"They sought to create a tightly entangled web that even to this day continues to hold strong with the lies that were used to weave it."
Let me first start by explaining how this article came about. My name is Sharon Stajda, my mother is Frances Mealbach. My mother came to me one day and requested I write down her story. Why did my mother want her story told, and why did she feel her story would actually be an important story to tell? Mom's story is an adoption story, a story of deception. It's a story of a powerful family that sought through many decades to hide the circumstances of mom's birth and biological parent's identity.
You will read of how shortly after mom's birth secret arrangements were made to place her in a tuberculosis sanitorium in the town of Niles Michigan, and then six months later of her returned to the Detroit area, and placed in the care of the "Manzer's". The Manzer's were the parents that raised mom, and the parents she believed were her biological parents. The story thickens when her father dies, and his Last Will And Testament refers to her as "my adopted daughter". Mr. Manzer bequests her nothing but a box full of photos. Photo's that meant little to her at the time she received them. However, would become an intricate part of her research. Mom felt betrayed, as well as curious, she wanted to know the circumstances that lead to her adoption and the identity of her biological parents? Her research would span twenty years, and ultimately an eight-year court battle with a wealth powerful family. In the end, mom wins, but her victory is hollow and leaves her disappointed. Yet she truly felt her most important questions had been answered. In her mind and heart, she knew she had confirmed the identity of her biological father, his name was John Francis Dodge ...
Let me take the opportunity to state, I was pleased that my mother had faith that I could write such an intricate lengthy depiction of her story. However, I am not a professional writer, and fully realized may not possess the proper skills to write such a story. I pondered her request and decided I would just do my best. After all, I was with her every step of the way and knew the facts well. I also had all of the files and documents we obtained from her court case. As I stated I am not a writer. However, I am a good daughter and wanted to comply with my mother's wishes. I have tried to quote Mom as much as possible, in hopes of letting readers get to know my mom on a more personal level.
Where to start? I hope to share mom's intriguing story along with many personal family photos, and pertinent documents she obtained after winning her eight-year court case. You will view her birth certificate, and see how bad it was tampered with. You can read step by step how mom came to her ultimate belief that John Francis Dodge is her biological father.
The words adopted daughter leaped off the page and brought my mom to tears ...
My Dad Left So Many Clues
"The first inkling I had that my mother and father were not my biological parents, was the day my father's Last Will And Testament was read. When the attorney vocalized the words "adopted daughter" It felt as if my heart was glass, and had broken into a million pieces. Why had my parents kept this life-altering secret from me? I felt this was perhaps the cruelest of all lies', that had ever been told to me. One can't imagine the sadness I felt.
After my father's funeral, a close cousin of my father, "Mrs.June Eschtruth," requested I accompany her to her place of business? There in her office safe, she had a package my father had given her for safekeeping long before his death. He requested that the package is given to me only upon his death.
After opening the package, I found several documents and photos. Photographs, I had never seen before, most were of me as an infant. While looking at the photos I noticed one, in particular, a picture of me with another baby, dressed in the identical clothes posed in a very fancy chair with a strand of pearls at both our necks. These were the only pictures I had ever seen of myself as a small baby. I always thought this odd, the Manzer's were the kind of parents that took yearly studio portraits of me throughout my childhood. Furthermore, included with the photos was a document, a birth registration from the year 1941. I was born in 1914, how could my birth be recorded some 27 years later? (I would later come to find out that my adoption had not been recorded until 1941, and that all records pertaining to my adoption were left unsigned by any legal authority.)
I already had children of my own! In addition, I was shocked to see my first name had been listed as "Frances", I was always referred to as Lucille? The name I had known, and gone by my entire life? The surname listed on the birth registration was that of Manzer. Why was the name Frances on my birth registration? I had never had a proper birth certificate, so this left me to wonder? It also made me realize, something was very wrong?
I felt betrayed, sad, and could not imagine why my father, the father I adored, waited until his death to make it known that I had been adopted, and that my real name was Frances? Furthermore, for what unknown reason could dad have had to want me to know these facts after his death? When would he not be physically available to help me understand why he had not been truthful about my birth? My father was an honest and God-fearing man, it would not be in his character to lie.
There was never any doubt in my mind that my father loved me. He had been a good father and always made me feel very special and loved. However, why was there such mystery surrounding my birth, and adoption? " What did my father hope to accomplish by leaving me these photos?
The Photo's Were Old And Worn
"My Father wanted me to have these photos and went to great lengths to make sure I received them. The photo of the two babies that sat side by side was the photo that stuck out. I could not help but wonder who this other baby was, and why were we dressed identically?
Why in the world were the photos kept under lock and key until his death." The photo of the two babies initiated a strong feeling that went on to haunt me. It was the very first piece of a puzzle. A puzzle that I needed to complete. I looked at each and every photo dad left me over and over again. Noting every detail. My mom wore a fur coat, my buggy had beautiful stained glass inserts on each side. I had never seen such an elaborate buggy. There was a photo with dad and mom in a grand Dodge automobile. These many photos seem to flood me with memories of my early childhood."
Childhood Memories ..." I Remembered A Very Large Home On Boston Boulevard "
My Most Vivid Childhood Memory
"After discovering that my parents, were not my biological parents. I started to ruminate on childhood memories, names, and faces, events from my childhood that meant little to me until now. However, these old memories now seemed to have significant meaning. They now became very important clues. Clues that would ultimately answer many questions about my birth, and who my birth parents were.
One of my most vivid childhood memories was that of being taken to a grand Boston Boulevard home. I could vividly remember being picked up at my Detroit home by a red-haired woman that was in a large automobile. She drove me to a large home, that I still today carry vivid memories of. I remember walking up the winding walkway that led to the front porch, and after entering the home I was taken up a large grand staircase to visit a woman in a beautiful bedroom. Inside this elegant bedroom was a woman lying in a dark wood sleigh bed. It was clear this woman was in ill health. I immediately noticed the beautiful rosebud wallpaper and most of all the beautiful drapes that hung from the large windows. After a short visit with this lady, I was then taken back down the stairs to a room on the first level at the back of the home. This room was bright, with lots of windows, and had a pretty tiled floor. I was given cookies and milk, and soon after I had finished my treat, the red-haired woman came to fetch me and drove me home.
When I returned home, I could talk of nothing but those fancy rose-pink drapes. The drapes left such a lasting impression on me. I told my father and mother about the beautiful rose-colored drapes over and over again. A few days later, my father created those very draped out of rose-colored crepe paper for my bedroom windows. Making my bedroom feel as grand as the woman that lived on the Boulevard."
The memory of this grand home was one of mom's first clues that the Dodge family somehow may have been involved in her past. All these many years later mom was able to point out the home as the home she was taken to as a young child. Even though the street address had changed, and the home now was connected to a Catholic church. Mom had no problem pointing the home out. The home was built by John Dodge just after his marriage to Matilda, his third wife. The home still has the beautiful tile floor as mom remembered it.
