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Empathy: Raising A Caring Child

Empathy is a character trait that leads to positive social experiences.

Empathy is a character trait that leads to positive social experiences.

The lack of empathy in children leads to poor social experiences at school, home and play. If the child is not taught to have compassion for others she may not be able to distinguish between her feelings and the feelings of others. Also, she may not have the ability to regulate or control emotional responses to certain situations. Often, it leads to bullying.

Children who are taught empathy early on will adapt readily to situations requiring a positive emotional response. For instance, a playmate is crying because your child has taken a toy from his hand. Your child may hand the toy back to him, or walk away with it and begin to play in another area. How do you teach your child to handle these situations with compassion and self awareness of her feelings and that of her playmate? Using empathy will help your child to understand how her playmate feels, she will react with compassion and most likely give the toy back to her friend.

Resources On Teaching Empathy

Teaching Body Language Signals

Merriam Webster's Word Central defines empathy as: being aware of and sharing another person's feelings, experiences, and emotions.

The ability to read nonverbal clues in communication is key in learning how to respond to people. As adults we practice this skill almost every day when we interact with others. We see someone frowning and perceive that they must have some kind of problem. We can adjust how we approach this person based upon this nonverbal clue.

Children can be taught to read body language through the use of books, games and role playing. As they learn the different signals people can send out, they build an understanding of how someone feels and this can help them to react accordingly.

How would you describe these feelings to your child?

EmotionUsing Verbal LanguageUsing Facial Expression
















Create Empathy Cards to teach body language and emotions.

Create Empathy Cards to teach body language and emotions.

A Simple Empathy Lesson

Using Games to Teach Empathy

Feelings are not the easiest thing to explain to children. As you may have noticed from the table above, some of these words are not easily described with verbal language, but may be a bit easier using body language. There are several ways to teach empathy to children using body language and facial expressions. Some options are:

  • Charades
  • Matching flashcard expressions
  • Making faces in a mirror
  • Role playing emotional feelings or faces

All of these are fun ways to teach compassion for others. Adjacent to this content are pictures of children expressing emotion. You can use pictures such as these to play a game of "Detective" with preschoolers.

Place the cards face down on a table and have your child pull the top card from the pile. Using a magnifying glass (special detective spy glass), ask him to detect what emotion is displayed? Prompt him to use his special detective glass and skills in reading the eyes, lips, hands, mouth, etc. to discover the emotion. Keep in mind there can be more than one answer depending on the facial expression (i.e., joy or surprise). Add to the fun by creating and giving him the official Detective Badge of Honor if he gets most of them correct. The main objective is to help him read facial expressions, and it is all right to help him out with small clues as you play. After all, you are the Assistant Detective!

If your child is younger, say a toddler or two year old, the the use of toys such as puppets or dolls will help your child to understand the feelings of others as you play together. For example, have your child rock or cuddle a doll and talk with her about how the doll might feel. Here's a sample conversation:

  • Adult: Oh, baby is crying!
  • Child: Baby is crying?
  • Adult, Yes, see her tears. That means she is not happy.
  • Child: Baby not happy!
  • Adult: How can we make her feel better?
  • Child: ??? (She may just look at the doll or look at your face for a clue.)
  • Adult: Can you rock her? I think that would make her feel better. Oh, that is such a good thing for baby! (Use lots of emotion in talking to your child)

By describing the emotion to your child, she will understand the feeling and how to react through your positive coaching.

Empathy in Every Day life

The best way to teach empathy is to role model the behavior. As you listen to a sad story you can express your feelings about the situation. If you view a movie or TV show that depicts a personal tragedy you can discuss with your child how that person must feel.

Older children get a better picture of empathy if you use the "Golden Rule" approach. For example, siblings often get into tiffs about different things such as personal space, toys or chores. And, someone always gets hurt. Asking them how they would feel if it were them in the other person's situation makes it more real; "How would you feel if you were the one who was treated like this?" A phrase like this usually makes the offender feel guilty and leads to a sincere apology.

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As you work with your child to develop empathy, you will see a her or him express positive support to other children in distress. Empathy leads to healthy, well-balanced relationships and a responsible caring attitude towards others.


