandt from Upstate New York on June 28, 2012:
I love coffee! Great hub. I enjoy a lot of types of coffee, but if I go into a coffee shop and order, my preference is a latte. I actually kind of fit the personality you described. Interesting stuff. :)
Kim Lam (author) from California on June 28, 2012:
Haha thanks Billy, have you decipher your type yet? I bet you have a little bit of the good traits from every drink.
Bill Holland from Olympia, WA on June 28, 2012:
Well that was fun, interesting and informational all rolled up into one hub. The Triple Crown of Hub writing! LOL Great hub!
Kim Lam (author) from California on May 14, 2012:
Haha, interesting... I wouldn't know the answer to that!;-)
neeleshkulkarni from new delhi on May 13, 2012:
what about the type who asks you out for coffee and is not interested in the coffee at all!!Would he/she not make the best partner?
Katina Davenport on May 12, 2012:
I like coffee especially instant coffee ; just boil water and stir in coffee. I add in cream; and it's magic to me. I am stuck on instant coffee because my granny loved the instant stuff. I will never forget hearing her stir coffee at 4am. She was always an early riser. If she was still around I think we would be going to Starbucks on Sunday mornings for talks.
This hub makes me think about her. Loved the hub! Voted up and shared.
Liz Elias from Oakley, CA on May 12, 2012:
Thank you--yeah...I joke that I have to turn coffee into a coffee milkshake to make it drinkable. LOL But white chocolate?? Oh, no, no, no--not worthy of the name! I like dark choc much better; to me, the white stuff has the consistency of a mouthful of shortening--and about as much flavor. ;-) Cheers.
Kim Lam (author) from California on May 11, 2012:
Barbergirl, Haha are you telling me you have multiple personalities and one should get a background check before getting into a serious relationship with you? Lol I'm kidding.;-)
Fiddleman- I'm glad you had fun reading it. Black coffee huh? Ohhh bold, yet mysterious...do you live life on the edge? I picture you as some James Bond type of guy!
MsDizzy- I know, I know...these personality stuff are just for fun...as with astrology, some are true, some are just questionable. My fiancé loves chocolate in his coffee too, especially white chocolate. I always remind him that it's not really even real coffee! Might as well eat ice-cream instead. Happy 13th anniversary, btw that's a great achievement and celebration! Thanks for sharing!
Liz Elias from Oakley, CA on May 11, 2012:
Hmm... I usually distrust these "one size fits all" descriptions. They are generic, like the daily horoscope in the newspaper, with no study of the rest of the person's chart...wheras with coffee...that "chart" is the rest of the person...a person is more than the sum of their coffee choices!
I'm not much of a coffee drinker at all. I'm a strong black tea type, and drink it all day long, hot or iced. On the weekends, I like mochas, or if I meet a friend for "a cuppa." That is to say, I love chocolate, and my "mocha" is always "extra chocolate, please." You might more accurately say that I like a little bit of coffee in my hot chocolate. ;-)
But I am the opposite of the stereotype these "experts" listed--I'm definitely into a one-on-one seriously committed relationship, and would have it no other way...and expect the same from my partner. My soul mate and I will be celebrating our 13the wedding anniversary later this year.
Fiddleman on May 11, 2012:
I love my coffee and drink it black. Wonderful hub and I had never seen these little analysis of coffee drinkers. Good job and a fun read.
Stacy Harris from Hemet, Ca on May 11, 2012:
It kind of makes me wonder... does your coffee choice change if your personality changes! Currently I am more of a Cappachino type coffee drinker... however, I have done a variety of all the coffees... so maybe I am just a confused personality. Great hub... very interesting! Now I could go for some coffee! :)
Kim Lam (author) from California on March 11, 2012:
Thanks Debbie, glad you liked it! You never know, you might just be a true frapp drinker and not even know it ! :-)
Thanks Purelycoffee and jojokaya for stopping by!
Debbie Roberts from Greece on March 10, 2012:
For some reason I imagined coffee beans to grow on bushes, I had no idea that they grew on trees and big ones on that!!
I also quite like the fact that I don't fall under the personality type of the typical black coffee drinker too, it's nice to be different!! ;-)
A fun hub that I enjoyed reading.
PurelyCoffee on February 14, 2012:
I didn't see my favorite: Americano with a dash of milk!
Wonder what that says about me!
jojokaya from USA on February 09, 2012:
Interesting hub. Voted up.
David Lim from Singapore on February 08, 2012:
Never looked at it that way before. Alright then, look out ladies, here I come. :)
Kim Lam (author) from California on February 07, 2012:
Wandererh, does that mean you are the perfect all-around guy in a relationship?! :-D
Kim Lam (author) from California on February 07, 2012:
Thanks Alisha and ntone! I'm glad you guys enjoyed the article!
David Lim from Singapore on February 07, 2012:
Oh my god, I think I'm in trouble. I have the characteristics of all of the coffee drinkers but don't fit into any single one. Am I a confused coffee drinker? :)
Nicole Tone from Buffalo, NY on February 07, 2012:
As someone who used to work at a coffee shop, I absolutely love this hub. I never really thought about what a drink says about a person. I also enjoyed the facts about coffee you included. Great hub!
alisha4u from New Delhi, India on February 07, 2012:
Nice Hub !! You can also try your hand in writing about other related topics.....
Kim Lam (author) from California on February 06, 2012:
Thanks for stopping by Michael. Hopefully writing on hubs can soon help that bank account grow a bit :-)
Michael J Rapp from United States on February 06, 2012:
I drink coffee black. I'd say I fit the description, except for the bank account part. LOL! Cool Hub.