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How To Sweet Talk A Girl and Win Her Heart


How To Sweet Talk A Girl

They say that romance is dead and girls now days are liberated and want to be treated as equals. A lot of guys are even too scared to open doors for a girl or offer them their seat on the train or bus for fear of being scorned. You hear about girls acting like guys, adopting ladish behaviour, getting drunk and having fights, but that is all just negative hype.

I say romance is still alive and well and the majority of girls still love to be romanced and have sweet talk whispered in their ears by the guy of their dreams. So if you want to learn how to sweet talk a girl and bring some romance into her life, read on.

Learn How to Sweet Talk a Girl


Sweet Talk A Girl And Make Her Feel Special

She Will Love To Hear Your Sweet Talk

If you want to learn how to sweet talk a girl you should know its not just a matter of mindless flattery and cheesy chat-up-lines. Yes sure girls love compliments but it has to be genuine or they will spot your fake chat a mile off.

Girls love to feel special, they love to feel they are the prettiest, most sexiest creature in the world. So how do you sweet talk a girl and make her feel special?

Be observant. Notice when she has had her hair done and pay her a compliment. Tell her she has lovely hair, beautiful eyes, soft skin and smells gorgeous. Be sure to notice when she has bought a new dress or new shoes and tell her how lovely she looks.

Make her feel special by sending her flowers, but don't send them to her home address. Instead send them to her place of work. She will feel so special when a big bouquet of flowers arrive at her place of work and they are for HER! Just imagine she will be the centre of attention and all her friends will be so jealous. Be sure to write something romantic on the gift tag so she knows they are from you.

Make her feel protected. Girls love a guy who makes her feel safe and protected.

Treat her with respect and don't take her for granted. If you neglect her and take her for granted, she will soon find someone else who treats her right.

Be spontaneous. Buy her little presents just for the sake of it. They don't have to be anything too expensive.


Sweet Talk A Girl And Have Fun

MakeYour Dates Fun

Make your dates fun, don't just do the same things all the time. Here are a few ideas for you:

Arrange to do some fun things, for example you could take her to the zoo, most girls love animals and she will enjoy herself and think you are cool.

Arrange a surprise picnic for her. Pack a few sandwiches, some fruits, a bottle of wine and wine glasses (don't forget the corkscrew) and a blanket in a backpack and take her on a picnic in the woods on a lovely sunny day. She will think you're so romantic. After you have eaten, lay down together and look at the sky and try to make out funny faces in the clouds.

Take her for a trip to the beach even if the weather is not so warm. Walk along the sand together and have a paddle in the sea. Find a stick or piece of wood and draw a heart in the sand and write her name inside it. When it gets cold, take her for a fish and chip supper.

Offer to cook her supper. Play her favourite romantic songs and tell her to sit and reax while you are cooking.. Make the table look nice with a tablecloth and napkins. Light some candles to create a romantic atmosphere.

Tell Her She Looks Wonderful Tonight

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Another Love Song To Make Her Feel Special


Learn How To Sweet Talk A Girl

Sweet Talk Your Way To Her Heart

Tell her you love her and how lucky you are to have met her.

When she goes to work in the morning, send her a text that says "missing you already"

Be affectionate and give her lots of cuddles and kisses and tell her how special she is.

Run her a hot bath and put some bubbles in the water and light some candles around the bath. Offer to wash her hair and dry her gently with a nice big fluffy towel.

Offer to paint her toenails and paint them slowly and carefully. Give her a foot massage after her toenails have dried.

Write her a love note and leave it under her pillow.

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Tell Me Your Tips On How To Sweet Talk A Girl

Steven on July 05, 2017:

A nice one. I wish every woman would get stuck onto one guy.

Philip on October 22, 2015:

my girlfriend Leah has just gone home but I can,t wait to take her out for her birthday might even take her to pizza hut for lunch!

john on October 11, 2015:

Yes women must be treated nicely but the problem are those who want to be treated like queen by every man they meet.some when you can disagree with them they start to be angry

mbssuccess on August 23, 2012:

Nice lens. Flattery will definitely get you somewhere with women. Sincere compliments work well.Don't try to run games on women because they can smell b.s a mile away!

anonymous on August 12, 2012:

i like this ........ nd yes it worked

getrichkabir on April 21, 2012:

hey, this is a great one, it is very useful, why don't check out my own lens too

fugeecat lm on December 03, 2011:

always remember talk is nice, but you need to follow up on your talk.

StellaSingles on June 19, 2011:

be the guy your mom always wanted you to be. polite, courteous, kind, loving, caring, and honorable. women will eat it up if you treat them well.

DougHouse on February 27, 2011:

hmnnnn...nice one here...i think my bf had read this lens...seems to be the sweetest talker i've met

SweetTalkingGuy (author) on April 29, 2010:

@Lady Lorelei: Thanks for visiting my lens, I'm happy you liked it.

Lorelei Cohen from Canada on April 13, 2010:

Awww now this is a very cute lens...I love it! Wonderful idea for an article.

anonymous on September 10, 2009:

rely women is god,s best to find ...................that is most diffucelt one in world

mazbond on March 18, 2009:

Nice lens I wish my boyfriend would read it and take note!

shanker721 on March 05, 2009:

Hey, cool profile!

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