Linda Bilyeu from Orlando, FL on January 28, 2015:

You are such a terrific teacher. Your lessons are not only beneficial to children but to adults too. I have excessive empathy, too much at times, but I have learned to adjust my settings. I think. Faith comes home from school with stories about her classmates family life, my heart melts when I hear the empathy in her voice. She moves on quickly, but she cares :))

Dianna Mendez (author) on March 17, 2014:

Harishprasad, it is one trait that really helps a child to make a positive change for everyone. Thank you for stopping by.

Tsmog, I only wish everyone on earth had this character trait within. Take care!

Tim Mitchell from Escondido, CA on March 11, 2014:

Good thoughts have been stirred with pondering empathy and its formation. Thank you for a well written and informative article easily understood.


Harish Mamgain from New Delhi , India on March 05, 2014:

teaches12345, this is such a useful stuff toward development of nicer traits in kids that every responsible parent of growing kids should ponder the valuable content of this hub. This hub is another enlightening guide for shaping an ideal personality. Loved reading this great hub and voted up.

Dianna Mendez (author) on January 29, 2014:

VVanNess, I admire your view of teaching. I know your students must have enjoyed your support and care. It is a puzzle how some children do not have basic social skills and character traits. I hope you are enjoying a wonderful afternoon.

Victoria Van Ness from Fountain, CO on January 25, 2014:

I love these ideas! Being a first grade teacher for seven years, I felt like it was my responsibility to teach many of these important lessons to 30 children and more every year. I loved every one of them but was wondering why many of them didn't have more skills than they had when they arrived in my classroom.

Great article! Thanks!

Dianna Mendez (author) on January 15, 2014:

WiccanSage, thank you for your contribution to the topic.

Mackenzie Sage Wright on January 12, 2014:

Really great work here; building empathy is so important. great hub.

Dianna Mendez (author) on January 11, 2014:

Made, parenting is always a challenge, but we can help our children to build valuable skills along the way, no matter how old they are. Glad you found this of use to you and your family. Blessings.

Dianna Mendez (author) on January 11, 2014:

Thanks Ologsinqito for your valued feedback on this topic. Yes, we must teach our children early on to know the value of empathy towards others. Be well and stay safe.

Dianna Mendez (author) on January 11, 2014:

Lovedoctor, I think you made a good point in moving forward, accepting the past and knowing it cannot be changed is key to healing. What we can do is to build our future in love and forgive those that have harmed us. God does help us to understand that we live in a cold world, knowing that we can change our view of things makes the difference. Glad you found some substance here to write a story. Can't wait to read it! Blessings.

Dianna Mendez (author) on January 11, 2014:

Bishop, I am glad you found this useful. Thanks for visiting and hope your evening is wonderful.

Dianna Mendez (author) on January 11, 2014:

Fpherj, if we can get a child to understand empathy, the world will be a better place. I appreciate your kind words and support. Blessings!

Madeleine Salin from Finland on January 11, 2014:

This is an interesting and important hub. I really feel I need to work with emapthy with my son. He had some problems already a couple of years ago and he is now 7 years old. It isn't easy to raise children and I found this hub very useful. Thank you for writing it.

ologsinquito from USA on January 11, 2014:

This is a very good example of how to raise a child who treats others well. It's never too young to start, as you pointed out in the example of toddler play. I'm pinning this.

lovedoctor926 on January 10, 2014:

I think I might have a good story here.

lovedoctor926 on January 10, 2014:

Useful information. You raise good points. Empathy is definitely a very important skill. Feelings and emotions was something that neither one of my parents taught us. My mother has always been a very cold and aloof person. They did a good job raising both my brother and me as far as discipline, good morals & values, but my feeling were always invalidated, never asking or caring how I felt or feeling. Either they didn't know how to or simply didn't care. I had a very happy childhood, but throughout the yrs I have felt angry, but have come to accept it. What can I do? past is done & I need to stay happy and positive. I give my cares and worries to God. sorry about my ramble.

Rebecca from USA on January 10, 2014:

I will be using these suggestions with our 7yr old. Thank you for sharing this. I believe empathy is VERY important!!

Dianna Mendez (author) on November 21, 2013:

Fpherj48, if we could get everyone to teach this to their children it would make such a big difference with anger issues and bullying. Thank you for adding value to the conversation. Take care.

Suzie from Carson City on November 21, 2013:

Diana.....Thank you for this outstanding hub, as all of your work surely is. You have presented such a very important topic. Our world keeps frightening me, as I see how wide the lack of empathy seems to be spreading.