Later after John's death, his widow Matilda Dodge built a new home in Rochester Michigan, on the land that they owned a farm. She called the hundred-room home Meadow Brook Hall. Matilda took great pride in duplicating the room she had shared with John Dodge at the Boston Boulevard home. Mom and I were invited to view the room by the narrator Mrs.Mariylin Brooks. It shocked me to see the sleigh bed, rosebud wallpaper, and wonderful rose drapes, all as mom had remembered it. This room is not shown to the public due to a fire department law. However, the hall's curator made our visit possible. It's worth mentioning, that our visit was sometime after mom's court case had been settled. It was astounding to walk into that room. Mom had a perfect recall of the decor, right down to the rosebud wallpaper.
Another very important memory of Mom was that of a couple that frequently visited the Manzer home throughout her life with the Manzer's. The couple's names were Frank and Viola Upton.
"Frank" was my dad's best friend, and belonged to our church. The Upton's were lovely people. I was shocked to find out that Frank had been John Dodge's personal secretary, and a close friend of John Dodge until he died. My parents always regarded the Upton's as best of friends."
The Upton's became just another clue to moms mysterious past. In the very early part of our research mom spoke of the Viola Upton. We were able to visit and speak with her before her death. The conversation led us to the conclusion that Frank Upton may have had a large part in placing mom in the Manzer home. Mom felt the Upton's would have known what wonderful parents the Manzer's would be.
Could John Dodge's personal secretary Frank Upton have arranged for mom to be placed in the Manzer's home? He certainly knew they would be good parents, knowing they were good Christians, and childless.
During our visit, Mom asked Viola if she had any information in regard to John Dodge perhaps being her biological father? Viola responded by saying - " Lucille you had good parents, and I can not elaborate on your biological father. I made a promise to my husband, and would never ever consider breaking that promise."
Mom believes it was these mysterious childhood memories that created a strong desire to research the circumstances of her birth.
A Sneak Peek At Adoption Records
"My first task was to try to obtain some information on my birth parents? I also wanted to make every effort to obtain a legal birth certificate? My sister-in-law "Miss Clara Mealbach" was acquainted with a clerk at the "Detroit City-County Building", that worked in the adoption records department, where adoption records were kept on file. "Clara," thought her friend could help us get a look at my birth information''.
Clara's friend made it possible for me to view one page of my adoption documents. I was told to "be quick with my appraisal of the document". In a hurried fashion I looked at the document, I noticed the name "Emma Jane Nelson" listed as the birth mother, and that she had been born in Jackson Michigan. I noticed there was no name listed as the birth father. I remember feeling elated to have found the name of my birth mother, Emma Jane Nelson. I now felt I had something to run with.
With such a pertinent piece of information, I felt it was time to look at some City of Detroit Directories to see if I could locate where Emma Nelson had lived in the year I was born. My daughter's made the trip downtown to the Library, they found the name Emma Nelson in a 1914 Detroit City Directory. There was only one Emma Nelson in the City Directory listed, she lived and worked as a domestic in the home of "John Dodge", the address on Boston Boulevard, Detroit. This new information supplied a very large piece to our family puzzle. After all, we had now connected my birth mother to the home of John Dodge. It was the same Boston Boulevard home I had been taken to as a child". The home of John and his wife Matilda Dodge."
The memory of that home was a very vivid memory for mom, she had kept it alive, due to those rose crepe paper drapes that her dad had made for her bedroom windows so many years ago. That grand home was another clue that led us to that winding pathway of the Boston Boulevard home of John Dodge. The clues were starting to form a cohesive puzzle with pieces that included mysterious photos of mom as an infant; vivid memories of the home of John Dodge; her father's friend Frank Upton, ending up being his personal secretary of John Dodge; and now Emma Jane Nelson working as a maid in the Dodge's home.
One of the biggest clues that mom came across was the name, Emma Nelson on an actual document. When mom won the right to see her birth records, Emma Jane Nelson was listed on the birth certificate as her biological mother. See birth certificate below.
Time To Send Away For A Birth Certificate - Twins !
"My eldest daughter Brenda decided to send a request to the State Of Michigan Birth Records Department for my Birth Certificate. Giving what little information I had. My new name of Frances was used when filling out the request form, along with my maiden name " Manzer" being used as my last name on the application. It was not mentioned that I was adopted.
A letter from the Michigan Birth Records arrived in about three weeks' time. When I opened the letter I was shocked to find a Birth Certificate with the name Frances Dodge. The certificate indicated that Frances Dodge was born a twin? It was a birth certificate used for multiple births, the box which stated twin was clearly checked, also checked was a box that stated - one of two live births. I was flabbergasted, could this be true? Am I a twin, and are my biological parents John and Matilda Dodge?
I proceeded to send the certificate back, fearing I had someone else birth record, and may have broken the law? To my surprise, the Birth Certificate was returned to me. This time with a letter stating in short, there had been no mistake. That it was 'not my sister's Birth Certificate, but my birth certificate?"
I kept the birth record.
It Was Time To Hire An Attorney
Mom was determined to hire an Attorney ... "The Lawsuit Begins"
" After receiving this mysterious twin birth certificate, I knew it was time to find an Attorney. I truely want to get to the truth of my birth, and its surrounding mystery? With the full support of my family, I decided to approach the courts for answers, and file a lawsuit asking the court for permission to obtain any records that pertained to my birth and adoption.
I never dreamed that anyone would protest my lawsuit. Why would anyone protest my request to view my birth records? Actually, I didn't think anyone would care? I mean I couldn't imagine why anyone would object to me knowing who my biological parents were? However, I was wrong. Upon arriving for my case to be heard, I discovered there were several attorneys at the hearing protesting I be given the right to view my birth records. That very evening, I was contacted by an attorney by the name of Mr. Frederick Buesser. Mr. Buesser was the Guardian At Litem that presently was handle John Dodge's Last Will And Testament. He requested an appointment, and I obliged. From the first meeting with Mr. Buesser, I was led to believe I might be what he claimed an "Unascertained Heir" of John Dodge. Mr. Buesser then requested I obtained a specific attorney, a Mr. "James Cunningham" to represent my case.
And so it begins - At each court hearing, multiple attorneys representing the living Dodge grandchildren would be present. Each and everyone vehemently protests giving me the right to see my birth record. Again, the picture became very clear to me, the connection to the Dodge family once again was very evident.
"The Dodge grandchildren were very opposed to me being given the right to view birth records. All fighting hard, to have my case thrown out of court."
Mrs. Frances Mealbach with Phil Donahue
Many Came Forward To Help
"My story quickly came to the media's attention. This resulted in many people coming forward to help. It surprised me how many people contacted not only my attorney but my children, and me. Most willing to give legal depositions on what they knew about my birth. Many stated that they were under the impression that my birth was somewhat common knowledge back in the day. It was amazing to me that so many people knew so much, all this new information added fuel to the fire. I knew I had to uncover the truth, once and for all. I felt I had the right to know who my biological parents were. I was not looking for money, I was looking for the truth. Actually, to be truthful, after all of my research into this Dodge family, I truly felt, I was the lucky one that got away ..."
