Many of us sabotage ourselves because of some unrealistic habits that we stick to all the time. I think first we need discipline and select some better habits and following them all the time. We want to achieve the best version of ourselves because we want to leave a positive legacy to others to better themselves. Besides, you become a confident and happy person able to deal with anything without any hesitance.
Here are some habits that we need to adopt and follow it
Fear of failure
It will stop you from attaining anything better in your life, so stop the fear take chances, to move on with the new task to improve your lifestyle. We also fear other people’s thoughts about looking down on us sometimes; if they have, the opportunity can start to bully us about our failure. The best option is to ignore that.
Fear of success
People are afraid of success for countless reasons, such as fear of losing their identity, more responsibility added, raised expectations, and unable to deal with victory in the right way. We all like to be successful in our lives with our dreams and positively influence the world. Handle success by staying authentic, remembering who you are, accepting you will not please everyone, and being comfortable with every decision you make.
We keep pleasing others.
When you do that, they want you to do that all the time and do not want you to be on your own to try something new for yourselves. Ultimately, please others will sabotage your desires, passion, and motivation to do anything for you.
You have to stop underrating others.
You might do better than your friend, so do not feel a little bit higher and put your friend down, eventually, leave you forever. You cannot do this to anyone. You left will be alone in the end and will live a life of regrets.
Do not procrastinate
Procrastinators cannot become successful because they do things they like and neglect the urgent things that need completion in your business or examination. When they develop a habit like that, they stick to it and do not come out of it, leading to failure
Stop negative talk.
Some most of the time have negative thoughts and start to sabotage themselves most of the time. It happens due to a lack of confidence and low self-esteem, so never thinks positively. However, some try to say positive things about them to others brag themselves, but they mostly think negatively and talk to themselves in reality. Therefore, you need to stop that habit as well.
Start from the beginning.
Say you want the best version of yourself, and you have the thought about it now but do not expect to be of your best performance, so start from the beginning and slowly and consistently move forward to reach that point.
Reach your family
Remember you can also learn good things from your family, which you cannot learn, from google search to make the best version of yourself.
Do not think that you know everything.
Do not ever think that you know everything. Remember, no one knows everything. We all have more to learn from the outside world as well.
You become a role model to others also help them to become the better version of themselves.
Accept help from others.
Do not hesitate to accept help from anyone if you have to improve in something you want to learn, which helps you become a better person.
There my conclusion is to become a better version of yourself if you are ready to develop good habits and follow them consistently also maintain that. Ultimately, you are the one who should recognize the best version of yourself as that is your vision.