A MUST-read for all, most especially parents. The teacher in you is always shining through and your compassion makes it brighter. UP+++

Dianna Mendez (author) on November 21, 2013:

Hello Audrey! Everyone should have a mother like yours who cares for others with true concern. The world would be a better place and there would be less bullying of children. Aww, thank you for your kinds words but I am only a representative of what God would have us all to say to help others. You are also a light to others with your writing. Blessings, dear sweet lady.

Audrey Hunt from Pahrump NV on November 21, 2013:

I learned empathy from my mother. Although, she had little empathy for me and my sister, I've never seen anyone with so much empathy for others. She would do anything, give anything for anyone.

You are the goddess of empathy. Thank you for this exceptional article on this very important topic. I wish every parent and grandparent could read this.

You are forever, my hero. May I walk in your path to righteousness and love. ~ Audrey

Dianna Mendez (author) on October 28, 2013:

Kora, I am so impressed at how you taught your child at a young age to learn empathy and care. She is very blessed to have such a mother. Take care and enjoy your week, dear lady.

Koralee Phillips from Vancouver British Columbia Canada on October 27, 2013:

Great information and tips! Empathy is so important in life.

When my daughter was young, I took her to work with me sometimes to a group home I worked at in the inner city. The residents were dealing with mental health issues (90% schizophrenia), and others brain injuries.

I wanted to teach her kindness, and that people are different. And although they're different they're still people, with diverse personalities.

Plus I didn't want her to be afraid of people just because they're different.

Dianna Mendez (author) on August 14, 2013:

Skye, thank you for stopping by here to share your thoughts on this topic. I agree that children today have a much heavier responsibility when it comes to making decisions due to lack of family support. Yes, our life styles, ethics, and the weak practice of our faith has resulted in the present day turmoils where children have taken to acting out violently. Empathy is a virtue and one that leads to peace. God bless you today, dear sister.

skye2day from Rocky Mountains on August 14, 2013:

teaches God Bless you sister for another awesome hub. Thank you for taking your time to share such knowledge and wisdom. Yes our little ones will have a much happier life when they show empathy to others. Some little ones are so keen to empathy while other little ones are down right angry and mean. I agree it comes out of the gates at home. So many children now come from such divided families they pick up on other behaviors as well from an angry or upset parent or sibling. The roots go deep. It is called sin. Another topic. I love how you can stay on topic and not drift. I am a drifter but working on mastering the skill of staying on topic. You are such a gifted writer girl. I love reading your works.

I love the flash cards and faces to define emotion. Great pointers and helps for all. In Christ Jesus all things are possible to those that believe! In Christ Love Ya sister, Skye

Dianna Mendez (author) on January 21, 2013:

Vicki, empathy is the anti-bully remedy in our society. Great add to the topic. Thanks!

Vickiw on January 21, 2013:

Empathy is so important. If it is taught from early childhood it prevents bullying, and so many other negative anti-social behaviours. A great topic, and thanks for writing it.

Dianna Mendez (author) on January 15, 2013:

English, congratulations on getting married! Wonderful! Glad you enjoyed the hub and found it useful. You enjoy your day and your husband.

english-zone on January 15, 2013:

I have got marriage for couple month ago and today I have learned something new from this hub about the children. thanks a lot, it really means so much for me. and sorry if my English is not really good.

Dianna Mendez (author) on December 15, 2012:

Thanks for your positive reflection of the hub and wise words about empathy. Today, more than ever, our world needs to learn this character trait and live it daily before others. Glad you liked the games, they are fun ways to learn this value. Take care and be safe.

Amber Murphy from PA on December 15, 2012:

I think empathy is such an important thing for children to learn. There are so many people who lack empathy, and I believe that if there were more empathic people the world would be somewhat of a better place. I think this was a really good article and the game ideas are a great way to get children to learn without knowing they are learning.

Dianna Mendez (author) on December 02, 2012:

I think it would be an interesting article to read. The world needs to hear how these beautiful children learn and function in society.

Leah Lefler from Western New York on December 02, 2012:

I should put one together. They are typically done for deaf children, kids with visual impairments, or children with autism. They help with language development and the understanding of abstract concepts, which are harder for kids with these challenges to understand. We used experience books with Nolan on a daily basis for a while - it was very helpful.