There were so many people that contacted not only mom's attorney but directly contacted mom via the telephone. Many provide lengthy depositions under oath to what knowledge they had on the subject of her birth. One such person, Mrs. Mable Burgett. "Mabel," told of a point in her life when she was pregnant with her first child and was taking a stroll through the streets of Hamtramck Michigan with her mother-in-law "Ida Burgett". While passing a new stand Mable noted a headline in a newspaper that upset her. The headline read "Woman Gave Birth To Siamese Twins." Ida went on to stilled her daughter-in-law's fears by telling her that many years ago John Dodge and his wife Matilda gave birth to Siamese twins, and after the twins were separated the sickly twin was sent away, and the other kept.
Naturally, Mabel wanted to know where her mother-in-law heard the account of this odd twin birth. Ida confided that "Silas Burgett " her husband told her days after the birth occurred. Silas Burgett worked with John at his factory in Detroit and was a hunting and fishing buddy of John and Horace Dodge.
Mabel while vacationing in Florida, saw mom's story in a newspaper. She told her son, "I need to get home"... immediately after getting home, Mabel contacted her mom's attorney to share her memory. She was gracious enough to give a deposition. Mabel confided to mom that what her mother-in-law shared with her on that day so many years ago had haunted her ever since. She so wondered what had happened to the twin that was hidden due to being sickly.
Another interesting account was given by Mrs. Mary Henneman," Mary" is Mr. Manzer's cousins June Eschtruth's daughter. June was Manzer's cousin, the very cousin that gave mom the packet of photos after Manzer's death. Mary gave an interesting deposition, she stated that her mother told her in her young adulthood that Lucille (mom) was adopted, and that her biological father's name was on an automobile. Mary claimed to be surprised so many years later to hear that mom had never been told of these facts. She added, "I thought her dad was most likely "Henry Ford".
There were so many wonderful people that came forward and provided mom and her attorney with accounts of what they felt would help mom show cause to see her birth records. Jean Pitrone's book "Tangled Web" goes into greatly detailed accounts of interviews with people that sought to share their information and knowledge in regards to mom's background and birth. From employees that worked with John Dodge at his plant, neighbors of the Manzer's, and farmers from the Rochester Michigan area where John Dodge had his farm. All sharing compelling accounts of the "Dodges" having twin daughters.
" I guess I was somewhat of a stumbling block to the "Dodge Grandchildren?"
"It was unfortunate that I was considered a stumbling block to the Dodge Grandchildren. They were due to receive their inheritance from the John Dodge trust fund. The matter of dispersing the grandchildren's funds came before the court, and to my surprise was settled with good speed. The trust fund was distributed to Dodge's grandchildren, and the Last Will And Testament had been settled, with attorney Buesser being discharged as Guardian At Litem. The final bequests from the John Dodge Trust had come to fruition. I felt the grandchildren would no longer have an interest in my plea to view my birth records". This was wishful thinking on my part ...
One might surmise that John Dodge's Last Will And Testament was carried out as he had wished. John Dodge's Last Will And Testament provided a trust, which stipulated that his biological children would enjoy yearly dividends, and per his wishes, after his last biological child died the trust fund would be divided among his grandchildren, completing his wishes.
My court case dragged on for eight long years, hearing after hearing. The Dodge grandchildren continued their many objections. Even going as far as to request that I have a DNA test done at the University Of Michigan Hospital, without a court order". My attorney objected that I comply with the request. At this time the courts did not accept DNA as evidence". Mr. Cunningham felt it would not be helpful to comply.
The New York Times - December 16, 1984
- AROUND THE NATION; Purported Dodge Heir Loses Bid on Estate
"A woman who says she may be a Siamese twin of one of John F. Dodge's daughters lost Friday in her effort to halt distribution of the automobile maker's $40 million fortune. Judge J. Robert Gragg of Wayne County Probate Court rejected the request
The Request for DNA - I complied to their request
The DNA Test
One of the attorney's representing one of the Dodge grandchildren requested that I submit to DNA testing.
I suppose they felt this could once and for all ascertain if I were actually of the Dodge bloodline, and settle my paternity once and for all? I agreed to the testing against my attorney's advice and complied with the request. I hoped perhaps that the Dodge grandchildren would perceive this gesture, as a gesture of good faith on my part. I also hoped would give me answers.
I was accompanied by my daughter Sharon, and my friend Jean Pitrone to the University Of Michigan Hospital in Ann Arbor Michigan. Samples of my hair and skin, along with a blood sample were collected. The results were never brought up in court and were not shared with me upon request. I do this day have never been able to obtain the results of the DNA test.
I approached The University Of Michigan hospital and requested results. I was told the results were no longer on file or could have been misplaced. The hospital admits that a file folder was found, but empty. I still have the registration card I was given on the day of the test. I feel the results were never used in court or given to me due to the fact the test results were in my favor. Possible the results were conclusive evidence that I was the daughter of John Dodge. I could not possibly afford to request a DNA test be done on my behalf. Plus, I am not sure anyone in the Dodge family would cooperate with a donor sample from their side of the gene pool."
The Court Proceedings Drag on For Eight Years
Mom at times was very weary over the long court battle. However, she didn't give up.
The Court Proceedings Drag On And On All The Way To The Court Of Appeals. "My battle continued in for eight long years, and went on to set a precedent, and changed the laws on obtaining adoption records in the State of Michigan.
I could not list the many twists and turns of the actual court hearings. I always felt added frustration after each hearing was over. It was hard to sit through these hearings and be belittled, and degraded by the statements made by the opposing attorneys. "What rock has she climbed out from under." Stands out as one insult that was very cutting. My family and I stood steadfast."
It's Over I Won !
"I Won ! - I would now have the opportunity to see my birth certificate, and adoption records."
The Birth Certificate - It Was In Bad Shape
On February 20, 1990, the Michigan Court Of Appeals reversed the probate ruling that was preventing mom from seeing her adoption records and her birth certificate. She had won! And now, finally had the right to see all records that pertained to her birth and adoption.
"I Won! After eight years, and all of the work, and aggravation, I won!"
"I was finally going to be allowed to see all of my Adoption records and my birth certificate. I will never forget the morning that I was getting myself ready to go up to the State Capitol in Lansing Michigan, I was going to see my birth certificate. The truth of my birth, the answers to the whys of all of it? Why I was discarded? Why was I not worthy of keeping? Why was I kept from my only sister, a twin no less? Why had my beloved father forsaken me?
I was elated, overjoyed at the prospects of what the morning would bring! I arrived at the office on time. I was escorted into a room by two armed guards. I was also allowed to bring a specialist in handwriting and ink analyst in with me to look at the document.
