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5 Vital Lessons After Becoming a Parent

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Sara is a creative writer and her vision is to spread Happiness, love and Optimistic thoughts.


There are millions of things you need to take care of in front of your kids. When child comes into this world, he is born as a pure soul. Parents must have knowledge starting from baby care, diapers, and ended up at grooming.

These are the 5 life lessons to learn you should avoid doing Infront of your kids. Intact, They’ll all benefit you as a parent, because parents are the role models for their children.


Don't Lie: Be Vigilant While Talking to Others

Children age under 5 years are considered as the learning age of kids. What they see, what they hear and perceive accordingly all depends on the gestures and communications of their parents.

Even when in a lighter mode, never lie to them. Be true and honest in your talk because they are going to copy the style of your communication. So, be vigilant in your every day talk.


Never Slap Your Kids in front of Others

Kids make mistakes and it's their parents first obligation to guide them and tell them to rectify their mistakes. Don't shout and never Slap them in front of others. Because if you doing so, you are ruining their self-respect.

Tell them at that moment, kid be careful, you are doing a wrong deed. And when you are all alone especially at the time of sleeping, ask them the reason that why did they do that mistake and let them think that they have done wrong.


Don't Laugh on Your Child's Creativity

Children are in the constant phase of learning. When your kids try something new, never laugh at them. If you'll do that, you are giving them impression to make fun of them. And soon after that they'll stop trying new things and their quality of taking risks in life will never flourish. So never ever discourage them.

The best way being parents, you should always appreciate them for trying and presenting something amazing. History shows that all successful people succeeded in life by a spark of appreciation.

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No more Frequent Use of Technology

The zen of parenting always comes from acceptance and making right choices at right times. Nowadays, kids are addicting to mobile phones, tabs, play station just because parents have provided them all those luxuries in early age. Parents themselves are addicted to FB, Instagram instead of giving time to their children. Just remember; Addiction is killing.


Parents Don't Fight; Be a Role Model for Children

Children idealise their parents in every matter of life. If husband wife will argue all the times on even small matters, they are ultimately going to shatter their child's personality.

It's important for parents to come on one page and show their child a true meaning of love ,care and respect by their acts because words may lie but acts cannot.

Sara Shahid.


Cheryl E Preston from Roanoke on November 16, 2020:

Great advice

Sp Greaney from Ireland on November 16, 2020:

I think parents are always facing challenges with children. Finding the right balance is key. These are good tips.

Raymond Philippe from The Netherlands on November 16, 2020:

It’s hard to always do the right thing as a parent. After all, even parents are only human. Your tips are useful to do a better job as a parent.

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