Dianna Mendez (author) on December 02, 2012:

Leah, thanks for stopping by here. I like your social stories ideas, very good method of introducing emotions. I would love to see one of your books -- a hub perhaps? Enjoy your evening, friend.

Leah Lefler from Western New York on December 02, 2012:

This is fantastic. So many people are worried about teaching their preschoolers academic skills, but neglect the child's emotional education. I like the idea about using empathy cards - learning to recognize and label emotions is vital. We also use social stories and experience books (we write them with our children as the main characters and the plot centers around a behavior issue).

For instance, we'll write a short story about taking toys away from other children, and it will say something like: "Matthew took Billy's toy away. Now Billy is very sad." Then we'll write in solutions to the problem (taking turns, waiting until Billy is done with the toy, etc.) and at the end of the book show that being kind results in happiness and friendship.

Dianna Mendez (author) on September 23, 2012:

Vinaya, I am so glad to see you here. Your words are very encouraging and I appreciate your visit. Take care and be well.

Vinaya Ghimire from Nepal on September 23, 2012:

Empathy is an expression of identifying oneself with the problems of the sufferer so completely that he or she experiences similar feelings and states of mind, including a sense of sadness, personal loss or betrayal.

Thanks for sharing importance of empathy in a child's life.

Dianna Mendez (author) on August 31, 2012:

Hello, Millionaire! I wish other parents would feel the way you do about teaching childern important life skills. Thanks for your add to the topic. Great having your a part of any hub conversation. Have a great weekend.

Shasta Matova from USA on August 31, 2012:

It never occurred to me to actually teach empathy to my daughter, but hopefully she has learned it through experience. I agree with you that we need to take the time to teach our children how to read body language and other clues for how another person feels and develop empathy. You've provided great ways to do that. Voted up.

Dianna Mendez (author) on July 17, 2012:

Yes, it's scary to think how the lack of empathy does cultivate those negative disorders in adults. Thanks for your visit, Minnetonka.

Linda Rogers from Minnesota on July 17, 2012:

Teaches-as usual, you are educating us so much here at Hubpages. This behavior trait is a must to teach our children. Not only do children with no empathy become bullies, they can turn into much worse in adulthood. Narcissist's, Sociopath's and Psychopath's, all lack empathy.

Dianna Mendez (author) on June 28, 2012:

I watch that movie and laugh every time. Empathy is one of the best things we can teach children. Thanks for sharing and visiting here, Peggy,

Peggy Woods from Houston, Texas on June 28, 2012:

Teaching kids about the meaning of empathy is important. Your ideas of how to go about it are good and the Sesame Street video was also good. Voted useful. Thanks! Tweeted.

Dianna Mendez (author) on June 12, 2012:

It is hard to work on certain emotions. Be patient and it will come together soon. See you around the hubs. Have a sunny day!

snowdrops from The Second Star to the Right on June 12, 2012:

I'm an empath..its hard but now Im learning to control these emotions..

Dianna Mendez (author) on June 12, 2012:

This is one of my favorite topics as it does bring awareness to how we can create children of character. Thanks for your support, Snowdrops. Be well and safe in your journey today.

Dianna Mendez (author) on June 12, 2012:

Snowdrop, I am excited about your visit to the hub. I appreciate your comment here and glad you found it interesting. Have a great day!

snowdrops from The Second Star to the Right on June 12, 2012:

Interesting and very well written. Thumbs up!

Dianna Mendez (author) on June 02, 2012:

Sonya, it does feel like a minefield at times, it takes some navigating to get through it. Although, two year olds are so open to suggestions and they do pick up these traits early if led. Thanks for coming in and visiting. Have a great day.

Sonya L Morley from Edinburgh on June 02, 2012:

As the mother of a toddler I think this is a very helpful hub about one of those areas which can feel like a bit of a minefield! Thanks for sharing it.

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 26, 2012:

Thank you, Kathleen, for your encouraging words. I appreciate and value your reflection of the hub content. Empathy is a trait that will help us all to make our social interactions positive. Have a great weekend and thanks for your follow and support.

Kathleen Cochran from Atlanta, Georgia on May 26, 2012:

This is so worth the effort with children and what a great thing to write about. You've covered the subject in this hub and the evidence is all the comments you've generated. Looking forward to more of your work.