The birth certificate was under glass and was in very bad condition. It had visible eraser marks all over it. The date of my birth erased, and another day and year entered in its place. It was a mess. You could actually see other letters below what had been written over. (please look at the document, even a photo of the document shows the underwriting). The name of the mother was visible, and listed the name "Emma Jane Nelson". However, you could see with the naked eye other letters under the name. It listed the name of a Doctor that was at the birth, this name also looked to have been visibly altered. My given name was filled in as "Remilda May Bornalive".
My birth name was also tampered with, I was devastated. I did find it a very interesting coincidence that the name Remilda was so closely related to the name Matilda, which was not only John Dodge's wife's name but also their daughter France's middle name? I was able to obtain a copy of the document, which clearly shows all of its many discrepancies. The document was so sloppily altered that it would be impossible not to pick up all the alterations with the naked eye.
The expert submitted his report and stated "the ink was that of a ballpoint pen, and that it had been erased by a normal #2 pencil eraser in several areas. The erased areas could be seen with the naked eye. Other letters were visible under the recorded information, again, much of which one could see with the naked eye. The document had been most certainly tampered with." (Please see above document)
The Findings - My Adoption Certificate Was Fruitful. "My Name Is Frances"
My Adoption Record - "If I had been a foundling, an unwanted child of a house servant, why was there so much deception surrounding my birth, and adoption?"
"My adoption records proved to be more fruitful. Although it appeared that my adoption records had never actually been signed by anyone of judicial authority, they did provide me with clues as to where I spent my first months of life.
The adoption records also confirmed that the same mother's name, "Emma Jane Nelson" was listed as my biological mother. The records also gave some further details on "Emma's" background, religion, and physical appearance. They indicated that Emma was of dark complexion, dark hair, short in stature, and of German descent. This seemed so opposite to my own appearance. I have blonde hair with light ivory skin.
It was my adoption records that held interesting information. It was stated that after my birth I was taken to Niles Michigan, and spent the six-four months of my life in a Tuberculosis Sanatorium. It seemed odd that there was no medical information listed on my condition, and why I need to be hospitalized in the first place. Although a neighbor of the Manzer's gave a deposition to the fact my illness was lung-related, due to her witnessing my mother applying mustard packs to my chest as a daily treatment. ( John Dodge suffered from Tuberculosis). Niles Michigan was the home of John Dodge as a boy, and he had many relatives living there the year of my birth including his mother. It's curious that if I were a foundling I would be sent so far away from the Detroit area. Foundlings with health problems in 1914 were known to be sent to Eloise Sanatorium just outside Detroit. Today it takes about three and a half hours to drive to Niles. I was able to visit a Niles historian and was shown photos of the little hospital I spent my first month in. It was an old Victorian home.
The adoption records also showed the name of the hospital where I was said to be born. The hospital listed on my adoption records listed "Woman's Hospital Of Detroit". Unfortunately, when following up on this information, the hospital provided documentation that there was never a child born to an "Emma Nelson" at Woman's Hospital Of Detroit. The hospital also claimed the physician listed as the physician of the birth record, was not on staff at Woman's Hospital Of Detroit, and that they had no knowledge of this particular physician.
The most interesting document included in my adoption file was the "Certificate of Adoption". My given name was not that of "Remilda, the name on the birth certificate I was given", the name listed is "Frances Lucille Manzer". My adoption was not finalized until August 28, 1941. I was 27 years old with children of my own! Why was my adoption held in "limbo" for so many years?
From the day I obtain my Record of Adoption document I have used my legal name Frances. My Certificate of Adoption In actuality the only document I received that had been signed by the court. This leads me to believe my name is Frances. I believe the certificate the state sent me many years ago showing me to be a twin one of two live births by the name of Frances is most likely my rightful birth certificate. Whatever went on behind the closed doors will always remain a mystery.
My Biological Mother Emma Jane Nelson
"I truly believe I was born a twin, and that my biological father is automobile magnate, John Francis Dodge. I am not sure who my mother though?
I am sure you are wondering why I am unsure who my biological mother is? Sadly, my research has left me with three scenarios of who my mother might have been.
The first scenario is a woman that was employed as a maid in the Boston Boulevard home of Matilda and John Dodge, her name, "Emma Jane Nelson". Emma's name was actually listed as my biological mother, on the birth certificate, I was shown.
My second theory is Matilda Dodge, John's second wife. It's possible that Matilda gave birth to the twins, and for reasons unknown gave me up and had me placed in the home of the Manzer's, and in led to my 1941 adoption? This is only conjectured on my part. However, at the time of my birth, it was known and documented that I was in ill health with a respiratory-related health problem. Records show that I had been hospitalized for the first six months of my life in a Tuberculosis sanatorium. I was sent to a hospital, not to a hospital in Detroit, the city I was said to be born in, but a hospital in Niles Michigan. A hospital in Niles Michigan that was known for treating children with tuberculosis. Niles is a small town on the west side of the state of Michigan, about one hundred and fifty miles from Detroit. I always thought it odd that I would have been sent to Nile's, the small town so far from the city of my birth? Through my research, I found out that John Dodge was born and grew up in Niles Michigan, and at the time of my birth, he actually still had several relatives living there. I guess my health problems could have been the reason the Dodge's decided to give me up. Perhaps to prevent the healthy twin from contracting this life-threatening illness? It also bears mentioning that John Dodge had a long history of Tuberculosis. Perhaps, Matilda may have well felt a need to protect her healthy baby from contracting such a disease.
The third and last scenario would be Matilda's younger sister "Amelia Rausch". It was rumored that John Dodge had a "love affair" with his sister-in-law. It was well known that they shared adjoining bedrooms at his Meadow Brook farm. Another intriguing fact, Amelia who was known to be a vibrant city girl, in 1914 (the year I was born) moved out to John's farm "Meadow Brook farm". Perhaps she was sent away to hide a pregnancy? She could have given birth to me and my twin.
Matilda was childless, could have she decided to keep her sister's healthy child? The sisters were estranged for many years. and it was remembered that Amelia was invited to her "niece Frances's wedding" ... Was Frances her daughter, that she was kept from for many years?"
"Such a very tangled web..."
Do you have any information on Emma Jane Nelson - If so the Mealbach family request your help
Emma Jane Nelson
Emma Jane Nelson - Kimball of the Jackson-Detroit Area. The following is what's known about Emma's history.
1. Emma's parents were Alice and Andrew Nelson, they were both born in England, and after marrying moved to Canada in the late 1800's
2. In the 1910 Michigan census show Emma Jane Nelson living with her parents, Andrew and Alice in Jackson, MI. Emma would have been 14 at the time. The Nelson family lived at 207 Maple Avenue. Emma siblings are listed just below this article.
3. Emma Jane moved to Detroit and worked in a home as a domestic servant in 1914.
4. In 1914 Emma's name was used on my mother's birth record, and adoption records along with her parents' names, Andrew and Alice Nelson of Jackson Michigan.
5. In 1916 Emma married an Ethan Kimball of New York. At this point in time, she becomes Emma Jane Kimball. I believe they remained in the Detroit area for the next few years.