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 24, 2012:

Stephanie, we have too many children out there who do not know what empathy means and cannot relate to those distressful times that may need them to show caring concern. Preschoolers are most receptive to this trait and teachers would do a great service to students in helping them understand this trait in the classroom. Thanks for your added wisdom to the hub. I appreciate your visit and comment. You be well and safe out there.

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 24, 2012:

KDuBarry, role modeling is the most impressive with children. Parents are the best example of life choices, hopefully the more positive ones! Glad you came by and very thankful your contribution to the hub interest. Take care.

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 24, 2012:

Thom, sadly, it does reflect on a child's home life when they cannot demonstrate empathy towards others. Starting early in a child's life will ensure a better quality of life for him and those in his life. Thanks for the added insight and your visit. You are always a great welcome to any hub. Have a great day!

Stephanie Henkel from USA on May 24, 2012:

Teaching young children empathy by helping them to read emotions expressed on facial expressions seems like a wonderful idea for preschoolers. You make a good point when you say that children who have empathy for others are less likely to be bullies. Very good hub, useful for teachers, parents and grandparents!

KDuBarry03 on May 23, 2012:

Ah, I agree with kerlynb. it is just like teaching a dog how to sit; you have to play a role form them to catch on and indirectly learn. What was the name of that article? I would love to read it! I definitely agree that role modeling sends a more powerful message.

thom w conroy on May 23, 2012:

So true - very thought provoking. When you see a child that lacks empathy you can only wonder what the quality of their lives and those around them will be as an adult.

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 22, 2012:

Hello girishpuri. Thank you for your response and visit. I appreciate your stopping in to read the hub. Enjoy your day.

Girish puri from NCR , INDIA on May 22, 2012:

A must read for all parents, voted up

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 18, 2012:

Kerly, I am so glad to see you here, and appreciate your added insight to the topic. Role modeling is the best way to teach children. The Golden Rule does help you to imagine what the other person goes through. It works for all situations. Be blessed today.

kerlynb from Philippines, Southeast Asia, Earth ^_^ on May 18, 2012:

I like that you mentioned the Golden Rule. Kids sometimes need to appreciate other people's situations by actually imagining themselves to be in those situations. Sometimes also, kids' fear of feeling negative emotions would dissuade them from doing bad things to others.

You have great pieces of advice here, as always!

If I may add, I read somewhere that we should not force kids to apologize to others or say something nice to others. The author of that article I read suggested that we serve as role models for the kids to emulate by always apologizing when we need to and always taking note of people's positive behavior.

Voting this hub up and useful!

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 13, 2012:

Thanks for stopping by, KDuBarry, I appreciate your positive support and glad you find the hub interesting. WE are our child's first teacher and role modeling is essential in teaching traits such as empathy. Have a great day!

KDuBarry03 on May 13, 2012:

Such an Important hub! I really enjoy reading your Hubs! Thank you for sharing. YOu are right, we have to role model this behavior and also teach children how to read and understand nonverbal communication. Thank you for sharing!

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 09, 2012:

Sturgeoni, I so appreciate your visit and comments on this topic. Empathy is such an important value for children to learn and easy to teach. Thanks for your supportive votes. Take care.

Sturgeonl on May 09, 2012:

Empathy is such an important quality and you gave some wonderful advice for teaching it to children. Voted up and awesome!

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 08, 2012:

Bedbugabscond, it sounds like you are a very caring parent and that through your example both children will pick up on what empathy means. It may just take time to absorb and understand the concept. Thanks for coming in to visit. I appreciate your support of the article. Have a great evening.

Melody Collins from United States on May 08, 2012:

My son has Asperger's, he was not born with a brain that had secure neural connections in the areas of empathy and social skills. When I did math and letter flashcards with my other kids I would do emotion and feelings flashcards with him. He could read and do math by the time he was 5, but struggled with empathy. My youngest daughter is a feeling being and naturally empathetic, I try to support her in this and help her learn to cope with empathy. Having children at such opposite ends of the spectrum (not the autism one) really makes me appreciate your advice.

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 08, 2012:

I only hope that parents will find it useful in raising empathic children who will make a difference in this world. Thanks for visiting, for your wonderful support and votes. Be blessed in your journey today.

Krystal from Los Angeles on May 07, 2012:

Wow! This is an awesome topic and you handled it masterfully :) Impressive and useful. I feel like every parent should read this. Voting up and useful.