UPDATE - Emma and Ethan Kimball divorced In March of 1921
Clarence J Serth married Emma Jane Nelson in1924 in New York. They had one daughter Bernadine. Emma Died in 1935 at the age of 39. ( Clarence's Father John Serth (1856- MotherEmma J Patterson (1869-)
6. Andrew Nelson, Emma's father, dies in 1916.
7. Emma's sister, Hazel, in 1919 Marries Carl Hammer of Jackson. She dies during childbirth a few years later.
8. In the 1920 census Emma again shows up in the home of her parents in Jackson, MI. While Emma's husband Ethan shows up in Detroit, MI. Ethan's profession is listed as a Machinist. Emma is listed as working at a Factory in Jackson.
9. Family members remain traceable up into the '60s in Jackson, MI but none can be found today.
1920 is the last time I can find of Emma Jane Nelson in the census.
Emma Jane Nelson in household of Andrew M Nelson, "United States Census, 1910"
Emma J Nelson in the household of Andrew M Nelson, "United States Census, 1910"
name: Emma J Nelson
relationship to head of household: Daughter
residence: Bowne, Kent, Michigan
marital status listed as in 1910: Single
immigration year: 1897
father's birthplace: Canada
mother's birthplace: England
family number: 182
page number: 8
Household Gender Age Birthplace
self Andrew M Nelson M 60y Canada
wife Alice Nelson F 45y England
son Abel Nelson M 18y Michigan
dau Emma J Nelson F 13y Canada
dau Margaret E Nelson F 12y Michigan
dau Asa M Nelson F 10y Michigan
dau Rhoda F Nelson F 8y Michigan
son Gilbert D Nelson M 6y Michigan
son Leo J Nelson M 3y Michigan
Citing this Record
Emma Nelson Weds Ethan N. Kimball In Michigan . Date 30 May 1916
Ethan N Kimball, "Michigan, Marriages, 1868-1925"
groom's name: Ethan N Kimball
groom's age: 22 years
groom's birth date: 1894
groom's birthplace: New York
bride's name: Emma Nelson
bride's age: 19 years
bride's birth date: 1897
bride's birthplace: Canada
marriage date: 30 May 1916
marriage place: Detroit, Wayne, Michigan
groom's father: George N
groom's mother: Hattie
bride's father: Andrew
bride's mother: Alice
groom's marital status:
groom's previous wife:
bride's marital status:
bride's previous husband:
film number: 2342718
digital folder number: 4209963
image number: 185
reference number: v 6 p 329 rn 130266
Citing this Record
Thinking Back To My Childhood
"I loved my parents, actually I had a blessed childhood and a very deep love for my father and mother. My father was an exceptional man, a good loving man, an honest man. My dad spent a lot of time with me, teaching me many wonderful things along the way. He made sure I had a good education and knew all the wonders of nature. He always encouraged my artistic abilities. Some of my best childhood memories were of the wonderful times I spent with my dad, making paper dolls, fishing, vacationing at the lake, and swinging at the back of the house on that old swing he built with his own hands. He was a loving kind man. Together, he and my mother left me with strong morals, good religious beliefs, and good skills to make my way through this life. He always had my back, never deserted me, and I knew he loved me.
I have wonderful memories of my father and my mother. Although my mother was always somewhat distant and seemed very concerned with teaching me to be a perfect lady. She was a very good woman, a woman that held a great belief in God. I know she loved me, even though she was not emotionally equipped to show it. Perhaps she was burdened with guilt? She may not have wanted to keep the secret of my adoption from me. This may be the reason she kept her love bottled up inside her much of the time.
Some of my life was and remains a mystery in many ways. I know in my heart, that I am John Dodge's daughter. So many questions still haunt me, and remain unanswered? I still pray that one day my questions will be answered. The most important question is, why did Dodges choose to abandon me, what were their motives?
Although, if I ever had to choose between fathers, I know it would be the man that sat beside me on that old wooden swing that he created.
"I would Love To Share Some Of My Photos"
I loved my dad dearly...
"This is one of my most cherished photos. It's my Dad and I swinging on a swing he built. This swing sat at the back of my childhood home in Detroit."
"Dad And Mother In Their First Car ?" - This is one of the photos, from the photo collection I received when Dad died.
The Manzer's First Car
"I would guess this was their first automobile? I get a kick out of Mother sitting in the driver's seat. I would never have thought her to have a mischievous side to her personality."
"Photo Of Dad And Mother On The Belle Isle Bridge"
"This is a photo that was taken at the Belle Isle bridge in Detroit. The gentleman with my parents is Mr. Upton."
"Me playing with a ball..." - "This is one of the photos, from the photo collection I received when Dad died."
"This photo is curious to me? Note the basement windows in the background of this photo. They are rather high, and the home itself looks to be large. Could this be the Boston Boulevard home of the Dodge's?
I know I was taken at least once to the Boston Boulevard home of the Dodge's. Could have I visited on more than one occasion?"
I always wondered Who's hat adorned my head as I played?"
"Dad With Unknown Man and Boy" - "This is one of the photos, from the photo collection I received when Dad died."
"This photo is a real mystery. The man at the right is my dad (Robert Manzer), the boy I can't identify. It's conjecture on my part, but I think this gentleman at the left could be John Dodge.
"Another Photo Me and Gentleman I do Not Actually Remember. - "This is one of the photos, from the photo collection I received when Dad died."
"Me and My Best Friend ..."
Frances enjoying Christmas with Grandson Eric, and his wife Liz At Sharon's home. Mom so loved Christmas
"Thank you for taking the time to share my story, and thank you to my daughter Sharon" for writing it."
"I am so pleased to have the opportunity to have my story on the Internet. With this form of technology, perhaps my story will be preserved, and maybe it will encourage others that were adopted to search for their biological parents. Hopefully, their journey will lead them to a clear truth.
I hold no animosity or ill will toward the Dodge grandchildren. I hope someday they will come to realize that I truly just wanted to know who my birth parents were. Actually, I hope they will come to realize I had the right to know the identity of my biological parents and the circumstances that surrounded my birth.
All the "why's" still haunt me a bit. Adoption laws prevent the most human right, the right to know whom one's biological parents are, and perhaps why they decided to put their child up for adoption ."
My Mom Passed Away - January 1, 2009
It's with a sad heart that I report my mom passed away On January 1, 2009. She died peacefully in her sleep, with her family at her bedside. Her daughter "Brenda" stated "Mom had a glowing smile on her face, and let out a happy sounding sigh. She appeared to look as she had as a young woman. She had such a peaceful passing."
In October 2008 mom confided in me she knew her time was near. She seemed to look forward to death. She claimed "it was time to go be with all the ones she missed and loved. "
In life, she had so many unanswered questions in regard to her birth. Hopefully, in death, all her questions have finally been answered?
A True Lady
May she rest in peace" Frances spent her last years living a peaceful life in Mt. Dora Florida in a lovely home next to her daughter Brenda.
"Mom held out hope that someday all her questions would be answered, she also was a realist, and truly felt in her heart that the secret of her birth would stay just that, a secret ...
It's a sad fact that my mother was denied her birthright. However, due to her courageous long fight in the Michigan courts', she set a precedent, she made it possible for another adoptee to have their questions answered."
"Frances Mealbach's " Life Was Indeed A TANGLED WEB
Pick up the book "Tangled Web" It's a book you will not be able to put down.
Author and friend "Jean Maddern Pitrone" wrote a wonderful book about mother's life story. Mrs. Pitrone took good care to compare the different lifestyles and events of mother's life, to that of her "alleged twin sister Francis Dodge". Careful detail is given to present the factual evidence of moms court case, along with compelling interviews and photos. Tangled Web won Mrs. Pitrone the SAH Award Awards of Distinction in 1990.
Author Jean Pitrone is well-known for her compelling autobiography, "The Dodges The Auto Family Fortune And Misfortune". Facts gathered from this book were immensely helpful with moms quest to prove her court claim, and win the right to view her Adoption records, and Birth Certificate
"I truly cherish my friendship with "Jean", she has been a good friend to me, and we have had some wonderful times together. Jean's book includes details of my life, and my quest to see my birth records. It's my hope that the book will be a tool to get my story to the public. Perhaps there may be someone that reads Tangled Web that can help me answer my many unanswered questions."
Note. Mrs.Mealbach will not receive any form of monetary benefit from a sales of Tangled Web. She relinquished all rights to monetary gains derived from book sales of her own accord.
To find a copy of Tangled Web, please check out Amazon used books. I have provided a link below
The very first Unsolved Mysteries featured Frances Mealbach's story...
The unassuming documentary series, "Unsolved Mysteries" was one of the most popular reality programs of the late 1960s-1980s and the inspiration for dozens of the network and syndicated imitators. It all began with a single special on the night of January 20, 1987. Host Raymond Burr narrated four real-life mysteries. The show started out with the story of 72-year-old Francs Mealbach a Detroit woman, who claimed to be a possible Siamese twin and daughter of John Dodge auto barren. "Mealbach" believed she was separated at birth from a twin and put up for adoption. Mealbach and her two daughters actually portraying themselves in the feature made it all the more interesting. The filmmakers take you carefully back to a time gone by. The first scene starts at a party where Mrs. Mealbachs daughter Brenda Eiler's, is handed a book by the party's host. In seconds Brenda discovers photos that showed uncanny resemblances to not only her mother but several of her siblings as well.
Further scenes go on to take one back in time, with a visit to the John Dodge home on the prestigious Boston Boulevard, where Mrs. Mealbach had memories of being taken as a small child. "Matilda Dodges" 100-room mansion Meadow Brook Hall, the home Matilda built after John's death, and where she raised Frances, Mrs. Mealbachs Twin. The closing scene takes you to the spooky Dodge Mausoleum, with Mrs. Mealbach pondering the whys of it all? Mrs. Mealbach's poignant story kicked off the successful long-running series "Unsolved Mysteries," Which even today, reruns are still viewed, and enjoyed all over the world.'
Do Adopted Children Have The Right?
Sharlee (author) on September 18, 2020:
I have found the DNA connection at this point through Ancestry. So, unfortunately, my Mother has passed and never saw the proof. I have DNA connections with Emma Nelsons Family as well as the Dodge bloodline.
Gayle on September 17, 2020:
Why no more DNA test?
Adam on April 22, 2020:
Sharlee -- What a great job you did detailing all of this information. Given that you now have DNA that states you are not only a Dodge relative but that you are related to his first wife. Is it safe to surmise that perhaps John Dodge was your mother's grandfather instead of father? This could explain you being related to Ivy (first wife) and not Matilda (second wife). It seems safe to surmise that one of the three children of Ivy and John was your mother's true parent and it was covered up. At the time of your mother's birth the older Dodge children were of age to have been parents. Perhaps the domestic Emma Nelson was impregnated by John Jr and forced to give up the baby(ies)? God forbid there may have even been incest (which wasn't that uncommon back in those days) between siblings or cousins that caused your mother's health problems? Perhaps Matilda & John Sr. decided to raise the healthy twin as their own and adopt out the sickly twin. This could explain the pictures of the twins dressed a like. Maybe they decided once your mom was sick that she be sent away. In families with money back then often times sick children were seen as a disgrace to families and often sent away. Look what happened to Rosemary Kennedy. So many questions you may never have the answer to but you can rest your laurels in knowing that your mother was right. She was a Dodge. what a fascinating story. I believe this was a family scandal which is why the Dodges went through great lengths to keep this under wraps. More was involved than just money they were protecting someone.
Sharlee (author) on January 18, 2020:
Thank you for your comment. I did get a DNA at Ancestry, and yes it actually showed that I have Dodge ancestors. I did put a statement on my HP. You may have missed it the article is very long.
vicki on January 17, 2020:
MY gosh, get a dna test with ancestry. Some of the Dodge kinfolk may be on there as well as the real mother's folks. It's a great site .
Angela Frady on December 10, 2018:
I saw your mother's story on an old rerun of Unsolved Mysteries a few days ago and went on the internet to see if there were any updates. I'm so sorry for your loss. I viewed the video on this page where you and your mother were on a talk show discussing her story. She was a beautiful lady and seemed like a lovely person. I'm sorry she never received the closure she was searching for. I was going to suggest taking an Ancestry DNA test as that has helped many adoptees and people in other situations (black market babies) to find their roots & heritage. I see that you've done that recently and I'm glad you found some answers. Is it possible John Dodge could be your mother's grandfather rather than her father? You said that your DNA matches with is first wife Ivy Hawkins. I see on Find A Grave that she passed 13 years before your mother's birth, so might she be your g.grandmother? I hope you are able to get to the bottom of the mystery of your mother's birth and find the answers that eluded her in life. May you be blessed.
Connie Good on July 08, 2018:
I've read this story & the last time was when your mother was still alive. I was so sad when i saw that she had passed on before ever knowing the whole truth (on paper) but in her heart she knew!
Orlando Rego on June 22, 2018:
Very intriguing story I agree that the dodge connection is there
The greed of the heirs is obvious
Not sure where to follow this but wishing you all the very best
Deborah Minter from U.S, California on April 16, 2018:
Congradulations! I am happy for you.
Sharlee (author) on April 16, 2018:
I am happy to say I received a Christmas gift of a DNA Ancestry Kit. Technology gave me the answers I have been seeking for over 40 years. Results showed I was related to the Dodge family. My results showed a DNA connection to the the Dodge Family. I had matches to the Dodge's, Casto (John Dodge's Mother), as well as Ivy Hawkins (Johns first wife and mother to three of his children). Just think, by just pressing a few keys on a computer all the lies were wiped away... You see I guess the many Dodge relatives that where curious about their own DNA had not considered I would receive such a Christmas gift.