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 06, 2012:

Most children do learn empathy from observing parents, providing they role model it for them. I have found some children do not have parents to role model for them, or as you mentioned, they create an environment that centers around "me", which creates a self-centered world.

Adults could also benefit from a course on empathy and I do know of some workplaces that train their employees through workshops on this subject. Thanks for your added wisdom to the topic and for your votes of support. I always enjoy hearing from you.

Susan Ream from Michigan on May 06, 2012:

Great topic teaches. I like your suggestions for helping children to empathize with those around them. I'm wondering if these suggestions would work for an adult. I know someone who has no clue when it comes to body language. It's kind of funny, but sad at the same time. As I think about this person's upbringing I wonder if the mothers methods of parenting: having the whole world revolve around him, kept him from thinking about others.

Most children pick up empathy from their parents without having to really play games etc. to learn it. BUT, these suggestions would work wonderfully with a child who is prone to be in his own little world or one that has not been taught to care how others feel.

If you help just one child with this hub, it would change their world. Voted Up and Awesome!


Dianna Mendez (author) on May 05, 2012:

Thank you, CClitgirl for stopping in today. I wholeheartedly agree with your views on empathy in today's world. It is a virtue that would help solve many social interaction problems we experience. If we keep living it perhaps others will catch on. Thanks for the votes of support. Take care, be safe and keep up the positive spirit!

Cynthia Calhoun from Western NC on May 05, 2012:

What a valuable hub! I often feel like empathy is not taught enough at home. Then when kids get to school, they can say the meanest things to each other or even DO the meanest things. However, just when I think that there's hardly any empathy left, a child will come up to me and say something that just makes my heart melt. Oh we humans truly need to model compassion and love for each other. Then, perhaps we can truly create a more peaceful world. Voted up and across.

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 05, 2012:

Susan, thank you so much for coming into read the hub. I love your enthusiasm over the topic. I believe if the simple truth of the Golden Rule were taught from early on in life (especially in schools) it would make a difference in today's society. I appreciate your added interest to the topic and your supportive votes. Have a great weekend.

susanm23b on May 05, 2012:

Wow! This is a fantastic hub! I wish this could be shouted from the rooftops! Teaching empathy to my children has always been a very important subject for me. I think that is because I have known quite a few people without it. If only children were the only ones who needed to learn empathy...

It would be a better world if more people considered the feelings of others before they spoke or acted (followed the Golden Rule). Voted up! Shared!

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 04, 2012:

MIss Olive, it is so nice to see children express concern over another child's distress. It really makes you day better. The lack of empathy in some children is concerning, but I imagine teachers such as youself will make the difference in their lives. Thanks for coming in to read the hub, contribution to the article and for your positive support.

Marisa Hammond Olivares from Texas on May 03, 2012:

Congratulations on this wonderful hub. Empathy is such a vital part of our upbringing. As a middle school teacher I am often dismayed by the attitudes of some of my students but there are many times I am left impressed and in awe of their empathy. You have provided us with a wonderful lesson and have encouraged many to be aware - voted up!

Dianna Mendez (author) on May 01, 2012:

Hello Anjili! I am so glad to hear that the hub is helping others in working with children. It is a virtue that some of us are lacking and it does affect our social interaction with others. You are a wise person in wanting to make a change. Thanks for your visit and insight. BE well and safe.

Anjili from planet earth, a humanoid on May 01, 2012:

You are a very good teacher. Empathy towards growing children has been demystified. I have one child who needs a lot of this. Your approach will go a long way towards moulding her. Voted up and awesome.

Dianna Mendez (author) on April 28, 2012:

Hi Suzanne! I am so glad to see you here. Thanks for visiting and your votes of support. I am glad you enjoyed the read, the video is cute. You take care out there.

justmesuzanne from Texas on April 27, 2012:

What a lot of great resources and a cute video! Voted up, awesome and shared! :)

Dianna Mendez (author) on April 24, 2012:

Twentyfive, you have made my day! It is good feedback to know that your hubs are of interest and helping others. I appreciate your support, comments and encouragement. Be blessed today!

twentyfive on April 24, 2012:

You know all the best things about children. It's always great to read your hubs because I always learn a lot. All mothers and parents must read your beautiful hubs. Excellent! :)

Dianna Mendez (author) on April 23, 2012:

Great observation, Slackermom! So true, parents are great at pumping up their child's self worth that they forget to balance it with empathy for others along the way. Thank you for taking time to come in for a visit, I appreciate your support and vote. Also, thanks for the follow. Be blessed in your day's journey.