I now can end my research, and feel I have answered my Mom's one question. She only wanted to know the who her parents were, and she hoped truth would win over lies. And finally it did, with a little help from technology...
Deborah Minter from U.S, California on April 13, 2018:
Fascinating story! I'm glad your mother had a happy life. In my opinion she was probably better off not being a part of a family that wouldn't acknowledge family and attempted to suppress truth. If your mother was one of a Siamese twins... She was separated at birth. Did your mother ever mention a scar? I hope your family finds the answers you seek.
Sharlee (author) on January 16, 2018:
Dana, Thank you for your visit. We still continue our research for the truth. We are working on an ancestry connection. We always keep hoping one day a Dodge ancestor will provide a DNA sample. Your idea is very interesting, and as you said would be legal.
Dana on January 16, 2018:
Hi I just saw your mother story on an old episode of Unsolved Mysteries. I was curious so I Googled her name and read your entry on the internet. I am so sorry your mother didn't get any closure of this matter before she died. I hope that you pick up her calls and continue your family deserves to know the truth. I read another man's entry down below and he stated a fact about getting a private investigator and getting one of the Dodges DNA. I would post myself outside of one of their homes and follow them around all day until they threw something in the trash that they had either ate off or drink off of. Because once they throw it away it's garbage and the public can pick it up. You can get the person's DNA off of this. Then you would have the truth. Today DNA tests cost almost nothing. I hope someday you get answers.
Stephanie Weeks on September 27, 2017:
I've visited Meadowbrook on a few occasions now and love hearing about history. I came across this when searching for something completely unrelated. It had grabbed my interest for an half of the day. I keep wondering if DNA couldn't be obtained somehow today to compare against a Dodge heir???
Sharlee (author) on June 28, 2017:
Veronika, I appreciate your visit as well as your comment. It in no way offended me. I was touched by how much thought you put into my mother's situation. Thank you, Sharon
Veronika on June 27, 2017:
I don’t mean any disrespect but I have a theory based on what happened to my mother when she was a child.
My mother spent her early childhood in a big house with her four siblings, my grandmother and my grandfather- an accountant with apparently his own business. When my mom was 7 my grandmother passed away, my grandfather remarried and the stepmother was abusive. There was an infant in the house that wasn’t fed, left in the crib all day, and diaper was not changed. One day my mom told my grandfather what was happening and he began beating his wife so badly that my mother begged him to stop, eventually my mom and her siblings were sent to their aunt’s house where they stayed until college and some of her siblings remained in the house or moved back. There was no call to social services or to the police, my grandfather would visit at first but eventually only sent money for school and things they needed.
My theory is:
Matilda has twins and begins showing signs of abuse or neglect (not trying to diagnose or accuse and I don’t have a source but I read that chances for postpartum depression increase when mother has twins) Frances is sent away to a tuberculosis center, the family has a history of tuberculosis and that would be less scandalous than an accusation of something much worse (I believe the conjoined twin story was simply sensationalized media- still happens to this day). The baby is sent to the clinic with the hope that the family living nearby will take the baby in but that doesn’t work out and the child is placed with the Upton’s friends. The visits to the Boston Boulevard home might have been a way to try to reintroduce Francis back to the Dodge family but she had forgotten and bonded with the Manzer’s. In 1941 Frances is adopted.
The theory would explain why Viola Upton promised her husband she would never tell about the biological father and why people told Frances that she lived a good life, also it seems that wealthy or respected families had a secret related to children (abuse, neglect, medical issue that would shame family, child did not comply with parent…) the children would be sent to other families. The situation seems originally temporary because several people at the factory and neighbors were told of the twins and had seen them and there were articles written about them – not the actions of a family choosing adoption back then.
Or it is possible that Frances theory is more accurate. She was sick (I found out that mustard packs can be used for congestion – sorry no source again) and was placed in the Manzer home to prevent contamination, she was finally declared healthy enough but had already bonded with the Manzers and eventually adopted. If this second theory is true then the Dodge parents sacrificed their child for her to have a stable life.
I am saddened by this story and how the grandchildren denied Francis knowing the truth, I hope I haven’t angered anyone and I plan on reading Tangled Web. This story impacted me and I hope that someday the mystery is solved.
Sharlee (author) on February 29, 2016:
Re- Deliphine at dock
Thank you for your kind comment on my Mother, she was a kind gentle soul that saw good in most everyone. I have the same sentiments in regard to hoping a "Dogde" family member may know the truth, and help me fill in the blanks. It is most possible that the truth died long ago with those that were involved. Please know I appreciate your comment, In many ways others support has been comforting.
delphine at dock on February 05, 2016:
i have read the tangled web book several times and have a keen interest in the dodge family and the history of detroit. like those listed here i believe your mother was a dodge and have always hoped when the money was no longer an issue the truth would come out from a dodge family member. your mother as the book states was a kind and gentle soul . your mother's account of the interior of the boston blvd house is more than accurate it is exact! matilda was a very complex woman who had many tiny secrets which now have become public. and the way she treated amelia is proof of her odd habits. i still hope the story will be told , i believe that in the court records there might still be hidden information on this matter.
Hi on August 23, 2015:
Incredible story and really fascinating. I just watched Unsolved and looked up the case to see the outcome. You are a good and faithful child seeking to publish her story on the internet for others to benefit and learn from. Your mother seemed very genuine in her disinterest in financial persuits relating to her lineage. Good luck in your quest.
Home Care Edmonton on August 14, 2015:
Fascinating and convoluted story. Thanks for making it available here
toni lewis on July 23, 2015:
I have been following your story for many years..I truly believe your mother was a Dodge. However it so sad your mother had no closure before she passed..she truly knew in her heart she was from the Dodge family. I feel one day justice will be served and the truth will surface. I think its wonderful how you stood by her and tried to bring everything to surface. The reason for my comment now is because I have shared your heartbreaking story with so many of my family ..and just yesterday told my sister about it . we we to the library and she checked out the book Tangeled Web..in which she never put down until finished....she to is touched by your mothers story and has been talking all day about it...please just know even though we are complete strangers we share your sadness and confusion as well..may your mother rest in peace .She was a very beautiful woman.
Sharlee (author) on June 27, 2014:
Thank you for your condolences. We so wished we could do DNA testing, however it does not seem likely that any of the Dodge relatives would cooperate. We do have the appropriate samples from Mom to complete a DNA test, hopefully some day we will get a Dodge donor. I hope someday you find out who your Dad is. There is always hope.
wendy-hutt1 on February 03, 2014:
Sorry to hear your mom passed on, I had always hoped she could get the answers she was entitled to. But what happened to the theory that she had an almost body length scar on one side, which could have been indicative of being a separated siamese twin? And why oh why haven't you bothered to simply compel the dna results-for pity sake, they took the samples, and there was a report,and there were witnesses to the buccal and blood draws. I don't get it.
If you can't compel the Dodge heirs, there is more than one way to skin a cat; a private investigator worth their salt could get you a sample which could give you the answers your mother wanted. I understand that when she started this journey there wasn't any good DNA testing available, but nowadays it is quick, (as in 24 hrs turnaround time), and cheap, as in less than ($100. ) and reliable-with an error rate that is minscule to the nth degree.
I've done it myself, and although I thought I was wrong about my paternity suspicions I still thought it was so cheap and easy i couldn't live with myself if i let my opportunity to get a definitive answer go by. And Bam, i was absolutely right in my gut feelings. I know that feeling that something isn't quite right, it's a strange thing, that people laugh at, but it makes so much sense that I can't understand why I didn't go with my gut years ago. I only found out who my dad *wasn't* until after I was 50 yrs old.
It seems everyone who would know the truth is either gone or not talking, so i understand the frustration. Looks like i won't know who my dad is either unless something extraordinary happens, but then strange things happen. Sometimes they happen more than once!
I say keep trying. You may be trying to get information on Emma Nelson, for no valid reason at all, but you can actually find out IF the Dodge assertion is true since there are several Dodge descendants-go for it, there may be one or more who are amenable to finding truth. Some people actually do have respect for others, and do know right from wrong.
anonymous on September 06, 2013:
Thank you for sharing this story. I have read Tangled Web and believe your mother is a Dodge.
anonymous on September 04, 2013:
To me it is so unfair that she was never told who her parents were... But I believe she is a Dodge!!
anonymous on April 12, 2013:
I believe that without a doubt, Frances was a Dodge. Regardless of whether or not Frances wanted inheritance when she was alive, her family is entitled to it. Even more so, now that the Dodge family has tried so hard to deny her of her own history. I hope the family of Frances can continue this fight. The truth has to be known.
anonymous on January 19, 2013:
I googled your mum's story after watching a rerun of unsolved mysteries. I wanted to learn more. .. thank you for spending the time to write your mother's story... it was wonderful.
anonymous on December 22, 2012:
I am distantly related to Emma Jane and would be interested in finding out more about the whole situation...
anonymous on March 30, 2012:
I read the book Tangled Web and as I recall Brenda (Mrs. Mealbach's daughter) saw a book with photos of John Dodge (as mentioned in the above video) and according to the book due to Brenda believing she was a psychic she thought her grandmother was the daughter of John Dodge and subsequently/as a result the children of Mrs Mealbach encouraged Mrs Mealbach to attempt to make a claim to being the daughter of John Dodge. It is an interesting story indeed that Brenda's psychic ability led the family to pursue a relationship to the auto tycoon John Dodge.
anonymous on September 12, 2011:
I saw the Unsolved Mysteries show and had to look up this story. Wow! I believe Mrs. Mealbach was a Dodge. Many famous people do not like to "own" children born outside of known, legal marriages or affairs. All the Dodge grandchildren know about is their grandparents' marriage.
There's a similar story in the NY Post about Lucy and Desi Arnaz's first daughter possibly being given up for adoption because Lucy didn't want to ruin her career. The daughter told of a "Mrs. Morton" coming to visit her when she was a child (Lucy's name after marrying Gary Morton). It is a great story told by the granddaughter but no one seems to want to "touch" that story. It should've been investigated further.
Another man was on 20/20 saying he was JFK's son and looked more like the president than John, Jr. did! He said his mother told him about his parentage after his "father" died. However, she denies it. I think she told him but didn't realize the story would be leaked. The show said there was no record of his mother being in DC during that time either. However, most of know how presidents and officials get around. She didn't have to be signed in to be in DC or possibly the president could've been in TX. All I know is that man looks just like him. The Kennedy family has denied him of course.
I'm surprised no criminal charges were filed over the alteration of the birth certificate! How bold & corrupt was that?
How hurtful this must've been to Mrs. Mealback!
Fashionnews on September 04, 2011:
i really inspired with so many topics herein but which i most like Mrs. Pitrone wrote a book on the lives of Dodge brothersAndrew Nelson and 2. is Emma's father, dies in 1916 .
Virginia Allain from Central Florida on May 28, 2011:
Fascinating and convoluted story. Thanks for making it available here.
anonymous on April 21, 2011:
Has this issue been looked at as a possible criminal matter - hospitals had nowhere the security current day hospitals have preventing the removal of babies soon after their birth, Esspecially if you have a Doctor ? possibly involved - Maybe someone decided they would purchase a child in such an illegal matter - Maybe the Doges were told the second child had died even though certificate states born alive they could have told them the child and truthfully someone had removed the live child to be sold to awaiting wealthy set of parents and not necessarily picking on the woman's current parents this could have been a scheme of a so called unscrupulous adoption agency - i IMAGINE sEVERAL THOUSAND IF NOT MILLIONS MAY BE SPENT ON A HEALTHY WHITE NEWBORN
anonymous on January 20, 2011:
I read Jean Pitrone's book and it is very interesting. I wonder why another DNA test was not ordered? I know that Ms. Mealbach has passed away. Legally, can her kids do anything to
get a DNA test and prove they are related to the Dodge's?
Sharlee (author) on January 14, 2011:
@Ann Hinds: I am pleased you enjoyed this lens. This lens was a work of love. Thank you for the Angel Blessing... Shar
Ann Hinds from So Cal on January 13, 2011:
Incredible story well worth the reading. Angel blessed.
anonymous on January 17, 2010:
I stumbled upon this website a few weeks ago and found Mrs. Mealbach's story interesting and decided to check out the book from my local library. After reading the book, Tangled Web, I can hardly believe there hasn't been a movie made about this. Quite an astonishing story I must say.
anonymous on December 17, 2009:
Nice new page Shar and very interesting!! Happy Holidays to you and yours.
anonymous on October 18, 2009:
I knew and loved this "true lady". I have thought of her often over the years. I remember first hearing her story and believed it then. I am saddened by the news of her death, but I am sure she now has the answewrs she searced so long and hard for.
anonymous on October 11, 2009:
Interesting photos, especially the certificate recently added to the site. Sure is an interesting story that keeps one wondering if there will ever be any firm answers. Certainly there may still be living people who may recall certain events, perhaps some day one of them will come forward and shed some light. My wife and I check back on the site often in the case there are any updates.
anonymous on October 05, 2009:
This is a fascinating story. If you take pictures of Mrs. Mealbach's children and grandchildren and lay them side-by-side with photos of Dodge family members, the resemblance is truly remarkable. You could actually conceal the identity of the people from both groups of photos, randomly mix them, and still be unable to tell who is who. Uncanny.
anonymous on October 01, 2009:
Very nice new website design. Keep up the good work. And as always, great story. I hope someday soon there is a resolution.
anonymous on September 10, 2009:
i read the tangled web 3 times and i believe lucille to be a dodge if not a twin the baby of amelia or the dodge maid emma she bears the face and i agree from what i read about her a true lady
anonymous on August 13, 2009:
Looking forward to the new page!! Will check back, it's in my favorites.