Lisa Palmer from Attapulgus GA on April 23, 2012:

Great information. I think this is a very important topic because it seems many parents are so busy trying to make their kids overachievers and concentrating so much on self fulfillment that they forget that children need to feel empathy towards others to be truly fulfilled. voted up

Dianna Mendez (author) on April 23, 2012:

Hi Chaplin! Thank you for the positive feedback and added insight to the topic. I agree that teaching empathy to all children, regardless of disorders, is a necessary lesson in teaching values. These values make social interaction much more pleasant for everyone. Thanks for stopping in, I value your opinions!

Sarah Johnson from Charleston, South Carolina on April 23, 2012:

What a great topic and so important for all children. I have attended social classes for children with autism spectrum disorders - Aspergers and PDD-NOS, and I think some of your suggestions would be very helpful for these families. Children with anxiety disorders sometimes have trouble expressing their feelings appropriately, so your games and lessons would help there too. Thanks for sharing!

Dianna Mendez (author) on April 22, 2012:

Pipmistress, thank you for visiting the hub, I always enjoy your comments and visits. I love that you display so much empathy with others, your parents taught you well. You are truly a beautiful person to many. Thank you for sharing and the supportive vote. Be blessed today!

Dianna Mendez (author) on April 22, 2012:

AAwww, that is so sweet! What a beautiful child, you have certainly done a GREAT job in teaching empathy. This is what we want to see demonstrated by our children in social settings. Thanks, formosangirl, for the beautiful addition to the hub topic. I so enjoy your visits and deeply appreciate your support. Blessings!

pipmistress from Qatar on April 22, 2012:

Voted up and shared! this is a great article! my parents taught me this but i dont know if i am overly taught because, when my friend cry, i literally cried with her.

formosangirl from Los Angeles on April 22, 2012:

Great article. I understand that empathy has to be taught, or in a family, there is enough demonstration of empathy that the children have the ability to pick it up. Fortunately, my kids have learned empathy. According to one of my son's teachers, he was the only one who stayed behind during recess to keep the company of a child in wheelchair who came to school mid-year. When the teacher told us this at parent-teacher conference, we all had tears in our eyes. Voted Up and Shared.

Dianna Mendez (author) on April 21, 2012:

North Wind, I agree with you. Parents have become so busy with work and staying ahead that the raising of children now lacks the teaching of values. As a reslt, these children lack empathy and socially are a cause of concern. Your words are a validation to my thoughts for writing the hub and it is good to know that others agree with the message. Thank you for your support. Have a great evening.

Dianna Mendez (author) on April 21, 2012:

Skarlet, I appreciate your coming in for a visit and your votes of support. Thank you for the positive reflection of the hub. Be well and safe.

North Wind from The World (for now) on April 21, 2012:

Hi teaches12345!

You are right - not many children have been taught to feel empathy. Maybe it is because many parents have grown numb to certain things and they have begun to not express their feelings as much maybe because they are neither hot no cold about the subject? Just speculating. I see so many kids who really have no clue how to be thoughtful about anything except themselves and they really do not even have an idea about it.

Your hub is needed and I hope that many parents read it so that the coming generation will have people who care about others.

Skarlet from California on April 21, 2012:

This is absolutely beautiful. Great subject, that is not often addressed. This is truly a classic. Voted up and all!

Dianna Mendez (author) on April 20, 2012:

I appreciate your positive reflection of this hub, Alicia. It is good to hear feedback that helps to gauge writing styles. Thank you. Enjoy your weekend.

Linda Crampton from British Columbia, Canada on April 20, 2012:

This is an excellent hub, teaches. I love your ideas and suggestions regarding childhood education. I appreciate the fact that in your hubs you not only describe how to help children develop important life skills theoretically but also describe practical steps that parents and teachers can take. Great work!

Dianna Mendez (author) on April 20, 2012:

Molly, I too am amazed with the lack of empathy from some adults. I am sure their mamas must have taught them to treat others with kindness at some point. I thank you for your visit and postive support of the article. Take care.

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